<prompt> Human: Hey reddit. So as you probably figured out from the title, I am recently divorced. For quite a while, I have planned to live in Panama for a few years after I turned 30. I love Panama city and have made all the arrangements to run a small vet clinic in order to give help out with the growing stray animal issues there. I wont be making any money, and will be losing a decent amount on the trip. But I knew that and had planned for it. I got married way too young when we were both immature, and it just wasnt a good fit. So we ended up getting divorced, and Im stuck paying 35k a month in spousal support. Which seems absolutely absurd to me that the judge awarded her that much, and Im still trying to get it lowered. I have spent years planning this clinic in Panama, put tons of time and money into it and am all ready to go. The problem is that I feel like Im stuck where Im at and cant make this life change because I can barely afford to pay my ex every month. I have a lawyer and Im trying to get the payments lowered, but I cant put off this trip any longer. I would love some advice on how I can still go to Panama and run this clinic without getting bankrupted by spousal support. Im worried Im doomed to a life I dont want because I have to earn enough to pay my ex.  <response>: If youre actually a millionaire, what are you doing asking for advice here? Youll get better advice from your lawyer. 