<prompt> Human: He lives 2 hours away from me. I really need this money back to pay for a car, and I dont know what to do. My plan of action is to go over there and get my money back, or at least something. Im desperate guys, I lost 350 dollars and I dont know what to do anymore.I know, this was so stupid of me. I shouldve freaking researched this before I did anything. Now I fucked up. I needed the money so much though. My mom is depending on me every month. I was thinking of pressuring him, but I dont think thatll work. What do you guys suggest?Some updates. He messaged me back, saying my chargeback was a mistake, as he filed for fraud, but did not intend to take my money. He says he will try to get my money to me as soon as possible. Should I believe him?I have the guys phone number, name, address, and everything.I also have emails and messages of him wanting to trade with me and me confirming it.EDIT: I should mention that he won my ebay auction, then paid online, and then I gave it to him in person. No shipping or tracking info. Not sure if this was clear.Assistant: He messaged me back, saying my chargeback was a mistake, as he filed for fraud, but did not intend to take my money. He says he will try to get my money to me as soon as possible. Should I believe him?How does that make any sense? Why would he be filing a fraud claim against you if wasnt trying to rip you off? You should not believe him. Hopefully, you have that bit about fraud in written form too?Tell him youre going to the police if you dont have the money in 24 hours, and actually do it when he fails to come through. Id guess you have a 5050 chance of them getting involved. If they dont, then file a small claims lawsuit immediately.Human: He said the earliest hes coming back ins Janurary 13th. Hes in Vacation in texas right now. And yes, he sent me that message via a text message.  <response>: Then just go to the police now. Hes dicking you around. And honestly, you should start contingency planning, as theres very little chance youll be seeing the money back anytime soon, if at all. 