<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Ukuthembisa phambi kwe-altare ukuthi uyoba nomuntu omthandayo futhi umnakekele, egula noma enempilo, kungase kubonakale kuyisibambiso esiqondile. Kodwa kwabesilisa, ezinye izici zesifungo zingase zibe lula ukuzigcina kunezinye. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi imibhangqwana inamathuba amaningi okuhlukanisa uma inkosikazi igula. Abacwaningi bathi imiphumela yabo ibonisa ukuthi amanye amadoda awakwazi ukubhekana nomngane womshado ongathandeki. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi imibhangqwana inamathuba amaningi okuhlukanisa uma umkayo egula futhi abacwaningi bathi imiphumela yabo ibonisa ukuthi amanye amadoda awakwazi ukubhekana nomlingani omubi. Ngemva kokulandelela imibhangqwana engu-2 700 e-U.S. kusukela ngo - 1992 kuya ku - 2010, ithimba laseMelika lathola ukuthi izinga lesehlukaniso lalicishe lifane phakathi kwemibhangqwana enempilo naleyo lapho umyeni ayegula khona. Kodwa lapho umfazi egula, amathuba okuhlukanisa ayeba maningi. Njalo ngemva kweminyaka emibili abacwaningi babexoxisana nale mibhangqwana futhi babuze ukuthi ingabe ikhona yini phakathi kwabo eyayigula kusukela esikhathini sokugcina. Phakathi neminyaka engu-18, imishado engu-859 yaphela ngesehlukaniso, okungamaphesenti angu-32 eqembu eliyisampula. Emibhangqwaneni engamaphesenti angu-24, inhlekelele yafika lapho omunye umngane womshado efa, futhi engamaphesenti angu-44 yayisaphila ngesikhathi ucwaningo luphela. Kodwa phakathi kwemibhangqwana engu - 965 lapho owesifazane agula khona, isilinganiso sesehlukaniso sasiphakeme ngamaphesenti ayisithupha. Umlobi oyinhloko u - Amelia Karraker, onguprofesa osizayo wezifundo zomkhaya e - Iowa State University, wathi ukugula kunganezela ukucindezeleka emshadweni ngoba amadoda angase angathambekele ekuthatheni indima yomnakekeli njengabesifazane. Kukhona umehluko phakathi kokuzizwa ugula kakhulu ukuba wenze isidlo sakusihlwa kanye nokudinga umuntu ozokondla ngempela, kusho yena. Lokho kuyinto engashintsha ngempela isimo somshado. Uma umngane wakho womshado egula kakhulu ukuba angasebenza, siyazi ukuthi ukucindezeleka ngokwezimali kuyisici esiyinhloko esibangela isehlukaniso. UDkt. Karraker wathi amakhosikazi nawo angase angagculiseki ngekhono lamadoda awo lokuwanakekela. Wanezela: Izinto ezenzeka ekuphileni noma ekufeni zingase zibangele abantu ukuba bahlole kabusha ukuthi yini ebalulekile ekuphileni kwabo. Kungenzeka ukuthi abesifazane bathi, Wenza umsebenzi omubi wokunginakekela...  <response>: Lolu cwaningo lwabuka imibhangqwana engu-2 700 e-US kusukela ngo - 1992 kuya ku - 2010. Abacwaningi bathi amanye amadoda awakwazi ukubhekana nomngane womshado ongathandeki. Umbhali oyinhloko uthi amadoda angase angathambekele kangako ekufezeni indima yomnakekeli 