<prompt> Human: I have to use a throwaway for this.I am a 23-year-old dude who just proposed to my now fiance. We both work for fairly large companies headquartered in the midwest. I graduated from college December of 2015 and have been in the workforce for a little over a year. I work as Business intelligence analyst and currently gross 47500year. A recruiter recently reached out to me via LinkedIn with a job opportunity. This agency bent over backward to get me to interview at the company they were trying to fill a position for. Eventually, I caved and went in for a really late interview. I was flippant when they asked me what salary I was looking for. I told them I wanted to be around 65,000; expecting them to withdraw interest with such a high request. I finished the interview and expected not to hear back. Today they offered me the position they were hiring for with the salary I requested.The problem is that I actually like my current job. Last month I was promoted to a small team and I am really enjoying the work. When I was promoted I asked for raise, but unfortunately, I did not get it. All of my bosses have been very positive in my development at my current job and I respect them as people and as professionals. My fiance thinks I should take the position and not look back. I am apprehensive because I dont want to burn any bridges with people who have helped me so much. Am I naive? Do I owe them anything? I was just promoted. Do I look like an asshole for immediately finding a new job? Any help would be much appreciated. Thank You.  <response>: Do I owe them anything?no. 