<prompt> Human: My wife and I are in the market for a home. Right now, we are renting a 3 bedroom apartment and paying 1,500month. Were looking at a home thats 450k. Im 31 and shes 30. We have 3 children. Two school age and one toddler. I make 85kyear. She makes 55k. We both put in around 10 for a 410k and retirement and I pay 700 per month for health insurance for myself and the children. Wifes is paid completely through her job. Here is a breakdown of our expenses:Car 1 515Car 2 550Private School2 kids 700Daycare1 child 500Utility bill 250Cable TvInternet 200Cell phones 100Car insurance 250Savings 700Food 800Gas 300Were both lucky to not have any student debt, thanks to the GI Bill for both of us. No CC debt. We also have 30k in savings at the moment.Thoughtssuggestions?  <response>: What the hell are you doing with TWO car payments over 500? Are you insane? Your monthly transportation costs are likely equal to or in excess of your rent. Do you understand what you are doing to your living situation by placing this ridiculous burden on yourselves? 