<prompt> Human: My wife and I have had bad bad compatibility issues since weve been married. Ive posted a lot on here about my marriage and Ive finally decided to make the right decision after our last outburst today where she got physical with me again. When we met I was working at tmobile and even though I didnt like the job for my age and me barely doing anything I was making about 40,000 a year which helped me sustain a pretty comfortable life. Since I met my wife she knew I complained so much about the job and shes in the military so I was able to quit and not work and focus on getting my A and Network certifications. Right now as Im still continuing school Im working at Toys R Us in the back and making minimum wage which is much less than what I was making before. Ive accumulated credit cards, cell phone bills, and other bills since tmobile. I stay at my parents now luckily and they arent worried about kicking me out or anything so I have good support right now.My question is how can I get my life back comfortable after this divorce? Has anyone else been through a divorce and ended up unstable and got back stable again? Tl;dr wife and I are getting a divorce. I quit my job at tmobile making about 40,000 a year to focus on school while we were married since shes in the military to now minimum wage which is hardly enough to pay the bills Ive accumulated. Im at my parents house so I have some support and Im about to get my A and Network certifications. How can I get back stable again? Thank you for any help! Assistant: Get. A. Lawyer. Now. Beg, borrow, steal. Get the best lawyer you can. Human: Were doing a simple dissolution of marriage do you believe a lawyer is necessary?Assistant: Yes have a lawyer on retainer advise you and do not disclose this to her. You do not go through fam court without a lawyer looking over anything you sign. Ask me how I know this :Human: How do you know this? Since shes in the military think Ill be able to use a military lawyer?  <response>: Military lawyers are a joke. Just spend the money on a real one. 