<prompt> Human: Let me start off that I have a second part-time job to deal with my student loansflights back to the US, so thats not included in our budget.Im an American living in Chile. I earn okay money here with CH577.000 liquid about US1100 after taxes, personal retirement plan, and health insurance, and he gets around CH110.000 from his parttime job, half of which goes towards tuition every month.We have 2 more semesters to live like this, and I just find it difficult, because it always ends up with me handing him money for his bills, or his expenses, or whatever, which Im fine with, but it fucks up my budget having all of these unexpected but expected expenses, leaving me with less than a dollar in my account at the end of the month, which really stresses me out. sorry for the run-onIve tried bringing up budgeting with him a couple times, but I cant physically force him to write down what hes spending and what hes spending it on. Ive tried showing him my budget, and how there is 0 wiggle room this month, which ends up with him putting off his bills that he cant pay and then borrowing money from me the next month...sighHow do you make someone budget who doesnt have a clue and doesnt want to budget?  <response>: This has nothing to do with finance. This is a relationship issue. I am going to sound harsh but your dating a bum who is taking advantage of you. If you were not in his life, what would he do to get by? Whatever the answer to that question is, is what he should be doing now.So yes this is a rrelationship question. 