<prompt> Pfupisa nyaya yacho: Mumwe mukadzi akarerwa nevaviri vanoita zveungochani akaita kuti pave nokukakavadzana pashure pokuzivisa pachena kuti anopesana nokuroorana kwevanhu vanoita zveungochani nokuti anoti akarasikirwa nokuva nababa vake muupenyu hwake paaikura. Heather Barwick, amai vane vana vana vane makore 31 okuberekwa vokuSouth Carolina, anoti amai vake vakasiya baba vavo pavakanga vane makore 2 kana kuti 3 kuitira kuti vagare nomukadzi waaida. Nzanga yevanhurume nevanhukadzi, ndiri mwanasikana wenyu. Amai vangu vakandirera nomukwanyina wavo wevatano imwe cheteyo kare muma80 nama90, anonyora kudaro Barwick nokuda kwepepanhau rinorambira reThe Federalist. Heather Barwick, amai vane makore 31 okuberekwa vane vana vana vanobva kuSouth Carolina, anoti anopesana nokuroorana kwengochani nemhaka yokuti akarasikirwa nokuva nababa vake paakanga achikura. Ndiri kukunyorerai nokuti ndiri kuzvisunungura: Handitsigiri roorano dzengochani. Asi zvingasava nokuda kwezvikonzero zvaunofunga. Hakusi kuti uri ngochani. Ndinokuda, zvikuru kwazvo. Imhaka yomusikirwo woukama hwoungochani humene. Barwick anoyeuka achikurira mumusha wakazaruka uye wakazaruka wakakomberedzwa nenharaunda yakabatana yevanhurume nevanhukadzi shamwari uye anoti mumwe waamai vake akandibata sokunge ndaive mwanasikana wake chaiye. Anobvumawo kuti baba vake vokubereka vakanga vasiri munhu akanaka, uye havana kuzvinetsa kuuya kuzoshanyazve. Pasinei nokuva mutsigiri wokuroorana kwengochani mumakore ake okuma20, zvino Barwick anoti akachinja ndangariro. Kuroorana nomurume kana mukadzi mumwe chete uye kuva mubereki kunodzivisa amai kana kuti baba kubva kumwana vachimuudza kuti hazvina basa. Kuti zvose zvakafanana. Asi handizvo, anonyora kudaro. Vazhinji vedu, vana venyu vakawanda, vari kurwadziwa. Kusavapo kwababa vangu kwakaita kuti ndive nenzara, uye ndaisuwa baba zuva nezuva. Ndaida shamwari yaamai vangu, asi mumwe amai vangadai vasina kuzombotsiva baba vangu vandakarasikirwa navo. Abigail Garner, mudzidzisi weLGBT-kodzero dzemhuri uye munyori webhuku rinonzi Families Like Mine: Children Of Gay Parents Tell It Like It Is, uyo akarerwa navanababa vaviri, akaudza Yahoo Parenting kuti kufunga kwaBarwick kwakanga kusina musoro. Nepo ndinonzwira tsitsi...  <response>: Heather Barwick anoti anopesana nemichato yeungochani nemhaka yokuti akarasikirwa nokuva nababa vake pedyo apo akanga achikura. Amai vane vana vane makore 31 okukura vanobvuma kuti mukwanyina waamai vavo akandibata sokunge kuti ndakanga ndiri mwanasikana wavo vamene Anotaurawo kuti baba vake vokubereka vakanga vasiri munhu akanaka, uye havana kuzvinetsa kuuya kuzoshanyazve Pasinei nokuva mutsigiri wokuroorana kwengochani mumakore ake okuma20, zvino Barwick anoti akachinja pfungwa. Kusavapo kwababa vangu kwakagadzira gomba guru, uye ndakarwadziwa zuva riri rose. Ndaida shamwari yaamai vangu, asi yaisazombofa yakatsiva baba vangu vandakarasikirwa navo 