 INGOSI: Uke waqonywa wuhlanya lwentombazane News24eThekwini - Maningi amadoda athwele kanzima langaphandle ungezwa kulokhu kukhala izintombi ucabange ukuthi bona baphila butepu othandweni.Uyakwazi ukuqonywa wuhlanya?Yeyi ngoba umuntu muhle ehamba imgwaqeni ubone intombi enhle, emi kahle futhi enesizotha uthembe ukuthi hhayi uthole umuntu ophilayo, kanti awazi.Kube mnandi uthando lusaqala, ngoba vele kuhlezi kumnandi nibizana ngodali nifonelana futhi nibonane izinsuku zilandelana, iyothi lapho isikujwayele, ivele ikujwayele kabi.Umuntu ngoba esekwazi ukuthi uthandana naye yedwa, usekhululeka ngokweqile usekubiza noma yikanjani, ayisekho le nhlonipho ayekunika yona nisaqala ukuthandana.Unokuthi uzipholele namajita, qham thushu umuntu ungamubizanga usefutha amakhala awusazi ukuthi kwenzenjani usefuna umhambise, usefuna ukulala, uselokhu ebuzile ukuthi ya uhleli namantombazane, hawu, akabingeleli, akazi nokuthi ngamantombazane ayisimakanjani lawa, kodwa usefuthe amakhala umuntu.Omunye nithi ningakaqedi nesikhathi esingakanani nithandana, usefuna ukugudluza umem, njani?OLUNYE UDABA: INGOSI: Baningi ababulawa yindlala emendweniAngithi ngakutshela ngisakushela ukuthi nginaye umuntu futhi ngiyamthanda, wangiqoma ulazi iqiniso, yeyi uwena lo osufaka izithombe ko-Facebook engingazazi nokuthi wawuzithathe nini usulokhu ufuna ukubukwa, usufona ebusuku ulokhu ubanga isicefe ngisho kahle kukhona umama wezingane?Ngayakubona konke, intombazane engafuni ukwaliwa,yoo!Usumtshele kahle ukuthi awusamfuni umuntu, uzolokhu ekulandela, uthi uyaqhamuka nentombi yakho entsha, nangu uzosusa umsindo. Useshisanyama namajita, nangu ufuna umhambise kubo.Uyasazi leso scefe, iyaqala i-festive usazosibanga isicefe umuntu. 