<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Iseluleko ngocansi sasilula kakhulu ngawo-1980, kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uPhilippa Perry kuyi-BBC4 documentary ethi Sex, Lies Love Bites. Ngokwesinye isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, isizukulwane sanamuhla sentsha sidideke kakhulu ngobulili kunanini ngaphambili ngenxa yezithombe ezingcolile zobulili. UPhilippa Perry, oneminyaka engu-57 ubudala, uye wathi ukutholakala kalula kwama-video nezithombe ezibonisa izinto ezingcolile kuye kwenza intsha eningi ingakwazi ukuba nobuhlobo obuvamile nobunempilo. Lomama onengane eyodwa wanezela ukuthi inkinga yabantu abasha yokungaziqondi izinto ezingokoqobo eziphathelene nobulili inzima kakhulu manje kunanini ngaphambili. Udadewabo ka-Agony kumagazini i-Red ne-The Guardian, wathi uhlangabezana nezinkinga ezibangelwa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngokuphindaphindiwe nokuthi amadoda aya ngokuya ephendukela ezincwadini ezinjalo ukuze athole iseluleko. Umfazi womculi owathola umklomelo kaTurner, uGrayson Perry, oneminyaka engu-54, wathi: Namuhla abantu bazifundisa ngokobulili ngokuvamile ngokubuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezitholakala ngokukhululekile. Bathola umbono osontekile ngocansi, becabanga ukuthi abesifazane kumelwe babe ngendlela ethile futhi konke kumayelana nokuzithoba nokubusa kuyilapho ngokusobala kungenjalo. Abantu baba nombono oyiphutha ngobulili futhi balahlekelwe indlela ngenxa yezithombe ezingcolile. Angiphikisani nezithombe ezingcolile kodwa aziyona into ewusizo kakhulu ekufundiseni ngocansi. Ingozi kulezi zinsuku iwukuthi abantu bavezwa besebancane kakhulu ohlotsheni oluthile lobulili futhi babe sebecabanga ukuthi yilokho ubulili obuyikho. Lobu buwula ngokuphathelene neqiniso lobulili buhlukile kobentsha yezizukulwane zangaphambili eyayiphendukela komamazala abahluphekayo ukuze ithole iseluleko. Nakuba ngaphambili kwakuqhutshwa ukuntula ulwazi ngocansi, inkinga manje iwukuthi abantu bavezwa izithombe ezingcolile zobulili, ngokuvamile ezibonisa ubulili obunobudlova nobudlova, besebancane kakhulu. Wathi sekukubi kakhulu manje, kodwa sengimdala ngakho ngizokusho lokho. Wagcizelela indaba ethile ayehlangane nayo ngensizwa eyayiluthwe izithombe ezingcolile kangangokuthi yayingasakwazi ukuvusa inkanuko yabesifazane ekuphileni kwangempela. Uthe akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi ubhekene nale nkinga nokuthi iyinkinga enkulu emphakathini. UNkk. Perry, ubani lo...  <response>: Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uPhilippa Perry senze idokhumentari ngeseluleko sobulili. Ubulili, Amanga Nokulunywa Uthando: Indaba ka-Aunt Agony ixoxa nabalobi bezeluleko kusukela kuGraham Norton kuya kwabesifazane abasekela umagazini iJackie. Inani elandayo lamadoda liphendukela ku-Agony Aunts ukuze lithole usizo. Bukela i-Sex, Lies and Love Bites: The Agony Aunt Story ku-BBC4 namuhla ngo-9 ntambama. 