<prompt> Human: So a little backstory, my father died four years ago and I now take care of my grandparents who are 96 and 88 this year. My grandmother is legally blind with rapidly worsening dementia. My grandfather is mostly deaf but can hear somewhat with hearing aids.We helped them move out of their house when the chores and upkeep became too much to an independent living apartment. The staff makes their three meals a day, cleans, runs entertainment and games. My sister helps sometimes but I drive them to their nearly weekly appointments and grocery and bank runs. I have PoA and am executor of their estate.Grandmas memory is getting much worse very rapidly. Shes starting to have episodes where she forgets who my grandfather is and tries to move out. Today at lunch she asked if I was her nephew. My grandfather has been asking me to get them into a nursing home or facility where they can get more assistance, maybe a memory care home. All of these places cost around 3,000-5,000 per person a month.They are currently paying 3000 for everything at their place and have an income of about 3200 through pension, SS, grandpas veteran service, etc. They have about 32,000 left in savings. There are state nursing homes where you basically forfeit your entire savings and assets and become wards of the state, but grandpa really doesnt want to give up everything they have and Ive heard these homes are abysmal places. The VA said grandpas care could be fully paid for, but only in a veterans home, none of which are near where I live and that still leaves grandma. Id hate to split them up. They do not have a Long Term Care policy or anything like that.TLDR; Grandparents need a nursing home but cannot afford any for more than half a year. Not sure what to do.Im not sure where to go or ask for help if there even is any help available. I greatly appreciate anyone who can advise me further. Thank you.  <response>: You may want to seek the help of a geriatric social worker. These people specialize in working advocating for the elderly and helping youthem find appropriate care as the get older and need help. They also help navigate the numerous social service programs out there. Try looking for one that has experience with veterans benefits. 