<prompt> Human: Dad has troubles paying his bills. Significant trouble. We dont actually know how far behind on mortgage payments he is, how sunk into debt etc.. We worry we may lose the house soon. Mom is on the deed but not on the mortgage ???- apparently the bank will not tell us how far behind on payments, how much is owed etc. Is there any way to get this information?Trying to sell the home but less than full asking price means significant loss of money on moms side. Most of her savings 30k is tied into this home.Any advice, links, stories etc., is greatly appreciated. Thanks everyone.  <response>: Im sorry to hear this, gnomeharvest. Whats your age? Generally speaking, this is a thing that your mother and father should solve together, its their income, their finances, their house and their mortgage. I can understand that you want to help, but these two adult people are the only ones who can fix their financial problems. If youre in the US, your mother and you could try to find local charities and government agencies that would want to assist you in this crisis. If you can give us the state that you live in which is hardly identifying information, then perhaps other redditors in that state know where you could ask for help.Also check out: rAlmostHomeless 