<prompt> Human: Im only posting this because I have no idea where else to go or begin. Im not the type of person that likes to beg for money. I work hard, and do my best to provide for myself and my family.With that being said, Im starting to drown. Recently I learned that Im going to become a father. I had a chance at fatherhood when I was 17 young and dumb but sadly, my now ex girlfriend went behind my back and got an abortion. This is where my life turned. Prior to the abortion I dropped out of school, got my ged, and found a job to provide for my future child. Long story short, fast forward 8 years and here I am. I have a new girlfriend of 5 years. We bought a house and began a family. I had a good job, a wonderful family and a plan for our future. Recently, that good job, decided to make some changes. I had to act fast a find something else. In the process of it I ended up in debt and no signs of relief. Im expecting a kid now in August. Im so far behind financially and dont know where else to turn. I dont have the ability to ask my parents for help now either because just a short couple weeks ago we found out my mother is sick. Tomorrow she goes into get a biopsy on a mass doctors found on her left lung. Im heartbroken. My mother is my best friend and my go to for advice. Im only 24 just a couple weeks from being 25, going to be a dad in a few months and potentially lose my mother from this tumor on her lung.Reddit, I dont know what to do or where to turn too. Im so far behind on bills and money, negative in my bank account and have no secure future right now. What can I do? Who can I ask for help? Where do I turn to? I keep sinking lower and lower and have no sign of dry land. Help me figure it out :  <response>: Post a budget and we can see what you can change.A budget should have all of your income and your girlfriends if you share expenses, all expenses, all of your debt with the total amount owed on each, the interest rates, and the minimum payment.Once you post that we can help you with advice. 