<prompt> Human: Im 19 and live with her while going to community college, I just started a job that pays 11 an hour. She refuses to tell me all the details about how bad it is but we just got our cable turned off and she had to borrow money to pay the power bill.I dont know what to do to help, her credit score is awful and were trying to sell the house right now to move somewhere smaller.Can someone please tell me what were supposed to do??? She said she has a 401k but she cant access it for 3 more years. Ive had to pay for food for the last week because she literally has no disposable income at all.  <response>: She refuses to tell me all the detailsNot to be a jerk, but if your Mom doesnt want to share the details with you where you could then relay them to us and could give some advice, you really need to start distancing yourself financially from your Mom. Look into getting more hours at your job and renting out a room somewhere while going to school. 