<prompt> Human: My SO and I both work and share responsibility for supporting our family, but I manage all our bills and financial accounts. We used to share this task, but Im too finicky about it and it led to too many fights. Also, I enjoy it and SO does not, so years ago I started handling everything myself.We both worry about how he would manage if something happened to me. Our finances are fairly complicated we both have W-2 jobs AND 1099 income, plus I have a couple rental properties. He wants me to create a master list of all our accounts and passwords. Im scared to do that for security reasons. Im also scared to use one of those password sites like 1Password.What Im thinking right now is Ill make a list of all the account NUMBERS, but not the passwords. The list will also include info about how and when the bill is paid, such as paid monthly on the 1st automatically from our checking account or paper bill arrives once a year in October. That way he could track down the info about the account if he needed to, but somebody who found that list could not instantly get into all our accounts.Thoughts? Is there a better way to do this?  <response>: He wants me to create a master list of all our accounts and passwords. Im scared to do that for security reasons. Im also scared to use one of those password sites like 1Password.Dave Ramsey talks about the legacy drawer. If you died, your SO would have a bear of a time trying to pay the bills, so make some way for them to get into the accounts and know what bills youre family is responsible for. 