<prompt> Human: Ive searched for helping my family out in the best way possible, but we are in such a mess right now. Everything is going by so fast.Ive searched the subreddit with site:reddit.comrpersonalfinance death college but only managed to get this thread about student loan forgivenessHe didnt even finish college yet, had a bank account, credit cards, and medical insurance. I dont think he had life insurance so we will probably be paying out of pocket for his funeral. We he was so young, rest in peace brother. Im going to try and pursue the student loan forgiveness since he went to a public university, but Im lost on what else I can do for my family. Ive always read posts here, but I never imagined myself posting here under these circumstances; could any of you guys help me out?  <response>: Sorry for your loss. My brother passed away earlier this year, and though he wasnt in college I feel like I have some recent relevant experience I hope you will find helpful.Dont panic. You might feel like you have to get everything done quickly, but most things can wait. If you find it a useful distraction go ahead and do it. Just keep things in perspective.Most importantly know that you and your family are not responsible for any bills or loans that your brother had. His assets, any banks accounts he had positive balances at, any life or accidental death insurance, will be used to pay his debts. Ifwhen that balance is depleted the creditors will simply be out of luck. Find an estate attorney. You are looking for someone who will handle everything from getting the account balances, to paying any estate fees. Just about any attorney will take the job. Look for someone who specializes in it. Comparison shop. Since your brother is insolvent owes more than he owns they will probably want to charge you hourly or fixed fee. Note that people will try to take advantage of you. You really only have two times to watch out for that because of your situation: 1 funeral expenses, and 2 estate attorney. Again, sorry for your loss. 