<prompt> Human: Hi rpersonalfinance ! This is going to be a strange question, but please bear with me. I have been stalked for over a year now. I takes about it in a previous post. Long story, the cops know about our history, but he continues to harass me. Ive moved, changed cars and deleted Facebook blocked him on all other social media. He still continues to call and text me from different numbers and e-mails. Now, on to the reason Ive come to you. Last night I received a notification of an e-transfer into my account of 2,200.00. This dude is trying to give me 2 grand. This transfer e-mail was followed by a long winded apology saying he was sorry that he caused me embarrassment, and he hopes his motivational quote will make up for the fact that he made me lose businesswhat?!? his e-mail made no sense. I asked my mom police officer about it and she couldnt figure out what it meant either. Neither could my boyfriend. All said and done- I could really use that money. Would it be wrong for me to accept it? I mean after all he has taken from me; sense of security, sanity, sleepless nights, stress puking and moving houses I really wouldnt feel bad taking it from him. It would really help with some bills I need to pay, and going home for Christmas. Normally I feel bad taking advantage of people, but f that guy. Hes the scum of the earth. So, if I accept the money would there be any way he could figure out where I am? I know these transfers are pretty safe and secure, and Ive done them lots, but something stinks. What are your thoughts??  <response>: Do NOT take the money, which will encourage him to keep trying. Talk to the bank about how to return or otherwise get rid of the money in a way that makes it clear to the sender that you are not accepting it. Read The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. AFTER that if you think a protection order will help than get one. Consider what else you can do to protect yourself the book will help lay out options. Good luck!! 