<prompt> Human: I recently came into about 3.5 million. I am 25 years old. Please, please ELI5 on how to proceed on choosing a financial advisor besides the obvious things that I could and have googled. Im talking about the kind of advice a financial advisor would give to his mother about investing. I met with one whom I liked right away. He works for Fidelity Investments. However, he seems pretty busy and Im not sure I would be getting as personal of a service; I dont know if this is even that important if he knows how to better invest my money than this other one. The other investor being from TIAACREF and she seems nice but I havent met with her yet I have a meeting with her around Thanksgiving. However, she seems to be more personal and more easily reachable; now, I have no idea if this is an indication of whether shes a good businesswoman or she just doesnt have much to do. How do I decide between the two of them? Any financial advisors on here that can advise me on what questions to ask or what investments I should be thinking about?Thanks a lot.  <response>: Managing a Windfall 