<prompt> Human: A little background info: 24yr old European student about to finish bachelor degree in marketing. Got about a 20k depth when Ill finish which Im really motivated on to get rid of ASAP. About a year and a half ago I started a relation ship with my current American girlfriend and we both now live in the UK. She is starting her last year of her second bachelor in TV industry after which she will have to go back to the US . She has done a great job in building up an enormous debt by not just trying to pay off the first when she finished but starting a second one abroad a year or so after. Dont ask me how exactly she did it but she will have a debt of around 200k by the end of her study which is partly private loans. As our relationship is moving on this is getting more and more on my mind. Of course I dont know what the future will look like but right now our relationship is in a very good state. However, do I really want to have a future where I will hardly ever be able to go on holiday, do fun things or anything besides work to pay interest and debt?Im not entirely sure if this is the right sub but its not relationship advice that I require. I would just like to hear someone elses opinion on this.  <response>: If the financial situations were reversed do you think shed do the same for you? 