<prompt> Human: Hello, I am getting married next year. I have 200k total liquid net worth and after a recent raise, after all taxes and expenses my fiancee and I are able to add about 50kyear net to our savings. I am grappling with how much to spend on a wedding. One part of me thinks its insane to spend 30k on a wedding but another part of me realizes its one night youll remember for the rest of your life and literally the only time , aside from your funeral, that all your friends and family gather to celebrate you. 30k is 15 of my net worth. Is that too much to be spending or can someone help justify the cost?  <response>: Decide whats important. No one will care or remember the vast majority of the stuff you can spend money on. You can have amazing wedding for cheap and a horrible wedding and spend a ton.The amount you should spend on a party isnt a percentage of your net worth. 