 Ingabe Kubaluleke Ngempela Ukuba Nenhlonipho? Intsha IyabuzaULIMI ISpanishi Isi-Albania Isi-Amharic Isi-Arabhu Isi-Armenia Isi-Azerbaijani Isi-Azerbaijani SesiCyrillic Isi-Estonia Isi-Ewe Isi-Iceland Isi-Iloko Isi-Indonesia Isi-Osset Isi-Ukraine IsiBemba IsiBhunu IsiBulgaria IsiCebuano IsiChewa IsiCroatia IsiCzech IsiDanishi IsiDashi IsiFiji IsiFinishi IsiFulentshi IsiGeorgia IsiGreki IsiHausa IsiHebheru IsiHiligaynon IsiHungary IsiJalimane IsiJapane IsiKikaonde IsiKinyarwanda IsiKirghiz IsiKirundi IsiKorea IsiLingala IsiLithuania IsiMalagasy IsiMalayalam IsiMalta IsiMyanmar IsiNgisi IsiNorway IsiNtaliyane IsiPedi IsiPolishi IsiPunjabi IsiPutukezi IsiRashiya IsiRomania IsiSerbia IsiSerbia SesiRoma IsiShayina SesiMandarin Esenziwe Lula IsiShayina SesiMandarin Sezinhlamvu Zakudala IsiShona IsiSinhala IsiSlovak IsiSlovenia IsiSuthu SaseLesotho IsiSwahili IsiSwidi IsiTagalog IsiTatar IsiTelugu IsiThai IsiTonga IsiTsonga IsiTswana IsiTumbuka IsiTurkey IsiVietnam IsiXhosa IsiYoruba IsiZuluAbantu abangivuleli umnyango; pho kungani mina kufanele ngibavulele?Ingabe azikho yini ezinye izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu engingazikhathaza ngazo kunokulokhu ngithi ngiyacela, ngiyabonga, nokuthi uxolo?Asikho isidingo sokuhlonipha izingane zakithi. Siwumndeni.Ingabe kukhona kulokhu okungenhla okuzwakala njengento ongayisho? Uma kunjalo, kungenzeka uphuthelwa yizinzuzo zokubonisa inhlonipho!Okufanele ukwazi ngokuba nenhloniphoIndlela yokuyithuthukisaUkuba nenhlonipho kungathuthukisa lezi zinto ezintathu ekuphileni kwakho:Idumela lakho. Indlela ophatha ngayo abanye abantu ikwakhela igama, kungaba elihle noma elibi. Uma uhlonipha, cishe abantu bayokubheka njengomuntu ovuthiwe nonokwethenjelwafuthi bayokuhlonipha! Kodwa, uma uluhlaza, abantu bayophetha ngokuthi uzicabangela wena kuphela, okungase kubangele ukuba ulahlekelwe amathuba okuthola umsebenzi kanye namanye amathuba. Kunjengoba iBhayibheli lisho, umuntu onesihluku uzilethela isigcwagcwa.IzAga 11:17.Ubuhlobo bakho nabanye. IBhayibheli lithi: Gqokani uthando, ngoba luyisibopho esiphelele sobunye. Kolose 3:14 Lokho kuyiqiniso ngempela lapho kuziwa endabeni yobungane. Abantu bayabathanda abantu abanenhlonipho nababaphatha kahle. Kakade, ubani ongafuna ukuba ngumngane womuntu odelelayo noma oyisiphoxi?Indlela abanye abantu abakuphatha ngayo. Intokazi okuthiwa uJennifer ithi: Uma uhlale ukhuluma ngenhlonipho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ungabona intuthuko endleleni ngisho nabantu abahlale beluhlaza abasebenzelana ngayo nawe. Kodwa-ke, uma uluhlaza, umphumela ungaba okuphambene. IBhayibheli lithi: Ngesilinganiso obalinganisela ngaso, bayokulinganisela ngaso nawe.Mathewu 7:2.Iphuzu elisemqoka: Nsuku zonke ekuphileni, sisebenzelana nabantu. Indlela osebenzelana ngayo nabo, ingayithinta indlela abantu abakubheka ngayo nabakuphatha ngayo. Kalula nje singathi, ukuba kwakho nenhlonipho kubaluleke ngempela!Ake uyihlole inhlonipho yakho. Zibuze imibuzo efana nale: Ingabe ngikhuluma ngenhlonipho nabantu abadala? Ngivame kangakanani ukuthi ngiyacela, ngiyabonga, noma uxolo? Ingabe ngivumela iziphazamiso lapho ngikhuluma nabanye mhlawumbe ngize ngifunde ngisho nomyalezo kumakhalekhukhwini noma ngiwuthumelele othile? Ingabe ngiyabahlonipha abazali bami nezingane zakithi, noma ngivele nginganaki ngenxa yokuthi bangamalungu omndeni?IBhayibheli lithi: Ekubonisaneni udumo nihole.Roma 12:10.Zibekele imigomo. Bhala izinto ezintathu ongathuthukisa kuzo. Ngokwesibonelo, u-Allison oneminyaka engu-15 ubudala, uthi udinga ukuba isilaleli esihle kunokuba kube nguye ohlale ekhuluma. UDavid, oneminyaka engu-19, uthi kudingeka asebenzele ekugwemeni ukubhala imiyalezo lapho ehlezi namalungu omndeni noma abangane. Uthi: Kuwukungahloniphi. Kufana nokuthi ngibatshela ukuthi kungcono ukuzixoxela nomunye umuntu kunokuxoxa nabo. U-Edward, oneminyaka engu-17, uthi kufanele agweme ukuphazamisa abanye lapho besakhuluma. Kanti uJennifer, oke wacashunwa, uzimisele ukusebenzela ekuhlakuleleni inhlonipho ngabantu abadala. Uthi: Bengijwayele ukuvele ngithi, sawubona bese ngivele ngizidlulela ngiye kubangane bami abalingana nami. Kodwa manje ngiwenzile ngempela umzamo wokuba ngibazi kangcono. Lokhu kuye kwangisiza kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni izinga lami lenhlonipho!IBhayibheli lithi: Ningakhathaleli nje kuphela izindaba zenu siqu, kodwa futhi nikhathalele nezabanye.Filipi 2:4.Hlola intuthuko yakho. Esikhathini esingangenyanga, hlola indlela okhuluma ngayo noma owenza ngayo ezintweni ofuna ukuthuthuka kuzo. Ekupheleni kwaleyo nyanga, zibuze: Ukuba kwami nenhlonipho kungenze kanjani ngaba umuntu ongcono? Iziphi izindawo okusafanele ngithuthuke kuzo? Zibekele imigomo emisha ehambisana nalokho.IBhayibheli lithi: Leyo ndlela enifuna abantu benze ngayo kini, yenzani kanjalo nani kubo.Luka 6:31.Ingabe bewazi? Lokho okubhekwa njengokuhlonipha kwelinye izwe, kungase kube ukwedelela kwelinye. Ngokwesibonelo, kuyisiko eJapane ukuba abantu bakhumule izicathula uma bezongena endlini. Kwamanye amazwe, ukwenza kanjalo kungase kubhekwe njengokungahloniphi. Iyiphi indlela yokuhlonipha elindelekile lapho wena uhlala khona?Uma ubonisa inhlonipho, ngokuvamile yileyo nto abantu abayiphawula kuqala, futhi bayayazisa. Kanti nawe uyozizwa ujabula ngoba uyobe wazi ukuthi wenze into efanele.Uma ungenayo inhlonipho, abantu bayovele bangakunaki. Kodwa uma wenza izinto ngendlela yokucabangela, abantu bayokuphatha ngendlela enenhlonipho njengoba nje wenza kubo. 