<prompt> Human: i am a disabled veteran with a home completely paid off. i get 1300 a month for disability, 4 kids, a wife that doesnt work, and have crunched the numbers. I will only need 800 a month for ALL bills and can do some small handyman work still but will probably only bring in 400 to 600 a month due to my limitations. I can keep my job now but really dont care about i just want to have a good life with my kids. I wont live until 60 but everyone in my family says i should work. Thoughts?Assistant: If youre a stay at home dad, why would your wife not work?Human: She could, and will get a part time job as a teachers assistant for 9 an hour. She wants to spend as much time with me and the kids as she can as well. it comes down to plenty of or a relaxed life hanging out together i guess.  <response>: Shouldnt it go the other way though? You not working might extend your life. Why would the person on disability work and the fully healthy person not? 