<prompt> Human: I enjoy what I do, I love the people and company I currently work for. I currently make 92k. A friend of mine left for another company and convinced me to apply for an open position. I did and was just offered 125k and a signing RSU bonus that will vest over a couple of years. This is significant and would convince me to leave. BUT - My current employer then countered with 120k, which may be enough to keep me given my comfort and feeling of tenure and respect, plus existing equity plan. Is it appropriate to go back to the prospective employer and negotiate for more? I already negotiated from 121 to 125 before my current employer responded. How would I word this so I dont sound greedy or ungrateful?Thanks for the advice  <response>: I say take the new job. Its a big raise and your employer now knows you may be looking to leave, which could cause issues down the road. 