<prompt> Human: My best friend told me he has always let his wife do all the finances for their marriage. Lately hes been wondering why, on a salary of 90kyear, they are constantly broke. Now that he has investigated further, he has discovered that they are 12k in debt and that there are at least 2 credit cards and 1 checking account that he never knew about. What is the best way for him to uncover everything shes been up to? Would getting a credit report on her name as well as his show everything?  <response>: Just because the wife is managing the finances all by herself doesnt mean shes good at it. I wouldnt jump to conclusions here, she probably just sucks at managing the finances but doesnt want to tell the husband due to shame at being seen as a failure. He should talk to her about it, ask her to explain everything they have and go from there. 