<prompt> Human: The guy smokes which is a money sink, drives obscene amounts which is also a money sink instead of taking a damn bus to get to the city, and spends it on egregious shit for no reason. Its not credit card debt but he has the chance to really save up and hes blowing it right now. He spent like 300 bucks in two weeks, two weeks! Granted 65 dollars was for personal tutoring and I fully support that he wants to pursue a challenging degree and I respect the hell out of that and he sounds like he really loves what hes doing and its a smart investment but how do I get through to him about other egregious costs?  <response>: How is it any of your business what your brother does with his money? 