<prompt> Human: Curious how you budget for weddings - this year I have 5 coming up, all of which are good friends. On top of that, 2 Im in the wedding party so there is all the added costs there. Im attempting to build my safety net, future savings and even save for a home but having difficulty finding a balance when this part of life hits. Edit: Appreciate the feedback everyone. Didnt want to come off as putting money before close friends but Im also not trying to go broke!Assistant: Have less friends.Just kidding, how much do you spend on each wedding usually?Human: In December I had a good friend get married that I was also in the wedding party. I gave 250 for me and my date. But that doesnt include the room, engagement party, and bachelor party which was out of state. For the ones I wont be in the wedding party Ill likely give 150 or 200 depending if its 1. For context Im in Jersey so dont know how that factors in for others. But the rush of get away bachelor parties has gotten out of hand. Assistant: Dude youre giving too much.Human: Recommendation is appreciated. My friends were giving more than me. I was surprised.  <response>: I would recommend dont give more than you can afford. Who cares how much your friends are paying? They could be exaggerating or you just didnt heard from the people who paid less. Not trying to ask you to be a cheapskate, but I think your company and friendship is more meaningful than cash 