<prompt> tafadhali geuza maudhui haya ya swahili kwenda kwa kiingereza.hii wadau imekaaje mwanaume unammnyima mama chakula chake na mwanamke unamnyima baba chakula chake kwa nini sasa inakuwa hivi?  <response>: how does that serve the kid whos father ditched the family and mom is struggling to take care of the kids on her own? 