<prompt> Human: I cant work due to health problems, so only my fiancé works. I have an overlap autoimmune disorder, which basically means I have all the symptoms of lupus, rheumatoid arthritis, polymyositis, and scleroderma. But I only test positive for scleroderma, which Ive had since I was a toddler, so for over 20 years now. I also have problems with the bones in my legs being crooked, so I tend to get fractures in my feet just from walking, its hard to drive, run, etc. I even walk kind of weird the doctor says I shuffle, haha, so I tend to run into things and hurt myself.The problem is, I didnt get diagnosed with this disorder until I was a junior in college. I struggled through school, it took be 6 years to graduate because of it, and I cant even use my degree because of my health problems. So Im also bringing 65,000 in student loan debt to our marriage.He was in the Army, got out, and then moved near me. We live near DC, so its extremely expensive here! So my fiancé moved farther south in the state to save money, but its still an expensive area. He bought a small house, bought a used car, and had to buy absolutely everything for the house he was in the barracks in the army, so he didnt have anything of his own. I still live with my parents, because even with treatment, I often need help taking care of myself, so I dont have anything to contribute to the house.After almost 8 years of dating, were finally getting married in 2 months. Were going to the courthouse cant afford a wedding, booked a cabin for 2 nights I know we shouldnt do this, but he put it on the credit card for our honeymoon, so we can finish getting necessities for the house. Our families dont have a lot of money, so we dont have a wedding registry or anything- so were trying to get everything ourselves.Hes also in the army reserves now for better health insurance for me, and he is going to have to help take care of me. I cant always shower myself, get out of bed, get dressed, etc. so hes never really going to get a day off. So he cant get a part time job when hes basically my home health aide.Im feeling so overwhelmed and stressed. Like were already doing the best we can- buying used, using coupons, moved where its cheaper, etc. but I know its going to get more expensive when we get married my medicine alone costs hundreds a month. I am getting ready to apply for SSI, but I might get denied, so Im not calculating that into our income.So long story short- How do I help contribute to the finances? Or does anyone have any financial advice?  <response>: You need to file for bankruptcy now, before getting married, and get the student loans discharged, BEFORE getting married.You should be able to prove that you would never be able to work and pay off the student loan. That is one of the ways SL can be discharged by court. 