<prompt> Human: Hello! I came to you all before and the response was amazing. I am hoping you can help me some more. I am in the last leg of home treatment before the doctors declare this to be MRSA and I have to get admitted into the hospital. I have some other ailments that make my immune system not the best. I probably wont, but it also would not be surprising if I died from this. My boyfriend and I have put off getting engagement and married until we have some more financial footing. But.. If things get hairy in the hospital... Id like to be his wife, even for a few hours, before I go.But, I dont want him to be stuck paying off my credit card solely in my name and my medical bills. Thats the only debt I have car is paid off, we rent, no payment plans on anything.I know Im probably just overreacting, but not ever being able to be his wife is what scares me. Is there a way, if I were to get a really bad prognosis, we could get married without leaving him with screwed up finances?Credit card: about 9kMedical: about 8k at the moment, obviously more if I get hospitalized  <response>: You could just get someone to perform a ceremony, and not do the paperwork to report it until you recover. It depends on if you consider yourself married only if youve done the government paperwork, or in a more spiritualreligious sense 