<prompt> Human: IN:Husbands pay: He usually gets 72 hours every 2 weeks. One week at 40, one at 32. So the pay of 452 is what is to be expected. He just started a few months ago, so those are all his pays so far.He also gets a pension every month from the military of 1,516.10.My pay: As I pointed out, I had one extra pay for a week on there that was for my yearly vacation. Then for about 5 weeks I was working 60-72 hours a week at my own site and another. Im not needed anymore, so I wont get that again.OUT:Car loan: 180month. I usually try to give 200 if I can though.Rent: 350month. Will go up to 400month in two months.Car insurance: 100month.Electric: 110month. Its about 80 a month but Im behind so Im on a payment plan that has me pay an extra 30 a month on top of my regular bill.Internetphone: 80month. Im behind on this as well.Student loan: 25monthPap: 100month. He used his lowes card to buy me a new fridge and stove when I moved and needed one asap. So I have to pay him every month so he can pay the bill.Storage shed: 50month. I want to get rid of this, but we live in a small trailer and my husband has a lot of tools he needs to keep and has nowhere to put them. But I really want to get rid of the fee.Netflixhuluamaon primeaudible: 35month. We cut the cord a long time ago and have a Roku so we watch TV there. We both work security and get bored easily, so I crochet while listening to audio books. I didnt count in the amazon prime because I pay that once a year when I get my taxes. :I owe my mom 200 for a doctors appointment I had to go to that required down payment.I owe lots of medical bills, but I will worry about those when I get everything else in order. my PCP is pretty awesome with thatSo, total coming in is about 2,560Total out: 1,030I need to worry about food, gas, cigarettes yes, Im trying to quit. Just got an ecig, and I need to get school clothes for my two daughters before school starts in August which will run me about 300. I also owe the bank 515. Its been a domino effect. We overdrew one time when we had an emergency and we havent been able to dig out of the hole since. So every month we go over just to get by, then his pension hits the bank and gets us back on track, then we need it again! ugh!So yeah. Please help. I need a really good budget and some tips on staying with it!P.S.- I have a dog and a cat. Dog will need shots soon.P.P.S.- I dont have any credit card debt! Decided to never get one unless I was in a financial situation that I knew I could pay it off every month. Hasnt happened yet, so at least I had some self control! haha  <response>: Sounds like you have an impulse problem with consumer spending or your not being honest with your expenses either way you should be in the black every month so if your not theres more spending somewhere 