<prompt> Human: Hi, Im moving in with my GF. She owns her house and its all paid for no mortgage. I think theres absolutely no question I would split utilities and living expenses 50-50, because I would be using them. And theres no question that she would pay for all upgrades and repairs. But all that said, I feel like I might want to pay her some kind of rent because I want to have a say in the house. Im sure she would accept rent if I insisted. But is that absolutely stupid of me to do? Thanks!  <response>: Dont overpay. You need to save for your own house if you split up 