<prompt> Human: -- part one, should I get a prenup?Were about to get married early on 2y in our relationship. Im in my first job, she is in college. We are in CA.She has:- no assets, no student debt.- will be making from 70ky to 100kyI have:- 200k home which I rent out, pays for small mortgage- 70k in other savings- stock options to a not yet IPOd company which will yield at least 500k- currently making 120ky, later up to 150kyAs long as we are a family, I want to use my assets for us to live a full and happy life.If it ever comes to a separation, I want to walk away with whatever is left of what I walked in with. This includes the home, regardless of how much I invested in it with the rental income or my own salary after our family is taken care of. This includes the stock, regardless of how it grew and how I distributed it over the market.Am I wrong to want a prenup?-- part two, attorney troublesI started the drafting of a prenup with an attorney for a flat fee.He drafted an ironclad agreement in which there would be no spousal support and no community property. He wanted her attorney to start a dialogue to suggest the expected changes so that the resulting prenup would be truly a work of the two parties and therefore be stronger in court.My partner is thoroughly upset about the original draft waiving spousal support and community property. Her attorney suggested to pull both out of the agreement. My attorney is not willing to do so, advising me that without said clauses, Im better of without a prenup. He is not providing me with a clear explanation of the effect of removing said clauses. Because he is not getting paid hourly, he has grown impatient and hard to work with. I believe that his ego stands in the way of getting me to a solution. He offered a partial refund.Do I need an ironclad? Is my attorney in the wrong? Should I just take his draft and go to another attorney? Should I throw out the draft and consider collaborative law?This whole prenup business has been taking a toll on our relationship.  <response>: You might be better off posting in rlegaladvice but:1. You already have a prenup. Thats the laws governing divorce in your state. We you put in writing will just help customize those laws to the situation between the two of you. Explain this to your fiance and she may see the prenup in a new light.2. Find a new lawyer if yours isnt willing to work with you to come up with a good agreement.3. Re: the specifics of your prenup. Without more detail all I can say is your spouse may be right to be upset. What if she ends up sacrificing her career to stay home with the kids? Also, if she is contributing to the household financially, then in some way her money is subsidizing your ability to do things like save for retirement, invest in your rental property, etc. Basically you should write up something you can both agree is fair, rather than a blanket ban. Some prenups have tiered clauses, like things get treated differently if you divorce after 10 years vs 20 years, vs 3 years, or we. A good lawyer can negotiate all these options with you and your fiances lawyer. 