<prompt> Human: Married since June, but now my wife wants to combine our bank accounts into one, and I dont know how to handle it. Im EXTREMELY meticulous with tracking my paychecks. I have a spreadsheet that can tell you how much I paid toward what bill dating back to like 2012. I log all of my incoming and outgoing expenses in an app on my phone pretty much instantaneously. I dont know what it would be like having everything between the two of us coming from one pot. Dont get me wrong, Im ok with it, I just am not sure how to adjust given my past tracking habits. Im so used to bi-weekly paychecks and planning accordingly, but now it would be every week because of our schedules but also for every expense we share. And then I think about the small things like buying coffee, gas, etc.Its a little OCD, I know. Has anyone encountered this? Can you offer any advice on how to adjust?  <response>: For personal expenditures like drinks or things at the store that are for her or me only, we use a personal allowance we call blow money, that we spend on whatever we want. We get out an amount in cash each month, and then spend the cash. You have 1 predetermined withdrawal amount, and you dont have to bother her about tracking the 1.50 pack of gum 