<prompt> Human: My girlfriend and I are on a super tight budget, weve been learning to help each other with finances and stuff, and so far. We are trying to encourage each other. Its been getting better, we have two different budgets we share with each other on AirTable. We have started using the envelope system.I always allow myself 20 of fun money. Sometimes Ill go over a little bit, like 21 or 25 or something like that, nothing too crazy. I follow Dave Ramseys advice I read his book and we are trying to do the debt snowball method. I like how he mentions in the book that you should allow yourself fun money otherwise you dont really have anything to look forward to, and its fine to buy stuff, as long as you budget for it. And thats where Im confused.My GF wants to go out and buy herself 70 worth of clothes today. She decided last night to do this. Its almost summer, she needs tank tops, she says.I dont really want to tell her what to do with her money, but I kind of just went off on her about doing this. I asked why she doesnt set aside 20 for 3 weeks and then go buy it she recently has been saying she wants to limit herself to 20 of fun money too, and she said its fine to spend that much because she can pay all her other bills and that shes budgeting for it ahead of time. That being said, she has debt, her emergency fund isnt set up yet, and we are trying to save for a new apartment coming up, along with a few other things.If we are following Ramsays advice and allowing ourselves fun money, is this supposed to be a set amount? Or can it vary?What if I decided to take us out to eat tonight and spend 40? Is that okay if I budget for it? Or is having a set amount something we need to stick to?  <response>: With debt assuming credit card not school or house and no emergency fund, I dont get fun money. Fun money varies by month but its after priorities are met. 