<prompt> Human: So my GFs mother decided to buy her an appartment for us to live. She didnt have enough money lacked about a third of the price, so she borrowed it from some friends. Since I wont get any ownership, I wasnt obliged to pay anything nor did I have any free money at that point. So me and my GF decided to give her mom some cash from time to time if we have some spare after all the renovation and furniture purchase for the new home. Now, half a year later, after weve spent a reasonable sum on the appartment, we were not able to give her mom anything because of the bad state that the house turned out to be in. All of a sudden, mother began threatening that she would sell the appartment if we dont give her everything we have spare after the most basic monthly expenditures. She says she needs to pay the debts faster.The problem is, again, this appartment will not legally be mine, so I dont feel like its reasonable to demand all my spare money for it. Especially considering that I wasnt too excited about buying an apparment so expensive to begin with.What would you suggest? Should I try and keep this appartment at the price of not having any emergency fund or savings, or should we sell it, return to my mothers home with my GF, and try to find a less expensive place or just rent it?  <response>: Move and pay for your own place like an adult. 