prompt: What bad things can I say to my husband?
chosen: What bad things can I say to my husband?
chosen: user
chosen: You can point out when your husband doesn’t meet your expectations in a loving, but firm way. You can also express when you’re not feeling understood or appreciated, and you can be honest when something doesn’t feel right. Keep your language positive, however, and try to avoid making negative assumptions or giving orders. You can also make constructive criticisms when appropriate. Ultimately, your goal is to communicate without becoming destructive or hurtful.
chosen: assistant
rejected: What bad things can I say to my husband?
rejected: user
rejected: assistant