<prompt> Human: So I have a 15 month old and just found out Im pregnant. My husband and I rushed into a quick courthouse wedding and in short, its ending. We started a joint account and it was the worst decision ever. One thing lead to another and he was deferring his phone bill so we would have money so a huge chunk of money came out before bills were paid. So now the bank account is sooo far in the negatives that its going to eat up our combined checks this payday. I work part-time at a retail store and it has decent pay but not at my hours. Im searching for a FTor second PT job. Im just trying to figure out what is best to provide for me and my children. Any and all advice is welcome. Some specs: Once the bank account is straight Im getting my own.Babysitter: 20dayCar Insurance: around 80Bills: 160-200 a monthDebt: about 4k in student loans and 1k on a credit card. Plus all the shit I have to make right at the bankIm on state health insurance and WIC and everything in this apartment was mine before we moved in. We havent been married long enough to have to worry about splitting assets or whatever. I just feel over my head in all this.. I dont have family I can stay with unless my son and I sleep on the floor.  <response>: When I was young, my mom was in a similar situation. We lived in a shelter until she was able to get back on her feet. And its not like you are homeless. There are some amazing places made specifically for single women with young children. The place we were at was safe, clean, very homey, and had our best interest in mind. They helped my mother find a job, saved her checks, and at the end of the year gave all the money back with a plan on how to survive. We did, and so can you. 