<prompt> Human: I have a sibling who is a financial disaster. She has been for over a decade. Im pretty sure she learned it from the parents. The details arent important, its just the typical story where there is always something, she is always the victim, and the world seems out to get her.I love her and want to help. Financially Ive tried to provide a little help here and there before but thats like throwing bricks into the Grand Canyon. Advice is met with defensively. I try to provide sympathy, however I suppose Im not that good at it. How have others managed, or hopefully successfully assisted, a close family member who is always a financial victim?  <response>: Be emotionally supportive which sadly doesnt always mean giving advice if they dont want it but not financially so. Eventually shell learn and have to dig her way out but you cant learn this for her. 