<prompt> Human: My girlfriend and I, both 24, have been together for four years and recently purchased a house together. Before taxes my income is 70.2k year and hers is much lower at 20-25kyear. Prior to buying the house, we lived in a place I owned and I paid the majority of the bills, approximately 23 with regular home bills and groceries. We have always paid for our own vehicles. Generally in this situation I would not mind covering most of the bills, I work a lot more in a higher paying job Civil Engineer and she has struggled finding decent paying employment in the new city we have purchased our home in. Bank account wise, we look pretty similar, I have been putting a significant amount of all my income towards paying off school loans and just recently paid off the last dollar so have not concentrated on building a savings account. Meanwhile she has basically lived paycheque to paycheque even with me taking responsibility for most of the bills.The catch here is that although our bank accounts are similar, throughout her life she has received several inheritances that have been invested for her and currently sits around 100k. I am rolling around having a little bit of an internal struggle with this because although I love her and we will be together a long time, I do not really feel like I should have to financially stress myself on her behalf when she has such a huge nest egg. She is the kind of girl who really does want to support herself and feels terrible that she is not making enough money to necessarily do so. She is a great girl who is trying really hard and wants everything to be 5050 so I dont want to make her out to be selfish at all, but at the end of the day I eventually want to be at a similar net worth myself and spending this extra money will slow me down in a financial sense. I feel bad about thinking this way because relationships should be built on teamwork and working together but that money cant really be ignored in my opinion. Example: I worked my ass off for years to build a small nest egg to pay for my 50 of the down payment while paying off loans but although struggling bank account wise, she could come up with that money another 10 times if need be without having to save a dollar.Conclusion: Currently we are splitting our home bills as we are equal owners and we are renting a room out which helps, but if our roommate leaves this would cause her a lot of stress and financial strain on her income. She did just pick up a second job part time to work towards saving more and being able to pay her side. I absolutely LOVE that she is doing this and is willing to put in the work, but this is only recent. She has spent the last year mostly working about 30 hours a week. So PF, how should I feelthink about this all? Its hard for me to think of just the financial numbers when I love her and want to help her. If she cant afford her side, should I bring up maybe selling some of her investments so she has the cash to sustain herself until she makes more money or is this a no no? Her inheritanceinvestments are a sensitive issue, rightly so imo, do to her grandeparents and father now being gone so she would rather not use any of it but how far should I be using my money instead of hers? Im pretty confused with the the situation.Thanks for all opinions, concerns, advice!  <response>: 5050 or ratio out your incomes.Whatever you two can agree upon.Youre not married. Keep your eyes off her inheritances. 