<prompt> Human: Hey everyone, I need some helpadvice. My fiancee seems to not want to talk about finances together. Im trying to help her get a budget just to show her and to better help her with money as well as prepare us for our future. Its really frustrating. Does anyone here have ideas on ways I can get her to be motivated or tips on ways to show her the importance?Edit So this morning as it was raining in my city my Fiancee didnt stop in time and hit another car. No one hurt. Thank God. Bad news is she stopped paying her car insurance so now she will have to pay out of pocket for the damages. Thank you all for your advice. I will keep working with her and change how I communicate.  <response>: That is a red flag. You can be kind, but you need to insist on seeing her finances and vice versa. Financial clarity and being on the same page before youre married can solve sooo many arguments. But of course, it sounds like you know this. Offer to set it up for her, instead of just showing her how. That gives you a chance to review her finances and also give her a headstart. Sometimes budgeting and the software used to track it is overwhelming. I still cant do Excel. It drives my husband up the wall, but my brain just doesnt like the grids. 