<prompt> Human: Obviously shell shocked and plenty of things to start thinking about - but Im 35 F with two kids, 2 and 4, a husband, and a lot of life left to live. But my plan is to get affairs in order for a 3 month life plan and then a longer term plan where we basically stay the course - but where do I start with a 3 month plan!? What do I need to be thinking about for financial planning in the near term? Any suggestions or thoughts? 1 wills - have them already in progress2 financial readiness - like, make sure all accounts are joint and shared, etc...3 document passwords, life information like doctors and addresses for kids information, etc. 4 where do I want to be buried, etc. Just curious if anyone can add things for us to think about talking about, or conversations we should be having. Edit just wanted to say thank you! My eye leaked a lot reading your kind comments and support.  <response>: Having been involved in the unraveling of a poorly written will, bad blood between family members, and lots of people who wanted this or that specific thing artwork or such- please be as careful as you reasonably can be, to prevent this from happening to your husband. Giving gifts ahead of time, or having very direct talks with people about stuff might be really important. Its amazing how many people think they have a right to just take things. 