<prompt> Human: Hello.I am in my 30s as was my Wife. She passed away recently and I am unsure what benefits I might be able to apply for to help myself and our young 3 year old.I did have a small life insurance policy on my wife, but that wont be able to sustain us for more then a year or two unless we drastically change our lifestyle or I move in with my mom or my wifes parents. For California - what could I apply for? I only take home about 30k a year and my wife was similar but she was able to work from home and also take care of our son which I now dont haveThank youAssistant: For child care assistanceFor food assistanceCompiled list of servicesHuman: Does it matter most of that is tailored towards Women and not Men? It just seems weird trying to find resources and so much of it ignored Men who loses spouses.  <response>: Try not to talk yourself out of accepting help because youre a male. 