<prompt> Human: My husband is spending us into the poorhouse. We were just starting to get on our feet and now we are two months behind on rent, our car payment is due with DriveTime, I have no health insurance and I cant afford to buy groceries. We have been denied for SNAP and Medicaid. Let me start with some background. My husband has pretty severe PTSD and has no stress management skills. He used to cut himself or drink when he couldnt stand the stress, he stopped all that because we had a baby and he wanted to be a better role model. Now he has started spending money to cope. He drops 200 at Academy on fishing supplies he doesnt use when we owe a month of rent and 450 to our nanny who I had to let go because she was costing us too much and now I have to be a mom, a caregiver, and a housekeeper all whole holding down a full-time job. He works, but only in small increments and barely enough to keep us from the streets. He knew today that we owe last month and this month in rent. He told me just now that the rent check that we wrote will bounce because our insurance company took out our payment after he already told me that he got ahead of it and told the insurance company that we would have to delay payment and that they were on board with that so now we will have to figure out how to pay for two months of rent by the end of the month or we are out. I have applied to multiple organizations for help Catholic Charities being one who said they would help pay rent for last month only to call me this morning and say that they cannot help us because we are over the income limit. We now owe 1700 to my doctors for my emergency c-section I had in April. I dont make enough to cover our basic finances, let alone these new charges plus back rent.I need advice on how to get our finances under control and quick. What do I do?EDIT: I have a 4 month old breastfed baby that wont take a bottle and my husband and I both work from home for the same job. I cant get him to watch the baby when I need to work so I can only work when the baby is asleep. I love my husband and I take my vows seriously, so leaving him isnt an option. We also have nowhere to go if we get evicted because my parents are Narcissists and his family is as broke as we are with 12 kids. Im at a loss. EDIT: I appreciate all the helpful replies as theyve given me some great ideas to figure this out. I dont think its entirely fair to tear down my husband based on my post. Accusing him of not having PTSD or using his disorder as an excuse is not really helpful to me at all. Also, I dont know if I wasnt clear enough, but I love my husband and I dont plan on leaving him, so please stop sending me PMs to prostitute myself out. I have enough on my plate as it is. As for my plan, we talked and hes going to be attending the Stress and Anxiety Management classes at the VA until he can attend the PTSD Basics classes there as well. I also will be setting up some purchasing alerts or confirmation systems to prevent unauthorized purchases.I also feel like I didnt give him enough credit earlier. He does work as much as he can. He puts in around 2-3 hours a day minimum or a full 10 hours max. He was bringing in around 2K every two weeks, but then we had the baby under emergency conditions and that threw us off financially. Weve been trying to recover since May, but with just the two of us and no help from family in regard to the house or the baby, its very hard. He has been doing so well with things up until this month. This spending started in August and Im not sure whats going on with that, but were getting it under control together. Thank you to everyone who commented. Ill keep responding and listening to everyones guidance. Assistant: You mentioned he buys things and never uses them. Is there anything unused you can return? It wont be a fix but it might put some money back into your account for groceries.Human: Not really. He throws away the receipts for everything as soon as he gets anything.  <response>: A lot of businesses have the ability to look up receipts via their systems or the card used to purchase the items. It might be worth looking in to. 