<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Lapho eseyingane, wakhula enomuzwa wokuthi akayena umntwana womuntu. Lapho eneminyaka emine nje kuphela, uJessica Stoate walahlekelwa uyise. Khona-ke, ngemva kweminyaka eyishumi, unina wabulawa umdlavuza. Kwakungaleso sikhathi, ephelelwe yithemba ngokulahlekelwa abazali bakhe bobabili lapho eneminyaka engu-14 nje kuphela, lapho uJessica afunga khona ukusiza abanye. Ngenza isithembiso sokuthi akekho omunye intombazanyana okudingeka ukuba alahlekelwe yilokho engikulahlile, noma aphile ngendlela engiphile ngayo, etshela iMailOnline. Futhi namuhla, ngoSuku Lomama, le ntokazi eneminyaka engu-23 ubudala yaseWalton-on-Thames, eSurrey igcwalisa isithembiso sayo. Skrolela phansi ukuze ubone ividiyo. UJessica Stoate wayeneminyaka emine lapho uyise, uRichard, esithombeni, efa ngenxa yesifo senhliziyo. Eminyakeni eyishumi kamuva ngoJuni 2006, unina uSamantha washona ngemva kokulwa nomdlavuza iminyaka emihlanu. Uqala umkhankaso wokuqoqa imali nokuqwashisa inhlangano yokusiza umdlavuza wegazi u-Anthony Nolan. Ekhumbula isikhathi lapho eqaphela khona ukuthi unina wayeseshonile, uJessica wathi: Ngikhumbula nje ngithi, Bengingakaqedi ukubuka ilanga lishona nawe. Futhi ngokulahlekelwa uyise wanezela: Angisoze ngakwazi ukuchaza ukuthi kunjani ukuzwa ukuthi sekuphelile, lapho lawo mazwi evela engxenyeni yesibili yokushaya kwenhliziyo yakho. Njengoba ekhula, uJessica wafihla okwenzeka esikhathini esidlule kubangane bakhe, elangazelela ukuba kungabikho muntu omphatha ngendlela ehlukile. Kodwa ngoSuku Lomama uye wathola izwi lakhe, ehlabelela okokuqala obala selokhu alahlekelwa abazali bakhe ukuze aqale umkhankaso wakhe. Ekugcineni ngikhuluma ngendaba yami njengengxenye yesithembiso engasenza kubazali bami - sokwenza noma yini engingacabanga ukuqinisekisa ukuthi omama nobaba abaningi ngangokunokwenzeka bangaphila nomdlavuza, ukuba khona ukuze babone izingane zabo zikhula, esho. Akekho okufanele akhule enomuzwa, njengami, wokuthi akayena umntwana womuntu. U-Anthony Nolan uyinhlangano esiza abantulayo engavimbela lokho ukuba kungenzeki kweminye imikhaya. Echaza ukuthi kungani ayigcina iyimfihlo iminyaka eminingi, uJessica wanezela: Angikaze ngifune ukuchazwa ngalokho engangikulahlile. Usuku Lomama lwalusondela futhi ngangidabuke kakhulu, ngangikhumbula umama futhi ngilwa nesiqu sami. Ngaqala ukuzibuza...  <response>: Uyise kaJessica Stoate, uRichard, washona lapho eneminyaka emine, ngenxa yesifo senhliziyo. Eminyakeni eyishumi kamuva unina uSamantha washona ngemva kweminyaka emihlanu elwa nomdlavuza. Wenza isithembiso kubazali bakhe sokuthi ngeke avumele enye intombazanyana ilahlekelwe yilokho eyayinakho noma iphile ukuphila kwayo ngendlela yona eyayingathanda ngayo. Ekhula, wachaza umuzwa wokuthi wayengeyona ingane yomuntu Wayegcina imfihlo yesikhathi sakhe esidlule esibuhlungu efisa ukungaphathwa ngendlela ehlukile. NgoSuku Lomama ugcwalisa isithembiso sakhe ngokwethula umkhankaso omusha. Ugijima imarathoni ukuze athole imali yenhlangano yokusiza abantu abanomdlavuza u-Anthony Nolan. 