<prompt> Human: I am hurting and this has been due to spending money on fighting for custody of my children. I have 50,000 in credit card debt and another 35,000 for my car. I take home 2,000 after paying child support and housing. Personnel reductions at my work military I am out the door in three months. In 2014 I had zero debt after two deployments to Afghanistan. Bankruptcy or debt relief, I see those as my only options. I need some guidance. Thank you.  <response>: Being debt free in 2014 doesnt matter. All that matters now is that you have 85,000 in debt, 50,000 of which is in a high interest loan. Luckily 35,000 of that debt is in an asset, which you of course are going to sell.Sell the car.Buy a car for 5,000.Look for a new job. You should have started this 3 months ago.Start paying that debt off. Pay off the one with the highest interest first, whether that be the car or the credit. Its going to be a tough hill to climb but hell, youre a soldier so its all old news to you. 