<prompt> Human: Just putting this out there hoping for advice or anything that helps.. Im 26 my wife is 27 our daughter is 4. We live in north San Diego, we got our first low income apartment, and have a decent car we make payments on. Now my wife is an illegal immigrant so she cant find work. I have a 9-5 Sunday through Thursday pay is only 11. An hour. I was a big troublemaker before I was a family man and am paying for it. I have 440 extra bills a month in just court,classes, and trouble related debts... Along with an sr22 ANND regular full coverage insurance as well. Im freaking drowning. I am 100 gonna be starting a mobile detailing business but cant get started until I get us above water again. Every month I dont think were gonna make it . . I dont know what Im asking Here just a cry for help maybe lol. Any info youd like to know? Any ideas? Am trying to find a 2nd job delivering pizzas or something so far no luck. Rent is:930 . car: 300Sr22: 60. Phones: 100Insurance: 100Internet: 60Bail bondsman: 200Court classes: 100Sdge: 20-50Bank fees: 24Accident debt: 140Im sure Im forgetting a couple little things... And I make 11 an hour , 40 hours a week...  <response>: Youre grossing 440 per week, 1,800 per month. Your hard expenses are 2,000 per month, before you buy food or anything for your kid. Youre in loss mode, going down fast. You have to either cut expenses sell the car, get cheaper phones or make more money. No other real answer. Your problem here isnt debt, I dont think -- its income. Youre making a very low wage. You can find ways to ramp up your income: second job, better job, night job, construction landscaping job, driving transit job... there have to be ways to bring in more cash.The mobile detailing business sounds cool but youll need some capital to get things launched that you havent got right now. Ice that for the moment and concentrate on taking care of your family and getting right side up. Hang in there, pal. Your daughter needs you. 