<prompt> Human: I am a soon-to-be college graduate, have been employed at a slightly more than minimum wage job for 3 years, and have been able to put a majority of that into savings. Two years ago, my maternal grandmother died and left me 10,000 I dont know the exact amount, for reasons I will explain. To my best knowledge, I have about 20,000 between my savings and that inheritance, and some stocks that my grandmother bought when I was born. I have no debt at all, and have been building a credit score for the past six months no reason to believe it is a bad score. I am in a serious relationship, and my SO has accepted a really good job offer across the country from where weour families live now.My problem is that I may not see a dime of my own savings or inheritance ever again. When I started saving my money, I went to my parents for advice on wherehow to save it. My mother opened up an account at a local bank where her brother in law works and started depositing all of my paychecks there without asking if that is what I wanted with the money. At the time, I was fine with it, since I did want to save the money for after graduation. When my grandmother died, she put the inheritance in a different bank account presumably under my name, but again, I was not consulted. I have also discovered that she has opened at least one other bank account under my name without my knowledge, and told me I was being unreasonable when I got angry at her for not informing me of it.I also drive a car that was given to me by my father when he got his new car; the title is not in my name, although I have offered to buy the car from my parents numerous times. The current situation is this: I am graduating from my undergraduate program in early May, and intend on moving with SO across the country. My parents are pushing back on this decision, citing the fact that I dont have a job there. I am interviewing with research labs at the university where I am waitlisted for a graduate program, and those labs do not require student status to work there. They have threatened to lock all of my money away from me, saying things like We paid for your degree, and thats the only reason why you were able to work and have any savings, so that money is 50 ours to choose what to do do with and Its our car, we can sell it whenever we want to, but it definitely wont be to you, in the hopes that I will not move.The family situation itself is something for rraisedbynarcissists, and I am trying to get as far away from it as I can. At this point, I regret ever allowing them access to any of my bank accountsmoneyassets. My question is this: What rights do I have to call banks and secure any money that they have in my name? If my mother cosigned an account, what can I do? And, if it comes to the worst, how do I best build my financial stability up if I have to abandon the 20,000 that my parents are holding hostage?EDIT: Thank you everyone for the advice. I am in the process of contacting any banks that I knowsuspect might have accounts opened under my name and freezing them or transferring the money into a personal account that only I have access to.  <response>: It depends. You need to get an understanding of how the accounts are structured and who actually owns them. You need to get control of your finances, start reaching out to figure out what is actually going on. 