<prompt> Human: Alright Ill try and get this need to know out of the wayI will be 22 in a few monthsThe trust was set up by my Jewish grandfather. From what I was told by my father, Im now allowed to know anything about it. Im not allowed to know how its being invested, Im not allowed to know if money has being taken out of it, I dont know anything until I turn 25. A few years ago I was attending school and was given a 3k check every semester from my trust, but recently in a discussion about me trying to go back, my father lost his shit claiming Theres nothing left, you cant go back to school. After losing my own shit, he then clarified that he would not let me use my trust for schooling anymore. Hes claimed to have been paying for my schooling, but honestly after all this shit thats gone down between him and me I cant trust him anymore.Afaik hes had his own trust since he was my age and was a shittier kid then I ever could be to my grandfather. Just for context, my grandfather told my mom that if she divorced my dad that he would take care of both of us for however long we needed. My dad has been unemployed going on 1 and a half years now. He doesnt work, so his only income is from his trust. I have no idea how much he started with, but he goes out to eat every other night and is at the casino four times a week, eating while hes there also which is a 100 meal. I have my reason to believe hes been taking money out of my trust.My uncle is the one who was put in charge of my trust. From what I was told, thats how Jewish trusts work, its all kept in the family or some other garbage excuse. Before when I had tried contacting him for a new laptop for school, he told me I wasnt supposed to ask him about it and to go through my father. He then told my dad on me and I was bitched at for trying to access the trust.Hes also recently decided to stop paying for my car insurance. I never had the option to pay for it myself, he just stepped up after I got my car and put me on his policy for a discount on his own insurance. My insurance is 1200six months and he choose the worst possible time in my life with all the other shit Im having to pay for damn well knowing I wouldnt be able to afford it. I wouldnt have been able to afford this if I was working full time in any job Ive ever had. Paying for the car insurance would be pointless because I wouldnt be able to afford gas to get to work to make more money for more gas.Anybody with experience with Jewish Trusts please, any advice is welcomed. If Im not able to get something from my trust to help me pay for all this, then my debt is going to kill me so Im kind of stressed out over all this.Assistant: This sounds like an informal family trust. Very likely not a legal trust that a lawyer would set up with trust documents and legal requirements. If thats the case, youre probably SOL in getting any info. Sounds like the tradition is that grandfather passes money to father when son is of age. Father then uses the money to the benefit of the son. But theres probably no legal governance. The money is probably expected to last from one generation to the next forever but your father screwed this up, perhaps gambling it away? Reality sounds like there is no money. Youre also expecting that others will pay your expenses. If nobody is stepping up and paying these expenses, its time to support yourself and live your own life.Human: You assumed a lot of stuff that isnt true at all, including your last sentence.  <response>: I dont know man, sounds like youre in a little over your head. Your father unfortunately doesnt sound like the most responsible dude, but youre doomed if you expect to get money thats Suppose to be yours. No one owes you anything in this life, its all up to you. 