<prompt> Human: My BFF lives in asia told me she needed the money because her husband cheated on her and left her with bills he owes under her name. I told her I dont really like lending money since I got burned by relatives already, but she promise me she would pay me back in installment every paycheck shes a teacher. I lend her money 200 against my better judgement even though the last time she didnt pay me back and totally forgot about it. At the first month she ask me if she can pay the first installment after two months, I said yes. Then at three months she said she can only pay me 20, which I said fine. Fast forward five months, I ask her about the money she owes since she seems to forgot about it. She told me she will pay me 20 the following month, which she did. And then she made a cryptic post on her facebook about finding who actually her true friends and letting go of fake friend.. Now, shes back with her husband and avoiding me. Too be honest I dont really care about the money since I make more than her US salary vs. Asia salary, I just want to know that she doesnt see me as a cash cow. I even told myself that if she paid me half, I wont let her pay the other half. When we go out I usually paid for everything concert, meals, casino, etc. and I guess this is why she think she dont need to pay me back.Should I let the money go and have it as a lesson learned? Shes my friend since first grade and even though I moved to US in middle school we started to keep in touch again after college. Although sometimes it feels like we out grew each other, we still call each other best friend.  <response>: Uhm. Shes been using you as a wallet way before this. You just said you usually pay when you guys go out. Total cost of that probably well exceeds 200.This is not a friend, just someone who sees you as a money bag. 