<prompt> Human: Just like my father. Long story Short. 40 yr old college dropout well I got an associates. I basically live to work slave wage jobs and to take care of parents. I dont have any valuable skills. My parents were just like me. Except that they have someone thats going to take care of them until they die. Im never going to have that because I never got a kid and no woman ever wanted to be with me. I have unpaid student loans and I literally have about 6 figures in debt. Add the fact that the loans have been in default for 10 years. My life is over. I dont know what to do or what to say.  <response>: Your life is NOT over.First thing you need to do is take care of yourself. You cannot progress if you feel like crap all the time. Look into mental health resources if you think that would help, then make a plan. This is a completely solvable problem, it will take some time and hard work but you CAN do it. If you give us some more information, we can try to give you more specific advice. The first thing you need to do though is take care of yourself. 