<prompt> Human: My boyfriend moved in to my house since January 2014. He kept saying that hed help me with the bills but until today Sept 2014 he has never helped with any bills yet. He mows the yard, do the housework, buying grocery sometimes. He makes money a little bit more than I do. He keeps telling me that he wants to get married next year in August 2015, however, I still have some disappointments and questions about him which are:1. He lied to me about his status that he was still married, I found out in two weeks after he moved in, then I told him he should leave, and he filed for the divorce the next day. I asked him why he lied to me about his status, he told me because he eventually wanted to file for a divorce because they have not lived together since 2010. She cheated on him in 2003 filed for a divorce on him in 2008 but she withdrew it.2. He kept in touch with two ex girlfriends and said to one of them that he still loved her I found out the same time when I found out about his marital status; then he blocked their numbers to prove it to me that he really wants to be serious with me and wont do it again.3. His job requires him travelling and I know that he dated two agents who worked in two different hotels that he normally stayed in. 4. He still doesnt give me money for helping with the bills yet like he promised me at the beginning; I know hes wiped out because of the divorce situation that his ex wife got almost everything off of what he had such as the house, two cars, etc. However, he gives his 22 years old son who is still living with his ex and still in college about 600 a month. How come cant he give me just 100 a month as a symbol that hes willing to help out?Im struggling to trust him again, especially with other women from the past even though he shared his password of his emails, bank accounts, etc. I have been cheated on by 2 different men in the past and the situation he created doesnt help at all. Im also disappointed with him for not helping me at all with the bills, its not like Im struggling but I want the man shows his responsibility as well especially he keeps saying he wants to marry me next year. The positive side of him are he is not lazy, he helps me on the house cleaning whenever hes home, he pays for all the eating out, and buying things for the house such as toilet paper, paper towels, changing oil for my car, fixing this and that in my house. My youngest daughter also loves him to death, she never has a father figure since she was 3 and now shes 14 and she used to hate talking to people and now she constantly talks to him for hours whenever hes home and hes patiently listening to her. He is also patient listening to me when I need someone to talk to.My questions are:1. Should I trust him again?2. Should I marry him?3. Is his behavior trying to be open and honest with me since I caught him lying will remain the same after we get married or its just a patch for now to convince me?4. Will he be a responsible man? Please advise! Thank you!  <response>: He wont give you anything because youre his door mat. Do you give your door mat money at the end of every month?No, at best you sweep it on occasion and leave keys under it. You dont want our advice, and if given it wouldnt listen.rrelationshipsrtrainwreck 