<prompt> Human: Good Morning,Ill get right in to it. At the moment my kid stays with her mom full time. MY mother has her on Thursdays. I have her occasionally on Fridays and every Saturday. I pay for daycare at the moment and when she goes to school her mother and I have agreed to pay half for school tuition. I pay for clothes, toys, etc. Her mom recently requested me to give her some cash on top of what im doing every month. Is this fair for her to ask? My logic says what does she need that I cant pay for outright? We dont have anything court appointed this is just being responsible, but I dont want things becoming unreasonable. I feel like money that goes to her would just be supporting her moms lifestyle.  <response>: This is why you should get the court involved from the beginning. Things can get very sticky if things go south. 