<prompt> Human: HELP. I 29 and my husband 27 got married around two years ago and have kept our finances separate this whole time. We also have an infant daughter. We were both employed in the military and making nearly the exact same income, up until this month, when I left my job to go back to school for a degree in nursing. So my income has shot to 0, but the army will pay all of my tuition. This program will take until aug 2020, if all goes according to plan. Its online at first, allowing me to stay home with our daughter, and then is in person starting in May. We are moving, which everything is entirely paid for by the military, as he is still in. We have no healthcare costs, and we are moving on post to our next location so we wont have a rent or housing bills here he will be getting paid about 1300 dollars less a month to accommodate this. Both of us have car payments, he has some credit card debt around 2,000, we have a joint cellphone bill, and I opened a 529 for our daughter that I would like to keep contributing to. I also pay for his car insurance, but thats mostly due to it was only 20 or 30 dollars more to do our cars together than I was doing separately. I never saw a problem with our expenses being separate and now I am starting to, and I dont know if thats fair because I am now the one with no income. Previously, I bought the majority of groceries because I was the one more able to do the shopping because of our work schedules. We split daycare by alternating weeks.I have around 6,000 saved and I previously told my husband I would just kind of live through that and he agreed he would buy more groceries and daily expenses. But is that the right way to do this?I trust my husband completely, our relationship is really solid. I am pretty confident he is not doing anything financially that I dont know about, other than occasional clothing purchases of around 100 here and there- which I really dont know the full extent of. He knows I think he spends too much on clothes Im worried he will think I just want to join accounts to monitor those purchases. I guess its partly true. I dont really buy anything for myself because Im dealing with post baby body issues, however I am quick to jump to our daughter NEEDS xyz when she doesnt. I dont even know where to start, or what I am asking. I would appreciate any advice. Thanks!  <response>: This is a relationship question more than personal finance. You need to get on the same page about your finances and we cant help you with that. You are married and in most US states your money would be pooled in a split anyway.It doesnt matter if youre currently earning 0, youre a team. It shouldnt be him giving you his money. It should be hes supporting his family. 