<prompt> Human: Ive been on my own throughout my early 20s, but I moved back in with my father when I started college a few years ago. Im 28 now and in my last year of college. How do I decided when its time to move out?nbsp;Pros of living at home:- monthly expenses: 450CAD, living on my own would cost 1500- help with dinner, shopping etc.. which saves a lot of timenbsp;Cons:- father drinks- Little social life although this may stay the same if I move out- No dating life- Shame, depressionnbsp;Im a full time student, and I work part time and make 1200month, and I have 15k saved. If I move out Ill be withdrawing 300month from my savings and spending everything I make. I graduate in 3 months and have no job lined up, but Im likely to find one I expect it to pay 40-45k the 1st year. Ill still have my part-time job while searching for full-time.Assistant: Would it not be worth it to wait the 3 months or so to graduate and find a full time job? Even if you waited at least until you graduate, youll have to withdraw less from savings. Human: Yes that makes sense. But, the lack of social life, dating life, and alcoholic father makes it difficult. And the shame, Im too ashamed to ask out the girl I like because of my situation. Men are expected to be 100 independent at this age.How does one measure money and security, vs increased well-being.. say I find a job in 5 months. It would cost me 5250 to be on my own during that time - is this enough money to justify it?  <response>: Dont be ashamed to ask a girl out. You can go on dates without being home. You can still try to have a social life. Join some clubs or hobby groups. You could try to move in with a roomate to make rent cheaper. 