<prompt> Human: Here is some information that Ive been able to draft up. This experience has been unreal and whenever we are able to take heed of the finances I would like to receive as much information as possible, as I am not familiar with such an experience:He attended college, and has some loansHe collected debts from various credit cardsWe are looking at social security, we should be able to qualify for this benefit.He served in the military for 13 years, with that said were looking into what the VA can provide for the family and for the funeral services.What should we do with the money? Were looking at about 20,000 from his workplace and other family members who wish to contribute.If you have any advice or any suggestions to provide, please reply and I will actively check and respond to them.  <response>: He attended college, and has some loansHe collected debts from various credit cardsIf they are in his name only, you and your mother are under no obligation to pay. You will, however, probably get collections callsletters. What should we do with the money? Were looking at about 20,000 from his workplace and other family members who wish to contribute.If your mother isnt otherwise in debt and doesnt immediately need the money for something, you can always put it toward her retirement. 