<prompt> Human: Hey guys! Im starting to get in a bit of a pickle here now. Its a long story but ill try to shorten it.Im a 21 year old male from Norway. A year ago my brother got in some trouble for submitting wrong details about his financial situation when he was applying for financial aid. needless to say, he got caught and was facing jail-time. he got fined 100k NOK about 15k USD and had no means to pay it. Now, I have worked since I was 15, so I had some money, plus I also took up a student loan not sure what the english word is. So I paid the whole bill, to strenghten his case. He didnt go to jail and the charges were dropped as soon as he paid his debt that quickly. He didnt even thank me. Imagine that. About 6 months ago my mother was diagnosed with cancer for the second time. Now my mother hasnt worked any job in my whole life, because of a cronic infection which causes her to have alot of back pain. So she doesnt have alot of money. So que new loan for me, and alot of extra hours at work. Recently my job had to let me go because of financial reasons, so i landed a shit job at grocery story, which i only work one day a week saturday. Soon after my mother started chemo, they found even more cancer, so she had to have two surgeries. Now im in so much debt, I have no reliable job and I feel like I really need some help. I already have a strict budget, obviously. But is there anywhere I can go to help me manage the situation? Maybe some sort of support programme?TL;DR : I have alot of debt because of money i have lent to family, need help.EDIT: wordsEDIT 2: Thanks for all the responses! I see there are some people that dont think this is real and that im making it up. This is not true. And I also dont know much about the welfare bit that conserns my mother. But the point is I need to talk to someome, because I dont have a clue where to go. My brother wasnt completley at fault either, Im leaving some of the information out because it isnt relevant to what Im askingAssistant: 1. Healthcare in norway is free, you pay a maximum per year for medicinetreatment of around 2k NOK334, after that you get a frikort and dont pay anything. Why do you need to take out a loan for her?2. Paying out your brother like that. Im not sure it was the smartest thing to do. What did he learn from it? He lied, im assuming it was to NAVnorwegian welfare, got caught, and got his brother to bail him out. Wish my brother were more like you. Mine is a moron aswell. Is he even paying you back?Human: No, not at the moment. He promised he would pay me back when he can. he isnt working atm I trust him  <response>: massive mistake. If you want to choose to take that hit for him... so be it.But you cant expect him to pay you back without some sort of contract. 