<prompt> Human: I know about DeBeers having a ridiculous monopoly on diamonds, so the prices are crazy inflated to make them seem desirable and whatnot; the person receiving the ring does NOT care if a ring is bought second hand, as experiences are more important than material things to her WIN but is it worth it to go to to like a pawn shop? Are they just going to rip someone off more than buying one at full retail price at an engagment ring store would? Any Advice experiences you have on the subject would be a great help!  <response>: If she doesnt care if its 2nd hand, does she care if it has a diamond at all? A simple gold wedding band can be bought for 200. Youll be much better off financially if you scrap an expensive ring and wedding and instead use that money for a house downpayment. 