<prompt> Human: I dont know if this is the right place to ask this, but I finally decided to jump the gun and put this out there. The reason that its difficult for me to talk about is that absolutely no one in my life knows about my income except my relative that was generous to gift me the partnership interests that collectvely generate around 1 million a year. I also work a completely separate job where I work 40hrs a week making 40,000. I take 20,000 a year of distributions, so I essentially live on 60,000. As far as anyone knows, including my girlfriend of two years, I make around 60,000. I am very concerned with being used or attacked. I have already had attempted theft on my brokerage account and have had a girl threaten me with getting pregnant and extracting child support from me. Unfortunately, this has made it harder to trust my current girlfriend completely unrelated person. Dont take it the wrong way, I would want to take good care if my child, but Im worried that my wish to not have a child right now I am not ready for that might potentially be ignored. My question to you, Reddit, is: Am I being overly paranoid? How can I protect my assets? How can I better deal with the stress of losing way more money than I spend in a year?Thanks you for any help you wish to provide. Assistant: Practically speaking, always use birth control, and dont get married without a prenup, no matter how much you love each other.Human: Thats where Im so torn, though. As a guy the only real proactive assurance I can take is to use a condom. So part of me feels I should be doing that. But whats all the money in the world worth if I cant have have unprotected sex with my long term girlfriend by unprotected, I mean without a condom; she is on the pill.  <response>: If youve been together that long, and you trust her, then do what you want. If you dont trust her, then you need to think about why and whether youre the reason, or her.If you change relationships though, dont go without a condom. 