<prompt> Human: A friend of a friend recently announced they were pregnant. Normally, Im all for procreation, but this couple CANNOT afford a baby. They cant even afford their lifestyle as is! They have 30k in student debt, at least 4k in credit card debt, and have absolutely zero savings. She makes 34k as an office worker with a Masters degree, and he is a substitute teacher.They moved to a new city for her job, that required them to give up his great job WITH benefits, so she could have an ok job that requires an hour of interstate driving a day. Oh, and they moved into a two bedroom apartment that costs 750 a month. They complain about not having money for food, and now they want to add a baby to the mix? Does anyone have friends like this? How do you handle it?  <response>: From my experience, you cant help a friend who does not understand their own problems. As much as you like to help, you will get disappointed and perhaps harm the friendship. Dont make their problems yours! 