<prompt> Human: I wasnt sure where to post this, but I figured this might be an appropriate sub-reddit. My cousin is getting married this summer, and she means a lot to me. I would like to give here a wedding gift of 3,000. I was wondering how to physically do this. Just show up to the wedding with an envelope of bills? Write a check?  <response>: Because its a larger sum of money, I would opt for a check rather than cash. 