<prompt> Human: The situation is still not resolved. And I need wisdom. This post is be part finance, part me blabbering.nbsp;A while ago I made this post Looking back, I think some parts of it were badly written. I am not proud of some of the things I wrote.nbsp;I didnt talk with the social services my father called. I went for a walk and to the city to run some errands... I fled. its ok to cringeshudder.my father loosely said that I have to get out or at least get a job before the new year.nbsp;Since back then I have nbsp; - Dressed up and gotten some proffessional photos taken for a CV. In a suit with mild makeup and eyebrows trimmed briefly.nbsp; - looked over my CV - skimmed for jobsI have continued to help out on the ranch. I have helped set up fences, helped with day dog-care. fed the horses, ducks, chickens, dogs. I drove my father tofrom hospital for his heart surgery.nbsp;I also booked an appointment with the dentist to get my teeth whitened. I figured it would help. turns out; she wont whiten until I have brushed better for threee months... a bit strange.nbsp;I have NOT:Applied for a job even though I intended to and actually had a nice open position in mind I did write a draft though.nbsp;Moved out I mean I did technically but I very often stay home - especially since I think my father needs someone to look after him .nbsp;It turns out that I did get some money from the government to live for. the amount will be reduced with 200 If I havent worked a total amount of 225 hours before 1st of december 2017. which is inless than two months.nbsp;I have a meeting with a government councellor oct. 9th. They want to talk with me about my educationcareer plans.nbsp;nbsp;I THINK that things are better between me and my dad. but he is still..kind of..verbally abusive. like sometimes yell. and he complains when I make lunch with food from the freezer. He makes up that it was inteded for dinner even though none of us have had breakfast. its difficult to explain properly.we talk more. and I help him plan his life. I make dinner and discuss majer home renovation plans.But i still feel unsafe and like my career situation is nauseating. I sometimes avoid my father. because I cant remember when the last time was that he was nice. I have noticed though that it helps if I remind him to go to bedeat.nbsp;I have looked at some educations. my confidence in my overall career skills is low. I do not see how I can be e guy other students want to be in a group with. its not that I dont prepare. its that I dont know how to prepare well. or I get lost in the wrong details.Another concern: I am 26. if I start a career I might be 6 years older than some other people studying.nbsp;nbsp;Spending habits:I bought some items for gifts for my dads birthday and some for a long lost friend I no longer speak to. i fee lI should give back it him and his family for having me over after school in middle school. Like many unfinished things in life. i have yet to give them.nbsp;I spent some money on a new umbrella; contact lenses since I break my glasses often; sadly also some candy; haircuts; dentist; those CV photos and makeup. And a few groceries. Other than that my spending is zero.nbsp;Because I am officially on governmment support, I do not think I can buy shares or a car.nbsp;I am also looking into some transportation options á la uber and drive - by - busses. If I need a job or activities my transportation will likely be 1-1,5 hours every day. I might be able to use that time to relearn french in duolingo. or other.nbsp;Timewise I feel too much of my time goes with playing games on mobile and computer. 4 years ago I ditched a friend of 8 years because I wanted to stop gaming altogether. I havent been able to stop completely. Though I did get rid of a steam account with 20 games .nbsp;Overall I am discontent. But the situation feels calmer. I am reminded of the cartoon this is finenbsp;Even if I start a temporary sub-par job. What if I fail to show up? historically in group projects I have been alienated a few times. I am too serious or slow or I am the only guys in the group.nbsp;nbsp;Legallynbsp; I am looking into the possibility of succession. My father did sell stocks three times for money and he never had a job since mom died. eh just sits and watches old westerns or takes care of his hobby-garden. its also weird like some times he lets himself get convinced to buy the brand-newest Iphone coming from a sony ericsson Elm, but refuses to spend money to repair the ventilator in the bathroom. I dont like slingng mud, but i still feel that my father owes me money from my mothers stocks. which might still be a valid case, according to some lawyers. I have printed copies of the statement of the estate; the drat of my mothers will; and my grandfathers will stating that the summerhouse is my mothers. though only in case of divorse. Which did not happen.nbsp;I hope this update was just. I would really appreciate your input even if it is critical.nbsp;Thank you for your time.  <response>: or I get lost in the wrong details.Its good that you know that about yourself. Because this post is 100 that. Teeth whitening? Better photos? And you still havent actually applied to a job. Dude, no.Look over your draft once more - once! Then apply for that job. And then start looking for the next place to apply. if I start a career I might be 6 years older than some other people studying.So the alternative is to... go back in time? Yes, you are starting late. No, you are not alone.It sounds super unlikely that your Dad owes you any money, but I know precisely nothing of Danish law. 