<prompt> Human: Im living with my dad, have been since June. Im a huge burden on my dad, as I have no income. Its getting redundant coming to reddit and asking for help, yet I have no clue what to do otherwise. It feels like it should be that I should get a job, right - the most obvious thing? Ive kind of given up on applying. I was doing well the first couple of months and was even studying a trade that I would be somehow guaranteed to have a job I applied, got accepted, but would have to travel out of state and I got talked out of it, as long as I passed their tests. So I stopped persuing it, hoping my other skills would pay off elsewhere. So Im stuck - I lost my car in early August, I have credit card people and collections calling me; I just want to get away from it all and start somewhere new? Ive already borrowed enough money from my dad. Hes always pissed about it and always says I dont know what youre going to do, son., yet he lets me stay here. I have huge social anxiety so going to school something he always is asking me about is out of the question until I get my meds working properly. Also, that trade I mentioned earlier - I still kind of want to get into that, Im very apprehensive about it, though. I hope I can get some help and advice. Ive seen people call others out on this sub and on other ones how they think the op is trolling or just trying to get karma or some kind of bullshit like that - but no; I want to make it by myself and I know its going to be difficult at times, and that this is not the way a 34 year-old should be living.  <response>: Who talked you out of moving for your trade job and what were their reasons? Seems like if youre saying to want to start a new chapter then moving somewhere with a job lined up would be the best thing to do no? 