<prompt> Translate the following text to EnglishAmesema kuwa anajua kuwa mwenyewe ndiye anayemiliki na kwamba anaamini kuwa baba yake alikuwa mraibu wa kileo na kwamba yeye ndiye anayemiliki.  <response>: and how she feels that she has to control everything and from her readings she feels that that comes from the fact that her father was alcoholic over which of course she had no control 