<prompt> Human: I know several people who will complain time to time about their debts but then they will mention big purchases they make the following weeks. I usually just bite my tongue and let them go. Had a close friend recently get out of a 10k cc debt but now they are going right back in again with more cc debt.I dont want to feel like Im invading their personal life but I also dont want to see them suffer from their choices.Do I just say nothing for the sake of our friendships?  <response>: Wait until they ask for advice, people who arent ready to listen really wont pay attention anyhow. 