<prompt> Human: Every year its the same thing. My sister is my best friend in the world but every Christmas she spends maybe 200 on presents for me. And every year I feel obligated to spend 2000 on her. I make 49k a year working offshore and she makes around 38k.Why do I feel guilty about not showering her with presents that I cant really afford? Am I just being hard on myself for no reason? Need some advice and that Im not a terrible person for wanting to save some of my money.  <response>: You are far from a terrible person. Spend what you can afford. She wont be mad and start hating you. Im willing to bet you could spend 0.00 on her this year and she will still love you just the same. Remember Christmas isnt about presents. Spending time together is what counts. P.S. If you are ever looking to adopt a brother, to shower with gifts, let me know. 