<prompt> Human: So I had taken out a loan in my parents hometown with the bank I grew up with. I live about 6 hours away, but I have a good report with the bank. My parents are really trustworthy with money and are really diligent with loans and payments and whatnot, so we decided that I would give them the full amount of the loan when I would have it in a couple of weeks so that they could just go ahead and pay it. My mom works at the bank, so it worked out well. Or so I thought.I needed another loan last week and I find out that I cant take one out because my previous loan hasnt been paid off yet. Well thats interesting. I text my mom asking whats up. Find out that they had used MY money to pay their OWN bills and to buy my dad a new fiddle. Hes a violin teacher and player as a side gighobby. He already has a few, but he apparently needed another one. Im LIVID. I had given them almost 4000 and all they had left was 997 TO THEIR NAME. In all of their bank accounts, THATS IT. I gave them this money TWO MONTHS AGO. Where the HELL did all of it go?! I immediately asked for 600 back so Id have something to pay this loan with. My dad sent me some angry emails and trying to reason and logic that the loan is his now and hes paying the loan himself now because its his loan and whatnot. Mad at me for upsetting my mom. Am I an asshole for being angry? We had an agreement and my parents have ALWAYS been trustworthy. They get extremely upset when I need to change an agreement or when things dont work out, but here they are doing exactly that and didnt even have the decency to tell me. I dont know how to handle it or what to do. So far, my plan is to let them pay as much of the loan as they used before I pay the 600 they gave me back. Is that too harsh?All in all, lesson learned. Dont trust anyone with money but yourself. Now Im up shot creek without a paddle. Ugh.  <response>: Yes, its completely understandable that youre angry. Lesson learned, indeed: dont trust your parents with your money, from now on. One thing: since you took out this loan, the bank will put a bad mark on your report if you make late payments. While your father thinks this is his loan now, the bank will definitely disagree about that. So you have to start making on-time payments as soon as you can, and keep doing that. Make the payments, and let your parents repay you if they turn out to be able to do that - Im not too optimistic. 