<prompt> Human: O wise ones of Reddit,Im looking for advice on how to move out of a bad situation. Im 20 years old and live in an extremely rural area of Nc with my parents neither of which work, both on disability. Jobs in my area are not readily available, there is no mass transportation, and we only have one vehicle among the three of us. My family never prioritize me getting a license due to this issue, something I am just now realizing has assisted in holding me back. I have never had a job, Ive only helped around the farm with things my parents needed. I was homeschooled a vast majority of my life, so unfortunately I dont have any social contacts I can really turn to for assistance. We are living in my grandfathers house he does not live here with us and he had given us permission to sell the house and use the money to move to a more populated area. Recently he has gone back on this offer, and it looks like we will be stuck here for the foreseeable future as we dont have the money to move without the sale of the house. I really want to get out of this area and situation. Id love to move closer to my sister in Saint Louis or look into other options, I just have no idea where to start. Any advice on how to do this in the most financially sound way possible? Or even just advice on how to gain finances of my own? I know I need to start with getting my license, but getting to that point when we dont have a lot of extra money for back and forth commute gas seems like it might be difficult. I am totally dependent on my parents ability to help me, and they really dont have many options. What is my first step?  <response>: Best way to get out might be to go to college, if you can get in and get enough financial assistance to make it practical. Another way to get out would be to join one of the branches of the military.Any way you could ask your sister to help you get to St. Louis, and live with her for a bit while you find a job and get on your feet?Good luck. 