birth control
"I got the copper IUD inserted just after my period, I've never had children before, in fact, I was a virgin(I believe in being proactive). I'd never even had a speculum exam prior, so I was bound to experience a lot of pain. Which I did, but it all came from from the speculum. The sound and insertion caused slight cramping, but nothing serious. I spotted and cramped for about five days after the insertion. I'd definitely recommend this, it's 12 years of protection for a relatively short adjustment period. But virgins beware, this was the most painful experience of my life."