<prompt> Human: I got a dream job after spending much of my 20s doing crap jobs. Now Im at entry 6 figures with salescommissions. Now I feel a lot of anxiety about saving, taxes, and spending. I got extreme frugal. I get nervous if I have to even make even one purchase for luxury. Before I would spend 99 of my money and enjoy life, not worry about anything. Now I am obsessed with it, I just wait for the 15th every month and how I will invest the money and put it away. It has made me very cheap and greedy. Maybe a part of me is worried it could all go away overnight. It has just made things more complicated and I am not focusing on my job, when I first did it the reason I got so good was because the job was my only focus, that was my obsession. Now money is my obsession. Has anyone experienced this feeling? My GF thought wed be living way better now but after half a year we are living less quality than when I had a crap job. I am grateful to have success I know it is a problem many would like to have, but it isnt how I thought it would feel to have a lot of extra income.  <response>: Did you grow up with little? I did and had this same problem. My first career job I made 24700 and lived comfortably. I got a raise to 33500 and felt rich. My lifestyle didnt change. My savings account did.When I got up into 6 figures it was worse. I had to control every cent. Just curious, do you have an anxiety disorder? I dodid. Through therapy I learned how to be less that way, but it was hard.A budget helps. I cant give you the answer but you arent alone. 