<prompt> Human: My uncle is in his early 40s, all of this takes place in the United States. In 2010, he quit his job from what I understand, it was essentially hardware prototype assembly for a networking company and moved to the middle of the desert to work in a commune of sorts for religious reasons. He got sick of it and has an 8 year work history gap now, with very little personal possessions left. Before he left, he had some computer networkingCCNA-type skills, and the current plan is to just get him up to date and see if he can find a job. Is this idea feasible, or are there any ideas about how to get him reintegrated into society as quickly as possible?  <response>: First off, kudos to you and your family for being open-hearted enough to help your uncle get back on his feet.Second, your family would benefit from having a frank discussion with him about what his needs are, what he can commit to and what you can offer in return. Are you open to giving him a place to stay? For how long? Does this include food, access to washer dryer, etc? Will he pay rent at some point, or do chores? Be clear about what is available to himexpected from him and it will go much more smoothly for both of you. Also, identify a date at which you will review the arrangements to make adjustments.Third, your uncle needs help to get him back into the workforce. If he had networkingCCNA skills, and is willing to build on that, help him get a library card and access to current info on this topic. Libraries have great resources and even if the particular book he needs isnt there, he can get it via interlibrary loan!While he studies for networking jobs, he needs to come up with an explanation for his gap in employment. Then he needs to rehearse his explanation so that he can present himself well in interviews. Future employers arent interested in how bad the commune was, how poorly he was doing then or now, etc. So construct an explanation that is suitable. E.g. It was important for me to take time to live spiritually, in community. During that time I did X, Y, Z to contribute to the community. After some time, I realized Id finished what I needed to do spiritually, and as part of that community.Finally, the suggestion from others to seek counseling support is solid. Good luck. 