<prompt> Human: This is an odd situation that Im not sure how to handle correctly.My mother is sometimes taking 500 from my savings account. This happens every couple of weeks, and when I catch her doing it she pays it back and apologizes. Our whole family has our bank accounts linked to our mothers and we have all had similar experiences. However, she often helps out financially when need be this stirs up my confusion.After I left for college, my mother started to do very well for herself. She makes what I think would be a lot of money, but probably spends relentlessly. They have a new house, got a new car, and other fun liabilities. The bills must be adding up too much, but we dont know because she doesnt tell us.When this happens she often pulls the You should feel good for helping me case and is overall extremely defensive over it. Its very annoying, and because of the circumstances I dont know if I should just leave it alone or open an account of my own.I dont know too much about finances, and any approach would be a good conversation to start with my mother.  <response>: Time to close your bank account and move it into one that your mother cant access. 