<prompt> Human: Hello Reddit, posting from a throwaway for anonymity. My fiancé and I will be getting married soon and we have not talked about a prenuptial agreement. I have conflicting feelings on the subject and would like some advice. Here are some facts that may be pertinent:We have both finished school through bachelors degrees and neither one of us has concrete plans to pursue an advanced degree at this time. Neither of us has student loan debt or any other kind of debt, except for a shared personal property debt of around 30,000. We both have credit scores near 800 and consider ourselves and each other to be responsible with our finances.I have a respectable amount but less than 100k in assets in my name alone. Roughly half of that is in a retirement savings account and the other half is liquid. My fiancés assets are worth roughly 2x the value of mine, some is liquid, some is investment, some is retirement. We have another joint account which is earmarked for our wedding and we expect that account will be exhausted between the wedding and the honeymoon.We are buying a house together. I know this sub hates when unmarried couples buy a house but save it, were decided that the timing is right for us so thats that. We will put 20 down on the house which will use up a lot but not all of our combined liquid assets. We will still have a comfortable enough safety net and we believe we will be able to build our nest egg back up.We are living together and have a comfortable system worked out for our joint expenses. We do treat nearly everything except for our individual hobbies as a joint expense. We expect we will make only small changes to this arrangement after we are married.Both our families are pretty firmly upper middle class and healthy. None of us expects an inheritance at all and certainly not any time soon, and we both hope our families spend all their money on themselves before they leave this earth. We are both only children and either of us could have a significant inheritance at some point in the future or nothing at all.We both work. My fiancé makes nearly 3x what I currently make. Our combined income will be more than 150,000 but less than 400,000 per year for the foreseeable future. If we have children, which we plan to within the next few years, I will likely quit my job for a few years while they are little rather than hire a nanny.Given the background, here are my questions:1 Is a prenup advisable for us in this situation?2 What would be the purpose of the prenup? How would it better protect our interests given we are on slightly uneven footing financially?3 What are the risks if we do decide to have a prenup?I have conflicting feelings on a personal level about having one but I think they are more to do with my history growing up than with the cold hard facts of numbers, so Id like to get some perspective from a purely financial point of view.  <response>: Your assets are not one sided enough to need a prenup, and it doesnt sound like they ever will be. 