<prompt> Human: I used to be a very frugal person, but now that I have a good job, I find myself spending very frivolously. It started with a bout of retail therapy after a horrible breakup, but I continue to spend spend spend!!! now that Ive mostly put that behind me.I eat out all the time. When Im bored, I browse Amazon or watch product reviews on Youtube. When Im feeling depressed, buying fancy new toys gives me a delightful squirt of delicious dopamine.Thankfully, I have enough disposable income that all this spending hasnt done any real damage, but I want to nip this in the bud before it gets too serious. I am in the process of purchasing two horses yaaay, so my monthly expenses are about to increase dramatically, and I need to be more disciplined about where my money is going.Any tips or tricks?  <response>: Assuming youre already investing and saving: give yourself a budget for allowance and dont worry for one moment about how you spent it. Fun money is just that, go crazy - enjoy it. Just keep it at a weeklymonthly defined limit, so it doesnt impact your long term goals. IMO fun money is a healthy way to keep things in balance, and gives you the flexibility to use a part of your money in a completely unstructured way. Even on the tightest budget, a little fun money can make the daily grind a little easier to tolerate. 