<prompt> Human: So my girlfriend and I are 2526 years old and we currently rent in a high cost of living areasouth Florida Our combined income is 125kyear. We currrently have no debt besides her student loan only 4k, we Paid the rest cash and my car lease 420month. The loan wont be due until after she graduates in December.We have our first child on the way due in June.We have 30k in a savings account and are saving 2500month.We are saving for a house, engagement ring, wedding, everything.My question is when to do what? Should we get married first? Buy a house first? Should we buy with a lower down payment in a year from now and pay pmi but avoid rising interest rates? Decent 3 bedroom houses down here start at around 300-325k.I dont plan to spend more than 10k on the wedding plus the ring.Its a tough situation because the apartment complex where we live is going down hill fast and we cant find a comparable place without paying at least another 500 monthly in rent.It would take us 2 more years of saving to buy a house with 20 down, and wed have to keep putting off marriage until at least a year after thatif we go that route Anyone have any recommendations for this situation? What would you do first?  <response>: You can also get married at city hall and have a bigger wedding later if you still want to.The birth of a child is an exciting time and one thing you probably want to have in place is the ability to make healthcare decisions in case god forbid anything happen that impacts your gf or the baby. As a husband you would have the right to make healthcare decisions for them, as a boyfriend you have no rights and instead her parents have the right to make decisions and possibly guardianship of the baby. Sorry, not trying to scare you too much. Im sure everything will go well - legal protections for the baby and baby mama should be high on your priority list. Good luck with the baby! 