<prompt> Human: My fiances parents dont earn much and work barely above minimum wage jobs well into their 60s. But they also never been shrewdfrugal with the little money they do make. Over the years theyve dug themselves into debt by paying bills with credit and buying groceries on credit. Recently about 2 months ago her mother withdrew the little she had in retirement to pay off all her debts.Now they are having car problems and her mother is asking for money. Im a bit heated because they already completely blew through her retirement money in 2 months!? In the past weve given them money guilt free thinking that asking their own child for money is shameful enough. Now I think theyre more comfortable asking us for money over asking other family members because the rest of the extended family will not find out. They also rely on regular handouts from family members.Usually Id tell my fiance to go ahead and give them some money but this time I really want to give them a guilt trip and hopefully make them realize their destructive spendingborrowing habits. The other part of me is sensitive to their situation because I know theyre old and are struggling just to hang onto their jobs before theyre forced to retire.  <response>: Sorry, we dont have any to spare at the moment. 