<prompt> Human: My updated wedding proposal came back yesterday, and its nearly twice what it was originally. Its just over 20k! Thats my whole savings.My fiancé was laid off twice last year and has only started back work thisWeek. Ive had to pay for about 98 of this wedding myself including covering our monthly bills.After my final payment, Ill be left with about 500 in my savings.Whats the best method for rebuilding my savings? Last years Gross income: 51k tipped wagesCell phone: 66moWells Fargo interest free loan: 44mo with about 240 left on loanKay jewelers loan: 150mo 1 year interest free with 1640.17 left on loanVisa Credit Card: 20mo 200 outstanding balanceVehicle Insurance: 37moThats it for my bills. My fiancé covers her own rent and bills now that shes working. We use my income for dinning out, groceries, shopping etc. Thanks guys.Assistant: Using your entire life savings for a wedding is dumb. You simply cant afford to spend that much. Have these expenditures already been made and youre looking to rebuild your savings, or do you still have the money and are only going to spend it all? Do everything you can to scale back.Also fiance with one e refers to a male, and fiancee with two refers to a female, so My fiancé covers her... is incorrect.Human: I havent paid the tab yet, but we are set to be married in early May. We have 75 guests coming to our destination wedding. There is a seafood appetizer option thats costing us 1100 that I want to cut completely and she wants the portions scales back...We will also save some money on the bar tab by switching to beerwine only. I will be putting down 9k tomorrow and the rest is due 15 days prior to our wedding.I agree this is dumb. Ive been saving this money for over 10 years. We didnt anticipate her lay off. We also didnt think as many people would RSVP as they did.  <response>: I will be putting down 9k tomorrow NO Dont deposit anything until you and the future Mrs. agree on cutbacks. 