<prompt> Human: What are your thoughts on sticking with a job and not constantly trying to jump from job to job for better pay but higher workload? I work hourly, dont have to do sales, dont get a bonus, and dont take my work home with me. I feel almost shamed by reading this sub sometimes because it seems like everybody else is striving for retirement at 35 at the cost of 70 hour work weeks. I live in a low COL area with a decent job that offers a good balance at 45kyr. My wife is a new attorney making 68kyr and we are about to have a baby. We have around 200k in debt 12 is mortgage, 12 law school loans which isnt that bad to manage. I just dont feel a huge rush to move up, which seems to be the opposite of the average advice on this sub. Settling feels like failing in the PF world.  <response>: I have been at my job 7 years. They offer really good benefits - 10 matching funds and a month of vacation every year, plus its like 10 minutes from my house. I keep planning on leaving but then just stay. 