<prompt> Human: Hi guys,I apologise if this isnt the best place to post this but it seemed like a good place to start.I work as a software engineer and Im about to be promoted. I havent had negotiations with my manager but they will soon be coming. Ive also just found out that my wife is 8 weeks pregnant. Im looking for advice on how to approach my employers in regards to my incoming promotion and raise. Should I inform them my wife is pregnant now before any negotiations or is it possible that this could hurt the raise that I receive? Any suggestions would be appreciated  <response>: What does your wife being pregnant have to do with anything? 