<prompt> Human: I am 23. I low balled my firstoffice job after college just to get out of working a low paying security job and gain experience. I started at 13.25 and was quickly given a dollar raise 3 months in. Ive learned a lot and feel as if I can be an asset to the company. I do medical billing for 2 entities. One is a commercial insurance counseling center 5 miles from my housewhere I work now. The other is a intensive outpatient facility, 45 miles away in Paterson, NJnot a pleasant place. Since the Paterson office is a mess they want to focus more time there. I applied to the job because it was a 15 minute commute. I lowballed because I had no experience and now I feel as if I can make them some serious money if I implemented my ideas. Usually they train someone for my position and they last around a year. They expected a years commitment from me and was routinely told by my supervisor I could go anywhere and make about 40k a year afterwords. What kind of offer should I put on the table to drive 40 miles, pay 3 in tolls and sit in an hour and 45 minutes of traffic? Should I bring up these points? How do I negotiate without ruining what I haveI really like who I work with, shell be going up with me but is the one asking me to relocate. Edit. Forgot to mention that Ill have to pay for parking which is usually around 10-15 when I am there.  <response>: 20 in daily tolls and parking for a 2 hour commute. This is a huge percentage of your pay and your time. It would take a lot to put up with this. 