<prompt> Pfupisa nyaya yacho: Mazano ezvepabonde akanga ari nyore zvikuru mumakore okuma1980, anodaro chiremba wepfungwa Philippa Perry mubhuku reBBC4 rinonzi Sex, Lies Love Bites. Chizvarwa chazvino chevanhu vaduku chakanyanyovhiringidzwa pamusoro pevatano nemhaka yezvidhori zvinonyadzisira, mukuwirirana nachiremba wepfungwa. Philippa Perry, ane makore 57, akataura kuti kuwana mavhidhiyo nemifananidzo zvinonyadzisira zviri nyore kwakaita kuti vechiduku vakawanda vatadze kuva noukama hwakanaka. Amai vomwana mumwe akawedzera kuti chinetso chepwere dzisingagoni kunzwisisa zvokwadi dzevatano chakashata zvino sezvadzakanga zvakambova. Anonyora magazini inonzi Red neThe Guardian, akati anosangana nezvinetso zvinokonzerwa nezvinonyadzisira nguva nenguva uye kuti varume vari kuramba vachienda kumapepanhau akadaro kuti vapiwe mazano. Mudzimai womuimbi akapiwa mubayiro weTurner Prize, Grayson Perry, ane makore 54, akati: Mazuva ano vanhu vanozvidzidzisa pamusoro pevatano kazhinji kazhinji kupfurikidza nokuona zvinonyadzisira zvinowanikwa pachena. Vanova nepfungwa dzisina kururama pamusoro pevatano, vachifunga kuti vakadzi vanofanira kuva neimwe nzira uye kuti zvose zvine chokuita nokuzviisa pasi uye kutonga apo chokwadika hazvisi. Vanhu vane pfungwa dzisina kururama pamusoro pevatano uye vanorasika nemhaka yezvinonyadzisira. Handirwisani nezvinonyadzisira asi hazvisi zvokushandisa zvinobatsira zvikurusa zvedzidzo yevatano. Ngozi mazuva ano ndeyokuti vanhu vanoratidzirwa vachiri vaduku zvikuru kurudzi rwakati rwevatano uye ipapo vanowanzofunga kuti ndizvo zvakaita vatano. Uku kusava nechokwadi pamusoro pechokwadi chevatano kwakasiana neiko kwavanhu vaduku vezvizvarwa zvapakuvamba avo vakatendeukira kuna vanatete vanorwadziwa nokuda kwezano. Nepo kare kwaiva kushayikwa kwezivo pamusoro pevatano, chinetso zvino ndechokuti vanhu vari kuratidzirwa kuzvinonyadzisira, kazhinji kazhinji zvinoratidzira vatano ine masimba masimba neine masimba masimba, pazera duku zvikuru. Akati zvakatoipisisa iye zvino, asi ini ndakwegura saka ndinogona kutaura izvozvo. Akasimbisa imwe nhau yaakasangana nayo yomumwe murume wechiduku akanga apindwa muropa zvikuru nezvinonyadzisira zvokuti akanga asingachagoni kumutswa nevakadzi muupenyu chaihwo. Akati iyi haisi nguva yokutanga yaasangana nedambudziko iri uye kuti iri dambudziko guru munzanga. Mai Perry, ndiani...  <response>: Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Philippa Perry akaita firimu rine mashoko anobatsira panyaya dzepabonde. Zvepabonde, Nhema uye Kurumwa Norudo: Nhau yaAmai Vanorwadza inobvunzurudza vanyori vemazano kubva kuna Graham Norton kusvika kuvakadzi vari shure kwemagazini yeJackie. Nhamba iri kuwedzera yavarume iri kutendeukira kuAgony Aunts nokuda kwebetsero. Onai Sex, Lies and Love Bites: The Agony Aunt Story paBBC4 manheru ano na9pm. 