<prompt> Human: Husbands parents died in about 20052007 and before that point they had created a living trust which included their home and 140 acres of farm land that we had been farming for years and also making their payments. At their death we were supposed to be able to refinance remaining debt with FSA to put this in our name. After they both passed away the other siblings didnt like this idea, wanted to sell the ground and divvy up the money leaving us with debt to pay off. Apparently some of the things we had agreed upon verbally did not get out in living trust do siblings found that we were accountable for miscellaneous things. Because of this, relations are strained, we have an extra 36k in debt on ground we dont farm and despite going to court we were left with it the debt.So now husband doesnt want to write a will. Just let the kids fight if out is what he now says..Suggestions?  <response>: Tell him that hes already made a decision. Hes decided that the government will determine who gets what. Its not going to be a let the kids fight it out situation. Dont get me wrong, the kids relationships will be ruined and the estate will be erased by legal fees, but thats his choice. If nothing else, he should be writing a will to ensure that the person who probates his estate doesnt need to post a cash bond.Not everyone is going to be responsible with money, nor will they be adults about death. 