<prompt> Human: They are receiving this as a survivor benefit bc their parent died. Its been used for health care dental -- knee therapy etc. It theoretically meant for food, shelter etc, but instead i saved it up so they could use it for college. Most of its been put into CDs. I can understand them taking it back if one of my sons doesnt go to college or dies, but they are still in high school for another school year. The oldest who is turning 18 stayed back a year -- is a junior. They want the social security i saved up for him back.Edit: they recommend we save it for college.  <response>: Holy pronoun confusion Batman! Please rewrite and do not use the word they. 