<prompt> Human: Me a my fiance currently live 1 hours appart, due to our jobs. I pull in about 50k a year after taxes and she pulls i about 40k after taxes. We both currently live at home with our family in order to pay of debt, Im debt free with 20k in the bank and she is debt free with about 8k in the bank. We plan on getting married in the next 2 years so we would need to buy a house by then. Recently my girlfriend is anxious to get a place because she currently have to share her room with siblings. My delema is I like my job and I dont want to give it up to move to her city, because I feel like her job is more temporary than mine. At the same time, I will do anything to make her happy, I just want to do whats best for our future. Secondly we are consider buying a sub 130k home or sub 160k duplexmidwest usa. Any recomendation on housing options or advice is welcomed. Thanks  <response>: Why not try renting in an area first, maybe somewhere in the middle so that you can both commute, and you arent locked in. 