<prompt> Human: Us: 21, 22. Both college graduates.I make 21K per year, he makes 78K per year. Combined we have 229K in student loansother debt.Weve recently received 135K after taxes. I want to save 6K for an emergency fund then make our debt become 100K. He wants to go on a 20k vacation. That isnt reasonable. no matter howmany times I explain to him how much extra money well be paying off hint: its a lot by doing that, he just doesnt care. Its definitely in our best interest to doit my way. He argues that vacation is better because he has ALS andmight not be able to do it in the future, but thats a poor argument because1- he was diagnosed 3 years ago and it hasnt progressed, so it might not get worse2- that doesnt stop someone from goingon vacation.  <response>: Why not compromise? Theres what is good for your relationship and then what is good for your personal finances. Why not split the cost of the holiday to 10k? That is still a decent jaunt. 