<prompt> Human: My boyfriend currently lives with 2 roomates that are leaving at the end of the lease in a few months. My boyfriend loves the house and has asked me if id like to move in. The rent on the place is 1600 monthlyNot including utilities which im not sure of the cost. My boyfriend takes home roughly 28k yearly, no car, and a small debt the i dont know the exact amount of less then 3000I take home roughly 20k a year with a fully pay off car and my insurance comes in around 4k a year, and roughly 3k on gas. Besides that im Debt free. We both work in restaurants, so if we wanted to we could spend alot less on food we are allowed to eat at work for free but we also drink often, 3-4 times a week, and love to travel. I feel if we comitted to this place we wouldnt be able to drink nearly as much and it would be very difficult to save money to traveldoes living in this place seem reasonble?Im on the fence. If I dont move in my boyfriend says he is going to take over the rent himself, and just be broke. Which isnt what i want of course. This house has 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms balcony, backyard, and garage. Which is a lot for just the two of us. I feel we could get a nicer smaller place for around 1000-1200 or even less until we further in our careers and just generally be alot more comfortable.What do you think?  <response>: If I dont move in my boyfriend says he is going to take over the rent himself, and just be broke. Which isnt what i want of course.This is more of an rrelationships issue, but hes basically trying to manipulate you into moving in. There is no way on earth he can afford this rent by himself. 1600 on a 28K salary? Not even close. So hes unfairly putting the burden on you, and if you dont comply, hell just be broke. If youre on the fence, dont move in. Dont let him guilt you. Its not worth it. His financial mistakes are his own if he decides to live there by himself. If so, hes just being an idiot.And when you are ready to move in together, find a place more appropriate for both of you. Theres no reason for you to spend all this extra if its way more space than you need. Dont let him pressure you into a place thats not right for you and costs way more than you want to pay. 