<prompt> Human: Im starting to think about a big ticket Christmas gift for my wife but we are both hands on with financial decisions and overall transparency. It sounds cliche, but I dont want anything. I know shell say the same, but would love to get the gift Im thinking of. But if I ask her to create a gift budget, then Ill end up getting a gift I dont actually need and, In essence, well end up paying double for her gift. So how does you handle this situation in your family? Assistant: Dont ever spend money on gifts for your significant other. Problem solved!Human: Hows your marriage treating you?  <response>: A lot of marriages with this arrangement are just fine. People buy what they want as they need it. 