<prompt> Human: Generally, when it comes to big decisions, my wife and I research, talk, research, sleep, etc... and then finally make a decision when we feel we know all the facts and can conclusively agree we are making the right decision. With the Fire, now we have to make alot of big decisions quickly. She needs a car. We have to replace our stuff. We have to find another rental for the mean time... I always get intelligent information lurking on reddit, but thought Id post and allow the excellent community to weigh in. I have seen users offer donations and such after tragedies, and I want to be clear I am not seeking those. I genuinely appreciate all the responses, but am not publishing our story looking for aid in that way. We have a wonderful community around us, and we have not had a single need go unmet. I know inherently people are good, and I would love more of the intelligent responses found all through this sub. Thank you very much for your time, Edit: thanks so much for all the generous responses! I appreciate them all!  <response>: The first renter in reddit history with renters insurance. clapIf youre not living with friends I would suggest living at least a week or two in a suite style hotel. Heck even if you are I would recommend this for at least a few days. You will have enough space, a lot of needs will be taken care of for you. Dont rush right back in and feel you need to find a new place and fill it tomorrow. You can get by fine with a few changes of clothes, some toiletries, and food. which you can cook in your hotel roomThink of this as an opportunity to only buy what you really need in your life.Losing all your stuff to a fire is more traumatic than many people realize, and it may take you some time to really get back to a place where you are ready to find a new home. 