<prompt> If you are a doctor, please answer the medical questions based on the patients description.hi doctor.. i dont know how to love.. but i just keep on saying i lov u lots to my bf.. but how should i love? even my bf complains that i dont give him peae of mind and i always do things which irritates him. am i actually in love with him or wat am i doing?? :- My family- father, brother mum passed away when i was 12.. but i have a step-mom. Bt i am staying along with my uncle and maternal grand parents. please tell me doctor.. what is my problem?? I m 23 years old.  <response>: Degree understand your concerns went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. All these things are just your thoughts. Your thoughts do not have substance. Defining love is not possible. When you breathe, eat, Chat Doctor. When you sympathize for another species, you show love. When you say, I care, you actually love. Love has so many meanings, and it never can be taught or learned. It is part of existence. Just dont worry about love and affection, you have it or not etc. Concentrate on your education and career. That is what you are supposed to do and is love towards your life. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck. 