<prompt> Human: So I just need some general advice... I married young at 20. Yes wrong of me. We are divorced now due to abuse 10 month marriage. He is military, I had to pack up and leave everything behind. During our marriage I co signed two loans with him because him and the bank told me it would improve my credit First time having any at all and I could remove it easy.Shocker, it was a lie. Now my credit is about to be ruined before it even begins. Out of spite Due to what occurred in our marriage he refuses to remove me from the loans 28k for a car and 4.6k for a personal loan both 60 days past due. I thought if I worked hard and proved in our divorce he was responsible, I could get him to take over payments.SHOCKER, that was wrong as well. I dont make half of what he makes, yet I cannot get his command or the bank to do anything to get him to help with payments. He is not answering anyone, and apparently that means he can get away free of paying anything. I dont particularly care about my credit at this point Its done for anyways.., because I refuse And frankly cant put any money into those loan. I have my own car 255 with insurance 100 and a credit card debt he racked up in my name 1.6k with a 700 a month job along with phone 75 and luckily no crazy rent at this time 50. I am looking to allow them to repossess the car to see what it drops down to. But if not, I am looking at 36k debt from a 9 month marriage. I have no rights as a co signer YES I know I legally am responsible but I feel I should have been informed of the full picture when they asked so casually to add me, he didnt need me to get the loan I had no job at the time. I just got my life back together with my current job, but now I am going to go to school full time. And well, Id just like to know if its worth filing for bankruptcy so young 22. I dont know if they will take my car I can put it in a family members name if I must or if I still have to pay everything. Another option could be to go back to court to get the judge to force him to sign a paper? I dont believe this will work if he just doesnt do it, which is why Im considering bankruptcy. Last and least likely option is to pay it all and hope to sue him for reimbursement, which again I have heard of not working at all because they just dont pay... I would like to know from personal experience if possible what these choices have affected, just please anything to help me make a decision.Im just exhausted and tired of fighting my abusive bum of an ex husband. I thought I did everything right by getting out of the marriage before it got worse and filing for divorce to clearly state everything. So please hold back the hits to my life choices, I am well aware of this point. I would appreciate any advice regarding this, if it matters this has to be handled in Kansas. Edit Adding more information and clarify - Yes we are divorced now, in the decree he was deemed responsible for all these loans he is just not paying nor removing me. He is Air Force since I know many are referring to Army. I believe he has just stopped responding because he is already facing court for unrelated reasons in the military. Which I suspect he is not paying because he might apply for bankruptcy only reason I can think he would screw himself over as well because he may be kicked out. Im sorry I make 900 to 1200 a month it varies on my hours I can pick up. I apologize for the emotional rant I know more information is necessary, I was at my wits end when I posted this. Thank you everyone so far for the responses, I am trying everything suggested before I consider the worst.tldr - Stuck with debt still in my name after Divorce. Trying to pick option that will least screw me over.  <response>: This happens a lot in the Military or life in general but you did the right thing and hopefully you got out before you had kids with the bum.Anyhow, assuming Kansas I am thinking Fort Riley and the people you want to get in touch with is JAG or the legal office: If the Commander or 1SG officer and enlisted heads of his company wont do anything then you want to get the Battalion Chaplain as an intermediary but honestly it seems like you are not speaking to the right people, it has to be them and not an NCO underneath them.Now if his company command is blowing you off, contact his Battalion commander or Battalion XO directly and tell them that his company is not providing help, shit will roll down hill fast! No company commander wants to be in front of the Battalion commander having to explain why they would not help a spouse, its part of why they are in charge.Hint: just dont call and start making up crazy facts, the military likes to deal with the bottom line first. You wont be the first spouse needing help, believe me, this is a way of life in the military.So I would proceed like this: Call Company commander and ask them for help, say you are soldier such and suchs spouse and need his help with ...actual things he can resolve and what specifically you want resolved if you have copies of said paperwork ask him if he would like a copy of said problems. CO will advise 1SG, 1SG will get him and his Platoon Sergeant in his office to explain whats going on and this is where your ex will back pedal and make shit up to protect his ass. 1SG will tell him he needs to make this problem go away and what he needs to do to satisfy your request. If you call and commander blows you off, ask him politely for the name of his Battalion Commander and office number, believe me it will be taken care off. Also ask commander when is a good time to call back for a follow up.They get enough calls from pissed off crazy spouses so speaking to one thats sensible and has her facts in order will be refreshing. Good luck and just be careful also because he can become abusive again once he realizes you got him in trouble with the command, gauge his level and watch your back, dont be afraid to get the cops involved it he gets abusive again. 