<prompt> Human: I rushed into a marriage. She is quite a bit older than me. She insisted on having a very expensive engagement ring. This being my first marriage and her second I was stupid at the time and co-signed on this ring. She is the primary person. There is about 4.5k left. Backstory: She had a previous marriage with 3 kids that ended badly. She had a ongoing affair during our marriage which caused it to end. She also was waaay behind on her mortgage. I didnt find out any of this until about 6 months after we were married.I am now recieving a court summons and I dont know what to do. She is in possession of the ring. Over half is already paid off from her from before. She will not sell the ring or let me sell it.What is the worst that can happen? Please help!!!  <response>: She insisted on having a very expensive engagement ring.This was a massive red flag.Edit: I dont intend to snark at OP. We all make mistakes. This was for the benefit of anyone reading this. 