<prompt> Human: Im 24f single mom, to a four year old with serious medical issues, in a relationship with my 30m fiance of three years.No child support he never met his bio dad, long storyI make 11.33 an hour, usually 40 hours a week.Fiance makes, well he wont tell me, but more than me. We live separately, but planning on moving closer to his job so he isnt commuting 3 hours a day. Transferring my job to the only available store is dropping me to 30 hours a week. I dont have childcare costs now, but will when we move. After childcare, health insurance, car insurance and my cheap prepaid phone I will have 300 a month for gasfoodhis meds etc. I dont make enough to afford it at 30 hours a week.My fiance isnt understanding the sacrifices Id be making, and how expensive things are to a single mom that makes crap. Im proud as hell of myself for making more than minimum wage, I grew up very poorI cant afford half of everything and everything for my son. Hes said well you pay 600 and Ill pay 750, like thats a huge sacrifice. Hes looking at these beautiful, expensive 1300-1500 a month places, has to have a three bedroom, has to have direct tv.. and everything I show him he says is ghetto. Im lost. Someone help me. He wont budge, he isnt for combing finances, he pays 1000 a month now for rent etc with his brother, his brother pays the other half. So to him, 1350 is a cheap place. How do we make this work, or do I just say screw it and not move and end the relationship. I dont mind living in a small place, as long as were together but he doesnt seem to share the same sentiment and Ive been wracking my brain for weeks trying to figure it out and I cant.  <response>: I feel for you. It sounds like you already know what to do but may need someone to confirm it?Based on what you said, it looks like your the one losing out on this move and he is getting all the benefits. Youre going to get less hours, have child care costs and pay more in rent. And he doesnt tell you how much he makes while being in a 3 year relationship. I think you should do what would be in the best interest for your child, financially and emotionally. I wouldnt move. 