<prompt> Human: Im at my wits end with my current situation. I want to jump off of a bridge!Here is my situation. Im a working father of two. One child and his mothermy wife lives with me and my daughter, whom I pay child support for, lives with her mother. Im currently away from home working and have been for a couple months. Going home once since Ive been here. All expenses are paid besides food. My employer is expecting me to relocate in the coming weeks which means moving my family from Texas, where the rent is cheap, to California, where it is not at all.In the past I have been frivolous with money. Never to the detriment of my children, or family but much to the detriment of any kind of savings. Also, it seems like Im always having to push bills back, and pay them late to try and regulate spending to the rate at which I get paidweekly. Its a juggling act and its killing me. In the past 6 months, I have seriously cut back on buying things that I dont need. I think I could do better but Id say Ive cut back about 80. I need some serious help. In the past month, I net 7327 and I currently have 200 in the bank. My bills, including rent, car insurance, car payment, electricity, internet, cell phones and groceries are around 2500. Misc spending has been around 20 a day for meals while at work say 600 a month. Thats still only 3100! Where does all of my money go!?I need some serious help.I havent been able to save a dime and I need to move soon. That means, deposits, moving costs, as well as some of the standard bills I pay. I cannot wrap my head around it. What is going on? Ive tried YNAB, Mint, Billguard, etc to no avail. Please help!  <response>: You need a budget 