<prompt> Human: Hi rpersonalfinance,You may remember me from this post: Need Advice: 86K income, 20K CC Debt, 200K mortgage on an unfinished, remodeled house, etc.Its been seven months since that post. My wife and I have lived our lives by a very strict budget. While we are making an impact on our debt, its just not enough for us. On top of that, we arent saving for retirement, dont have life insurance, and arent saving for our kids college funds. To erase the debt quicker, one thing that was redundant in your responses was that my wife should get a job. Well, Im happy to announce that she has received a job offer in field that she loves. Unfortunately, its in another state. It will increase our income from 90K to 135K so by 33. I work remotely, so my career situation isnt impacted by this change. While we are thankful that weve been blessed with this financial opportunity, along with it comes a lot of hopefully short-term burden.The Dilemma: We own a home currently. We have two daughters 5 2. The five year old is in Kindergarten. The two year old stays at home with my wife at present. We have an idea about where we want to live and what schools we want our daughters to go to, but wed like to minimize the number of moves, if possible. The employer would like my wife to start in 3 weeks, if possible. The two year old has never been in daycare before. The five year old is very emotional ADHD combined-type and we worry about her adjusting.While we know that this move will NOT be easy, we are looking for plansideas on how we can make this as painless as possible on our family.Thanks for your help!  <response>: The good news is your 5 year old isnt going to fall behind at all by moving in the middle of the school year, shes in Kindergarten.Id talk to a real estate agent today about selling your house. The last thing you want is your home sitting empty for a long time while you are in another state. See if it can get on the market by the end of the week.Start looking online at Apartments.com or Realtor.com for apartments or housing. It sounds like you have 3 weeks to figure out a housing situation which should be enough time to do so.There isnt really much more to it. If you want to make the move easier for yourself, hire some movers. I plan on moving early next year and Im having a garage salelisting stuff for sale on Facebook. Id just like to sell everything that wouldnt be able to fit in my SUV. Moving is such a pain and I can live without lots of extras as I get settled in. It might be worth looking into. 