<prompt> Human: Sorry if theres a better sub Reddit for this, but Ive seen some pretty good advice here so I figured I would give it a try.My wife and I are looking at moving, we have been for sometime. In my line of work, theres way more work in the Silicon Valley then there is in the central valley of California, which is why we have stuck around in this area longer than we really wanted to. But we want to start a family and dont think that we could afford the cost of daycare by staying here. We can probably eek by on my income while my wife takes time to start a family and theoretically stay home with the little one.There is a little bit of fat to trim in our budget, and I think that by doing that we could get by on just one income until my wife would start working again in a year or two ?.Just looking for pointers and tips so that I can be sure itll be okay. I want to show my wife that I have thought this through so that she feels confident thats a good decision. The bottom line is that we really just dont like living here in this big expense of town anymore.  <response>: Sacramento suburbs are cheaper and your cost of living outside of housing will likely come down, because the metro area is smaller, restaurants are not catering to the tech rich, etc. 