<prompt> Human: My best friend is in serious financial trouble and I dont know what to do or say to help him. A little info about him: hes married, living with his mom in a small one bedroom apartment, has 2 kids ages 3 and 2 and is 40K in debt. Hes filing for bankruptcy next tax season and if he doesnt find a place to live on his own before he files for bankruptcy he will not be allowed to rent anything at all for the next 2 years. I know that its not my place and I should probably stay out of his business but hes been my best friend for 17 years and I love his family. And regardless of his debt he tells me that he wants to buy things like a 1600 dollar 4K TV and a new game Xbox one X which is 500 MSRP. I just feel helpless to help him, its like watching someone I love go through a bad drug addiction.  <response>: You cant help people who dont want help. 