<prompt> Human: 18 yr F, 20 yr M in crummy home without heat.no car, no car insurance. work is much too far to walk and there is no bus.no health insurance, no parents to help.can not move, no money to go, but also no money to stay.what are our options? what can we do?military is an option, but not sure if itll make us happy in life.rental car only till the 1st then we have no way to work.anything we can do other than military?or anything we can do to support ourselves until in?were at a dead end, we havent much to help ourselves, and have no money. also no credit.Any and all advicehelp is appreciated.  <response>: The decisions you make in the coming daysweeksmonths will be hard. If you make the right decisions, they will make you a strongerbetter person. The real issue here is that you cant pay the bills. In this instance you would need to reduce the bills to the bare essentials. Sustenance, shelter, transport. From the sounds of it you might already be at that point, but your spending on anything else should be 0, and you should be spending as little as possible on those 3 items.Youre being quite vague about some of this stuff and not giving any important details such as how you have work but no money. You need a budget. If you dont make enough to pay for your car, rent, and food, you need an additional job. If you are both capable of work, you should both have a job or two each. Here are some probable options:- a place to stay that costs less- a rental car that costs less- a place to stay closer to work that lets you be rid of the rental car. See shelters, camping, couch surfing, cheap motelsFrom the sound of the job being in a state park, you might be limited in employment opportunity. If there truly are no places to stay within walkbike distance of your job, and there are no jobs within walkbike of your current residence, you might need to seriously consider moving to a better place. The car is your key to options at this point, so if it were me, I would live out of it and find work that brought you enough income to afford to live.I have been in this situation before at around the same age as you. It was tough, and I didnt have an SO as part of the picture, but if I did, they would have had to be on board with this serious downshift in lifestyle to get on track, or I would have gone solo. None of what I had to do to get out of the hole made me happy in life, but they were stepping stones to get there. Life was miserable for a time, but I clawed my way out of it and it taught me some great lessons, primarily that I didnt ever want to be in that situation again. I hear the military will teach you a lot of similar life lessons.Good luck, focus on only the vitals, and embrace the hard work and decisions that it will take to get out of this. 