<prompt> Human: Hi Reddit. Hope this is the right sub. Im 20 years old. Back in May I moved out of my parents house in an apartment with 2 friends. Doing so caused a huge rift between my parents and I; they despised one of my roommates and thought it was a really bad idea. Of course I didnt listen. Now, three months later, I am miserable and want out of this situation. Ive come to dislike my roommates who were once my close friends. Around the house I do all the cleaning and mainenence. I take care of all the finances, the others just give me their share after repeated asking and pressing. I sleep on the couch because the roommate I share rooms with has unbearable BO and does not bathe. I am living paycheck to paycheck, have no savings, and sometimes rely on savings bonds that were gifted to me to get by. I am not eating well. Most of my money and time goes to weed, same with my roommates. Both roommates owe me large sums of money from me covering expenses such as first months rent that allowed us all move in here. Ive come to the conclusion that the way I want to live my life does not coincide with how my roommates live theirs. I am lonely and have few good relationships. I very much want to buckle down and start taking life seriously with school and saving money and becoming a better person but I feel my current living situation prevents me from doing that. However, the situation at my parents house was never ideal either for various reasons. So I guess the question is, what should I do to get my life back on the right track? Should I suck it up and continue living here in what feels like a downward spiral, or move back into my parents sty, save money, and focus on school? Thanks Reddit.  <response>: Most of my money and time goes to weed, same with my roommates. ... aaand there we go. You can absolutely have a functional adult life and still enjoy smoking up, but if you dont have the rest of your life together then it certainly isnt going to help.Patch things up with your parents - theyre not perfect people but it sounds like they care about you. Finish school, get some work experience, save some money, then move into a better situation with someone who isnt a total slob. 