<prompt> Human: Long version:I have a myriad of mental illnesses that really fucked my shit up for the bulk of my 20s. Over the past few years I have been able to finally regain control, but the rest of my life is pretty much in shambles now.I am married and have two kids. I make 15.00 hour and work 3 days a week in a job that really has no room for advancement. My spouse works for his parents and brings home 500 a week hes not able to quit in the foreseeable future. We live in a house his parents inherited so I dont pay rent, but there are constantly things that need to be repaired replaced and we cant sell it because its not ours.My credit score is 480. I have 50 in my bank account until I get paid and 0 in savings. Lots of random debts to student loan lenders, and random other debtors probably 10 or so credit cards other debts that are under 500.I feel like I just woke up from a 10-year-long bad dream into an even worse reality. I feel like everyone else got the memo of how to adult and Im just sitting here overwhelmed and totally clueless as to how to make my life better. I was valedictorian and had a really bright future when I started college, then got pregnant my freshman year and severe post-partum kicked off a decade of mental instability. Life did not turn out the way I had hoped. I feel trapped and want to become independent from my in-laws and start saving for my kids future.I have 2-3 days a week that I can devote entirely to bettering my situation whether thats getting a part time job or spending every waking second learning a new trade coding maybe?.People of PF who have their shit together- what would you do? Is there a basic course on adulting that I can take somewhere that has the answers? Is my life too far gone? I feel super overwhelmed and just cant see how Im gonna get out of this crappy reality. Any advice is so very appreciated.  <response>: Just wanted to say its never too late to turn things around. You have 2 kids that are counting on you. Life is about improvement. Take it a day at a time. Good luck! 