<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Ngokosososayensi, abazaliabazisa kakhulu izingane zabo basengozini yokukhulisa izingane eziqhoshayo, ezizicabangelayo. Bangase babe yiqholo nenjabulo yakho kodwa ukutshela ingane yakho ukuthi ikhethekile kuyenza izibheke ngokweqile. Futhi ososayensi bathi abazali abazazisa ngokweqile izingane zabo basengozini yokukhulisa izingane eziqhoshayo, ezizicabangelayo. Ucwaningo lwezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo lwathola ukuthi esikhundleni sokutshela izingane ukuthi zingcono kunabanye, abazali kufanele bazitshele ukuthi zingcono njengabo bonke abanye abantu. Lolu cwaningo, olwalulandelela abahlanganyeli izinyanga ezingu-18, lubonisa ukuthi kunomngcele omncane phakathi kokuzethemba nokuzithanda. Izingane ezihlale zitshelwa ukuthi zibalulekile ziba nombono oweqisayo ngazo, kuyilapho lezo ezitshelwa ukuthi ziyathandwa ziba nokuzethemba futhi ziba abantu abavuthiwe. Umehluko phakathi komntwana ocabanga ukuthi ulingana nabanye nomntwana ocabanga ukuthi ungcono kunabanye futhi unelungelo lokuphathwa ngendlela ekhethekile. Nokho, izingane ezinobugovu zisenokuzethemba okuphansi kunabangane bazo abadlalayo abathobeke kakhudlwana. Lolu cwaningo olwenziwa ezinganeni zaseNetherlands ezingu-565 ezineminyaka engu-7 kuya kwengu-11 lwenziwa e-University of Amsterdam nase-Ohio State University. Kwaxoxwa nabazali izikhathi ezine, kwabuzwa ngobuhlobo babo nezingxoxo zabo nengane yabo, futhi ingane yabuzwa ukuthi izibheka kanjani yona nabanye. Umcwaningi oholayo uDkt. Eddie Brummelman, waseNyuvesi yase-Amsterdam, wathi: Esikhundleni sokukhulisa ukuzethemba, imikhuba yokugcizelela ngokweqile ingase iphakamise amazinga okuzicabangela. UProfesa uBrad Bushman wase-Ohio State University wanezela: Izingane ziyakukholelwa lokho lapho abazali bazo bezitshela ukuthi zikhethekile kunabanye. Lokho kungase kungabi kuhle kubo noma emphakathini. Abantu abanokuzethemba okukhulu bacabanga ukuthi balingana nabanye, kuyilapho abantu abanobugovu becabanga ukuthi bangcono kunabanye. Lolu cwaningo, olwanyatheliswa ephephabhukwini i - Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, lwathola ukuthi izingane ezazitshelwa ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi zikhethekile zazithambekele ekucabangeni kabi ngabanye kodwa kwakungadingeki ukuba zibe...  <response>: Abazali abazisa ngokweqile izingane zabo basengozini yokukhulisa abantu abadala abaqhoshayo, abanobugovu. Abacwaningi balandelela izingane ezingama - 565 zaseNetherlands ezineminyaka engu - 7 kuya kwengu - 11 ubudala izinyanga ezingu - 18. Futhi kutholakale ukuthi izingane ezizithanda ngokweqile zisenokuzethemba okuphansi kunabangane bazo abadlalayo abazithobayo. 