<prompt> Human: Dad is a family doctor, who did a terrible job saving for retirement. He just sold his clinic but he still has 100-200k in debt that hes in. Ive had to cover his electricity bills in the winter, pay for his phone bill so he wouldnt get cut off, and recently have had to buy flights for him to go to a funeral and for a continuing education course for his doctorate. Hes 72 years old, and I am scared that I will soon be paying for 100 of all of his expenses and I only am making about 50k and 25 years old. Any help needed. I hate to be selfish, but I want to have a comfortable retirement one day and its hard to save at 25 when Im already paying for a lot if his bills and expenses.Has anyone ever been in this kind of place? What do I do??  <response>: You need to develop healthy boundaries. Try counseling. 