<prompt> Human: So my parents just gave me a 30 day eviction notice. They said that theyre enabling me to be an underachiever by continuing to let me live at home, for those curious about why. Im 19, male, and have no job. I do have a car that I paid for in cash, and I have a gym membership with showers in the event that I have to be homeless for a while.I have no real plan at this point, as I was completely blindsided by all of this. Im considering selling everything I own but dont need, gaming consoles, TVs, etc. and selling my car worth about 3k to buy something cheaper. But aside from doing these things to come up with a quick buck, Im not really sure what steps to take. I feel that I should include that I did consider joining the military a while back, but was medically disqualified, rendering that option null.Anyway, needless to say Im pretty terrified, and because I have no clue where to even start to prepare for all this, any and all advice is appreciated. Assistant: Thats quite the pickle youre in. So heres the dill:Your parents are doing this so that you will get your shit together. And a month is a good bit of time to start doing just that. If you go ahead and start working on it now, you could talk them into renegotiating the terms. Maybe after 3 weeks if you cleaned up pretty well, and went out to progress in your personal financesprofession, they would see a different side of you. And they may be willing to give that side 6 more months until that eviction, if at all.Human: Youre right, my parents arent unreasonable people, I feel like if they saw me working hard then theyd at least consider an extension  <response>: Sounds like your parents are showing you tough love. They gave you more than enough opportunity to figure out what you want your next step in life after high school would be. You wasted the time that was given to you. Now they are being harsh by doing what they are supposed to, pushing you out of the nest. They have no obligation to keep you there, and maybe if you are lucky enough to show you can start taking life seriously they may let you stay a little longer. Find a job and offer to pay them rent. They will love this because they get money, you get to learn how to adult and you can start your transition to adulthood. Worse case that isnt good enough and they want you out regardless, then you continue down the path you are now on. Take this as an opportunity to find yourself. First lesson in life, money makes the world go round. Find a job, find two jobs, find as many keep you busy and paid. This will help you get money and develop some skills like working with others, showing up on time, following directions. Maybe you even pick up some special skills. Is there something that interests you? Do you have some computer skills like MS office? Or even better coding? You can research how to get certified for IT related skills. Or maybe computers arent your thing, you are more hands on. Look in your area for labor related jobs. See if any jobs offer on the job training for someone with little to no experience. Beggers cant be choosers. Everyone starts at the bottom. This is a start, you can figure out where to go from there. Its time to realize you are no longer a child, you are an adult, theres no going back unfortunately. You will learn some harsh lessons like how much unlce sam takes from your hard earned money and bills take the rest of your money. Personalfinance page is a good resource on how to budget. Learn it, live it, love it. Your first step is always your hardest. Good luck. 