<prompt> Human: Throwaway since wife and friends all know my main reddit account.My wife and I are both 26 living in Dallas. I am currently making 30k fulltime and wife is making 15k part-time. It is not that much compared to what we could be making in our fields but we love our jobs and dont ever plan on having kids. We currently have no debts with about 42k in savings rentutilitiesfoodgasolinecellinsurance only amount 1600 a month. We were looking to buy a house before this opportunity came up.I have the opportunity to move to a similar CoL area for a new salary of 91k. Wife would still want to work and will find a new job in the area.Downside is that we would be leaving behind our entire friend circle of about 15-20 friends, all of whom are lifelong friends we made in college through the club we were in. It was lucky that most of us found work in the same area and all of us make plans to hang out multiple times a week. Neither of us were really good at making friends and neither of us had people we could really call friends until college. I still havent made a single friend at my current workplace and I been here 4 years. We are both just extremely shy and nervous around people, and are scared if we move, we probably wont make friends like them again.Basically, not sure if I should sign the new offer and the chances of us making new friends with our personalities are extremely slim. Wanted peoples thoughts that had similar situations since I know distance usually strains friendships and we cant decide if the money increase is worth it.  <response>: When your friends start to have kids your dynamic with them will change. Also, who is to say they wont take jobs and move? No way I give up this kind of opportunity to secure my future over the fear of not making new friends. 