<prompt> Human: Thanks for the comments and help. Happy to say she is interviewing for the position!  <response>: I mean at the end of your first paragraph you described exactly what is going on. If she stays she will remain in the same stuck position and company.They pay increase is what most people only dream of and many will never see this large of an opportunity.Personally I would interview for it and see where it goes from there. It does not hurt to at least do that.The marriage stuff is more of relationship advice, but this is a conversation between you two. If she says she doesnt want to then that should be the end of that. 