<prompt> Human: Hello everyone, a year and a half ago I had no job until a hostel picked me up and gave me a place and for the first time a salary, the hostel I work at is amazing, the bosses and my co-workers as well, but from my view there is only one way to grow and that is by changing hostel to one that pays a lot more shocker. My dilemma is the emotional attachment I have with the place that made everything possible here in the first place and the fact it ll be completely cut in order to further my career.x200B;Has anyone been in this situation, and if so what would you recommend?x200B;Also sorry that it isn t the most interesting of careers.  <response>: Having an emotional attachment to a job is a difficult situation. When you are concentrating on your financial situation, you need to separate the emotions from your decision making. The people at your current employer will understand why you are leaving and will hopefully not take it personally. If there is no way they can match the money you will be making at the new hostel, then you have to make the move that is right for you financially. 