<prompt> Human: Hello,So just to say, Im on the sudden verge of being kicked out of my parents house. Ill start off first, with who I am and what I do. I am full-time student 15 units every semester and a part-time worker 35 hours a week. I make about 1450 a month without doing doordash. Sometimes in my free time, I make the sacrifice to not see my girlfriend for weeks, just so I can grind and make more money doing doordash and I can make an extra 300 - 400 a week, some days Ill even work from 8am to 10pm with both jobs. I mostly take online courses so I am able to do that. I know my budget pretty well, I pay about 1200 every 6 months on insurance car and motorcycle, and I generally go out to eat since my mom and I have been fighting a lot my dad and I are cool though, he has generally no problem with me, so I tend to spend maybe 250 or so a month on food and a semester I pay around 650 for classes. I have 6k saved up in my savings and another 1k in my checkings. Im not a heavy spender, I know how to sacrifice for the greater good.Ive been talking about it with my girlfriend and I dont want to give up my college to be able to afford a apartment and to drive. She will most definetly move in with me so wed be able to split rent. I just dont know what to do. I have a bunch of stuff I need to get out of my room. I will most likely have to sell some of it since I cant afford an actual 1 bedroom apartment. The main reason my mom wants me out if because she thinks Im too old, and thinks Im taking advantage of staying with them. The biggest thing I can agree on is they say I dont help out around the house. While that may be true, I know its not a excuse, but they know I come home at 10pm from working all day, and they expect me to do the dishes and clean the bathroom etc ...I usually flip out too and get all butthurt and tell em Ill do it later and they get all pissed. So thats where the fighting comes in. She goes off on me on how I dont help out and Im lazy and all I do is play video games...I literally come home, from a 12-hour shift...maybe I like to relax and play some damn games. I understand it doesnt help when I get my attitude involved and start to raise my voice, but I honestly dont know where to go if I get kicked out. She also said shed start charging me 1000 for rent if I dont move out soon. Im honestly tired of fighting with them and I just dont know what to do. Though I understand how my budget is I just dont know how i will be paying for rent since every damn apartment is over 2000 a month. Should I try to stick it out with my parents, or should I try to live on my own with gf?Also if there is anything else you need to know that could help just ask :Thanks  <response>: Whether or not you want to work it out is the real question. No one can determine that. Also, I wouldnt move in with Your gf because you NEED to split the rent. Move in when you are both emotionally ready.Having said that - if you want to work it out with your parents here are some suggestions. 1. Set a time to meet with both of them together.2. Come prepared. Bring a notepad to take notes about what they say and what they may want from you.3. Have your budget and schedule in front of you.4. Tell them you hear them and repeat some of their concerns. Ask them if there is anything you missed write this down 5. Make a plan together and plan to compromise. For example: your mom wants you to clean dishes and clean the bathroom. You work 10-12 hours a day. On the days you dont work - clean the dishes or whatever. If she gets upset, remind her that you got home at 10 and what you guys agreed upon at the family meeting.The bathroom shouldnt need to be cleaned more then 1x a week. It takes 20 minutes, just make time for it. I think there is more going on with your mom. Maybe money is tight and she does need you to contribute financially. If this is the case come to an agreed upon and reasonable amount. Give something toward food. They may be getting ideas from their friends you are too old. Figure out where this attitude comes from and addresses it. As far as playing video games explain to her that this is how you relax and decompress..and then compare it to how she relaxes. Does she read a book? Go running? Knit? Etc. In other words, present yourself as an adult and hopefully you will be seen as one. Good Luck! 