<prompt> Human: Hi Pf, Were based out of Ontario, and im hoping someone can offer some wisdom. So to preface, my father and brother are bipolar, 7 years ago the house almost paid off. Father borrowed against it completely and went on a spending spree, sold the house to an uncle bc he cant afford payments. I just found out we havent been paying him rent so we owe him back rent for 3 years. My father has no intention of paying it back, just saying see him try to evict us see what happens. Hes always had this habit, we just didnt know how bad it was. Hes been firing clients, well, just because. So now were in a serious burn rate. My brother is also bipolar, believes he has a right to a car, unlimited cell phone usage etc...OH and he racked up over 1k in parking tickets and refuses to pay for them. Currently we owe uncle about 90k for rent and another 1M for the home its worth 1.2 . The business is run out of the home theres a proper office in the front with about 2 staff members, myself, and one cpa who does per diem work. 5 years ago my father had an epic meltdown, so I dropped out of uni and started running the tax practice fully legal and the booking keeping as well as the ntrs so that we can keep the family expenses going. Right now were at a burn rate, and no body is fucking helping out. Everyone wants to drive a mercedes and bmw father signed the agreements in my name, when i was 20...didnt know any better so I didnt fight him or argue. So currently We have 1500month insurance going into car payments, no one wants to take the bus bc they deserve better.Im already trying to sell 1 car which would lower the pmts down to 900month insurance. Our monthly expenses is at 18,000month and no one is helping with the monthly expenses. Ive had months where the gas expense was at 2,000 and anytime I bring it up theres a huge back lash. Theyll say Im making shit up, brother will start blazing again, coming home drunk which makes my father worse and cycle just continues and theyll break the tvs, vacuums, phones etc.. whatever. I have one other brother whos 23, who finally got convinced to work and help out. My current objective is to focus on getting the house under control, get my degree and then deal with the family crap. Ive been working like a dog which i get yelled at for working on weekends now Im beginning to burn out. Past couple of years Ive had no social life and ended up having a huge break up. I did do a decent job at keeping the income and expense in line, end of 2013 fiscal we had 30k net left over, 2014 was 60...BUT...that all went to repairs. We had a massive leak along the basement retaining walls which came out to 18k to fix, server melt down5k, several clients committed fraud 30k in legal fees. To top it all off, I got hit by a truck last July so couldnt work for 4 months...and you guessed it. no work and no billing was done while I was bed ridden, so that ate up the profits. Now with father firing clients just bc he feels like it hes no longer in the office, but whats done is done we are losing serious . I have my full expense statement prepped, but I just dont know what to do.My biggest expenses are:Auto-3,200 3 cars, insurance, gas, tolls If I remove 1 car id save about 700Telecommunication office-250month Internet cell phones-700month thus far everyones been crying whenever I say we should change, but fuck it I looking at new plans3,200 food2,000 in family allowances2,000 interest pmt for fathers CC 30kI am going to be putting money into a marketing fund to get more clients and regain market share. We have a good name in the market still.Edit: Im going over all the responses and thinking over everything. Im not going to lie I was expecting to be made fun of, thank you for serious responses. Theyre genuinely helpful just alot to mull over tooTo clarify a few items, I am the sole shareholder and director of the op Co and hold Co, the minutebook and agreements are with a lawyer. The way he kicked me out was forging my sigs stating I sold my shares to him privately for 1. So to prevent that from happening again its with them. The 18kmonth includes 2k of stupid expenses per month I realize my brother needs help but refuses to accept it and will not attend. Ive paid for counselling for him, had them come to the house. I cant fix everything at once, just one thing at a time. Moms actually not bad, he used to beat her and I told him he touches her again Ill break every bone in his body. She wants a divorce and has started a job again. But father throws a fit think a giant baby throwing a tantrum and she has to look after him so I can work. She works one day he cries 4 days etc... She also suggested I open up my own office and shed help with marketing so Im looking at that as well. For all intents and purposes my father is legally a subcontractor and no nda non compete have been signed I cant shift ownership until after year end which will be JulyApart from vehicles, Corp owes me 75k but I just want 15k that would pay back the cash injection and I have 4k hidden in savings and untapped loc.Ontario, Canada Assistant: Your family has no intention to change. This is very obvious and they already have told you this.You have two options: Continue your lifestyle of worrying and working yourself to death for their benefit.or Remove yourself from the situation. Find another job and life that does not involve your family in a professional sense.I dont think you are going to fix them. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you can move forward in a healthy mental and financial manner.Human: fully agree that you are choosing to be in this situation. Nothing you can do will change the fact that you are in business with bi-polar family members that are not interested in acting responsibly. You need to get out and take care of yourself. Possibly a geographic move could help. Regardless, you cant save your father and brother from themselves. You might be able to put off the inevitable, but the fall is coming, and you are in control of whether or not you fall too. I am reminded of one of my favorite sayings, you dont have to light yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. Good luck- I know Terri g out will be a very tough decision to make and probably even harder to stick with. You just have to do it for your own sake and sanity. You are not responsible for stupid decisions of others. Just your own...Honestly I do want to move out, just need to get my head above water first. Ive thought about either being a condo and putting a room up for rent. Or I just rent a room and go from there.  <response>: You cant get your head above water by staying on a sinking boat. Sounds like your family is spending more than what is coming in so you wont be able to out earn their spending. Youll just deeper in hole. Find a new job, move out, break financial ties. 