<prompt> Human: Fiance and I are thinking of having a baby. Im thirty this year, so time is of the essence. Unfortunately, with the new Trumpcare thing along with struggling to pay off student loans and other debts, money is an issue. He is not well off by any means, but makes significantly more than I do. Should we try to get pregnant before getting married as Im in a lower tax bracket and would be able to qualify for more government assistance? One of his children previous marriage had major medical issues at birth and were afraid of going bankrupt if something were to happen in utero.Wed prefer just getting married and then adding me to his insurance, but the thought of hundreds of thousands of dollars of medical bills after insurance is frightening. Were in Texas and would appreciate any help or advice.  <response>: Just so you know your number of eggs doesnt decrease dramatically until you are 35 and the quality of those eggs doesnt start decreasing until you are 37.5 on average. You have plenty of time. I would get the debts paid off first and if at all possible buy a home before considering this. 