<prompt> Human: Ive been saving to send both of my kids to college their whole lives. Id budgeted for full tuitionroomboard at an in-state school, and estimated about 20kyear. This was way more than school costed when I went graduated highschool in 1998, but I figured I might as well play it safe.Just seeing how I was doing, I looked up the cost of in-state tuition at one of my states schools University of Virginia and was shocked that it was 35kyear for the Engineering program Is this normal? I was budgeting for 80k total for each kid, and now it looks like I should have been looking at 140k each. This puts me substantially behind, and is making me question my early retirement goals.Currently I have: 28K saved up for my daughter, with 8 years until she starts college. 21K saved up for my son, with 11 years until he starts college.Im putting 300month into each of their college funds.  <response>: Your kids can borrow money for school.You cant borrow money to retire. 