<prompt> Human: Hi! My bf and I are 21f and 23m respectively. Weve been having a pretty rough time lately, I had to take a medical leave from school which also makes me unable to work, and he has been struggling to find a professional job after graduating with his STEM degree, 3.5 GPA and thesis based on 4 yrs of research! His current job is delivering pizza, which makes about 800-900 a month working 30hrs a week. Until now, our respective parents would each pay half the rentutilities totaling 1000. Yesterday was rent day and his parents had yet to send him money so he called them and they announced that they were sick of paying for him and that hes clearly just loafing around all day if he doesnt have a real job by now and he should be able to afford rent with his pizza money.While its true that he could pay his half of the rent with his pt job, he wasnt expecting to have to do so with no notice. Therefore, we werent able to meet rent, and when it was auto-withdrawn from his account, it put him at -150. We woke up to a notice that we have 3 days to get that money or else we will be charged 300 more. If we then dont pay that not sure how many days, we will be evicted. Also tomorrow is grocery day and the car needs gas and an oil change his money for that all went towards the unexpected rent.I have enough in my savings to fix the rent issue, and hell get from work 50-80 tomorrow. What Im concerned about most is next month and the future in general. He already asked 11 days off work for us to see my family for Christmas, so theres a sizable chance he wont have his 500 plus the 150 hell owe me. His parents also kindly reminded him that he has to start paying his student loans soon idk exactly when and owes them additional money for something else that he literally had no control over. Did I mention that they simply cannot be reasoned with sometimes and are the type to say because I told you so and escalate the situation if met with disagreement from their adult children?I have a fair amount saved up, so I dont mind waiting for him to pay me back. I just worry that with possibly borrowing more from me next month, and then maybe throwing in loan payments after that, all of his will go to rent and that and then things like groceries, gas, etc will all fall on my shoulders. This would almost definitely drain my bank account before I am able to return to schoolwork so I am at a loss of what to do short of asking my parents which is unfair given that they already pay my rent and medical stuff.He could ask for more hoursget an additional job, but that would leave him with very little time to spend applying for real jobs, which is what will really solve this. His parents would suggest that he move in with them 1 hr away until he gets a job but that would mean I have to move back in with my parents too in a different state but in theory he could get a job at any time so it would end up probably being a huge, bullshitty, stressful waste of time and money.How do you think we should handle the next few months?  <response>: Looks like he cant take those 11 days off. Also, he needs to pick up another job. Youll have to see your family alone. 