<prompt> Human: About two weeks ago I posted here regarding my financial relationship with my now ex-gf. Here is the previous postI did not break up with her, however one week after the big talk she broke it off with me. Unfortunately she lied about the reasons, saying we werent spending enough time with each other and making each other a priority even though I know I had made an attempt.I know this isnt rrelationships so I wont go any further down that hole. Basically take advice from my experience and treat finances just as important as any other aspect of your relationship. If you dont its going to cause disaster. While my heart is broken I know by the fact that she refused to change her habits and lied about the reason she wanted to break up that the relationship was not going to work. Thankfully I lived and learned here and because the ending was inevitable it happened at the best time it could.Thank you PF. I was very appreciative of your advice and thank you for warning me while not going into panic break up mode. You did well here and I know I wont be the only one asking this. Saying its a red flag is way better then hitting the panic button and warning someone to break up. You did NOT do that and I know that approach is beneficial to everyone. Thanks again!  <response>: Finance was a contributing factor to one of my break ups after 5yrs. I knew he had debt and when he got a raise I helped him stay on track to pay it off. 18k-ish. Then when he finally put 3k in the bank he lost his position for a lesser paying one and still thought it was a great idea to buy a 60k car brand new. Sorry about your situation, hope you find someone responsible. 