<prompt> Human: I was thinking about this last night. I have a girlfriend and we know that at some point in the next 2-3 years or more well probably get married. But then I thought, how do I pay for that?Theoretically, my GF and I will have a combined annual income of lets say 70-80k. We are paying around 800 a piece in student loans per month, plus other billsrent. No savings really - right now - and its unlikely our families will be able to contribute thousands of dollars.Im just curious if Im stressing over nothing, or if realistically I should start saving.EDIT: Wow, I didnt expect this to get the response it has! Thanks for all the advice so far! Keep it coming!!!EDIT2: WOW! Someone gave me gold!? That is SO cool!! Thank you!!  <response>: Why do people pay for fancy expensive cars, or huge vacations, or expensive dinners? Some will say its worth it others say its not. I think you Should talk to your gf what she wants in a wedding. Figure out what you want in a wedding. Personally, if I ever get married I will pay so that my friends and family can all come together and celebrate. Itll be a big party where people can see those they havent seen in awhile. 