<prompt> Human: I am looking for advice, since I am the anxious type. My husband and I bought a home and moved several months ago-- to be closer to family and friends, etc. He works in the engineering field, I hold a more or less useless degree in our part of the country, so I didnt work the first 2 years of our marriage. I did some home based work commission based work in the creative field, and enjoyed that, though I never expected or wanted to turn it into a full time venture mostly out of guilt, or fear of being labeled a leech.After moving, quite literally a week after our closing date, I was offered a job in a unique resale vintage shop in our town. I accepted the part time job and began work before we even finished moving. That was a mistake.I was worked 40 hours for a while accidentally, until I spoke up about it. My hours were cut, but so was any shred of respect or care. I was injured on the job recently minor, but it required medical attention and after finding out they knew long ago about the condition that caused the injury and did nothing, plus tons of other factors, I couldnt do it any longer.My husband is wonderful and supportive of me taking a break, and is encouraging me to just find what you want-- sell your work for a bit, but I am terrified of being on one income again, especially in such a different situation. So, heres our financial lowdown: No mortgage we own outright No kids, just 2 pups His salary is 55k, plus OT he gets frequently we both have funds in retirement his 5 since starting work so about 3.5k, my stock of about 70k stashed awayWe have emergency funds in savings account of about 6k presently, add to every month Student loan debt on his end, about 10k left to pay but weve been paying triple or more on it each month, without touching my paycheck I have means plans for continuing my home based work, and finding work again at some pointBasically, am I an idiot for doing this? He is the most assuring about us being ok, and it will be better in the long run, but my anxiety about it is kicking my ass. I feel like Im overthinking and overcomplicating it, because honestly, who quits a job the month before Christmas, but who keeps one that sends them home in tears regularly?  <response>: Youre over thinking it. You have a retail job that doesnt respect you. Just go find a different one. And work on your own stuff as you see fit. Luckily you have a nice flexible situation. 