<prompt> Human: Ive been seeing a lot of new apartment complexes going up all over town. Im in a suburb outside of Boston and it seems they are everywhere now.So my wife and I are doing pretty well I think - no debt and making about 160k. We rent a crummy 1 bedroom for 1150 a month.Ive been looking at these new complexes and rent is 2500-3k per month for a one bedroom. Im talking under 1000 sq ft. Granted, these are nice complexes with guns and pools, but they are huge and they are everywhere. Who lives in these places? Who can afford 3kmonth for a one bedroom outside of the city center? Am I strange for thinking these rents are outrageous?Assistant: YNAB, man.Human: Yup. I have tried, but my wife just spends and spends. She cannot stay on a budget - she needs to eat out most days so she can network and travels to a million conferences each year some paid, but always months later and it never covers the total...I eat 2 bagels I bring from home every day. I carry coffee in a thermos so I dont have to buy it. My suits are threadbare. I guess Im kind of a pathetic figure in a way, but still manage to bring home the bacon.  <response>: So sit down with her and explain that she cant keep doing that...seems pretty obvious to me. 