<prompt> Human: Looking for some advice!I am a 29 year old woman who just got engaged. I work full time and make about 35k a year, and my fiance is about the same. Monthly I bring in about 1800. I have four credit cards with about 22k in balances. Im paying around 750 a month on debt, 437 in rent, a 317 car payment, and about 250 on bills. I am not able to save hardly anything.We are starting the process of planning a wedding with a date in the fall of next year. I currently have 3000 in savings, and am getting about 5000 from my parents for the wedding. I am also getting a stipend in the spring of about 5000 that I plan to use for the wedding. My fiance doesnt have a credit card, and Im considering asking him to open one to help with wedding expenses. Yes, I know that a wedding is unnecessary but its something we both want. I am not sure exactly what kind of advice Im looking for, I just wanted to put it all out there because its been stressing me out. I hate the amount of debt I have, I dont want to go further into debt to get married, and I just feel overwhelmed. Any words of advice or encouragement would be greatly appreciated!  <response>: You have 22k in high interest credit card debt.Chuck your savings your parents gift of cash directly on this debt.Sell the car.Go get married at City Hall on a wednesday afternoon. 