<prompt> Human: This is kind of juvenile and not sure if it belongs here but Im 18 and just started college. I was a complete idiot and made some spending choices my parents wouldnt approve of recently its money I earned myself but my parents are very strict, and totally forgot theyd show up on my bank statement mailed home in November. My bank is Bank of America and I went paperless a few days ago but the website said itd take up to two months for the change to occur. I cant go home and physically get rid of the bank statement that will probably be mailed home in November Nov 11 since I go to college far from home. Is there another way to make sure my parents wont see it? e.g. calling Bank of Americas customer service, changing my mailing address to my school mailbox which seems risky since 1 I share my mailbox with my roommates 2 the school mailing center handles my mail 3 not even sure if its allowed..  <response>: Your parents shouldnt open your mail anyway. If they open mail without asking you first, you should probably talk to about that. Also, you can set your mailing address to anything you want. I dont see anything wrong with having statements sent to your school mailbox. 