<prompt> Human: Does anyone have tips on what to expect for weddings? We have a venue for free father-in-laws vacation house. What are some other major expenses? I would like to itemize so that I know what to expect. How did you cut down the cost of the wedding if you choose to do that?  <response>: 20 for the marriage license adjust for your state, and 30 a head for the people you invite to the BBQ after you get back from the justice of the peace. 