<prompt> Human: Hi all, I really need some help figuring out what to do about my finances and future. Just a little backstory: I was in an abusive relationship with a drug addict for some years, that literally took everything from every savings account I had and also from my physical and mental health, but thats not the point, but now I m single and trying to rebuild my life.I own a 2015 Chevrolet Onix good car, cheap mantainence and a small two bedrooms apartment.We bought the apartment 3 years ago when it was in construction, but they delivered it just last year. Everything was fine for a couple of months, untill my boyfriend found out where to buy drugs here, and spiralied down to addiction again. So I spent money I did not have in medical treatment, medications, everything I could to make him stop, but it was useless. He started to steal things like my iPad and my moms phone to buy more drugs, when I decided enough is enough.Anyway, he was my boyfriend thank God we did not marry, but we broke up last december. I do not want to pay him anything, because he really needs all the help he can get. But now Im all by myself, and I can not afford the life we had planned.Im 30 yo and live in São Paulo Brazil. Edit: All figures are in BLR, Im really sorry I didnt say before.I make around 90k a year 7500.00 mo, and my expenses are:Car ...------Monthly Payment 1100.00Gas 500.00Taxes we must pay every year in this damn country, but thats the last parcel 400.00Home ...Mortgage 1600.00Energy Water Condo 500.00Cable and Internet 350.00Groceries 500.00Netflix and Spotify 50.00Others ...Credit Card this is a snowball, my biggest problem. Every month, before my paycheck, Im out of money to even go to work and eat, so I have to use my CC to basically live 2000.00Total7000.00So basically Im living just to pay my bills. The problem is, I still havent bought anything for me this year. Not even clothes that I desperately need, I hardly go out anymore with my friends, I cant pay a gym membership, I cant do anything.What are my options, reddit?Im thinking about selling my apartment and my car. I would go back to my moms for a couple of months until I can rent another place, cheaper, closer to the center with trains and subway, so I will not need a car. Im looking for a better job there, anyway.But that would mean I will loose everything I own right now.What can I do? Thanks in advance.Assistant: Sell the apartment. Sell the car. Start over. Itll be like a fresh start for you. Human: Thanks a lot. Thats exactly what I need to do.  <response>: Could you rent out the apartment while you live with your mom? Thats going to be much better for you financially in the long run. Think of it this way, rent out the apartment now and thats a second source of income for you to save up while you live with your mom. Then depending on how long you save, you could potentially buy a new smaller apartment to live in once youre back on your feet. At that point the original apartment will be a good investment. My point is its always a good idea to hold onto real estate when you can, especially in a major cities where property is so valuable. 