<prompt> Human: Someone sent me here from rsuicidewatch. I dont really want to post here because I have a feeling Im just going to be called a dumbass, and I am one. I just dont want to hear it.Basically, through the thin veil of online anonymity Ill shoot yall straight. I have a well paying job for a 23 year old. 3-4k a month-ish. This job required a vehicle that was capable of hauling 16k so a diesel, theyre expensive as shit. I knew I was fucking up when I signed the papers but whatever, 52k later its mine. 880 monthly payments. Im away from home 2-3 weeks at a time, and sometimes I get a few days off between, being a homebody, and almost unwilling to quit due to the shame Ill feel from my family, well, you can figure what I feel my choices are. Im just about insane at this point. Any ideas! And ya know, theres something to be said about you people. You sub ta reddit, just to help people.. I never realized how delightful that is. Anyhow, thanks.  <response>: Yeah, youll be fine. In 10 years youll look back at this and wonder why you were so stressed out about it.Youre not 52k in the hole, you have an asset that can be sold at a loss but its very different from just owing someone 52k outright. I graduated with 114k in student debt and my parents had no way to help me, but I worked my way out of it. With determination, and rpersonalfinance its very doable :Sounds like you need to cut expenses, then pay down your highest interest debts probably your credit cards. unwilling to quit due to the shame Ill feel from my familyYour family will love you regardless, thats what families do. Put yourself in their shoes and see yourself as they see you. 