<prompt> Human: Ill try to boil everything down to pertinent information.My Age : 23Credit Card Debt: 13,000 in Credit Cards. 1 is on a debt management program with no delinquency and a 50 balance. Two are maxed out at 2k and 3k each with 1 month delinquency on one and 3 months delinquency on the second. Care Credit card with 900 out of 5000 owed. The monthly payment for all 4 of these cards is 500 a month to pay the minimums interest. I own a car worth roughly 13,000 as of the time of posting. I have no student debt. I owe my father 13,800 Dollars and my Brother-In-Law 4,200 dollars. My father borrowed the money from an old friend with no contract to pay for my car so I could drive for Uber here in NYC and help out with our debt. My brother-in-law paid for the registrationsales-taxTLC fees associated with starting as an Uber driver here in NYC. Both my father and my brother in law convinced me to do this because financing a car wouldve costed me interest and who wants to pay 300 a month for 4 years? being one of the points brought up. They now expect me to pay them each 300 dollars a week. My mother also wants me to give her 100 dollars a month to help her out Ever since the divorce with my father she has been nothing but extremely financially supportive to me, she deserves it, shes fallen on rough times. . My father wants an additional 200 a month, the reason being that he said he took care of me and financially supported me growing up so the least I could do is help him pay his bills too. He also is now charging me half the rent which thankfully is very cheap and is another 300 a month. My gas expenses are 600 a month.Driving for uber I average about 30 dollars an hour. Because this is independent contracting, I take the taxes out on my own during filing season and pay the IRS. I work roughly 50-65 hours a week. However Im only human and sometimes I falter in my work ethic and I average out to about 1000 a week. I dont know what to do. I dont know what to prioritize. I sleep in a car 3 out of 7 days of the week because I feel like commuting home would take time away from paying all this off. I miss credit card payments and fall behind because the due date for my fathers debt is coming up and i have to throw almost a thousand his way at once. I have taken NOT A CENT out for taxes in the past three months of work. I may get kicked out of my house if I fuck these things up, my relationship with my brother in law will sour heavily. I just feel lost.I keep thinking to myself that I want to take out a personal loan and just pay my brother-in-laws 4200 at once so that way I have an additional 1000 a month to breathe. Even if Im paying interest and 200 a month for a few years. I feel suffocated and trapped right now. What should I do? Negotiating with them doesnt work, due to our families culture they feel as though it is a given that I should be working 12 hours a day 7 days a week without complaint.The way I see it the only positives going on are that I have a source of steady income, and that some of my debt can be ignored and there would be little to no legal recourse for my family Not because they cant pursue legal recourse, but just that the immigrant culture they are all from would never take that route.Edit: I dont think it matters right now considering my circumstances but Im 8 credits away from a bachelors in comp sci and owe 800 in tuition.TLDR : My gross Income is between 4,000 - 6,000 a month. My monthly bills total out to 4450. I am unable to take out taxes on my income because .Assistant: This is why 23 year olds are typically in a hurry to escape their parents and start an independent life. Get an apartment somewhere dont tell them where, change your phone number, and quit giving your relatives money other than reasonable repayment for the vehicle expenses. Human: You have no idea how much I want to leave, but my father and step-mom are essentially useless on their own both being over 65 and non-english speakers. I basically handle all of their legalmedicalbusinesstaxonline bank accountsbills because they mostly arent capable of doing it alone.Assistant: Start charging them for your help? If they bring up that you should just help them for free bring up them making you pay them back to help you.right but mostly wrong, its tit for tatHuman: I actually said exactly this a few months ago during an argument where he told me that I was a useless shit who has done nothing for him. When I brought up all of the stuff I do for him he essentially told me that he could just ask my cousins or uncles to do it for him and that I should be ashamed of myself for being a pathetic son who would hold helping his own father over his head. And then he told me that if Im going to start treating our relationship like a business than he expects me to pay for my own food in the house, and start repaying everything hes done for me past the age of 18.  <response>: Cool, he doesnt need you! So stop setting yourself on fire to keep him warm. 