<prompt> Human: As the title says, weve seen a few houses with our realtor. No one recommended him to us or anything, we just happened time have him for our first showing and he was very helpful and nice so weve stuck with him. Onto today, I found a house that I loved, I went with him to go see it, but my boyfriend was away for work, so when he returned today, the three of us went to go look. The boyfriend also liked it, but said how he wants his dad to come look too since its a really old house, because he wants his opinion, but now our realtor is basically saying, you can see it again if you make an offer. This puts a really bad taste in my mouth, and I dont want to feel pressured on our first house. Is there an actual limit to how many times I can see a house? Or are the limits simply imposed by the realtor themselves?For the record, I understand completely that their time is money, were not trying to waste his time here, and were genuinely going to put an offer on this but now without the confidence were not so sure..Assistant: Walk away and find another realtor. There are no limits other than good manners and what the seller will accept. If they dont get the extra caution on a first house, they arent a good realtor. Human: If we were to find someone else, would the other guy be able to find out somehow? Not that it would matter at all, I guess I would just feel badAssistant: They will find out, but it doesnt matter. You tell your new agent exactly what happened and why you are switching. They are there to act on your behalf, not push you into decisions. Human: This. Do not worry about the first agent finding out; they will, and they will be angry. But it will be a valuable lesson for them.Before I bought my first house, I think I saw it four times. Maybe five...Assistant: Oh, seriously? Im looking around at forums and so many people are saying they only saw their house once or twice, so I started feeling like I was the odd man out. Human: Second or third house, sure. First ? Thats a big jump and worth extra time.Assistant: Hes also weirdly against trying to offer lower on a list price. We looked at one last week around 125k, it needed quite a bit of work so our thoughts were to offer 115 and wed probably negotiate to 120. He was very hesitant, and was basically like oh thats a really low offer, thats 10 grand difference! Id offer 120 then theyd maybe negotiate down to 122.5And we were just like dude.. what. Even with this house that we love, when he called the listing agent to make sure theyd take fha loans, he told us that the listing agent said the seller isnt going to go any lower on price. Which didnt seem weird to me at first, but once I remembered the first time he wanted us to pay a higher amount, it makes me feel like hes trying to make more commission. Like, people negotiate on houses, thats to be expected I thought..  <response>: Hes also weirdly against trying to offer lower on a list price.Of course he is... the more you pay the more he gets in commission. Walk away from this guy and find someone else. 