 Isikhathi Engibekelwe SonaKufanele Ngisibheke Kanjani?ULIMI ISpanishi Isi-Albania Isi-Estonia Isi-Iloko Isi-Indonesia IsiBhunu IsiBulgaria IsiCebuano IsiCroatia IsiCzech IsiDanishi IsiDashi IsiFinishi IsiFulentshi IsiGeorgia IsiGreki IsiHiligaynon IsiHungary IsiJalimane IsiJapane IsiKorea IsiLithuania IsiNgisi IsiNorway IsiNtaliyane IsiPolishi IsiPutukezi IsiSerbia IsiShayina SesiMandarin Esenziwe Lula IsiShayina SesiMandarin Sezinhlamvu Zakudala IsiSlovak IsiSlovenia IsiSwidi IsiTagalog IsiThai IsiTurkey IsiZuluKufanele Ngisibheke Kanjani Isikhathi Engibekelwe Sona?Ufika ekhaya ngemva kokungcebeleka nabangane kusihlwa. Sekwephuzile. Useqile isikhathi obusibekelwe, futhi manje kumelwe ubhekane nabazali bakho. Uyanqikaza ukungena endlini. Uthemba ukuthi, Mhlawumbe umama nobaba sebelele. Uvula umnyango kancane, uzithela phezu kwabobabuka iwashi, balindele incazelo.INGABE usijwayele isimo esichazwa ngenhla? Ingabe wena nabazali bakho anivumelani nje ngokuthi isiphi isikhathi esikahle okufanele ufike ngaso? UDebora oneminyaka engu-17 ubudala uthi: Sihlala endaweni ephephile, kodwa angikwazi ukufika ekhaya ngemva kwamabili abazali bami bengakhathazekile. Kungani kungase kube yinselele kangaka ukugcina isikhathi obekelwe sona? Ingabe akulungile ukufisa ukuba nenkululeko ethe xaxa? Ungabhekana kanjani nomthetho wesikhathi obekelwe sona?Ukubekelwa isikhathi kungakhungathekisa kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma kubonakala kunciphisa isikhathi osichitha nabangane. UNatasha, oneminyaka engu-17, uthi: Isikhathi engibekelwe sona siyangicasula. Ngelinye ilanga abazali bami babazi ukuthi ngibukele i-video nabangane kwamakhelwane. Noma kunjalo, lapho kudlula imizuzu emibili ngingakafiki ekhaya, bashaya ucingo bebuza ukuthi kungani ngingakafiki!Intombazane okuthiwa uStacy iveza enye inkinga. Uthi: Kwakulindeleke ukuba ngibe sekhaya ngaphambi kokuba umama nobaba balale. Uma kwenzeka bengilinda, kwakusho ukuthi ngizofika ekhaya ngibathole bekhathele beyingcuba futhi becasukile. Bese kwenzekani? UStacy uthi: Babengenza ngizizwe nginecala. Uyanezela: Lokhu kwakukhungathekisa kakhulu. Ngangingaqondi ukuthi kungani babengahambi nje bayolala! Izingxabano ezinjalo zingakwenza ube nemizwa enjengekaKatie oneminyaka engu-18, othi, Ngifisa sengathi abazali bami bangafunda ukunginika inkululeko ethe xaxa, ukuze ngingabi nomuzwa wokuthi ngiyadlubulunda.LOKHO ONTANGA ABAKUSHOYONginomuzwa wokuthi isikhathi engibekelwe sona sikahle ngoba uma ngingalali ngokwanele, ngiyashesha ukucasuka!UGabe, oneminyaka engu-17.Isikhathi engibekelwe sona sesingisindise izikhathi eziningi. Ngokwesibonelo ngesinye isikhathi, ezinye izingane zafika notshwala emcimbini. Lapho sibubona, mina nomngane wami sabeka izaba zokuthi isikhathi esibekelwe sona sesishayile.UKatie, oneminyaka engu-18.Mhlawumbe nawe uzizwa ngendlela intsha esanda kucashunwa ezizwa ngayo. Uma kunjalo, zibuze lo mbuzo:Kungani ngijabulela ukuchitha isikhathi ngingekho ekhaya? Phawula okukodwa.Kungenza ngizizwe ngizimele.Kusiza ekudambiseni ukucindezeleka.Kunginika ithuba lokuba nabangane bami.Lezi zizathu ziyezwakala ngempela. Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukuzimela njengoba ukhula, futhi izinto ezakhayo ongazenza eceleni zingakwenza uqabuleke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iBhayibheli likukhuthaza ukuba wakhe ubungane obakhayo. IHubo 119:63; 2 Thimothewu 2:22 Lokho kungaba yinselele uma usekhaya ngaso sonke isikhathi!Kodwa ungayijabulela kanjani inkululeko enjalo uma isikhathi obekelwe sona sibonakala sicindezela? Cabangela okulandelayo.Inselele 1: Isikhathi obekelwe sona sikwenza uzizwe uyingane.Ngangizizwa ngiyingane uma sengiphazamisa wonke umuntu kusihlwa ukuze kutholakale ozongihambisa ekhaya kusenesikhathi, kukhumbula u-Andrea, manje oneminyaka engu-21.Njengelayisense yokushayela, isikhathi obekelwe sona siwuphawu lwentuthukoLokho okungase kusize:Ake sithi uyaqala ukuthola ilayisense yokushayela. Kwezinye izindawo umthetho unemingcele yokuthi ushayela kuphi, nini, noma nobaniokungenani uze ube neminyaka ethile ubudala. Ubungayenqaba leyo layisense, uthi: Uma ngingenayo inkululeko ephelele, kungcono ngingashayeli nhlobo? Lutho neze! Ukuthola ilayisense ubungakubheka njengomsebenzi omkhulu owufinyelele.Ngokufanayo, zama ukubheka isikhathi obekelwe sona njengophawu lwentuthukoisinyathelo esifanele. Ungagxili emingceleni oyibekelwe, kodwa gxila enkululekweni onayo. Awunayo yini manje inkululeko ethe xaxa kunangesikhathi usemncane?Okukwenza kuphumelele lokhu:Isikhathi obekelwe sona singamukeleka kangcono uma usibheka njengethuba esikhundleni sokuba isithiyo. Sithobele manje, futhi cishe uyonikezwa inkululeko ethe xaxa kamuva.Luka 16:10.Inselele 2: Awuqondi ukuthi kungani kuthiwa kufanele usheshe kangaka ukufika ekhaya.UNikki, owake waba nenkinga ngesikhathi ayebekelwe sona, uthi: Ngikhumbula ngicabanga ukuthi umama wayethanda nje ukushaya imithetho.Kungani ungaxoxi nabazali bakho ngesikhathi abakubekele sona ukuze nithole ukuthi ningavumelana yini ngamaphuzu alandelayo?Ngizofika ekhaya ngo- ... ngalezi zinsuku ezilandelayo: ... , nango- ... ngalezi zinsuku: ... .Ngiyaqonda ukuthi uma ngiwephula lo mthetho, isikhathi sizoshintshwa sibekwe ngu- ... okungenani amasonto angu- ... .Isikhathi engibekelwe sona sizocatshangelwa kabusha uma ngisigcina okungenani izinyanga ezingu- ... .Sebenzisa isimiso esitholakala kuzAga 15:22, esithi: Amacebo ayashafa lapho kungekho khona inkulumo eyisifuba, kodwa ngobuningi babeluleki kuba khona okufezwayo. Ngesizotha, xoxa nabazali bakho ngalolu daba. Zama ukuthola ukuthi kungani bekhethe isikhathi abakubekele sona. UMA UFUNA UKUNIKWA ISIKHATHI ESENGEZIWE . . .Veza udaba ngesikhathi esifanele.UmShumayeli 3:1, 7.Zakhele idumela elihle ngokugcina isikhathi.Mathewu 5:37.Cela ukwelulelwa isikhathi njengesivivinyo.Mathewu 25:23.Ukulalela lokho okushiwo abazali bakho kungakuvula amehlo. UStephen uthi: Ubaba wangitshela ukuthi umama akakwazi ukulala ebusuku uma ngingakafiki ekhaya. Ngangingakaze ngikucabange lokho ngaphambili.Khumbula: Njalo kungcono ukuxoxa ngezinkinga ngomoya ozolile esikhundleni sokuqagulisanaokuyoba nemiphumela nakanjani. UNatasha, ocashunwe ekuqaleni, uthi: Ngithole ukuthi uma ngilwa nabazali bami, ngiye ngiphucwe amalungelo amaningana ezinto engifuna ukuzenza.Inselele 3: Unomuzwa wokuthi ukuphila kwakho kuyalawulwa.Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bathi imithetho yasekhayaengase ihlanganise nokubekelwa isikhathiizuzisa wena. UBrandi, oneminyaka engu-20, uthi: Uma abazali bami bengitshela lokho, kungenza ngizizwe sengathi abafuni ukuba ngizenzele izinqumo noma ngiveze umbono wami.Ungase ukhethe ukulalela iseluleko sikaJesu esikuMathewu 5:41: Uma othile osegunyeni ekucindezela ukuba uhambe imayela elilodwa, hamba naye amamayela amabili. U-Ashley nomfowabo bathole indlela ezuzisayo yokusebenzisa lesi simiso. Uthi: Ngokuvamile sizama ukufika ekhaya kusasele imizuzu engu-15. Ungazibekela yini umgomo ofanayo?Kujabulisa kakhulu ukwenza izinto ngoba sifuna ukuzenza hhayi ngoba kufanele sizenze! Cabanga ngalokhu: Uma ukhetha ukufika ekhaya ngaphambi kwesikhathi obekelwe sona, isikhathi sakho sisuke silawulwa nguwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungase ukhumbule lesi simiso: Isenzo sakho esihle asibanga njengokungathi ucindezelekile, kodwa sibe ngokuzithandela kwakho.Filemoni 14.Ukufika ekhaya ngaphambi kwesikhathi obekelwe sona kwenza nabazali bakho bakwethembe, okuholela enkululekweni eyengeziwe. UWade, oneminyaka engu-18 ubudala, uthi, Uma abazali bakho bekwethemba, bakunika inkululeko ethe xaxa.Bhala enye inselele oyilethelwa isikhathi obekelwe sona.Yini engakusiza ukuba unqobe le nselele?Ucabanga ukuthi kungani lokhu kungase kuphumelele?Cishe ngelinye ilanga uyothutha ekhaya futhi ujabulele inkululeko enkudlwana. Okwamanje, bekezela. UTiffany, manje oneminyaka engu-20 ubudala, uthi: Ungase ungayitholi yonke inkululeko oyifunayo, kodwa uma ufunda ukubhekana nemingcele, ngeke ube lusizi phakathi naso sonke isikhathi sobusha bakho. isig. 1 Amagama akulesi sihloko ashintshiwe. isig. 13 Ukuze uthole amacebiso, bheka isihloko esithi Intsha Iyabuza . . . Kungani Kunemithetho Eminingi Kangaka? kuyi-Phaphama! ka-December 2006.OKUDINGA UKUCATSHANGELWAIsikhathi obekelwe sona sibonisa kanjani ukuthi abazali bakho bayakukhathalela?Uma usuke waseqa lesi sikhathi, ungasilungisa kanjani isimo?OKUFANELE KUPHAWULWE ABAZALISekudlule imizuzu engu-30 ngemva kwesikhathi osibekele indodana yakho lapho uzwa isicabha sivuleka kancane kancane. Uyacabanga, Ucabanga ukuthi sengilele. Kodwa akunjalo. Empeleni, ubulokhu uhlezi ngasemnyango kusukela ngesikhathi indodana obekufanele ifike ngaso ekhaya. Manje umnyango usuvulekile, futhi ubukana ngqo nendodana yakho. Uzothini? Uzokwenzenjani?Ungakhetha ezintweni ezimbalwa. Ungayishalazela le ndaba. Ungase uzitshele ukuthi, Abafana bayizigangi. Noma ungeqisa uthi, Ngeke uphinde uhambe wedwa. Esikhundleni sokuthatha ngamawala, lalela kuqala, ngoba kungenzeka kunesizathu esizwakalayo sokuthi kungani yephuzile ukufika. Ungabe ususebenzisa lelo cala lokwephula umthetho ukuze uyifundise isifundo esibalulekile. Kanjani?Amacebiso: Tshela umntanakho ukuthi nizoxoxa ngalolu daba ngakusasa. Khona-ke, ngesikhathi esifanele, hlalani phansi nixoxe ukuthi nizolusingatha kanjani. Abanye abazali baye bazama okulandelayo. Uma indodana noma indodakazi yabo yephuza ukufika ekhaya, ngokulandelayo lapho ihamba, isikhathi sincishiswa ngemizuzu engu-30. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma indodana noma indodakazi ifika ekhaya ngesikhathi njalo futhi isinedumela lokuziphatha okufanele, ungase ucabangele ukuyinikeza inkululeko ethe xaxangezikhathi ezithile, mhlawumbe uhlehlise nesikhathi osibekile. Kubalulekile ukuba umntanakho asazi ngokucacile isikhathi okulindeleke ukuba afike ngaso ekhaya nokuthi kuzoba nasiphi isijeziso uma ehluleka ukusigcina. Khona-ke kufanele usikhiphe leso sijeziso.Isixwayiso: IBhayibheli lithi: Ukucabangela kwenu makwaziwe. Filipi 4:5 Ngaphambi kokubeka isikhathi, ungase uthande ukuxoxa nomntanakho ngalolu daba, umvumele ukuba asikisele isikhathi futhi aveze nezizathu zakhe. Sicabangele lesi sicelo. Uma umntanakho ebonisile ukuthi ungamethemba, ungase ukwazi ukwamukela izifiso zakhe uma zinengqondo.Ukugcina isikhathi kuyingxenye yokuphila. Khona-ke, ukubeka isikhathi akukhona nje ukuphephisa ingane yakho engozini kuphela. Kuwukuyifundisa ikhono elizoyizuzisa isikhathi eside ngemva kokuhamba ekhaya.IzAga 22:6. 