<prompt> Human: What is the best way to find a premarital financial planner? My fiance and I have differing views of credit card and student loan debt He thinks it is no problem to carry thousands in credit card debt for years on end and to not have paid off his student loans after 15 years. When I talk to him he spouts off common misinformation I dont need to worry about paying my student loan in full because the interest is tax deductible. I just pay the minimum required.. He also wants to buy an old house from his dad that in my opinion is absurdly expensive worth 355k, he makes 25hr at a government job and I make 37hr at a 32 hr a week job for someone who is not capable of finding extra money in their budget to pay off credit card debt for years on end. The house in question is in serious need of remodeling in the kitchen and bathrooms. There is not a single room in the house that does not need painting or some kind of ceiling repair. I really want to find someone who can explain the financial facts of life to him in a way that is not nagging or condescending.  <response>: If he doesnt listen to you someone he is going to marry and spend the rest of his life with I dont have high hopes that hell listen to some guy who, while an expert, neither of you know.This a very bad thing because the amount of turmoil and strife money problems can cause in relationships causes many to just end. 