<prompt> Pfupisa nyaya yacho: Vanhu vasina kuroora kana kuroorwa vangava nezita rezvinhu zvavanotsvaka pamunhu wavanoda kuroorana naye pavanotanga kufambidzana nomumwe munhu, kubvira pachisviniro chisingaoneki kusvika pakuva nomuviri unopisa. Zvino fundo itsva yakaratidza kuti kutamba kunouya pamusoro pandandanda yamavara anodikanwa mumukwanyina wenguva refu. Nyanzvi dzinotaura kuti pfungwa yokunakidzwa inokosha zvikuru kuvanhu vakawanda kupfuura kana munhu ane dhigirii kana kuti ari worudzidziso. Kutamba kuti uwane mwoyo: Imwe fundo itsva yakaratidza kuti kutamba kunouya pamusoro pandandanda yezvinhu zvinodikanwa mumukwanyina zvakaratidzwa nomufananidzo womuchitoro - pashure bedzi pokushamwaridzana, kungwara uye pfungwa yokuseka. Kutsvakurudza kwakaitwa neYunivhesiti yeZurich kwakaratidza kuti kutamba kunokosha kuvarume nevakadzi pashure pokunge ushamwari, ungwaru uye pfungwa yokuseka. Vakawanawo kuti vanhu vanongotambawo zvavo vanokoshesa kuseka, kuva munhu akasununguka, uye unyanzvi hwokugadzira zvinhu kupfuura vamwe vavo vanonyatsoda zvokunamata. Vakarondedzera vanhu vakuru vanotamba sevaya vanoda kutamba nemashoko vanofarira kuseka, vanhu vanongoerekana vaita chimwe chinhu uye vanogamuchira chinetso nomufaro uye vaya vanoita sebenzi, somuenzaniso. Nepo kutamba kuchipinda mumarudzi akawanda, nzvero shomanene yakaitwa pamusoro peiri vara uye kuti rinodikanwa sei navamwe. Chidzidzo chakawana kuti vanhu vanotamba vanofunga kuti kuseka, kusununguka uye kugadzira zvinhu zvinonyanya kukosha muvakaroorana navo kupfuura vezera ravo vakaoma mufananidzo wemufananidzo Chidzidzo chitsva ichi chakavakirwa pakutsvakurudza kwakaitwa nenyanzvi yezvevanhu Garry Chick kubva kuPennsylvania State University, uyo akagadzira dzidziso yekuti kutamba muvakuru chinhu chinodiwa pakusarudzwa kwepabonde. Ikoku imhaka yokuti kunoratidzira kuvakadzi, mwero wakaderera wokudenha muvarume uye kuvarume, simba muvatano yakanaka. René Proyer naLisa Wagner veDhipatimendi rePsychology paYunivhesiti yeZurich, vakaratidza kuti kutamba kunokoshawo pakusarudza wokuroorana naye mutsika dzokuEurope. Vakakumbira vanhu vakuru vaduku 327 vanobva kuGermany, Switzerland neAustria kuti vaongorore zvinhu 16 uye vataure kana vakazviwana kana kuti kwete...  <response>: Kudzidza kwakaitwa paYunivhesiti yeZurich kwakaratidza kukosha kwokuseka nomumwe wako. Unhu hwakarongwa pasi chaipo poushamwari, ungwaru uye pfungwa yokusetsa. Vanhu vanoda zvokusetsa vanokoshesa kuseka uye kuva munhu akasununguka. Inovaka paongororo yokuUnited States iyo yakaratidza kuti kutamba kunoratidza vakadzi mwero wakaderera wokurwisa muvarume uye simba muvakadzi, kuvarume. 