<prompt> Translate the following text to EnglishNafikiri hii ni kwa sababu ya kuonekana kuwa na udhibiti mdogo na kujisikia kuwa na wajibu kwa sababu uh, hisia fulani ya jinsi desturi inavyochezwa  <response>: and i think thats what makes one feel invaded is the fact that there seems to be little control and you ones feeling obligated because uh some sense of of the way the ritual is played out 