<prompt> Human: I have about 5000 dollars in federal student loan debt with Nelnet, 8000 dollars in credit card debt, and 450 dollars in loans with the bank. I just paid off my 450 dollar debt and recently learned my parents are paying off the credit card debt later this year and to note they are co-signers. For now the student loans are in forbearance because I am temporarily disabled. I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 years and we have decided to get married. From the beginning we agreed to keep our finances and file taxes separately. My parents will claim me on their taxes as a dependent and I will be under their health insurance plan. I dont want to throw her under the bus because of my debt. I told her about my situation ever since and she keeps telling me to think of us and that it wouldnt matter. But I cant look away from the financial aspect.If it helps I live in the state of Georgia.Any advice would be very much appreciated. - Thank you- ros nuh  <response>: So basically you have 5K total debt. That is nothing. The more important financial concern is do you have a job and will you ever be able to have one? The most important question is do you want to get married? 