<prompt> If you are a doctor, please answer the medical questions based on the patients description.Ive been in a relationship for 5 months now and I cant help but snap on every little thing and I go crazy when we fight and I don t understand why I do most things I do. I don t think about the consequences before I act and in turn most of my family and friends turn against cause I always feel like my point is right. And im living with this guy and im so worried about what hes doing behind my back but I don t even think hes doing anything. Why do I always feel like things are so wrong and why do I snap at the drop of a pen?  <response>: Hi, thanks for the query. What your current set problem is seemingly a tough middle phase of relationship. Usually during early part of any romantic involvement; physical attraction prevails tends to hide every flaw mutually perceived by partners. As one starts to settle in a relationship relationship matures; one starts finding many undesirable things in ones partner then gets into over Chat Doctor. This leads to conflicts, frequent quarrels the earlier perceived charm starts to vanish. Hence, to have a great relationship; first thing is accepted your partner as he is dont try to correct his perceived faults hastily. Secondly, trust him for a while at least till the time when you dont find 100 conclusive proof of cheating. Men are usually solution givers women are usually fault-finders. Hence, sit down with each other; talk things calmly. You can also read a book by John Grey Men are from Mars Women are from Venus or consult a Psychologist for marital therapy. Dont worry, try things differently youll settle down fine. Hope this helps. Good Luck 