<prompt> Human: Hey guys. 29M getting married in December. Sole income and I just have a few general questions regarding the best path to take for our goals as a family. Ive uploaded a powerpoint on Scribd with an overview. Any tips, suggestions, comments, etc?Thanks so much  <response>: You need to get your shit together.-Create a plan to eliminate debt. You are making a ton of money which should make getting rid of the debt straight forward.-Why isnt your fiance working or apparently working minimally?12k a year? Thats garbage. It sounds like a lot of the wants on that list are hers or heavily influenced by her, so she could pull some weight to achieve some of those goals. Especially if you have some old ass debt commitments between you and your mom. -Tied in with the above part, do you and your fiance share the same approach on finances? Have you all talked about them and have agreed how to approach it when you are married?-The car loan is awful. Figure that out, but dont get a shitty Chrysler product even if Wrangler has good resale. Save up and buy a 4runner or Tacoma and enjoy good resale wo shite build quality if you want a 4x4 trucksuv.-Read up on Dave Ramsey for debt elimination dont use him for investment advice. His approach can be helpful when ones financial house is in disarray.Out of curiosity, how long have you been making this level of income? Your debts and overall lifestyle goalswants read as if this is somewhat recent. Not judging, but you may want to sit down and do a reality check on what you can actually afford as it sounds like you are on track for some significant lifestyle creep. Just because your paycheck says 168k, that doesnt mean you have that to spend. Get out of the garbage debt game, build up a significant e-fund, use all tax advantaged savings vehicles you can and then start looking at the money you have left over. Plus if your soon to be wife starts pulling an adult income you can start making real legit plans for the future. 