<prompt> Human: Pretty much as the title implies. My partner recently told me how Im such a great person yet they need to work on themselves and to please not be upset at them. Everyone reading this knows that spiel. So, heres my question and short tl;dr on my throwaway as were both currently locked away in separate rooms as I type this, with nobody else to seemingly turn to. We just moved in one month or so ago, its personally cost me about 10,000. Thats not alot of money to alot of people Im sure, but it was about half my savings. They swear by it theyre going to pay me back the doing this thing half and half that we agreed upon, because I had the full finances at the time, but Im not entirely sure whether I should trust them or not?My current means of transportation is their vehicle we drove out here while mine sells back home. I should be starting work by the end of the month here as my job originally planned had not fallen through successfully. Ive been on the market for a vehicle the past week or so.Do I continue to live here in the house I essentially lease for them until my money is returned in full? Or should I just go ahead and cut my losses, find an apartment nearby with my new job and grab a cheap beater vehicle in the meantime?Personal feeling out of this post, Im genuinely-simply looking for what to do next with my life. Clearly, Ive made a terrible mistake.  <response>: Sorry youre going through this. Im a little unclear what your situation is right now. Did you two lease an apartment together, or did you actually buy a housecondoetc together? How exactly did moving in together end up costing you 10k? Is any of that money that you can potentially get back by selling thingsetc? Also, sounds like you still have a vehicle back home? Are you planning to stay in this new area, or go back to wherever you consider home? If the former, can you find a cheap ticket, fly back, and drive your car out to your new city of residence? Might end up being cheaper than selling a car remotely and buying a new one? 