<prompt> Human: I was looking through the financial statements from my Social Security income account I just got the account in my name now that Ive turned 18, and I can see various transactions of ATM withdrawals of ranging from 100-1600, at different locations in my city at random intervals, and the accountcard has always been in his control the account has 5 figures. The problem is, I dont know what to do! This is my college money thats probably been spent for his needs the past year... Probably explains where hes getting the money to pay for the new house were living in. But I dont want to ruin our relationship as my father. Im also very bad with confronting problems with people. I know I have to do something, but Im completely clueless as to what to do... Do I sue him? Do I move out? pls help reddit  <response>: Are these social security survivors benefits? If so, theyre meant for your dad to take care of you - hes authorized to withdraw money to pay for your expenses. 