<prompt> Human: I need help to plan out the next couple years right now. As stated Im getting married to my sweetheart at 20.romantic story not for this sub I want to study Blah blah at blah blah university, get my degrees and intern etc. for whats needed in my goal career.Our plan after honeymooning and moving will be that she will work full time while I study full time. We are planning for at some point having student debt but that is an issue of future budgeting that we are both comfortable with especially if my future career turns out well. We both do really want to have kids at least within 3 years timeby my watch because we believe in healthy youthful delivery and that is something mutual between us. The issue is that my wife is going to want to be an at home mom with a baby to take care of after a year... Im nervous about this the biggest problem is who will make the money? I want to get as far as possible through college as well and quickly as possible if I work part time, whatever, I can work with that but part time wont pay the bills, gas, books, diapers etc. Every time I bring up my concerns and reasoning for waiting maybe even just two years instead of one she just says itll work out... We are currently searching for an apartment between 600-900 dollars. We both have family and parents that will be willing to support but we do want to be independent. Any advice will be appreciated.  <response>: No it wont just work out. You two need to sit down and work out a definitive plan and timeline. A 3rd party might help with the talk that is neutral and can help you and her consider everything inolved. Dont start having kids and have to beg for money from family. This may be better for relationship area than PF 