<prompt> Human: This is my first post ever on Reddit and really looking for some help so please lay it on my.I make 2200 a month before taxes Im left with 1310 afterwardsThis is including money that goes into savings for summer due to me working for a school district and we are off 3 months out of the year. Also 100 goes into regular savings which I just barely started doingI have my associates degree, and currently got accepted into a private school so i can work and get my bachelors. I live at home with my parents. Heres the dilemmaIm 7k in credit card debtI cant afford to pay for collegeMy car is old and breaking downI have no savings aside from what I save for summerMy current bills go like60 phone 67 insurance56 Disneyland 22 gym10 Xbox5 Spotify 160 gasNow my girlfriend and I are not the best with our finances and it brings the worse out in us. We eat out all the time since we dont live together. Im constantly driving back and forth from her house to mine which is about 30 miles round trip. We go out and have fun a lot, but I cant afford it now. We have one more big trip planned but after that I want to really settle and focus on saving and paying my debt off. Im also considering joining the military to help pay for school. Please help me make a budget and with advise with what I do. I know it may seem straight forward but Im really struggling, I love this girl a lot a plan on marrying her too, so breaking up isnt an option. Im very irresponsible I know but Im really stressed out and needs some good advice. I also have a mark on my credit.  <response>: Cancel that vacation because you cant afford it. Tell her your situation and if she cant deal thats her problem. 