<prompt> Human: Im sorry in advanced for the wall of text. Me and my fiancee are getting married next April. We are both 20 and still living with our parents Mine are very religious and very controlling. Her parents arent as bad. They have tried to help get us set up for success and make sure we have something to put in the bank. pulling strings to help us find jobs, paying for her gas on occasion, etc. My parents are a different story. EVERY TIME I get enough money to save, they find something I need to pay them back for. I have to pay for my own tuition and books because they make too much for me to qualify for financial aid. Im applying for grants and scholarships, but so far havent gotten anything I also found out they have a secret savings account of over 100,000 that makes it impossible for me to get it. It should be noted that they are also extreme liars. They tell me they cant afford to help me out and then my mom comes home with a brand new car, she just got a tummy tuck, installed new cabinets in the kitchen.. but Im over all that. They do not view me as an investment and thats fine. They can do what they want with their money. The most recent thing that happened is my insurance got switched, because my parents refuse to put me on theirs. Before it switched, my mom had me set up appointments with all my doctors while still on old insurance, so that it wouldnt be put on my new one or something. I get on my new insurance and they reimburse my old insurance for all those doctors visits, which used up all of my new insurance, unannounced to me. I went to the doctor after getting my new insurance and had a lactose intolerance test. 800. Not covered by insurance. My mom is crying and promising that they will pay it because shes the one who had me do it, blah blah. Now theyre making me pay it, which I saw coming. I dont really care, its my medical bill and I will pay it if I have to. The fact that they will lie to me and give me a false sense of security is what kills me. At my current job Im making about 130week and only working weekends. I dont want to leave and find another one because there is potential for me to get a raise in a couple of weeks and get on full time. Until then, my fiancees parents are letting me work with them in their landscaping business for well over minimum wage to pay back my parents. My fiancee is making about 1,300month and is saving for us. We do not want to get sucked into any type of loan.The main thing I want to get your advice on:When my grandfather passed away about 12 years ago, he was very wealthy. He left money behind for all of his grand kids. I have tried talking to my dad about it, but he screams and tells me that money is HIS to give at HIS discretion. Before going to college, he told me that money was for college, when I enroleld in college he told me there is no money, now he just tells me that its his to give when he feels like it. My fiancee and I are trying to plan on how much house we can afford and, depending on how much is left to me, this could greatly influence our future. We are planning and saving as if it is nothing, but I feel like we shouldnt have to do that. I should also mention that Im 99.5 sure that my dad has un-diagnosed aspergersTldr; I want to save money for me and my fiancees future, but my wealthy parents dont care. I make very little money. I have an inheritance, but my dad refuses to tell me how much it is or when I might get it. Assistant: Get a competent estate lawyer. Find what your rights are with the inheritance. You may or may not want to make a pit stop at rlegaladvice. Human: Another interesting thing about that. My fiancee talked to my Aunt about this the other day. My Aunt told her dont dig too deep Do not go after the will There was a lot of shady dealing and it will reflect poorly on all of us. We have been considering legal action, but were not sure what my Aunt meant by any of that.  <response>: So then, my advice is: Get a competent estate lawyer. Find what your rights are with the inheritance. You may or may not want to make a pit stop at rlegaladvice. 