<prompt> Human: Going to skip right through how my mom was barely in my life, as I found out she now has Parkinsons and has been in the nursing home for a year. They will not let her leave because she is not well enough to be on her own and would need caretakers to be taking care of her 24 hours a day. I cant live with her under any circumstances and I barely make enough money for myself to be helping her out. However, it hurts me to see her alone in the nursing home and I would love to help her go back home. She is only 59 years old, so I do not sure if Medicaid could help us. x200B;If you folks could give me any recommendations, I would love to hear all choices. I am very overwhelmed with everything : Assistant: Keep her in the home. Dont really know how at the same time your mom was so absent from your life, yet you all the sudden care so much after finding out this has been going on for a year. Human: All she has is me, no body else. I feel terribly guilty and helping her out would relieve me of the stress I am currently under.  <response>: Try posting in rrelationships to help get more feedback on analyzing your relationship with your mom and this feeling. Its hard to live with these feelings, this is valid and an extremely reasonable concern. Financially, just dont set yourself on fire to keep her warm you come first. 