<prompt> Human: Hey everyone, hoping to get some kind of help here.So as of November I bought a home for my wife and 3 kids in Texas. Now however my wife has decided to go to Tennessee and live with her family. She has given me full discretion to rent or sell the house however that is kinda where my problem is...we dont have enough equity in the house that I can sell without being in debt... I purchased the house for 0 down using my VA loan and so there is next to no equity in the house. I am ok with taking the loss and paying what I owe but I dont know how I can even do this. I just need to get out from under this so I can move back closer to my kids and Im hoping someone hear knows this process and what I need to do.Bought the house 162500House Value 165000  <response>: How is she just able to take the kids a 16 hr drive away without your consent? Custody and domicile of the kids should be figured out ASAP and maybe you wont have to move at all. 