<prompt> Human: So today was shit. Cancer is a dick, and so on. Im trying to make sure I have some of plan on how to handle this going forward. Ive already gotten a recommendation for a lawyer from someone I trust, but I was wondering if there is anything else I should be doing right now. We do have some debt, Mortgage, 2 car notes hers will be paid off in January, a consolidation loan, and a couple credit cards. While this arrangement was fine while my wife is working, shes likely not going to be working anymore. Forgive me if im not sounding as broken up as I should be, but I just cant deal with that right now. She needs me to keep her positive and focused on the next goal. Thank you for any advice you can give.Assistant: Do you have kids?Life insurance for yourself should be high up on the list if so.Health insurance?Human: We have one. and thats on the list. Health insurance is through my employer.  <response>: Im surprised this isnt getting more... But this is personal finance.I assume the kids its 3 to 5 years old. If a girl, Moms going to want to get some good recording in of birthdays and milestones. Same with a boy. Theres tons to do but you can do so much. Be with her. Make memory. Find a psychologist to help you explain to kiddo why Mom is sick... And add it gets closer why shes going to die.I dont know if youve the strength to carry it alone but lean on as many people as you can to help. 