<prompt> Human: Hello guys,I usually lurk here and just read, but I just want some advice now.I work full time i make roughly 55 to 60k depending on overtime, and i have a side job that i make roughly 8 to 10k. I have 401k im currently paying into I have about 10k. I live with my parents, have a low 175 car payment, and Im planning to get engaged with my girlfriend soon. Also, I have no savings.Now I want to buy a house, I live in Los Angeles. What is the best way to save up money for it  <response>: claims to lurk and read PF. Asks basic questions covered in the read this first wiki. 