<prompt> Human: Dad got really sick and can no longer work. Mom is now drowning with medical debt, just had her car reposessed and her apartment is about to be forclosed on.I just got out of school and have some money saved up. If I was single I would help them out no question. I want to write my mom a check for 5k, but I worry about a few things with the wife:Shed probably say yes, but I feel like her family is always helping meus and my family and I are always anchors. She paid for my licencing exams in school, her family gave me a place to live, they paid for our wedding, and I have over half a million in stufent loans.We were only able to save because our loans were deferred, but we have to statt paying next month, and these savings were supposed to be 6mo of fixed expenses for an emergency. I just feel so bad asking more of my wife. Plus I worry that itll never end woth my parents because of exorbitant medical bills. I also cant bear to see my mom go through all this.Assistant: 5k is not a long term solution to the problem your facing, its a quick fix yes, but whats going to happen next month? You give them 5k more? Then 5k more after that... Its not going to fix it.Human: Thats what I though... so just let them drown?  <response>: Please secure your own life vest before assisting others. Youre in no position to help. 