<prompt> Human: Ok so heres the deal...my wife thought I was spending to much money while deployed here in S. Korea. So she takes it on herself to open a seperate account to transfer the money to. After a few overdraw fees I am getting fed up. She transfered more then we even had in the account and they charged me 35. I wrote the bank and they claim I have no right to look at this account or require any information on it. How is it she can make a private account and transfer my check to it and I have no say, but if I want to look at this account I need her go ahead? Well obviously she is not going to let me look at it because she is probably being shady. A month ago she told me she wanted a divorce and we started talking it out, but she still wont give me access. Is this legal to burn my credit score while she hordes everything I make into a private account?Assistant: Thanks a lot. So much useful information. However I was sleeping for the past 7 hours. Its going to take a while to read all of this. I wish more time to respond to it all  <response>: As others have said. 1 put a credit freeze on your account at the three credit bureaus. This is so that she doesnt panic and take out credit cards in your name, maxing them out if the marriage goes south 2 talk to a lawyer. 3 lastly, create your own bank account. Have whats required for your wife and kid deposited into the shared account, the rest in your separate account. Note, at this point she is going to know the jig is up, hence why this is the last step. Edit: invest in a good attorney. 99 of the time men are taken to the bank reduced to a wage slave, during divorces. Spending money here will save you two decades of financial hardships. 