<prompt> Human: So I offered her the money for a deposit on a house that only she would live in. She accepted. I gave her it. For whatever reason she didnt get the house and instead used the money on other expenses such as car repairs, bills, holiday expenditure etc. Should she have asked me or discussed with me before doing this or is she free to use the money as she sees fit? Thanks for any help.  <response>: You gave her a bunch of money and she spent it. If you give her more money itll be the same. From what little youve told it sounds like shes just using you. 