<prompt> Human: So I have a friend who struggles a lot financially, she has no income as she is at university and it takes up a lot of her time. The only money she gets is around 300 every month as a bursary from the university and still relies on her parents giving her money to pay for most of her things. So anyway, this friend is my only friend who enjoys the same things I do i.e. same hobbies and music taste therefore over the years I have often paid for tickets to events for both me and her just so we can attend them. We both make it absolutely clear the money needs to be paid back yet its often a case of Ill pay you back on Friday and then Friday comes and goes and I dont get any money. Now she owes me 200. The tip of the iceberg in al of this is whilst Im lending her money and not really doing much with my life apart from working for this money, she is off booking trips away to wonderful cities with money that i believe should be paid back to me. I just have the whole idea that if you owe someone money that any time you come into any money a large proportion should be paid back instead of going towards holidays and other non-necessities.Does anyone else agree? Or have any advice on how I can go about talking about this with my friend? Thanks  <response>: I think you need to completely stop giving her anymore. You work hard for your money and youre not obligated to support this person. Shes an adult, and she could either figure out where to fit work in or where to cut back on expenses. At this point its possible that she may never pay you back, and if this continues youre just going to end up feeling used. 