<prompt> Human: A little back story:Seriously abusive parents, youve heard the story before. My fathers has been unemployed for nearly a decade and leeches of my mother who makes 80k a year. Anyways my parents took out parent plus loans for me to go to college with my assurance that I would be paying them off. In the middle of my senior year I ran away from home and have been living on my own. Current Situation:I have a pretty well paying job and I can handle the loan payments. So I just got notice from my sister today that A loan payment arrived and since I didnt pay it the interest has doubled which is her trying to put together what my dad is saying. That sounds like baloney as my father is a compulsive manipulative liar. Later on she sayshe said if u dnt respond by tomorrow mornin hes gonna disconnect ur phoneand tell the policetht ur hiding and put the loan in our nameWell Ive clearly stated that I have my own phone too him, not sure if that police thing is even remotely viable, and that last bit is a blatant lie. I am willing to cooperate and pay the loan, but Im not sure where to go from here. I fear that he will take the money I would give him and use it for himself which he has done with my mother, younger sisters, etc then try to pin the monthly on me. Ive been lurking her for quite a while, and have saved a number of posts due to the profound insight given on this sub. If you guys can advise me on how to approach this mess I would be forever grateful, normally I would be level headed and maybe come up with something but the stress is blinding me. I have tried those out of left field refinance places like SoFi for quotes but all their options would cost me much much more money. Anyways Thanks for reading and I hope you all are having a better day than me.  <response>: The loan is completely in his name. Maybe your mothers too depending on how that worked out. It cant come back on you in any way.If you want to send the money, just send the money while saying its for the loans. If he spends it on something else thats on him. Youve done your part. You dont need to suffer for his problems.If you can figure out the loan servicer and account numbers, you can probably send the money directly to them.Also, rrelationships is what you need more than rpersonalfinance. 