<prompt> Human: A little background here. So my gf 24 had to move to take care of her fathers businesses she is one of three siblings, and the only one which is willing and capable of developing them. these businesses are also on a different city where the rest of the family lives. I couldnt let her not take this opportunity and so I moved with her after we finished our masters and am now working in one of her dads businesses. Another thing that s important here is that her Father is dead set on leaving the most he can to his direct family his kids. So, 6 months ago, he finds a cheap small piece of land and decides to buy and build a house for my gf to live in. So she with my input basically make our dream house we are simple so it wasnt super expensive, and therefore are willing to build our life in that house we are starting to talk about kids. So after a lot of thinking I talk to my gf and discussed if she was willing to buy the house with me from her dad monthly payments type of deal so the house will be ours. She agrees and goes to talk to her dad that flat out refuses. Says he is building everything for HIS children and wants to leave a legacy for his own and that the house will be of the 3 siblings. Now, I understand his side, he only sees me as his daughter s bf even though we are together 5 years and live together for 2, and we don t have the best of relationships as well. Should I stay in the house and suck it up, save money for other projects and ventures, or should I tell my gf that I don t think we should make long term plans with that house in mind and start planning to go somewhere else?  <response>: If you want this house, marry her. If you want a house, but one from a bank. 