<prompt> Human: I currently work in LA and am lucky enough to make a pretty high salary 165k. Im completely debt-free and can comfortably do the low-effort responsible saving that I should be doing max out my 401kIRA contributions; save about half of my income, and the main arguably fiscally stupid thing I do is pay rent for a luxury apartment 2100month. My main goals for the future are just to own a home in the next 5-10 years and replace my car in the next 3, which I think I could realistically do in my current situation. So basically, Im getting by alright in my expensive city, but it doesnt mean that Im not aware of how expensive it is.I recently received a job offer in Denver that pays the exact same amount that I make now. Career-wise, its a clear step up. The cost of living over there is obviously way lower than in LA too 29 lower. I also happen to be an avid skier. I even have a ton of family in Denver. But I just plain dont want to live there, and I definitely dont want to settle down there. I dont know anyone my age in the city, Im not outdoorsy other than the skiing, and I cant grow a beard. Ive already pretty much made my mind up on this, but theres a small part of me that thinks I might be an idiot for turning this opportunity down, especially because I honestly do like Denver as a city just not as much as LA. If I asked any of my friends for advice, theyd all tell me to stay in LA because theyre hardcore Angelenos, so I was hoping to get some more measured opinions here.  <response>: If you just plain dont want to live there, then I think youve already made up your mind about moving to Denver. 