<prompt> Human: Hi thereIve bought a brand new apartment on the new build estate in my local town. I bought it through the Help To Buy HTB scheme. Breakdown as follows:110 000 purchase price82 000 mortgage22 500 HTB5 500 cash depositBetween the deposit and furnishings 3000 and upgrades such as better carpets, spotlights, ceramic hob and integrated fittings 2500 Ive put everything Ive got into my first home. All my savings etc. Move in day was Thursday. Found out that in the apartment block of six apartments one has been bought by my exs family, with whom I had a traumatic break up with which left me in a bad place for quite a while. Obviously I dont and cant be living in the same building as the next chapter of my life cannot start with reminders of the old some 30 feet away from me. I have been able to return 2000 of the furniture to various retailers and will keep the remainder at my family home. My query to PF is: I have been told my the sales manager of the building company that I cant sell the flat for more than 110 000, even though there is considerable demand for these apartments in the area and there is only one more block of six being completed in October this year.Am I able to involve an estate agent and have it valued separately to consider both the cost of upgrades and the supplydemand that exists?Do you have any other advice for me? This is really the most unbelievable set of circumstances and the odds of which must be really something quite ridiculous. Heartbroken and devastated as it has taken me several years of saving to get to Thursday and its been swept from under me. Thank you so much in advance. Assistant: Honestly you need to learn to live with it at least for a couple of years until its feasible for you to sell. Just avoid them. If you run into them in the hallways dont engage with them. Spend your time with friends and family and enjoy yourself. I get that it would probably reopen wounds if you saw your ex again but thats life. Sometimes despite our best efforts we find ourselves in uncomfortable situations. Dont do anything rash right now. Enjoy your new home and if you still feel this way in a couple years, think about selling.Human: Thank you for your reply. Its not only myself but my partner who will be living there that has to go through it. Understandably so she no longer wants to be there either.  <response>: I hate to say it so bluntly, but youre just going to have to suck it up and live with it for a while. Unless theyre doing things to spite you or make your life miserable, them being alive isnt a reason to sell your brand new apartment.Tough love says be an adult and deal with it. Be cordial to your neighbors, and get on with your own life. 