<prompt> Human: I currently work as a software engineer in NYC. I like my boss, whom I consider a mentor; I seem to be respected by my coworkers who appreciate me; I work from home 90 of the time but have a WeWork office available; unlimited vacation days; I can basically work from anywhere that has an internet connection. My salary is 115k. I work about 40hrs a week, but sometimes more when things get busy. I asked for a 25 raise because of additional responsibilities Ive taken on and was given 8, which puts me about 123k. Ive interviewed for a director position which is advertised for 200-250k at a startup with top-tier VC. It looks like they all work from the office, and the office was pretty busy when I interviewed at 6PM. How do I put a value on my flexible schedule current environment? I dont have kids or a mortgage currently but would like to in the near future recently married. If my current employer had given me my full ask I probably would not be considering this move. Is it normal to go back to the CFO and negotiate a higher raise? What is some advice for having that discussion? I dont want to go over the head of my boss.  <response>: If you want to work way hardermore, for double the income, go for it.Theres no bad decision here as long as you consider the lifestyle you want. 