<prompt> Translate the following text to EnglishHiyo ni kweli, lakini kwa sababu ya hali ya nyumba ya uuguzi, ni vigumu sana kuamua kama ni lazima uende kwa mzazi wako, na kwa nini?  <response>: oh thats true but but the the nursing home situation is such a is such a pitiful situation i mean if you just if you go every time we go visit her its just its just gut wrenching to me 