<prompt> Human: So, I recently paid off the last of our debt after basically being in heavy debt since our 20s now late 30s. We now only have a mortgage and an overdraft - no other creditloan debt at all. As the one responsible for the finances in our relationship, Ive found it a strange transition to suddenly find that all our spare monthly income is finally our own. At the weekend we finally bit the bullet and bought our first nearly-new car on a finance plan and even though we can comfortably afford it, I feel guilty about buying it like we somehow dont deserve to own a decent car. Has anyone else gone through similar feelings?  <response>: Ive had that feeling before. Youll get over it once having money stops being a new experience.But make sure that it DOES stop being a new experience. As in, dont just start making worse financial decisions because you think you have so much money now. Its easy to quickly end up back in debt. ESPECIALLY with things like financing cars. 