<prompt> Human: I am at my first full time job after college and have noticed over the past few years that everyone I know gets what looks like a lot of financial help. Note that I live in a low cost of living city. Examples:--- Person 1 got a free new car from parents after accidentally having a kid. His parents bought him a 250k home after his 2nd accident kid. He is supposed to pay them 500 rent, but often doesnt and begs parents for groceries. He spends 100s a month on video games. Person 2 somehow bought a home right after college. Her parents paid for her last out of state vacation and paid for her boyfriend to go. Person 3 had parents pay her college. They buy her expensive stuff for Christmas Keurig, etc and offer to pay forher overseas vacations. Person 4 is somehow incredibly broke yet got 8k average estimate worth of plastic surgery for cosmetic reasons. Person 5 had either half or a whole boob job paid for. Person 6 is in process of buying a home and her parents are going to co-sign and help pay for it. Person 8s boyfriend got a free car for Christmas. Nearly everyone I work with goes out to eat every day, 1-2x per day, not including carrying around stuff like 20oz bottled sodas and coffees. Its odd to hear someone packed a lunch. I always have to pack a lunch. Sister in law got a home loan co-signed by her mom to buy their old home. They also bought my sister in law multiple used cars and pay her bills often. They dont give us anything.---My situation: I lost out on going to medical school because I couldnt complete the interview process. I saved every cent I could 10k, internet said I needed only 5k. But it took me nearly a year to find work. I tried starving myself to get through the interview process but that didnt work, so I had to decline some interviews and give up. After my mom died, I was told by my family to never ask for money because they wouldnt help me.Wife now needs 11k worth of surgery at least that isnt medically necessary. And now I need nearly 4k of surgery. 1k-ish assumed for wisdom teeth removal since my mom was too poor to pay to get mine removed at 18 like everyone else, and gall bladder removal surgery even though my doctor said I was an unusual candidate because Im otherwise super healthy.I do keep every expense under a monthly Excel sheet so I know Im budgeting strictly.So is it true that I am in an odd disadvantage by not having family to borrow from? I feel like Ive fallen into a dead end life. I might have one last shot at medical school in 6 years, but Im afraid that huge of a gap will hurt me because no one else would have the lack of money as an excuse.TLDR: Coworkers others age 20-40 get thousands of dollars worth of help a year from their families and I get nothing, am I really the weird one here?Edit: Thanks to everyone for the responses. I suspected I was in some sort of weird rich kid bubble and Im glad I now have outside confirmation of it. Ill try not to compare myself and go forward with my 5 year plan to get surgeries done and try for medical school again.  <response>: Were you born in a first world country? If yes, then youre luckier than most of the world financially.If youre complaining that youre financially luckier than only 80 of people instead of 95 like your friends then youre just being whiny.Grow up. 