<prompt> Human: I feel like a prick everytime she asks, hey can I get this? Because my first thought is always, no. No, because we dont need it, we can find it cheaper, thats my money, or what about the things I need to buy...How do you best handle these types of things?Edit: thank you for all the positive and critical feedback. I did some soul searching and we sat down to plan things out. Weve given ourselves an allowance and categorized expenses that are out of the norm. We feel we have a strong way ahead and will reevaluate in a month.  <response>: We decided early on that purchases over 2000 needed to be discussed and agreed on beforehand. Otherwise, were good. thats my moneyIncorrect. Its HOUSEHOLD money that both of you are the stewards of. 