<prompt> Human: My stupid body might be trying to kill me, what do I need to do to make this easier on my wife.I already have an appointment scheduled to complete a will and advanced directive, is there anything more I can do? Details in case theyre relevant: Im married second wife, previous marriage divorce finalized about four years ago. No kids. Currently in the military, but medically retiring here shortly. We rent the place where live. We have two cars that were still making payments on. Our finances are currently entirely segregated. Edit: is there a way to make my carcar loan go away? She obviously wont need it and Id rather not saddle my wife with an extra, unnecessary financial burden. Id like to have this figured out and everything set in place so that this is one less administrative pain to work through during such a difficult time.Edit 2: Some of the PMs Ive received have expressed concern about me seeking advice here. I understand, and agree, but Im just trying to establish a general idea of the way forward here. I have an appointment with an attorney in a couple weeks, but I want to go into that meeting asking all the right questions. I will not leave my wife to deal with unnecessary burdens, but I dont know anyone that has experience with this stuff. Im sorry for being all over the place and asking before doing intensive research, but Im still at work and only able to work through this on my phone. Admittedly, Im feeling a little overwhelmed here and I apologize if thats bleeding through.  <response>: Just in case: if youre depressed or someone reading this is, there are people willing to talk to you: 