<prompt> Human: Hi all,Im kind of stuck between rrelationships and this sub, so please bear with me. I recently graduated and got a decently paid contract at a Tech company. I worked retail and small jobs my entire life, so this feels amazing. My immigrant family always looked down on me for my chosen field of study, and I always worked really hard to be financially independent from them. Now, Ive finally achieved that and am relieved. My boyfriend was raised by an overprotective Mom. They never let him have a job, and he graduated with 2 degrees in 3 years. His degrees, however, never got him any jobs - all work places want experience. He did retail for 6 months and he hated it so much that all he would do was come home and be negative. He has very thin skin when it comes to customer service and its a huge detriment to our relationship because sometimes he would take it out on me. He now only applies to nicely paid jobs online even though they never call back bc he doesnt have the experience. He had one interview finally to be a data analyst but let his attitude get in the way of pleasing the interviewer he always says he isnt going to change who he is to please the interviewer.At the end of the day, hes an amazing person to have at home. He cleans, cooks, takes care of everything, organizes, whatever. I find myself incredibly lucky, as what extra money he does have, he saves or spends on me.He begged to live in a certain neighborhood, and I reluctantly agreed because its far from my work. Its a nice house near family. But Im getting anxious because move-in day is SUNDAY and he hasnt found work. Rent is due in 30 days and he drained his savings to pay for the deposit. I feel really stuck - his parents may loan him money, but am I on a sinking ship with him? What do I do? Ive tried talking with him but I feel like my creditsavings is on the line if he cant make the rent. We also live in a college town so even low-wage jobs are pretty competitive we live in an expensive, competitive area because this is where all the jobs are. He is younger than me and our life experiences are very different. I dont know how to explain to him how important it is to have a stable, albeit low paying, job.  <response>: Sounds like he needs to grow up.This may be a sinking ship that has you treading water.The question is, how long do you tread water before you realize the ship is going down with or without you. Be aware that he top rradons for divorce is due to money issues. 