<prompt> Human: Me and my fiance have recently been looking at condos to purchase and we have decided on one. Our offer was accepted and we signed all the papers for the offer and the mortgage. We just recently got the mortgage conditional approval, and I really think we bit off more than we can chew.We are getting married by the end of this year and wedding finances are already tight. Because of this, the stretch of the cost of buying the condo and closing costs are almost impossible for me to reach realistically without emptying every savings and checking account we own. And even then, our next month or so of income is going to be allocated to this as well. I know this sounds like a really bad decision but the idea of being married and needing a place of our own pushed us way too quickly to buy. But now we are so far into this I am worried that trying to back out now will hurt our financial future immensely. I have not slept for days worrying about this. Is there anything we can do to either postpone or back out completely without harming our credit too much? We also gave the deposit to the sellers and we are probably at risk of losing that, if not more.If anyone has suggestions of what I should do, or who I need to talk this over with, Please let me know anything you can.  <response>: You could postpone the wedding ceremony, you can elope at the courthouse and then when you have the money you can have a wedding ceremony. You got to think whats more important. A roof over your head or a ceremony and memories that may not last forever. 