<prompt> Human: Some background: I grew up in a family filled with divorcees. My aunts, uncles, father now twice and mother now divorcing after dad caught my mom with a bf having a joint checking acc, and it goes on to include my extended family. Basically, I have seen how soul-sucking, stress-inducing, and financially draining marriage has been on everyone. And I just say to myself, why? Getting married has always been a traditional thing to do, but I am reluctant to the concept because Im 19 atm if I grow up middle class, money is always a topic of argument, and if I grow up wealthy, I have trust issues as to whether or not the woman with me is with me for me or my money. Am I missing something here? Should I let money affect my idea of marriage this heavily or am I not seeing something.  <response>: if you dont want to get married, dont. if you find someone you love and decide you want to get married, do. Youre fucking 19. you have plenty of time to change your mind.Disclosure: 27 and still not sure i ever want to get married. 