<prompt> Human: This whole situation happened a few months ago, but will inevitably happen again. Looking for advice on how to help my mom out to avoid this later. Im getting this from my mom who was devastated about this. Im also living with my mom, im still in high school.TLDR: My transgender sister moved out of state for college and relies heavily on my mom to support her and has gone overboard stealing her credit card.My sister moved to a big city for college out of state and refuses to work to sustain her lifestyle which includes going out to clubs, eating restaurants, and using uberlyft to get places. She only has one job, which is just above minimum wage and she is unwilling to spend less or get a second job. Recently she took my moms credit card and spent upwards of 5k on uber rides over 6 months. She has no reason to spend money on uber rides when public transport is perfectly fine in the city she lives in. My mom found out about this when she got a security alert about the spending and almost filed a police report about fraudulent activity. My mom is fairly affluent so the spending didnt put us in a bad situation but my mom has never been good with money. Usually I try and handle it for her when I can but I cant be there all the time, I am almost done with high school. She is very generous with her money and cant say no to my sister. What are some non-legal options to go for here? Thanks in advance for any advice.Assistant: Sounds like your mom needs to be more strict with providing money. If shes not willing to cancel cards and stop the flow of money nothing is going to really change. When you stop enabling someone to do things they tend to change their behavior.Human: Ive told my mom to cut off all ties financially but she says that she cant do that to her child  <response>: She doesnt have to cut ties but she can force the child to budget by saying she will only provide a certain amount of money per month and once that amount is gone there is no more until next month. 