<prompt> Human: Hi,I am just wondering how many of you discussed with your other partner how would your financials looks like after marriage?It would be great to avoid disappointments where one person earns significantly more and is frugal, whilst the other person not only doesnt bring much to the pot, but likes luxury spendings, expensive cars holidays etc.Was it something that youve discussed before or perhaps it risen of the conflict during the marriage?EDIT:Thank you guys for your view on this. It was never a topic for us, since things worked OK out of the box. Except we never had chance to share our future financial goals. She is young, still studying and very new to the concept of FI lets leave alone RE. I will probably introduce these topics gradually and see if were on the similar page. I dont plan any big move yet, its just the fact that were going to build a house me financing this project that made me read a lot about finances in relationships, marriages, prenups, common goals. I am going to read your comments and learn. Much appreciated !  <response>: Not married, but you really should discuss this and be on the same page with any prospective life partner. 