<prompt> Human: Ok so I didnt just find out, I knew, but I just found out she is open to me seeing him. This means returning to england from illinois.Im trying to figure out my time line and if theres a way to shorter it any.I make approximately 2,789.00 after taxes a month.My approximate monthly incomeoutgoings are as follows.Pay check: 2,789.00Rent: -650Water: -85Electric: -100Gas: -80Car payment: -250Insurance: -155Entertainment: -200Medication: -100Misc: -100Expected total: 1069.00The problem is I always end up with unexpected costs, like vet bills and medical bills, and so I maybe end a month with 100 if Im lucky.I also have to factor that my car loan still has about 9000 remaining on it and the private sale value of the car is around 6000 with an estimated trade in value of 4000.I have other stuff I can sell but that might make me 2000 at a high estimate and Im not expecting much back from my taxes if any.Can someone help me with figuring out how to make this move asap? How do I clear the car loan?Edit: I should probably adding moving estimates.Plane ticket: 1000Shipping belongings: 50Car purchase in england: 3000Rentdown in england: 2500Cushion if cannot find work: 5000Assistant: The problem is I always end up with unexpected costs, like vet bills and medical bills, and so I maybe end a month with 100 if Im lucky.You cant just yadda yadda away 1000mo. The first thing you have to do if youre trying to save money is figure out what youre spending it on in the first place. I used to do this too. Its just a few dollars here and there, and then at the end of the month suddenly theres nothing left and you have no idea where its gone. A budgetingtracking system will help you figure out where your money is really going, and what you can and cant afford to spend. It will also help you plan for future expenses so unexpected costs dont hit so hard. Mint.com is not perfect, but its free, and pretty easy to use. Literally the month I started using it, I saved several hundred extra dollars because, when some unexpected cost came up, instead of just going, Oh shit. I have to buy this, I said, I dont have budget for this, and passed. Obviously, Im not talking about things like, I have strep throat and am dying and need to go to a doctor, but if your experience is anything like mine, your unexpected expenses are often not actually life-threateningly urgent.Human: My unexpected expenses are medical bills mostly and some other fees related to my ex wife in my old house being foreclosed on and me still being on deed. That kind of junk.  <response>: Junk that youre not budgeting for still. 