<prompt> Human: As of yesterday, I was under the impression he had 25,000 set aside in savings for our familys future as he had been reporting to me. He admitted to a spending problem and the actual amount is at 7,000. He already gave me his debit card and cancelled monthly online subscriptions. I am looking to set up a budget for the next year. Looking for any advice on this and how to deal with a partner like this, as this is not the first time thousands in savings has gone missing with little to show for it.  <response>: I suggest therapy for him as well.Thats a serious spending issue that he needs to deal with. Why is he spending? What is he trying to resolve or fulfill? 