<prompt> Human: I know this isnt rrelationships, Im not expecting relationship advices. We communicate very well and respect each others goals. He knows of my FIRE goal and is excited for me, but its not his thing. At first we will definitely have only one bank account in the US, since Ill be the one employed and he will still be looking for work in a new country. But after were established, what are the best options? Has anyone go through FIRE with an SO that didnt have the same goals?Should we keep our investments together, or is it better to keep it separate?  <response>: Do you guys plan on owning a home? Having children? Those are two big factors that can complicate matters of finances especially FIRE in a marriage. Do you expect to keep finances 100 separate after being married? You mention you make significantly more money, as a married couple do you wantexpect your SO to have a significantly different lifestyle than you do? Do you want to be FIRE while you have a husband that is forced to work, cant travel with you, etc?For my wife and I, everything is one and the same. It doesnt matter who earns what or who earns more, everything goes into 1 pot and comes out of 1 pot. I tend to control the finances but we make all large decisions together. I make about 3X what she makes and provide the lionshare of the income, but in the scheme of our relationship and lifes goals thats basically entire irrelevant. This works great for us, it leaves no awkwardness, jealousy, or hard feelings on the table. 