<prompt> Translate the following text to EnglishHata hivyo, kwa sababu ya kuwa na umri wa miaka 20 na watoto wakubwa, wataka kwenda chuo kikuu ni jambo la kawaida, lakini kwa sababu ya kuwa na umri wa miaka 20 na watoto wakubwa, wataka kwenda chuo kikuu ni jambo la kawaida.  <response>: um yeah you dont want to especially when it comes time and the kids are grown up and theyre they want to do things like go to college uh you dont want to say well still paying for the mistake we made twenty years ago you know and 