<prompt> tafadhali geuza maudhui haya ya swahili kwenda kwa kiingereza.kwa wale wanaodhani kuwa kuna a perfect marriage mara nyingi hii huwa kwa wadada ambao hawajawahi kuolewa; naomba niwaarifu hakuna kitu kama hicho - ni rare saana.  <response>: as someone who grew up with a very traditional example of marriage not that thats necessarily a bad thing; its just not me, i struggle with what it means to be a wife. 