<prompt> Human: Okay here is my issue: Im 18, soon to be 19 in December. I work a nice, but kind of mediocre job at 11 an hour. I recently have had a lot of trouble getting along with my grandma, who raised me much to her chagrin, I might add as a kid because my mother and father were never there for me and in and out of jail. Anyway, weve had sort of a falling out here and I just need some advice from some people on here.I work around 32 hours a week. I pay about 40 in gas every two weeks, along with a 25 Line of Credit bill that is soon to be paid off, only 200 left!!! and a 75 phone bill. I dont pay any rent, but I would rather pay rent in a place I can quasi-call my own, rather than at my grandmas where Im usually always annoyed. I work 9-5 daily and come home and play video games and my grandmother hates it. She cant stand to see me on my computer which is completely mine, I paid for it all and often times threatens to take away Im 18, WTF? but I usually just ignore her and let her talk.The bad thing is the car I drive is hers. I bought it from her for 500 when she needed help getting the house we currently live in. I couldnt pay for insurance at the time so she kept it in her name. There is no bill of sale for this transaction so I feel like if I leave, I get no car and no money back for my purchasing of the vehicle. Herein lies the problem-my job is close to where I plan on moving to with my Mom no rent or anything, NICE! but I still have training courses to take for my job and then I wanted to start college in the summer semester.Essentially, Im asking for advice here. Do I metaphorically kiss my grandmas ass and keep the car just until I can buy my own pay for insurance for it, or do I just leave and HOPE that a friend can give me a lift to college day in and day out and also to work. Please, any help is greatly appreciated.  <response>: You live in her house, rent free. She stepped in and raised you so you didnt end up in a shitty foster home. How about thanking her for all of the real-world support shes given you? A good start would be respecting her requests while living with her for free and eating her food. Once you have a job that supports your basic needs, you can do whatever the heck you want.If I were your grandmother, Id consider booting you out to experience full freedom on your own dime. Independence doesnt come at 18. It happens when you manlady up and switch from living like a dependent aka parasite to taking care of yourself like an adult.It may sound harsh, but I wish for you to have a happy life. Go be an adult, grasshopper. 