<prompt> Human: Im not sure if this is the correct place to post this, so if its not please excuse this and delete this post.Im 25 years old, not in the best financial state paying off student loansloans. Ive always had a big interest in the IT field for as long as I can remember. As a kid I would take apart my toys and put them back together. When I had my first interaction with a computer, I fell in love. Fast forward to 2011 and Ive come in contact with this gentleman who was interested in my music and we became friends. Meanwhile this entire time from when I first starting working 15 yrs old Ive the regular run of the mill jobs. I had some pretty awful jobs working in warehouses in 101 degree Texas heat. I began to confide in this person and would share some of my struggles and what not and he would give me advice. One day I told him I was really feeling down in life. As if it was going nowhere. Feeling suicidal. He told me he owned this company and that I should stop by for a job. It was an office job, but it was a job in ac which paid a lot less than my warehouse job but at this point I would take anything in a office environment. So I went in for a interview and met with the director of operations. Now here is this beast of a woman who is intimidating. Her and I would later bump heads that would curve my favoritism around the office. I started out being the office clerk and quickly moved my way up in the office. From clerk, to sales assistant, sales, purchasing, accounting, bids and finally IT department. The position I wanted all along. I have pretty much worked in every department in the company and almost doubled my pay. I love loving it. I was happy, I never once complained about coming in, I never once thought Id ever get fired. If I was to leave it would be on my own terms.Now of course in the span of 3 years Ive had my troubles, write-ups and what not. But my friend was always there to help me out with advice and to show me the way. I started to get my shit together and really turned around my performance. Things were going better than ever. Everyone enjoyed me having me at the office, peachy.Along the way my relationship with my friend hit a couple of ruts but nothing out of the ordinary. This guy was something else. Slowly I started confiding in him a bit too much. I would tell him about something going on in the office and I would say to just keep it between us as I was just venting about a bad day or something of the sort. Well, slowly I started noticing that he would quickly put in his .02 and twist the situation into something that never should have been. So I stopped this, and we spoke less. But still, he told me he hoped I would stick around for a while. We would text back and forth after work, go grab a beer, go to events, anything. My review came around and it was honestly a lot lower scoring that I thought it would be. Regardless of my mistakes, I felt like my improvements did not come up in the review. But he told me to not be emotional about it, to just take it as a positive. Fine. I got my review and kissed ass and said I would continue my progress in the positive direction it had been going. This was just two weeks ago. Fast forward to today and I told my supervisor that I had to take care of some personal business and that I was going to be leaving early. Well I took care of my errands went to a local bar to watch a game. My phone is about to die as I walk out when I pick up my head after checking my phone and I see the company owner and my supervisor make eye contact with me and just turn around and walk away. I asked whats up?, the ignored me and got into the owners car and left. I got a text message from the director of operations saying that I needed to come back into the office as soon as possible. So I did.I got pulled into the owners office along with the director and my supervisor and they asked what I was doing at a bar when I said I was going to be taking care of personal business. I said that I had finished my errands and since I was going to be taking off early decided to come watch a game. Now NOTE, the owner is a HUGE fan of this team and we have connections on social media. So obviously he saw me post that I was going to be heading over at this bar IF I had the time. This was to get the local supporters group together for the game. I quickly put two and two together and realize that the owner, the person who had been my friend for years pretty much just fucked me over. They told me they were relieving me of my position which was effective immediately. I felt like I had been in a sting or something. I literally felt numb. I was just trying to get my friend a job with me last week, and now Im in the same boat. I showed no emotion and they lead me out the back like some criminal. Ive never felt such betrayal in my entire life. Ive helped people get their jobs there. I started thinking to myself. I could get out of this, but is it worth it? The owner was having none of it. He accused me of lying and said that he was disappointed in me. That he had such huge hopes for me. What a load of bullshit. I was planning on going on vacation in May to go visit a friend. I just took out a loan on my car which was paid off simply to build my credit. Now I feel like the world just came crashing in. I have no backup plan, no nothing. Now I stand to lose my car and my place. I cant even file for unemployment due to the write-ups that go against misconduct. That being one of the reasons you cant file. Ive never filed in my life. And now what I thought was a good job, a career is gone. Just yesterday I was living a good life, happy, relaxed, confident. Its all gone now. I thought about applying to a bigger city which a much higher chance of getting a job there, but at this point Im not even sure. Im so fucking scared.Any advice would be great...sorry for the long post...  <response>: So let me get this straight. You got permission to leave work early, under the pretence of errands, but you took more time than you needed and went to a bar afterwards? And you posted that you were going on social media?And you did this just two weeks after you got a shitty performance review?You fucked up. You need to find a new job ASAP. Next time get an emergency fund and dont take out a loan on your car for no reason! 