<prompt> Human: Some clarification to help understand the intention: This isnt a very clear situation to me, my adoptive mother is more mentally ill than I am, but surprisingly I been able to handle my money better than she has. We have lost our old home due to my aunt unknowingly taking out the mortgage payments, and running off with the money. So in short we were foreclosed. I went to crash with my sister, cause I refused to live in a hotel, or their vehicle with mother and her boyfriend.Mother called me earlier this week to request my bank statements, she says shes trying to get a loan. Her credit is absolutely terrible, and mine is nothing. I havent even bothered to get a credit card yet, but im only 18, not much experience being an adult.My mother claims that I will not be affected by giving the statements, and that the only reason theyre requesting my statements is because I lived in their old house less than a year ago. I have not sent over the statements because of how insecure I am about my credit. Not long after my refusal, she called angrily, and disowned me over the phone. She offered another chance for me to send over the statements, but I told her to not call again until shes stable enough to talk. She hung up afterwards, and im here a week later looking to see if I did the right thing to protect myself, or if I was unknowingly selfish, costing me my family.  <response>: I think youve done the right thing. Ask her for a number for someone at the bank you can talk to about this. Maybe they can clear it up but this sounds super shady. Sorry this is happening to you 