<prompt> Human: As the title says we 2623yo just got engaged. We are both working full time, but we have a cumulative debt of about 12k and little savings. Were hoping to be married her parents are paying for bulk of the wedding and have a house by dec. 2019. Is this doable? Whats our first move?Edit for more infoDebt is a mixture of credit cards 6500 and money owed to parents 5500 for schooling etc. Little savings is due to bad spending habits that we are doing our best to change. Parents are putting up 12k for the wedding, thats enough to cover the venue and foodbar so we have to cover the flowers,Dj, photovideo. Not sure about the average price of homes in our area but Ive seen a few newly renovated homes for 125k-150kMonthly income combined is 4000-5000 depending on bonuses and overtime Monthly expenses total around 1300 rent, food, gas, car insurance, phone bills  <response>: Why do you have little savings and debt with two people working full time while living at home?Please post your monthly income and expenses. 