<prompt> Human: My parents surprised me with a new a car a couple weeks ago after I got back from a road trip I took with old friends. They sold my old car which was completely paid off and they paid for in full. I just graduated from college and do not have a full time job lined up and dont expect to have a well-paying job for some time.They are expecting me to pay 9600 for it over the course of four years and theyve been generous enough to pay off the first year. Ill technically be able to afford the car, coupled with rent and everything else, but especially for the next year, and maybe more, the 200 month will be a considerable dent in my quality of life and wallet. The car I had before worked well enough and wasnt a drain on my resources. If it was my choice, I would never purchased this new car for myself. They meant well. I think. Im just looking for another perspective here -- the fact that they threw 10,000 of debt at me without so much as a text is immensely frustrating, particularly in passing it off as a gift. Am I wrong to be upset? Especially considering they purchased my old car for me in full, Im on their insurance, and they are paying off a year of this one. I realize that those are serious privileges, but all the same I cant help but feel that theyve disrespected me by never asking my consent. Any advice would be welcome. Edit: A number of people have asked; the previous cars title was not in my name and as far as I know this cars isnt as well. My father had told me hed transfer the title on my past car. The agreement was that it was mine, though legally that was not the case. Current car is a 2010 Toyota RAV 4 with 80,000 miles. Sorry if my wording made it seem like it was brand new off the lot, past car was a 2002 Hyundai Elantra running fine, but that had had some issues over the winter new battery. I think it was at around 120k milesAssistant: Its a little of both, in my opinion.Yes, it was generous of them to buy you the old car, but yes, it was also inconsiderate of them to decide that youre 10K more in debt right out of school without consulting you.Human: I agree its both. Im luckier than most.  <response>: Regardless if you keep the car or not, I feel you should talk to them to clear the air up. You were obviously emotionally hurt bout this entire ordeal since your input was not considered, so you might want to talk to them and open up. After all, You dont want them pulling another one in the future maybe a house or a newer car?. 