<prompt> Human: We were in the break room, and I said I was impressed that she travels so much and does so much. I guess she started to take it like I was jealous of her or something, and she started criticizing me for not living the same way. She asked me why I dont, and I said Im working on my own finances right now, and that I am more excited about becoming financially stable so that I can have more options and choices without going into debt or something. She said things like Dont you feel like youre in a cage? Im not waiting for that. What are you going to do, just get a good job and get old and never do anything? She said I should go travel somewhere for three months or something, without my husband because he is really into his new programming job right now. And when I said I would still have to pay my share of rent, she said I should get a roommate to live with him. How do you handle people that bombard your life like this? Its kind of irritating, because Im proud of myself for working on my finances, and shes making me feel like Im a loser.  <response>: Shes just trying to see what your buttons are and push them. Ignore her 