<prompt> Human: Like the title said, Ive been offered a great job at a great company, normally something to really celebrate, but the problem is that its based in Boston where Im from and my fiancee and I live in Texas. Were both almost 30. Im in a field right now without much potential to move up. Its a fun job, but because its fun, they dont have to pay us very much. This job is in a different, but related, field and pays much better, has much better benefits, etc.However, my fiancee would have to leave the job shes at which pays about the same as my new job would. Shes sort of topped out there a little where I think I could go up pretty far.Aside from the emotional stuff, of which theres plenty with her family here and the fact shes never lived outside of the Lone Star state, is this is an obviously dumb thing to do? To have her leave her job so I can take a job which pays about the same, but has room to move up?Weve really been racking our brains about this and are still struggling to come up with an answer.Has anyone been in the position before? Any advice?tl;dr Ive been offered a career-changing position at an awesome company, but its across the country. My fiancee has never lived out of Texas and would have to quit her job for us to move. Were both nervous. Is this a bad idea?  <response>: This really isnt a financial question. 