<prompt> Human: I currently make 50K, and am beginning to drown in considerable bills.I recently received an offer that would pay 80K. I would love to figure out what my paychecks would look like. This seems like a no brainer, but theres a few things I should keep in mind.I live in NY, this job would be in New Jersey, so considerable commute and lots of income tax questions.I am also possibly expecting a second offer next week that would be in NY, so Im trying to figure out how long I can stall the other offer, and at what point I give my noticeopportunity to match at my current employer.Can anyone tell me what I could expect my bi-weekly paychecks to look like if:80k yearMarried with 1 childLive in NY, Work in Jersey5 to 401K450month Medical276month out of paycheck for commuter train175 pretax35month Dental35month VisionThank You in advance for all your help!  <response>: I am also possibly expecting a second offer next week that would be in NY, so Im trying to figure out how long I can stall the other offerConsider calling the second company and being up-front with them about your situation. You are not pressuring them to make their offer, but want them to know you are working with a deadline and will have to decision on offer1 soon. That often moves the second offer forward or gets them to bow out quickly. You dont want to risk losing offer1 by waiting too long. 