<prompt> Human: Throwaway because reasons.Hello guys, im a 19 year old boy who has just finished 6th form in the summer. My long term girlfriend thinks that she might be pregnant as she has been feeling ill for a couple of weeks and is late for her period, she is on the contraceptive pill and i was always careful however obviously that small risk that we were so stupid to take has came back on us. Abortion is not an option for her, its pointless me even trying to convince her without us falling out or me just seeming like a total douche. My parents are going to kill me and im in no physical or mental position to father a child which kills me because i always dreamed of being as good as a dad as my dad was to me. I have very little income as i work as security at a local arena and there is only work when there is events. I have recently shelled out 1k for a qualification that i wanted to attain which has me left at an interest free debt to a family member. I was just wondering if there is anything, absolutely anything you guys have in the way of advice for me financially.Im very sorry if this is the wrong place and im sorry if i offended anyone with my ungrateful attitude towards a potential child on its way. Please ask any questions if it helps you to give me advice.If you dont want to help me i understand, i completely hate myself too for this but thank you for taking the time to read this.  <response>: Its understandable that you are nervous , even scared. Tbh...I had a similar scare as a HS senior. Luckily it was a false alarm but I was petrified. So I can relate to you to to some extent. Dont sweat about small things right now. Think about larger picture long term. Having a child could be life altering, a few bucks you owe to family is immaterial.Its not an ideal situation but you didnt murder anyone. You boned your GF. You took precautions but they failed. It was an accident. And Id bet your parents boned when they were your age too. So ..nobody can judge you they will, but remind them that they probably werent perfect 18 year old either So, try to exhale. The world wont come to an end. 