<prompt> Human: Hello reddit, Ive tried to talk to some adults about this but no ones ever been in my position before so one can really help. Im 22 years old, live in a one bedroom apt with my So. She goes to school full time and works as often as she can. I work between 40-70 hours aweek. We split everything in half. My monthly bills equal about 1500. The only thing I havent lowered that I cannot is my gym fee. That the only thing I do other than work is work out. We dont go out, we dont eat out, nor do we buy things that arent necessary. Now back to when my problems started. Throughout high school I always worked and always paid for my own stuff. My sophomore year my mother died from complications with lupus. Soon after her death my father ran off with every dollar; all my Social Security, my college fund and everything my mother had saved for me. I was left homeless with nothing. Since then Ive been working my ass off to get to even but I just can not get my head above water. My monthly income is around 1100, plus tips. Ive even done a 35 days in arow and I barley got to even. Any help would be great appreciated.  <response>: Since you also quitted smoking weed today.. Stay strong on that one.I know what it means to spend 200-400 a month for weed. And that is without tobacco.Remember it aint hard to give up smoking, because there is nothing you loose you only win. Money, health, confidence, focus. 