<prompt> Human: okay so, this is kind of a long story but ill make it short as possible. I came from a really rough upbringing, and then got in foster care when I was 13, when I was 14 my grandparents got custody of me and supported me but once I turned 18 they agreed to cut me off.I graduated high school with a 3.3 GPA in 2015 and went to a university an hour and a half away from home. the day i graduated high school, i found out my father who was sick for very many years hence why i never got to live with him finally passed away. my dad was one of the only people in my family who really and truly believed in me and was good to me and him and i were very close. my mom was an abusive alcoholic and meth addict so thats why I was taken away from her. so when i went to college i was already in a terrible terrible spot. i was super depressed cause of losing my dad. then I got into an abusive relationship with a guy I met there and it ended up causing a lot of drama. which put even more stress on me. i eventually got out though. I was working 2 jobs and going to school and in university marching band. it was hard to juggle it all, so I eventually quit band and just worked the 2 jobs and went to school. I had no family help at all so thats why I had to do the 2 jobs. the car I had eventually broke down cause it was super old and run down. I couldnt get a car without a co-sign and I had nobody willing to co-sign. so I was screwed. I started to fail my classes really bad. I failed a few of my classes and got one more chance. same thing happened the next semester and so I lost my financial aid and got kicked out of school. so I moved back to my hometown and started living with someone and started working again. things got a little better. but I still had a ton of bills. then I had to go to the hospital two different times. and I got some hospital debt from it. then, I went to go apply for a car again cause I have a credit card and I thought I built my credit up. well, I got denied cause they told me I owed 12,000 in student loans. I didnt realize they had already hit. cause I was gonna try to go back to community college that january of 2017. I went to go apply and they told me I couldnt go there cause I owed my old school that money. since i failed i cant get any more FAFSA. so going back to college is definitely out of the question. I have two jobs, one as a hostess and the other as a waitress. I barely get by. my bills are so high. and I have a very cheap old crappy car thats falling apart but its all I could get and it gets me to work. I havent had luck finding any good jobs cause it feels like all I can do is retail and food. I thought about joining the military but I cant because I have a lot of health issues. my coworker told me my life is screwed, and im starting to believe shes right. I dont have any idea how im gonna get out of this. like I said ive tried to find better jobs but no luck. what do I do??? ive tried to talk to the people with my loan about getting my loan deferred but the most they could do is get me to pay a certain amount every month. and I cant even pay this debt off cause I can barely afford my own bills. i havent had an off day in god knows how long. and I cant even save money. it sucks so bad. I dont even blow my money either. my bills always come first. so its not like im blowing all my money then i have nothing. its just after my health insurance, car insurance, medicine prescriptions, gas, groceries, phone bill, my share of rent, electricity, and water I have nothing. my boyfriend tries to help me when he can, hes got good money and good credit and such, but I dont like to ask too much of him. I got myself into this mess and I wanna get myself out. I just need some guidance.  <response>: Dont let anyone tell you that youre screwed. Hard work pays off and it may take 3 years to really get out of it. But be positive and push yourself and you can succeed. As some have said, learn coding or other web based training by using free resources on the web or pay 10 on udemy for a course and get a certificate.Look into call center jobs, tech support, project coordinator roles. They often dont require too much experience and while they can sometimes be annoying because of the people you may deal with, youll gain a lot of experience outside of just being a hostess. 