<prompt> Human: Hi,I22M and my girlfriend22M of 15 months have been talking for some time about getting an apartment together. She is going to get her Bachelor degree in a few months and wants to continue attend college for another 2 years and I have been working for 2 years. Due to poor financial decisions I am in some debt, but because of better paying job I got in January I managed to pay off most of it. Now I pay about 68USDmonth student debt which I will pay of in about 2 years. And I make circa 730USDmonth and live with my father, she lives with her mother and doesnt work, because of college.A 11 or 21 apartment here is going to cost us about 300USDmonth my debt and phone its - 400USDmonth without groceries.We both want to live togethershe wants it much more, weve had several fights about it, but I just feel like we would barely get by if we rented a place. I am finally able to save some bucks here and there, we wanted to go on a vacation in the summer and I am going to need ASAPthe left back tire on my Peugeot 106 is askew, although if we get a place together I might not need a car that much.I know its all on me and I should be able to provide, but it just doesnt feel right to me not being able to save anything and afford anything just to be able to live together right now. I dont want to break up this girl, we are a great couple in every other sense, but I thing she will want to break up or it will cause a huge mess in our relationship if we dont find a place now. I feel like its either find an apartment now or break up, but I dont want neither of those options, at least not immediately and I am just wondering if there could be a third option I just cant think of.Im sorry for my grammar and formating.EDIT: She is going to lose her room at her mothers house because of some stuff mothers boyfriend won custody of his daughter and she is going to have to sleep in the living room, thats why she wants the apartment so much and right now. And she cant live with me because I live much further from her school.  <response>: I know its all on me and I should be able to provide.Thats a pretty old-fashioned point of view. Of course you dont have to provide ... youre young, youre building your life, you are still growing your career and working on your debt... Getting an apartment now could be a way to continue to be in financial trouble for a long, long time. So I just wouldnt do it. No matter how much you love her, if shes jumping off a cliff, dont follow her. 