<prompt> Human: I remember my mom got married a second time in the basement of a courthouse for free basically. Unfortunately my fiance wont let me do that. Im trying to stay out of it as much as possible, but when she came to me today and said, What time do you want to have our pictures taken? Then I asked how much it would be, 140 dollars, for an hour. That blew me away.Why would I do that? Cant we have a friend with a good phone take our pictures for free?Theres a lot involved in a wedding. This is just the beginning of the spendthrifting. Is there a guide to this wedding thing and how to do it on the cheap?Assistant: Have a talk with your fiancé and set expectations before you try to be frugal. You start complaining about things or start getting on different paths and you wont end up married.Human: Were on the same page. We wouldnt be getting married otherwise.We cant do the courthouse basement, but we can do the bare bones. Is there any sort of guides to this? Ill be honest, Ive always thought Id never get married ever, because its a stupid contract to sign, but now Im in the position where Im forced, insofar.  <response>: Doesnt sound like youre on the exact same page if shes interviewing photographers and youre being forced.Have the recommended conversation. 