<prompt> Human: I am so overwhelmed. My husband and I are both horrible with money and the stress is debilitating.I am a stay-at-home mom with our 11 month old. I currently teach two music students. Totalling in 100 a week but it fluctuates a lot with holidays and cancellations. I am also newly employed by a music store as a teacher but am still waiting for students. My husband works for a job that pays about 30,000 before taxes. Our bills monthly:Rent: 875Food: Fluctuates A LOT, we get take out a lot some months and then do really good other months with home made. If we only do store bought, it usually turns into about 150 a week. Which is still too much, I know. :Gas: About 200-250EZPASS: About 80Car Insurance: About 110Utilities: Fluctuates a lot, can be in the 200-300sCableInternet: 68Phone bill: 148MISC: I dont know...probably about 100Netflix: 8Karaoke App: 4Dog Food: About 80Diapers: 40Wipes: 10-20Tithe: 100 we have been back and forth with thisStudent loan: 100Personal loans: 100Total debt: Around 8,000?We do not have credit cards. We are on WIC and SNAP. Goals: We want to move to a safe area with good schools. We want savings. We want a permanent residence. We want to be secure to have more children. Please help...tell me somehow we can fix this!  <response>: In the short term, you should get a handle on your food costs so they are consistent and for pete sake stop eating out. You have back and forth issues with tithing...but youre on government assistance here. This in a way means you arent paying it, we are. If you suddenly find yourself making more money and what not, revisit that, but for now this is something you cant afford.Netflix while a small expense, seems unnecessary. You should get rid of it. You need to get into the mindset of cutting out unnecessary expenses until you arrive at where you want to be financially. Same deal with the Karaoke app. Owning a pet also seems ill advised, but Im not really heartless enough to suggest people give away their pets...but...you should consider how it makes sense to have one when youre in this situation.Unfortunately, while you may have some wiggle room in your budget with cutting food costs and a few entertainment expenses, the crux of your issue is youre simply not making enough money.Basically youve told the government you dont make enough money to be able to live without assistance, and they agree.With that said, your post doesnt really list your take home pay, but a quick glance looks to me that your monthly expenses are exceeding your income.So for that youre going to have to find a way to earn more money. Maybe night school or some other form of training to try and get a better paying job? 