<prompt> Human: this is going to be long My dad is 64, had 20 years with company but only about 40k 401k. Last 16 years has been hard for him, hes had lots of health issues, has 1 replaced shoulder the other one has bad tendons has had multiple surgeries on it. Also had diabetes, etc. was forced out of job because he got caught sharpening knives at his desk to eat fruit he cuts up for his diet. the big situation My sisters in her 30s and has lived with him her entire life, she has health problems debts of her own some shared with him. Last year late 2016 I got laid off was livin out of state with my wife child. I struggled to find steady work last year he helped me throughout the year financially so his savings are shot. After my 9th job last year, my wife I packed up decided to move in with my dad mom, hopefully for the winter get together in a year or so move out. ive had steady work since Dec 2017 now.Rest of the financial situation, as far as i know:My dads never been good with money. My mother works, at 62, full time for next to nothing to help out with a 2nd mortgage. She has minimal savingsBesides the mortgages, they have high north-east utility bills, 3-4 credit card bills medical bills.I have 2 vehicle loans, an RV on a loan payment, we bought it before we moved out of state, hoping to stay in it in FL before i lost the job before thisI also have a few Ccs, student loans, utility medical debt from last year. My plan : have dad apply for all kinds of benefits that hes eligible for SS, unemployment longshot, food stamps. With my income float some of the mortgage on the house we all share, and probably short some of my debts for a few months till he gets some income can take things back over. ALso my wife I are going to try to sell or get out of our RV. My dad has 2 vehicles paid for that he could maybe sell, as its not likely hell be able to get another job with his health issues. Also going to have him talk to all his lenders ASAP, but the job thing sort of put him in a funk. this is all fresh, last few days. The end game is to float until 1 we can save enough to move into something in my my wifes name then he sell his house get out of the loans, etc. However, my credits not great, so i suspect i need at least 6 months. On the other hand, I could : not help my dad iwth the mortgage, and skip a few months with my lenders try to save enough to move out sooner. Then turn back if they keep the house long enough, help them say move out someplace smaller easier.tl:dr; dad has health issues financially unsound cannot pay mortgage I live WITH him, my mom, my family sister trying not to panic.  <response>: After I read that he was fired for sharpening a knife at work for cutting up fruit, I Feel like that there is more to the story...either way every person in that house needs to be working one if not 2 Jobs. Also sell everything but maybe one or 2 cars for the family to share Good luck. 