<prompt> Human: Im 28 years old and Ive been helping my parents run their business for the past several years. I currently dont have another job, and my parents pay me about 12,000 a year. I try to cover some bills with my personal funds and help keep track of other bill payments for them, and I handle almost all of the bookkeeping for their business.I also currently live with my parents. There is some history of abuse in my family; my mom calls me all kinds of names when she feels Im not doing enough for her and my dad sort of enables it. I havent been standing up for myself because she has leverage over so many parts of my life, so Ive spent some time thinking of ways to get out because I feel like its going to escalate the longer I stay. I figured one of the first major hurdles would be finance, so I was hoping to reach out to anyone on this sub who could help.- Im still job searching and hoping to find a career with my computer programming degree.- My name is on the deed to 3 houses which were purchased and mortgaged by my mom, including our current residence. I have filed a homestead for our current residence. I do not want to live at any of them because it would still give my mom grounds to continue being invasive and abusive.- I have a 7-year-old car that is fully paid off.- I currently have an IRA with New York Life.- My moms name is also on my current checking account. I have about 10K on the account, but I worry I may lose some or all of it if I leave. Ive been looking to open another separate checking account as well as a savings account, so any suggestions for banks or credit unions in this situation would be greatly appreciated. I was looking into online banks but Ive been getting conflicting feedback about customer service.EDIT: Clarifying some info  <response>: You need psychological helpYou probably need state assistanceYou need a victims abuse advocateI would call your state first, giving you financial advice wont help until you get a LOT more of your life fixed and figured out. 