<prompt> Human: 21 yrs old. I come from an abusive household and i was bullied in school. Ive been always called retarded, dumb, etc. Not sure if its important to mention but just saying After graduating high school, i decided to stay in my room. I havent left the house for 3 years. But Its NOT mainly because of social anxiety. Ive never learned how to drive and i dont have a car. I live in the middle of nowhere nearest neighbor is 5 miles. i dont have friends. However this year i decided to get better. Its a slow process but im determined to reach my goals. So for the first time ive reached out to someone. I contacted my moms friend and she told me she can get me a 9-5 job that pays 11 per hour and she can drive me to work and to a driving school. I told her ill let her know when im ready and shes understanding about it. Now, Ive got 2000 under my mattress which is my savings. I dont know what to make use of it. I dont have a bank account. I only have my Social security card. How should i start from here? What things do i have to do and prioritize so i can fnally be able to study in college?yes, thats one of my goals.Im not seeking advice in this forum about mental health. I will not be responding anymore to any interrogation about me and my family. Im sorry and i understand that some of you are just concerned but I just really came here in this subreddit to seek advice about how to manage money and financial plans for my situation. It will greatly motivate me to work on improving, so thats why i wanted to have an idea what ill be doing. Like okay lets say ive finally left the house, whats the next plan? What to do and so on? I know that my questions are dumb for a 21 yr old to ask. But I honestly dont really know anything about finance, banking, taxes, cars, getting education, etc anything associating with public. These things are not simple to me. SorryEDIT: A lot of people assumed im a male. Im a actually a female. Edit 2: wow i didnt realize my post will get so much attention. It will be difficult to respond one by one but i just want to let yall know that ive been reading each them and checking and taking note of the links and important things.Im also thankful to all the people who are very supportive and encouraging. Im sorry i cannot reply everyone but your messages means a lot to me. and i will always acknowledge these thread as a big help to change my life. Ive also found out that some other people had or is been going through similar situation, so i hope they find answers and encouragement as well. I wish yall the best luck and success!!! Thank you  <response>: Just a thought. Whats your hygiene like? You may want to be extra diligent with showering each day, brushing your teeth and applying deodorant.I say this because staying secluded and alone for 3 uears may have desensitized you to your own BO. Snell is one of our main senses so its a really important part of the social puzzle . 