<prompt> Human: I havent updated my W4 yet. I got married in June in New York, and we moved to New Jersey where our marriage is legally recognised.I havent updated my W4 at work because I found it confusing and HR wasnt much help I didnt want to explicitly out myself to HR. What should I do? I know I should do it soon before January so the accountant can have everything ready. We also bought a house so tax time is going to be a nightmare. We moved from PA to NJ so it has to go like this: PA - file single. NJ - file married. Federal- file single. But I need a dummy federal filed as married for NJ taxes. -_-  <response>: Whoever is handling your taxes should be able to help you fill in your W4 as well. With luck though Im not holding my breath the Supreme Court will fix this mess shortly. 