<prompt> Translate the following text to Swahilishe has to develop her own personality and so sometimes i i have to step back and say okay we want to encourage her we want to influence her but we dont want to control her  <response>: Anahitaji kuendeleza utu wake mwenyewe na hivyo wakati mwingine mimi lazima nifanye hatua nyuma na kusema, Sawa, tunataka kumtia moyo, tunataka kumathiri, lakini hatutaki kumdhibiti. 