<prompt> Human: Ive tried budgeting it out multiple times but I just wont be able to make up enough money to put towards this event. Ive heard of websites that book your vacation and you make payments to them as you would with a car or loan, etc. However Im not sure if those are trustworthy. Any advice would be appreciated.Edit: Did not expect this post to blow up. Thank you so much for the advice. I went ahead and told him my situation and we are working to figure it all out. Overall I just needed to swallow my pride and admit that to him. Thanks for the extra push PF! Edit 2: Alright guys, I got my plane ticket and hotel reservations. All thats left is to plan the bachelor party! Didnt expect things to escalate so quickly, thank you again PF.  <response>: OP. Dont sweat it. If you dont have the money, tell him and that you cant go. Im guessing this is why the last guy backed out. If you want a destination wedding, a LOT less people will go. And if the BrideGroom cant understand that, you didnt want to the there anyway. 