<prompt> Human: Hey all. Never thought I would be posting here but after a lot of trying I figured its better if we separate. I am a 28 yo male. Live in Ontario, Canada. Im not sure if this is the right place for thia but Id like to get some advice on starting over. I really dont know where to start. Is there anything I should be aware of? Assistant: Whats your income, debt picture, and support obligation to your daughters?Human: My income is roughly 42,000 a year. I will be looking into getting a 2nd job as well. I would LOVE to take primary custody because her family is...questionable. I dont want that kind of influence in their lives. Debt is a little high atm because I put myself through college and had to live off credit. I am definitely going to a lawyer because I have a lot of money in a locked pension from my time in the army and dont want her going after my retirement. I know in my heart and soul that if the law allowed, my girls would choose me 100. She doesnt connect with them emotionally like I do.  <response>: if she knows your reddit username, anything you have ever typed in here can be used as evidence in family court 