<prompt> Human: Im not sure what to do overall but my mom kicked me out over the phone at 4am for not being home, I was too terrified to go home so I slept over a friends house. Around 1pm, I went home to pack my stuff and she demanded for her key back so I asked to pack a week full of clothing. She argued non stop and told me she never wanted to see me again and also got my friend involved In the whole thing. Im 18 also the legal age to drink and an adult with my laws, I also paid 300 roughly every month on a bill. I make 1500, Im so concerned I cant survive on my own and theres no turning back. I respected her and left, she called me non stop and all of my family sent me messages to find out where I was etc, lots of verbal abuse. My grandmother is helping me and said she will help me with finding a place and a car. Im depressed, does anyone have any insight or tips? I work a full time job btw! So its not all too bad. Dealing with loneliness now, friends seem to semi care. Edit: Im a girl by the way and I would love to reply to everyone but bacon reader isnt allowing me to reply. Thank you for the advice, I have actually been going out for a month now and I turn 19 in a few months. My grandma believes my parents are verbally abusive and that my mom kicking me out is crazy. Basically I have to be independent now but my mom is calling close people to make it seem like she is worried when all she did was text me that I was a horrible daughter and that I take her for granted- also telling them I moved out. Theres no going back to live there, she has a lot of issues but I will be going sometime this week to pack the rest of my stuff.Update: Looking into car first and then rent. Mom is still harassing me with mean things and her siblings are getting into it. The current plan is to have police assistance when I collect my things sometime this week. Thank you for the replies, Im still feeling pretty depressed Update 2: For those who care, Im really sick right now and coughing up blood but thankfully I have insurance through work so Im going to the hospital today. Thank you so much for the replies.Update 3: Got my stuff and Im not sick anymore! I lost my voice for a few days though but it has returned and unfortunately I partied way too much for the flu to draw out lol. I should have a car within two weeks and Im looking at places. Both of my parents are annoying me and honestly my weekends arent sober. Thank you again for all of the replies; they helped a lot. I wont update this anymore. 3Final Update: Oh my goodness, sorry for all of the updates but I got a car sorted out and Im in my own apartment now with a roommate of course. Life is looking up and I was such a chaotic mess! Ive barely touched alcohol or any other substance since my last update on this account. This honestly was on a spiral from my ex leaving me after 3 years and I was confused as shit, we are back together now over a month and it seems pretty good so far but shit, I was a mess! My relationship is also much better with my mother, we talk and hang out and it seems better to not live with each other and my father is still a dead beat father who doesnt care about me but thats fine. I asked him to get out of my life and he obeyed.Assistant: This happened to my best friend. Get anything that is yours out now. Get a friend to help of you can. She will sell all of it. Find someone you can stay with. It will be ok. Next, call all the people back and tell them the full story. It needs to be in everyones faces that she kicked you out. My friends mom tried to make it seem like her daughter was a spoiled brat, when it was not the case. They may try to help your mom out now that you arent paying some of the bills by giving her money. Dont let them get tricked. Tell them everything truthfully. If she wants to make this a vocal matter, use that against her. Next, you have a job- good! You are already ahead of where my friend was. 1500 a month can get you by, dont worry. You just wont be saving much. If you cant stay with a friend long term, use craigslist. Find a place that will let you room with someone. You are going to be ok. Many of your friends are probably unsure of what to do. I know I tried to help my friend but came off cold. It is hard knowing how much others want help. Be vocal about what help you need. No one will know how to help you if you dont ask for it. You are going to be ok. Keep your head up. Human: Thank you so much for this message, I plan on getting my things by Wednesday, my grandma really doesnt want to get in trouble by helping me out so I am still finding a ride to get my things. Also police escort for the matter to prevent any verbal disputes. My mom can be really nasty.  <response>: This might sound nasty, but this will probably turn it in your favor. My friend went through the same thing, and it allowed her to put in some documents so that her mother couldnt ever claim her as a dependent again. That allowed my friend to claim a lower income, which got her scholarships to go to college. Disowning her mother was honestly the best thing that happened to her during those years. She is happily married now and about to graduate college. I know it seems very touh right me, but you can start to build the life you want now instead of molding it around her. It will be very hard the next few months, but I promise it is so much better on the other side when you have a say on how to live your life. 