<prompt> Human: This is kinda an interesting piece about student loans and marriage. It is a good thing to keep in mind I suppose Assistant: I guess my biggest question is how do you approach the topic? It shouldnt be hard if you really trust and love each other, but at the same time it can be touchy  <response>: If you cant work through the touchy discussions with the other person, marriage is a real fuckin bad idea. There will be many such topics over the coming decades. You can shove a lot of stuff under a rug and ignore it for shortmedium term relationships. But for the long haul that is a losing option - have to deal with them or itll be worse later on. 