<prompt> Human: I am currently making 114K in a relatively lower cost of living area. The job is really wearing me down mental health wise. We have a new manager that used to work on our team. She is using things told to her in confidence by me when she was not in management against me. For the first time in my career, I was written up for my poor attitude, and she told me that I only do 30 of my job duties well. So, basically I need to find a new position before she fires me. It has gotten so bad that I am on 2 weeks of FMLA for stress due to this job. I have just gotten an offer to move to a different organization in a relatively high cost of living area. The HR person quoted me 82K for starting, doing the exact same position. I told her what I make now, and she explained that not even the most tenured person makes that much. However, they will conduct a market search to see what others are paying in the area and get back to me with a different offer. Im not expecting much, and know they will not give me the same amount of money as my current employer. Current rent now is 1500, decent apartments in the new area run 2100. I have 150K in savings and my only major payment is my car which is 500. I choose not to pay it off in full due to an interest rate of .7.I am at a loss for what to do. I could take the pay cut for getting out of a toxic work environment, and better mental health, but would not be able to save much. I feel pretty desperate at this point, but know that this new organization is majorly lowballing me. Should I just suck it up and take the pay cut?  <response>: Health always comes first my man. 