<prompt> Human: Long story short A friend of mine helped me out a long time ago and because of that small gift I am where I am today. She however, is now a single mom of two and struggling with her bills. I want to make her car payment for her as a sort of thank you. But I cant seem to find any good answers using Google. Any help is appreciated! Edit: Thank You guys for the advice. I reworded it to sound like a xmas present for her and the girls and she excepted. no more subterfuge! Thanks again, Happy Holidays! Assistant: Ive looked into such things before. Youre going to have much better luck and cause her far less stress if you simply have a cashiers check made out to her and mailed. Otherwise she winds up trying to trace down a mystery payment.Human: Part of the reason I had to post here was because I asked her if I could help and being the stubborn person she is, she refused it. So eventually when she finds out shell know what happened. Assistant: This might be easier: Get her kids awesome xmas gifts. Give them to her without kids present. And mark them as from santa. Or mom if thats what they do How can a single mom say no to xmas presents for her kids. Itll also save her time.Human: I did that already! But Im in the military and live on the other side of the country. So it was up front. Im really trying to take the stress off her and the kids because she missed a payment, and well its the holidays. Thank You for the input!  <response>: Im just asking for bro code reasons. Are you romantically interested? You might be coming on a little hard. Not saying thats the case. But definitely food for thought. 