<prompt> Human: First of all, I have no way to prove that hes doing this. My father in law and I got into an argument this past weekend about my husband and I moving, and he brought up some specific money issues that there was no way he should have known about. Think 700 disappearing from the account. It was my tuition but he was pointing at that like I was being irresponsible with money, or whatever.My question is for anyone out there that works at a bank- is there a way to star our account so that they know to verify the birthday of anyone trying to access the account?Edit : All right, Guys. Thanks for all of your help. Since this is the only bank in town that has free checking and is also convenient to where we live now, and to where were moving, Im going to attempt to resolve this with them. Im planning on setting up a short meeting with the branch manager and explaining my issues. If I get any odd feelings from our meeting like she seems unwilling to take our issues seriously which might be a problem because EVERYONE knows my Father-In-Law then we will try to find somewhere else that can meet our needs, which might end up with us paying for checking, but I qualify for free student accounts at some banks, so well see whenif we get there. Thank you guys so much. : Edit : Im a Massage Therapist, and a good deal of my business is cash. I could still keep a personal account for cash, and then the joint account with my husband, I suppose. I do make a lot of cash deposit, so BM Locations make more sense to me.Assistant: Illegal actions of the dad aside, its illegal for the bank to let him into your account. Not just unprofessional. If the bank clerks knowingly let your dad peek, they are breaking the law. If they arent being careful about the jr, they are also breaching the confidentiality you are entitled to. They need to take your security concerns seriously. Id let the bank know how serious this is. As for the online aspect, make up a fake first pet, first car, favorite elementary teacher, etc, that no one knows about but you. Keep it written in a secure location so no one forgets.Human: I dont think the breech was an online one. The security questions are case sensitive, and we write the answers in odd cases. Im leaning towards it was most likely an in-person issue. Im going to see about talking with a branch manager here and make sure we can get the account locked down tighter. Though my FIL probably knows the branch manager too. Seriously, small towns suck.  <response>: As someone else has pointed out, you should report the bank to the feds. 