<prompt> Human: My estranged, narcissistic father still has a little financial reign over me. He recently mailed me a Personal Financial Statement after filling out 90 of it himself. He just wants me to fill out the part where it asks how much money I have in my personal bank account, to sign it, and to mail it back to him. He claims that a different bank where I have equitiesinvestments had called him twice in one week to remind him to send the form. Nowhere on the form does it state a deadline. Something smells fishy---my father has lied to me in the past before to get what he wants. I suspect that he wants to know how rich or poor I am which he has no right to know because were estranged. Something smells fishy---my father has lied to me in the past before to get what he wants. I suspect that he wants to know how rich or poor I am which he has no right to know because were estranged.Just to be clear about how Im connected to my father financially: I 33 owner of 2 businesses that he co-owns, which provides me with equity. I have 0 access cards to the equity bank nor have I ever received anything from them in the mail. I do have 100 access to my personal bank account at another bank, though, which is the info that he wants. Should I trust him?When is a Personal Financial Statement mandatory?Why would the equity bank call HIM instead of ME if its a PERSONAL financial statement? Wouldnt it be more efficient if I sent the completed form to the bank?My father never wanted me to have total autonomy.Please read my history for more detailsAssistant: Why are you even asking if you should trust him? No, you absolutely should not give him your information.Human: Id still like to know whats going on, though, and why I need to fill out the form. Another red flag is that he included a return envelope with postage stamp and his address on it as though I couldnt do that myself! He seems desperate---desperate for control and crossing boundaries.Why would the equity bank call HIM twice, though, about my personal financial statement form instead of calling me? Unless hes trying to take out a loan in my name? I feel like going to the equity bank myself to get it all straightened out and tear the form in front of them. How dare they send a PERSONAL form to someone whos not me. Assistant: It sounds like hes trying to enlist you as a cosigner without actually telling you. If hes applying for a loan and needs a cosigner at his age, hes no good with money. I would monitor my credit for the next few weeks you really should do this anyway if youre not already to make sure hes not using your info to get money from a bank. If he does so without your consent go straight to the cops.Human: Would it seem feasible that the equity bank called him TWICE in one week about to remind him to send them my PERSONAL financial statement? I highly doubt that.  <response>: He may have told them you live with him. Youre overthinking this. It really doesnt matter how it happened. As someone else said, shred the paper. If you want to, you could call the bank and ask them. 