<prompt> Human: Im 20 male and dating a 20 year old who has a child. She still lives at home with her parents and so do I. She tells me that she doesnt expect me to do anything for her and her child but have our relationship as only me and her while she takes care of her baby. I know that is a lot easier said than done but I dont think she fully grasps the concept she has provided me. I will have a very stable and high paying career in a couple years making over 80k and Im very good with my finances and make investments and save a lot. Money theoretically wouldnt be a major problem on my end but I dont enjoy spending it if I dont have to. If I continue to date her and we end up living with each other what do you suppose will happen to me financially? I like this woman a lot and shes great but I also need advice on what are the consequences of my decision to stay?  <response>: A child is never financially a good choice. I know, I have two. Lol! Early on your goal should be getting to knowmom and seeing if you are compatible. Are you willing to take on responsibility of dating somebody with a child if things get serious? The financial obligations is not yours but as you bond with this child and spend more time with them you likely will begin to want to help provide for them. Financial obligations are only a part of this. Is the father in the picture and providing for the child? 