<prompt> Human: Engaged to be married this fall, planning and deposits mostly already paidouch ouch ouch. My fiance is switching employers her division sold to another company and the new employers insurance plans suck, high deductible plans that cost hundreds per month. Im planning on adding her to my employers plan which is better, but since we are domestic partners until married the premiums for her portion are post tax. As the premium change is about 240 dollarsmonth the additional taxes will cost 80 dollars between now and Octoberwedding, so nearly 800 dollars in total. Thoughts on privately just getting married now at the town hall and not telling anyone?Assistant: You can still have a ceremony and reception for your family later on in the fall. I think theyd understand. Youre still getting married.Human: Thats my argument, we dont have to change anything with the plans for getting married. But emotionally it does take a bit away from the actual day.  <response>: You still have to do the paperwork one way or another, its not horribly romantic. 