<prompt> Human: This is one of my first Reddit posts so I apologize in advance for any mistakes ive made. My mother passed away, and shortly after my grandmother as well, leaving a large amount of money to my brother and I. We receive this money when we are 35, which feels like an crazy long time away, probably because thats double my age! I understand I can use this money for things like university, but after my mother passed away my brother and I moved in with my father, and we are very unhappy where we are right now. I am pretty much asking if there is a way we can use this money towards a house.  <response>: No on here is going to be able to help you. You need to talk to whomever the the executor of this will is and determine what the stipulations are exactly. Then talk to a lawyer that specializes in this area and see if the stipulations can be bent or broken if necessary. I hate to break it to you but you may have to endure your situation until you go to college. You will need to get a job and a career and wait for you windfall at 35. It could be worse. You could not be getting money at 35. 