<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Owesifazane owatshelwa ukuthi angase angaphinde ahambe ngemva kokushaywa unhlangothi eneminyaka engu-22 ubudala wabhikisha odokotela ukuba ahambe e-altare ayoshada nothando lokuphila kwakhe. Kwakungenxa yokucabanga okusheshayo komyeni wakhe, u-Iain, ukuthi uKathryn Grainger wanikezwa ukwelashwa ayekudinga ngokushesha ukuze asinde ekuhlaselweni unhlangothi esemncane kangaka. Wabona izimpawu zokuthi impilo yakhe isengozini enkulu lapho evuka enekhanda ngo-4 ekuseni ngoJulayi 2008. UKathryn wayeseluleme ngokwanele ukuba angene esontweni ngo - 2012 ukuze ashade no - Iain. UKathryn, manje oneminyaka engu-29 ubudala, waseDurham, uyakhumbula: Ngavuka ngicabanga ukuthi ngiphethwe ikhanda elibi kodwa u-Iain wathi, Uthintwe unhlangothi. Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso ngangingazi ukuthi yini i-stroke kwaze kwaba yilapho ngiba nayo. Ngangidideke kakhulu futhi ngingazi ukuthi kwakwenzekani. Lo mfundi waseyunivesithi yezemfashini wayiswa esibhedlela futhi wafakwa esimweni sokungazi lutho ukuze ahlinzwe ukuze asuswe ukhakhayi lwakhe futhi kuncishiswe ukuvuvukala kobuchopho bakhe. Kodwa odokotela baxwayisa isoka lakhe elalicindezelekile, ngaleso sikhathi elineminyaka engu-24 ubudala, nabazali balo uLeslie noMiriam, ngokuthi babengeke baqiniseke ukuthi ubuchopho bakhe babuyolimala unomphela yini - futhi babaxwayisa ngokuthi kungenzeka angaphinde ahambe noma akhulume. UKathryn no-Iain, ababoniswe ngo-2010, eBerlin Zoo, ngemva konyaka ehlaselwe unhlangothi eneminyaka engu-22 nje kuphela. UCathryn uboniswe esemncane nomfowabo omdala uChristopher Thompson. Ekhuluma ngaleso sikhathi esinzima, uKathryn wathi: Lapho ngivuka e-coma, ngangingakwazi ukuhlala, ukuhamba, ukukhuluma noma ukunyakaza. Ngangikwazi ukubhala ngesandla sami sokunene futhi ngingaboni kahle ngeso lami lesobunxele. Nakuba ngangishaqekile ngangilokhu ngicabanga ukuthi ngizoba ngcono uma ngibuyela eyunivesithi ngoSepthemba. Ngangingazi ukuthi ngangimbi kangakanani. Nokho u-Iain wayazi ngoba wangibona nginezintambo nezicingo eziphuma ekhanda lami. Akakwazi ukukhuluma ngakho ngoba uyathukuthela. Abazali bakaKathryn no-Iain, ayehlangane naye ngabangane eminyakeni emibili ngaphambi kokuba ahlaselwe unhlangothi, babezimisele ukumsekela nokumnakekela ukuze aphinde abe nempilo. Futhi wayezimisele ukuphinde abe nempilo nokuzimela futhi wayengafuni ukuyeka iziqu zakhe. UKathryn no-Iain...  <response>: Umyeni kaKathryn Grainger u-Iain wabona izimpawu zokuthi wayehlaselwa unhlangothi. Umfundi wezemfashini wafakwa esimweni sokungazi lutho ngemva kokuphaphama enekhanda Waxwayiswa ukuthi angase angaphinde ahambe noma akhulume. 