<prompt> Human: Im a 30 year old male. As far as my understanding:- Young single women live in big cities.- I cant make enough in a big city to save for the future, for my career I can only do this in a mid-sized or small city in the south.- On top of that, I cook most of my food, live in a small efficiency apartment, drive an old car. - And even if I did find the right one, start a family, etc. I could not afford it. Its a ton of liability and stress to deal with.Im scared for the future economy, meaning I think the middle class is dying and it will get harder and harder to make money. So I guess this is a useless post. My survival and finances come first, but its frustrating. How do you deal with this scenario?  <response>: The right one for you will also understand your current situation. If she demands to be wined and dined then she aint it buddy. Dont worry about this so much. 