<prompt> Human: Im 25-years-old, engaged, and have a steady career. I make 60kyear at my company, and I plan on working at my current job for a very long time, possibly until retirement. My fiance and I live with my parents rent free. Our wedding is in 2 years, and by then if were on track, well have enough for a down payment for our first and hopefully only home.My parents are 55 and 54. They rent the home we live in. Its huge, in a nice part of LA, and costs 4kmonth. I am not sure how much longer we can live in this home, as the owner has disappeared. He was quite elderly, so he may have passed away. My mom works at a grocery store and makes very minimal money. Maybe 30kyear. My dads occupation to me is unknown. Its been this way since I was 6. I believe he sells prescription drugs. On my parents tax return they claim to make 200kyear. I do not know if this is true.I have lent my parents approximately 10-15k. They say they plan to repay me, but I doubt they will and am not expected it. I know my parents are in debt, but I do not know how much. My guess is 30-75k. They do not own a home, they do not have a savings. My dad has filed for bankruptcy numerous times.My dad has expressed to my fiance that he would like to buy a home with us in the future by taking out a loan with all of us my dad, my mom, me, and my fiance - to my knowledge, I dont think that is possible as I thought home loans can only be taken out by individuals or couples, but I may be wrong. Plus, why would I take a loan out with someone who does not have a steady income or job? I doubt he could sell prescription drugs when hes in his 70s so then the responsibility would fall on my shoulders. He expects us to live with him forever. He will be heart broken when I tell him I plan to move out with my fiance when we get married. My mom thinks my dad is weird and expects us to move out once we are married.I feel a responsibility to my parents even though they have provided me with an unstable childhood and young adulthood. My dad is very controlling, has abused me physically and emotionally, and is the master of ultimatums. My mom is understanding, but ultimately allows my dad to do whatever he wants. Shes supportive, but cant really stand up for us or to my dad. If you argue with him, its like going in an endless circle.My mom has talked to my dad about getting a smaller place, since I am engaged, and my brother is on his 1st year of university. My dad has refused and wants to live above his means. He does not care to leave my mom or his children anything after he passes, hed rather be comfortable during his lifetime. So am I screwed? I feel in the end, either way Im going to have to support my parents. Either both of them or one depending on who passes first. I hope in the future, my brother and I can split the costs of living for my parents, but thats if my brother can be counted on. Who knows since hes only on his first year of college.My fiance is extremely supportive in everything and is ready to take care of my parents if need be. He is from an extremely wealthy family, probably worth 5m so he is fine. He himself only makes 40kyear but would give up every penny for me. I am extremely lucky to have him. I have crippling anxiety, and feel a need to take care of my parents even when they treat me like crap. Dont get me wrong, theyre not all bad. They can be loving parents, but they are definitely flawed.What would you do in my situation? I want to use my own money eventually to support them, but I dont make a ton, I want to start my life with my fiance, and I also feel angst towards my parents.EDITWow, I didnt think I would get these many responses. I greatly appreciate everyones input.To clear a few things, I thought Id put this out.- Yes, my parents currently support me and I could pay them rent. We chose not to do this when I approached them about starting a rental agreement because 1 they dont want my money plus they would be irresponsible with it anyways PLUS they dont technically NEED my money, they definitely make enough from my dads prescription drug sales, and 2 this would give me the opportunity to save up for that 1st home in 2 years. It is my dream to become a homeowner before 30, but I understand that in order to cut this control from my parents mainly my dad, that I will need to move out. I also think theyre giving me the opportunity to save up so I can support them in the future if need be. However, I do understand that if it means pushing my 1st home purchase to 5 years down the line, instead of 2 that that might be the best path for me.- I understand the necessity to getting out of this toxicity. Like I said, I feel responsible and would take care of my parents financially eventually if need be. I guess my second question to everyone is what can I do to ensure a healthy lifestyle and environment for myself and my fiance in the future, while keeping a positive relationship with my parents?  <response>: TL;DRYou do nothing, the fact that people approaching 60 never thought about retirement is not your problem. They can work as greeters at Walmart.I make 60kyear at my company, and I plan on working at my current job for a very long time, possibly until retirement. My fiance and I live with my parents rent free.Youre not supporting your parents - your parents are supporting you. Youre an adult, move the hell out and get your own place to live with your 60,000 a year. 