<prompt> Human: I have been happy married for over 5 years. My wife decided that she wanted to go back to school to become a veterinary, I support this 100. She has been in school for 2 years now prerequisites and has another 4 to go. I make over 150k year and she is a full-time student. The school thinks that we can pay for everything out of pocket. She lives in another state than I do, which increases out cost of living. We live apart because she wants to go to the school of her dreams and I have to be where I am to bring in the money. There is no way I that I can pay for everything. I honestly dont know what to do at this point. The only thing I can think of is getting a divorce so my income does not show up as hers.  <response>: At 150k a year, youd be able to afford it with lifestyle changes. If its something you want to do for her, you would make those changes and cut down your expenses rather than seeing divorce as an option. I earn 30k a year and life perfectly fine, you cant tell me you dont have a lavish lifestyle. Cut luxury out for a while and it will all fall in place. If its really something you want to do for her that is. 