<prompt> Human: How does anyone make it financially? Im struggling and beyond frustrated right now. Im a 19 year old male trying to go to school. Im going to a community college to save money. Right now Im sharing a car with my brother on our parents insurance. Both my GF and I of two years want to get married and move in near a university and start our life, however its nearly impossible to find the money. I make about 1800 a month while she makes about 1400 a month. I want to get my own car but my insurance quote by myself was almost 16006 months. Car payments and insurance payments for me would be about 600, then add rent and other bills, and not even including school.Both of us are so frustrated and its putting a gigantic strain on our relationship. How the hell is this even possible? Ive explored many avenues and nothing seems to work. Im so frustrated and want to give up. How does anyone get started in life with so many walls in the way?  <response>: You just keep grinding, dude. Most people dont make it until they are out of college and have worked a few years at a decent job. Im 28, just finished paying my student loans and car loan after struggling to support myself through an engineering degree. Dont give up. Just hang In there and work real hard. if you have to take some loans to get through school, thats fine, just make sure its a good investment. I would encourage you to take full advantage of whatever support your family is providing. Trying to have all the grown up stuff like your own car and housing sounds great, but you have all the time in the world to experience the great joy that is unloading your bank account on rent. 