<prompt> Human: So Im getting married in 2 months, and have let the costs get away from me a bit. Contracts are signed, places are booked, and Im going through with it I am aware that all of this may have been a bad idea, but that ship has sailed, and Im resolute to work through it. Now to figure out how to pay for it. 28, stable job, US.Costs:15K venue, food, etc1.5K music3.5K photographer1K transportation1K rehearsal2K rings1K misc stuff that will undoubtedly appear.Total: 25K trying to overestimateAssets:58K base income but non-exempt and working 20 OT11K bonus anticipated, not guaranteed4K cash12K IRA16K 401kLiabilities:1.3K CC1 1.5K limit3.2K CC2 3.3K limit5.8K car loan34K student loans1.2K rent utilsWow that looks really bad written out like that. Im working as much overtime as I can reasonably pull off no shortage of work to do, and am committed to locking down after I make it through this. Without internet screaming at me too much, does anyone have any thoughts? Im looking at personal loans or loaning from the retirement accounts.Assistant: Any income from your fiancéespouse? Any possibility of a gift or loan from your parents?Whatever cash you get at the wedding should go straight to you debts. No one will cover the cost of their plate, which is a horrible concept to start with. But mitigate your pain as much as possible.Can you cut ANYthing before hand?How are you planning to pay for everything? There isnt enough room on your ccs...Human: Yes, income from my fiance as well. Our finances are similar, she makes 50k, has 4k in CC, 50K in student loans.Maybe from my parents, her mom has already helped with some of the costs.As for cutting, were only eating the food we have, not going out, etc. Being homebodies as much as we can. Were looking at secured and unsecured loans to pay for things, or raid the 401k...  <response>: NEVER raid your 401k!!!tl;dr: NEVER raid your 401k! 