<prompt> Human: this is a shit situation all around, wife of 3 years, I got tested before we were maried why I dont know but the protien in was realy low and I got tested agein last year time frame to find out if we could have kids and it was 0 and got tested agein and its still 0, and doc says i have no chance of having kids. I did not tell her that fact I gues i was scared.So now she is 2 months pregnet I kept on not hopeing somthing might come out she might slip up and nothing so far, only thing is I work one overnight a week and I cant show up randomly or any thing. That is the only time she might be cheating, Or It might have ben A very rare event in which im realy happy And we are lucky but, Im Not lucky.AT the moment I see 2 options I wait for birth and do a DNA test or a cause a shit storm and show all eveidince and she does a pt,So Im right now trying to CMA What are the finance siduation will i be looking at if its not mine she has it, Will I and our insurance go up and I have to foot the bill if i wate for birth?Will i have to pay child suport if not mine?If it is not mine and some way we are still togeather and she gives it up for addoption there no way I would be able to love it could the father sept up and be like no I want it, and then we would have to pay child suport?Any other idea that i did not think of?Any way I could Bring this up to my wife without being a shit storm?yes could have post it on other r but more worryed about finance  <response>: This really isnt a good topic for this subreddit. try rrelationships 