<prompt> Human: For those of you who are married or in a relationship-when did you have the money talk? I am two months into a relationship with a great woman, and since I have become very conscious of my personal finance goals, I am curious about her financial situationbeliefs. Theres nothing to alarm suspicion excessive spending or debt but we were looking at a real estate listing the other day for fun, and I was trying to figure out if maybe, hypothetically, we could afford it in the future... but then I realized I dont really even know her income, savings, etc. this is a high COL area that usually requires two incomes.So I guess my question is-when in your relationship did you talkreveal your personal finances?EDIT: Thanks for the comments! I dont have any concerns about her spending habits she is very frugal like me, and I already know she doesnt have debt, know her credit score lol. I was more just curious about the specifics income, savings, investments since Ive never thought of merging finances potentially someday with someone before.  <response>: We talked in generalities before we ever got to specifics. So I knew his goals of buying a house, staying out of debt, and saving for retirement before I knew specifically how much he made and how much he had in savings. If he wasnt financially responsible with compatible goals, I didnt want to invest a whole lot of time in a relationship.I think two months is long enough to find out her feelings about savings, debt and investing. I dont know that it is long enough to need to know her specific salary or net worth. The values and goals are more important than the specific numbers. 