<prompt> Human: And how long did it take for you to save up for it? What service do you think you overpaid for, or could have done without?  <response>: My parents gave me 5K for the wedding, we spent 3K. We just had a ceremony and a reception with cake and snacks at the church fellowship hall. Mostly it was to make family happy anyway, I would have been happy to get married in the pastors office on a Tuesday over lunch.If I were to do it over again, I would have gotten married in the pastors office on Tuesday over lunch. It was just a day and I barely remember it. Still married, though. 