<prompt> Human: Long story short my parents have told me that I have 2 months to move out of their house as a act of tough love I told them i wanted more time to pay off student loans but theyre only giving me 2 months . However they have recommended that I not move in with my girlfriendof 3 years and her dad because they said its not good to be living together when youre not married. However yesterday after talking with my gf about everything, her dad called me up and offered me to stay at their house and NOT HAVE TO PAY ANY RENT until I payed off student loans. They live in a medium sized 4 bed 2.5 bath house and have 2 empty rooms avaliable its just her and her dad. So time to throw out number about me.Monthly income: 3400Bills : roughly 800 a month Student loans: 26000 leftPayback rate: 2000 a month Emergency fund: 10000So I have 2 options I could do what my parents wanted and pay rent in an apartment 600-1200 a month plus bills and barely have any money to pay student loans back. Or Live with Gf and dad they consider me family pay NO RENT Ive offered to clean and help out plus regular bills, and manage 2000 a month towards student loans and still save. Should I go against my parents? Or respect their request? I know it seems obvious but I just want a second opinionAssistant: its not good to be living together when youre not married Their social taboos are antiquated. I would suggest that all couples live together before they get married. You never know if you really love someone until youve seen how they load the dishwasher or fold laundry and then survived the fight about the right way to do it. I lived with my gf a year and half before we got married. We went through all the wait for the hard times after the marriage stuff, and by the time we actually got married it was just a really nice party, pile of gifts, and a vacation. Human: Yes, but they should live on their own. Not just together in the one of the parents house. Assistant: After I pay off loans Id like to rent or make a down payment on a small house  <response>: Dont listen to the bozo above. Live with your girlfriend and her father. He is doing you a solid - there is nothing wrong with that. Hell, it seems he has love for you and of course your GF does. This is a no-brainer. 