<prompt> Human: Im 24 years old and Ive been active duty in the military for 6 years now. Ive been giving money to my mother every paycheck since I joined and Ive slowly increased it to 200 a month which covers our cell phone plan plus a little bit extra 25- 30. Fortunately I have no debt right now but I desperately need to finish my emergency fund because I am moving to new base where Ill be making much less money and spending more on rent. My mother has recently asked for 2500 for a vet bill for our family pet. Of course I worry about my mothers well being because she is divorced and only works the occasional seasonal job, and I care very much for our pet that is sick right now. In situations like these I feel that money is replaceable however I wont be prepared to make my move to a new base where my finicial situation is going to change greatly. Its hard to say no because I am someone who always wants to care for my family.  <response>: It doesnt sound like your mom can afford to be mostly retired. She needs to get a job. 