<prompt> Human: My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. We live together and recently bought a parcel of land in my hometown, so we have a shared asset and about 50k in shared debt. I realize it was stupid of me to agree to this purchase and debt with him, but I believe now that he manipulated me into purchasing this with him to share the expense.My biggest struggle right now is the financial aspect of the breakup. Again, I know buying land with him was stupid. I know taking a shared loan was also stupid. Our current financial picture is this: We owe 5K on a shared line of credit. Both names are on this loc and it is tied to my online banking so I am able to make changes to it without his knowledge until he receives a statement.I we owe 25K on my student line of credit. 100 of this is the cost of the land, as I had no student loans remaining when I graduated. This is entirely in my name, although 20K could be transfered to the shared line. The only reason its on my student line is because of the lower interest rate.He we owe his parents 10K. This was also part of the land purchase, but his agreement with his parents is that he is fully responsible and they will not ask me for anything.We own a 2.5 acre lot worth approx 50K although its likely not going to sell any time soon. I would be interested in keeping it to build on in the future, but I dont know if I can afford to buy out his half. He paid 10K from his savings, and I paid nothing for the lot having just finished university.We also own a tiny house worth approximately 10K. The plan was to live in it on our land until we could build, but that is no longer an option due to town by-laws and busy bodies. I could probably rent a corner of land from a farmer to park the tiny house on to live in and still satisfy the by-laws.Currently we are living in a house we rent from my parents. I cant afford the rent on my own, and my parents cant afford to give me a break on the rent. I have family I could move in with if need be until I get on my feet.I earn 30K per year and still attend school in the evenings part time. He earns close to 90k and owns two other properties.He is leaving for a hockey tournament tomorrow, and my parents are coming to town for the weekend. Id really like to sort everything out while hes away so Im prepared when he returns. What do I do?  <response>: This post has been locked. There have been some good responses and most of the incoming comments are now unfortunately low-effort and other rulebreaking comments that are not particularly helpful to OP. 