<prompt> Human: Hello.Title is my current situation, plus girlfriend pressing me on this. Currently all my money is to pay bills home and some debts I had to assume to keep the health insurance running wasted effort, we lost the coverage 4 months later and I just paid the last part of the loan.Thing is, I barely finished paying and my mother already signals me that she wants to do a reform in the house and wants me to help. The house indeed needs refurbishing, but Im already 30 years old and I have nothing. How am I supposed to raise my own family if I still have to take care of my parents? My father is the only one besides me who works to bring cash in, my mother has to stay home taking care of my grandma whos in an advanced state of Alzheimer, and the jobs are low on his side glazier.I receive around 1.5kmo, been holding my grounds with barely no cash and gf being patient and banking me on most of stuff although I was using the CC eventually. I dont want to ditch my mother, but if things keep going like this I cant see a way for me to become independent. Any pointers?Thanks  <response>: Honestly, I have no clue what you just posted.Your girlfriend is a saint. 