<prompt> Human: Hello, first post here. A little about me, Im 34, started a business 5 years ago, make 500-800k a year. Im wondering if Im too frugal. My wife, friends and family have no idea how much Iwe make. We have a 400k house paid off, no debt, three cars all purchased used all paid off, 1mm in retirement, we live off of about 70k a year. The rest is taxes, charity and savings. I really dont want to be seen as a rich prick or that rich guy, so that prevents me from spending much. I know Im blessed, I know Im in the 1- but I just want to fit in and be seen as normal with my peers. So, I know its a stupid question, but should I spend more? Should I enjoy a few of lifes finer things?  <response>: Do as you wish. If spending makes you happy then spend. If saving makes you happy then save. Live your life how you want to, not how you want others to perceive you. 