<prompt> Human: Im thinking specifically of: 1 How much had you set aside for prenatal care and the actual delivery?2 Were you renting or owning at the time? 3 What was cost of living like in your area?4 What were your monthly childcare costs in the first few monthsyears?5 When did you start their college fund?6 Whats the biggest mistake you made, ie, what would you do differently?EDIT: oh, and 0 How much were you making when you decided to get pregnant? How much did you have saved for non-childcare expenses like retirement? Did you both keep working?  <response>: Im growing our first as I write!0 180k salary. Both will keep working. 75k in retirement. Paying off student loans this month! Were 3435.1 15. My HMO rocks2 renting. Saving up to buy this spring. Was planned before Spawn showed up3 moderately high4 daycare will be 2000-3000 per month. Thats either a daycare center if we can get in or a nanny share5 my family has offered to start a 529 instead of filling our apartment with crap. We dont plan to start one on our own. Were behind on retirement and thats more important. We plan to pay off our house before Spawn starts college so we can help more.6 no mistakes yet. Spawn wont be here until February. Then theyll start rolling in. 