<prompt> Human: Im not sure if this is the right sub for this, so feel free to redirect me if need be.I work 2 PT jobs. 7 Days a week. Up to 60 hours per week. Each job gives me 2 days off but they never line up.Job 1: Best BuyTitle: Asset ProtectionSchedule: 9:45 - 4:00pm; 2 random days off during the week.Working hours: 22 - 32 hrsweekPay: 12.50hourJob 2: UPSTitle: LoaderSchedule: 5 - 10pm; weekends off.Working hours: 25 - 28 hrsweekPay: 10.35hour; OT 15.50 after 5 hours during any shift. Union contract being negotiated to base pay 13hour but still needs to be ratifiedIm currently trying to bring my family to the US via immigration process so I need the money. One job is not enough, and two is too much. And I say that in quotes because it still seems that Im not making good money, despite my efforts.I knew that down the line I would have to pick one or other, but I feel that its getting closer by the day, as I grow exhausted. But I have no idea which one would be better in the long run.With that being said:I really enjoy Best Buy. Im a nerd, so I like tech and games and all that. Management showed great appreciation for my work and offered me a full-time position recently. I declined only because I wasnt sure about them as a long-term career. Plus, their family health plan costs 200 per month.UPS on the other hand... is a miserable, soul-sucking job. But... are in need of drivers. Which start at 31.50hr... but also have terrible hours even for people who have been there for over 20 years. Also, the health plan costs 0 for you and your dependents. However, since they are union, Im currently on a bidding list to become a driver, with absolutely no idea if Im even going to get called at all.I fear that if I leave Best Buy then Ill miss out on working with what I enjoy learning valuable skills. And that Ill be stuck working in a warehouse a place which I loath going to work everyday in case I dont get the driver position.Simultaneously, I fear that if I leave UPS, then Ill miss out on potentially becoming a driver with satisfactory pay to support my family, and great health plan. I also fear being stuck at that 12.50hr with the slow and disproportionate annual raises.I honestly have NO idea what to do.Please help.  <response>: Personally, I think youre asking yourself the wrong questions so you continue to go back and forth with your reasonings.Instead of asking what should you do now, ask where youd want to be 5 years from now. Five years from now, I want to make X, buy a house, buy a car, et. The ask yourself, how do I get there? If getting there means that youll work at Best Buy, then commit to only to that. Only commit yourself to short term actions in order for you to reach your long term goals. Everything else is just noise and distraction. 