<prompt> Human: I am a recent college graduate, currently making 90,000year. I went to school on a full scholarship, so I dont have any student loans and am able to save a lot of my money every month.Anyways, ever since Ive started working, my parents have been asking me for money like I am some sort of personal bank account or charity. I live at home which sort of complicates this, but I give them 1,000 every month to help out with the mortgage which they, my parents and the financial loan guy, tricked me into co-signing... To date, Ive already given them about 30,000 which includes the monthly 1,000 but also for random stuff like 4,000 in home improvements, which we didnt need, 2,000 car insurance for our entire family, and 2,000 for my younger brothers tuition. The other day, my parents asked to borrow 14,000. My dad said that this is a debt he owes my uncle. My uncle, who wasnt a citizen or whatever, couldnt open a bank account a long time ago, so he just gave it to my dad to hold onto, and was like yeah, feel free to borrow it and use it, Im in no hurry or anything.But heres the weird part, he says that my uncle is trying to fake marry this one lady from overseas, so she can become a citizen. She is going to pay someone 30,000 to take part in this fake arrangement. This is why he needs the money now.None of this even makes any sense. How can my uncle even marry this woman and make her a citizen if hes not even a citizen himself, which is why my dad was holding his money in the first place? Plus, shes the one that needs someone to marry and is the one paying, so why does my uncle need to come up with 14,000?Its just so crazy, and Im sure theres a lot theyre not telling me, but in any case, I dont want to get involved in this seemingly illegal mess, and categorically, do not want to give them this money. I dont want this thing to be a rift between me and my parents i.e. constantly asking them if they will pay me back and when. My parents keep guilt tripping me, saying that I dont love them and I dont understand and how much theyve done for me in the past, and are saying that Im not doing anything with money and its just sitting there as if theyre in my head and know my future plans. They were saying how they were going to pay me back over time, and Im just like just exactly, how are you just going to randomly come up with 14,000... when they barely make a surplus after every month after expenses for my younger siblings and house.Assistant: Youve gotten this advice. You got this advice last year. It merits repeating.1. Move out.2. Figure a way to use this situation to get your name off of the 450K mortgage holy sh!; thats a life ruining mortgage potentially should they default3. Move out.4. Stop giving them money. You dont make a lot of money. You should be putting the max in your 401KRoth IRA and building after tax savingscapital. You cant afford this. At all. Not even a little bit. You are already in a hole bigger than you can afford with that ridiculous mortgage that you should have never signed. Ridiculous. 5. Your parents are ripping you off. 6. The thing with your uncle sounds illegal and sketchy. 7. Move out.8. Move out. Human: What can I do with the mortgage thing? They cant just be like... okay, off you go! because my income is what gave them the lower interest rate in the first place. And why is it a big deal? If we cant afford it anymore, we could always just sell it right?  <response>: Judging by your post it sounds like your parents are extremely fiscally irresponsible. The kind of EXTREMELY fiscally irresponsible people that would default on the mortgage if you decided to move out and stop paying them the 1,000 rent. You need to come to an agreement to get your name off the mortgage, and distance yourself from them financially. Potentially offer the 14k as a gift in exchange for removing your name from the mortgage. Obviously, get a lawyer involved and walk away the minute youre free of that debt. If you dont, they will continue to treat you as their personal emergency fund until they die or you run out of money. 