<prompt> Human: Im a almost 30 yr old lady still living with her mom have never moved out. Ive been in and out of employment for the last 10 years and never held down a job long enough to move out and live comfortably and Ive also wasted a lot of my savings on addictions...Currently I have full time employment for the last 6 months making 37k a year which isnt a lot but my field isnt a high paying industry and have a 12k car loan debt and pay 100 board to my mother, 80pm phone bill. The money I have left over I spend on online shopping but its becoming a problem because Ive used up all of my savings on clothes, tattoos etc and I cant seem to stop even though Im broke. I feel like I have no goals when it comes to money. I dont want to move out because I dont want the stresses and responsibilities that come with it and these days you could be out of a job just like that and that scares me if I moved out...I need some advice and tips on how I can control my spending and start saving again...I feel like if I dont spend money on clothes, Ill miss out. I am very much into fashion and love having the latest gear but its taking over me!! I dont feel like a responsible adult and Im quite ashamed of myself. Someone please help because Im starting to get quite depressed over it!!!  <response>: At some point youre going to have to grow up and take responsibility for your life. Up to you to decide when that will be. 