<prompt> Human: We have a budget. We work off of it every month. I live or die by the budget. Currently, I keep it all on spreadsheets. I love excel. But for my wife, its a killer. She hates math, hates spreadsheets, and hates budgeting. I keep a running total and always know what we have left. But that involves opening OneDrive and checking the spreadsheet. It is just currently not working. So just wondering if anyone else has gone through something similar, where one party was super into budgeting, but the other wasnt. What finally worked? Did you switch to an app? Switch to cash? I need her to be proactive in her spending, seeing what we had left when she spends it, rather than reconciling it at the end of the weekmonth, when we already went over budget. Thanks!  <response>: Does she fight you on spending, or just fight you on digging into the spreadsheets, etc? If she just doesnt care to know, but is happy to spend X amount instead of XY with Y being her personal whims at the moment, then you should just accept that youll be in charge of finances. Discuss with her reasonable spending based on income and needsdesires, with some money for her to enjoy, so she doesnt feel like youre consigning her to poverty, and make sure its equitable for the both of you.Then you could either go the envelopecash method or something else. 