<prompt> Human: Hello, I am not sure if I am posting in the right sub but I am looking for any input you guys might have. If anyone knows anything about how to afford either elderly housing or full time care takers I would really appreciate if you could give information on what worked The situation:My boyfriends mother C has parkinsons and is a life long drinker and smoker. Despite being almost 60 she needs 24 hour assistance. Her husband B is a veteran and is currently working part time at the postal office he works so many hours that its closer to full time than part time. My boyfriend is a veteran and is finishing his last year in college and I recently graduated and am working retail while looking for a full time job. C wants us to move down and live with them so we can be her full time care takers. Additional information:-neither my boyfriend and I have students loan. Though our degrees are in visual arts. - C and B live in a small southern town where theres no job opportunities beside retail.- C and B inherited a house and abandoned their old house that they didnt finish paying for as such they have awful credit.- C is an exceptionally unpleasant person who spends all day drinking and chain smoking while watching the price is right. Living with her will destroy our mental health. - because of the parkinsons C would become obsessed with buying something like a new couch, or pool and would make B miserable until he purchases it. Assistant: Is she on Medicaid or Medicare? Soc sec disability?Human: Shes not. They are also not eligible for Medicaid, and to qualify they would need to give up their assets. And she was denied disability.  <response>: Everyone is denied disability. Apply again. If she requires 24 hour nursing theres no way she wouldnt qualify. 