<prompt> Human: My fiancee and I about to get married and the costs will easily reach into the mid 5 digits. We live in the San Jose area in California. We are planning to get a new credit card for our purchases because we satisfy the spend X dollars within Y months preconditions associated with various sign-up rewards. We would very much like your input on this.We like cash back and we also like united miles.Thanks to all in advance!  <response>: After spending 30k in total on our wedding 12 years ago, we look back and wish we would have spent 3k on a reception for friends and family and used the rest to make our 8 day honeymoon a 3 or 4 week vacation honeymoon adventure. You will realize the utter and total wastefulness afterwards and you feel stupid for spending that amount of money for a few hours of time. 0.02 