<prompt> Human: My wife and I are both professionals with professional school debt and a mortgage on our home. We have a perfect four month old daughter who is scheduled to start daycare in a couple weeks.I make right around 100kyear. My wife makes about 65kyear. We both have amazing retirement benefits.Shes madly in love with our daughter and has made it very clear she doesnt want to go back to work. Its very sweet, but Im worried it is a bad financial decision. Ive crunched the numbers and we could do it. Itd be really tight, and wed have to give our Roths and other savings considerably less until our school debt is paid, but it could be done.But to be honest, I dont think I want to take the life style hit. I want to take our family to Disney World, put my girl in private piano lessons, and maybe even save for private college. And I dont think my wife realizes the sacrifices we would have to make to get by on one salary. Any advice about this Reddit? How should I be approaching this? How should we make this decision? Thanks for any help!EDIT:Can I edit a locked post? Thanks all for the help. This is a tough call, I love and respect my wife and my child, and theres a lot to go in to it. To all the trolls saying, poor baby, you make a lot of money. I get it. Im very lucky to have these sorts of problems. This is a tough decision and Im taking it seriously.  <response>: Is there any way she can strike up a deal with her employer and do half time or telework? If she worked and maintained her position part time, she would be able to bond with your baby and still be able to maintain her career. Theres also the bonus of your kid having that outside experience. 