<prompt> Human: So me and my brohter have been living with only our mom since i was about 6 years old 16 years total. Earlier this week mom said i need to pay her 110 EUR115 USD each month because she needs more money she wastes too much, but get angry when i mention it. Is it normal to pay their parents money for living home at age of 19? Im a nice kid but she is so rude at me and my brother lately. Should i just say fuck it and pay her 1320 EUR1380 USD each year until i buy my own place? I dont help alot home, but that is because she prefers to be alone. Ofcourse i could help her with laundry but i dont need to, so i dont. But on the other side, im not really a shitkid. Im always being super nice and do everything she says. She can argue with me with anything, but if i say anything thats attacking her opinion she gets like crazy angry and almost cry, its seriously pathethic trust me, i cant even try to be funny to her. She also says i shower way too much and its only my fault the water bill is so expensive. I shower 5 times a week for about 10-15 min each. 5-10 min showers 3 times a week after i been working out Its not like super crazy right?. She also pay for all my food which is dinner bread with ham and cheese i make myself she pay. If i dont pay each month, she will be upset. Is there any arguments i cant use or should i just pay her? Im saving 90 of my income for my 3.2 interest house account, so that means im not wasting my money atleast. So the things she pay for me is Housing, food and making dinner, washing my clothes, pay water bills, electricity. Im helping her with cutting grass in our garden and such, so if i moved she would have more things to do and i think she is happy im still living at home. Sorry if i repeated some of the things twice, but i think i got every important thing down. I REALLY APPRECIATE EVERY SINGLE ANSWER!  <response>: If you have a job and shes providing your housing, food, washing your clothes and paying the bills why wouldnt you pay rent? Shes not your servant shes your mother. If you dont want to pay her the money then maybe you can do your own washing, make dinner once and a while or do something more to contribute. 