<prompt> Human: Im 29, married for 2.5 years and have a 1.5 year old son with my wife.I left my job back in August of 2013, and we moved into my wifes parents house at that time temporarily. We have been here over a year now.I finally got a new job this month, and am about to receive my second pay check paid bi-weekly. This job is a contractconsultant job for 2 months, but it is likely I will become full-time after this contract time is up, due to the rapid growth of this company.Here are the vitals: Monthly Car Payment is 367 2010 Camry Car Insurance is 90month Rent is 500month Cell Phone is 150month for my wife and I I take home about 700week at this new job.We only have one car, APR is like 16 - but it is a dependable car with decent gas mileage, and safe for our son.My FICO is like 570, my wifes is much lower.Right now we are a few months behind on the car payment, but Capital One is working with us and with the new job we will be caught up in 6 weeks time.My wife cannot work right now because: We have no second car for her to get to work We have nobody to watch our son while she would be at work. She has very little job qualifications.In a nutshell, this new job is giving us an opportunity to get caught up on our bills within the next 6 weeks.We do not eat out, go to the movies, etc. I am gone all day every day, have the weekends off though. Traffic to and from work eats up about 3 hours out of my day, and 15 worth of gas each day.Here is the largest problem. We have overstayed our welcome here at my in-laws. They will tell us all day we are welcome here but the signs are there that we need to be out. We were only suppose to be here for 3 months, and it has turned into 14 months.Currently, my wife and I are living out of a little tiny room at the front of the house, and our son gets his own little room at the back of the house, which we are grateful for, but we need to move out.We live in the San Diego area, so rent in a decent neighborhood will be 1200 month just for an Apartment. Right now we are just trying to keep our head above water to get caught up, so thinking about moving out on our own again seems so far away.While I was unemployed, I made ends meet by working as many side jobs as I could, burrowing money from my parents who have been very generous, etc. We just barely scraped by over these months.A little background: I originally left my 50kyear salary job in August 2013 to join the Military, but I never earned a contract so we got stuck here. Since I left the job on my own accord, I was ineligible for unemployment.Its been extremely stressful and it is still is, but our marriage is stronger for it - but we desperately need to get out on our own if possible. We had a nice 2 bedroom apartment that we gave up when I left my job.For what it is worth, I will be giving it another go to attempt this job in the military, but it is a special job in the Navy that you need to contract for as a civilian in order to get a ship date to boot camp. This job is based out of Coronado CA so it is close to home - so if we can move out to a place in the San Diego area, we wont have to move again for awhile.Extremely frustrated and disappointed to have put my new family in this position.Please advise  <response>: I know you said that this contract job will turn into full time, but please dont make any huge decisions until you have a guarantee, getting your feet back under you in the first 6 weeks, then falling back on your face a month later because things didnt work out the way they were supposed to would be worse than inconveniencing your family for a couple more months. In the mean time try for that military contract job and work to pay off those bills. 