<prompt> Human: Well, yesterday was my birthday. I just turned 24. Nothing new. However, today was something. I still live with my parents and my father decided to go nuts and kick my mom and I out, mostly because of me. Im back at home though, but my mom is so over with him shes staying at my sisters.The point is, that whole argument this morning was cause of me. Im lazy, I have ADD and a slight bit of Autism. My speech sucks I cant pronounce Rs that well and I stutter, a lot. Im anti-social and I have no friends. In-fact, I stay in my room all day just on the computer, alone. Add being Obese and a lazy eye, and you got one severe depressed individual who hates talking to people.And my education sucks. I dropped out of 6th grade when I was 16, and a few years later I got my GED. Cant really celebrate that because I was 5 points lower in math, which made me fail my GED three times, but after some miracle, the GED requirements were lowered and whoever were missed by a few points got their GED. So Yay?My father doesnt understand my problems and believes Im just lazy, only my mother does. So he just yells at me every other day to get a job, to go out, etc. When I tried that before, I spent an entire year of interviews at fast food and retails and restaurants. No one hires me. Probably cause I stutter, they cant understand me, or my lazy eye. I wouldnt really care about this, Id like to just sit in my room and be a dope and just continue on with my life online, but I feel like I cant do that anymore. My mom, who I love is dying, she has cancer, she has to put needles in her once a week, shes on over 10 pills. And there goes my dad just yelling away and not caring. Cause of me.I just dont know what to do, I dont know how to be an adult. I cant drive, I dont have friends that can help. My big brother tried to help me but I gave up after a year because I realized I was ruining his life and family by helping me. I lost a lot of weight thanks to him, got on anti-depressants and had an actual bank account and food stamps! But that all disappeared.The only thing Im actually good at, I can confidently say, is web development and programming. Its the 1 thing Ive spent most of my life on, I spent countless of hours teaching myself. Computers, websites, apps, and Ive made quite a bit of money from it. I actually had a few remote jobs besides clients, Ive gotten quite a few of them but I dont last long. I get fired after a few months cause of my ADD. Cause of waiting till the last minute to get it done. I know how to do it, but forcing myself to do it is tough.I dont know how to turn that single skill that I actually know what to do into anything that can benefit my life. I really want to live on my own. I just want a single room apartment with internet and air conditioner. I want that so bad, but I dont know how. I feel like web development is my only answer, but Im not sure how.Can government assistance help me? I live in VA. Can I help myself? With all of the problems I have, what the hell do I do? I dont just want to do this for me, I want my mom to be peaceful and not have my dad yell at her and the only answer to that is for me to move out, but I dont know how!I think this is also the wrong sub, but Im not sure what sub to go too. I just need advice. What do I do to move forward and become an adult?Assistant: Use some of that money you can make from programming to incorporate and make your own apps. Sounds like your best shot is to create your own software company that you can run out of your own house for a while. Best of luck to you. Human: How can one create a company with the disabilities I have? I actually love the idea, but with my severe ADD I feel like I would just waste everyone time and money.  <response>: You may not wanna hear this, but it sounds like a lot of your problems are self inflicted. Accept that you have ADD and do what you can to work around it. Go to a doctor and get on medication if thats what it takes, but dont use it as an excuse for doing nothing. You need to take charge of your life and realize that this shit is hard. Life as an adult is hard for almost everyone, accept it and push yourself to do what you can.You can start a business relatively easily, I think you can even do most of it online. Just look it up. Take charge. No more excuses, just go make something of yourself. You have a skill that is very practical and lucrative if you apply yourself. 