<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Owesifazane owayethukile owayazi ukuthi umalokazana wakhe wayebulewe umkhwekazi wakhe wathula ngalobu bugebengu iminyaka eyisikhombisa ngoba wayesaba ukuthi naye wayezobhekana nesimo esifanayo. Ekugcineni uSarbjit Athwal waba nesibindi sokukhuluma ngalokhu okubizwa ngokuthi ukubulala udumo futhi waletha umkhwekazi wakhe ongumbulali phambi kobulungiswa. Manje wabelane ngendaba yakhe nombukiso we-Crime and Investigation network i-Britains Darkest Taboos njengoba ethemba ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kuzokhuthaza ezinye izisulu ezibanjwe emishadweni enobudlova ukuba zikhulume. Skrolela phansi ukuze ubone ividiyo. USarbjit Athwal waphila ngokwesaba uninazala ongumbulali iminyaka eminingi kodwa ekugcineni wakhuluma. USarbjit, manje oneminyaka engu-45 ubudala, wayeneminyaka engu-19 lapho ehlelwa umshado wamaSikh futhi wathunyelwa ukuba ayohlala nomyeni wakhe omusha, uHardave, nomkhaya wakhe eHayes, eMiddlesex. Wathi wayengenalo izwi kuleso sinqumo futhi wayenenkinga enkulu ngomkhaya wakhe omusha. Nganginomuzwa wokuthi ngangicindezelwa futhi kwadingeka ngicabange nangabazali bami. Ngangingafuni ukubadumaza futhi kwadingeka ngicabange ngenhlonipho noma ngehlazo engangiyoletha emndenini uma ngangithe cha. Ngakho-ke, ngakwamukela lokho okwakunikezwa futhi ngathi yebo, ngaqhubeka nakho, uyachaza. USarbjit walwa kanzima ukuze azinze ekhaya lakhe elisha lapho umkhwekazi wakhe uBachan Athwal ayebusa khona. Ukubulala udumo: USarbjit, kwesobunxele, ngosuku lomshado wakhe nomalokazana wakhe uSurjit owabulawa ngukhwekazi wabo nomyeni wakhe ngesikhathi ezama ukuthola isehlukaniso. Kodwa wathola ubungane kumlamu wakhe omusha uSurjit, oneminyaka engu-18, owayeshade nomfowabo womyeni wakhe, uSukhdave. Bobabili uSurjit noSarbjit benziwa bazizwa bengenalusizo futhi ukuphila kwabo kwakungaseyona eyabo. USarbjit wathi: Indima yami emkhayeni ngemva kokuba sengishadile kwakuwukupheka nokuhlanza, ukunakekela umkhaya, ukunakekela umkhaya owandisiwe uma befika, ukupheka nokuhlanza bese ngihamba nomamezala kwezinye izikhathi. Wayehlale ephethe, futhi wayeyilawula indlu futhi wayesitjela ukuthi senzeni esikhundleni sokuxoxa...  <response>: USarbjit Athwal, 45, wayazi ukuthi umalokazana wakhe, uSurjit, wayebulewe. Ukubulala kwenziwa ngomyalo kamamezala wakhe uBachan Athwal. UBachan wamtshela ukuthi uSurjit unqunywe izidakamizwa, wagwazwa waphonswa emfuleni Ukubulala udumo kwenzeka njengoba uSurjit ayefuna ukuhlukanisa nendodana kaBachan. USarbjit wayesaba ukuthi wayezoba ngowokulandelayo uma ebika ngalokhu kubulala. Ekugcineni wathola isibindi sokukhuluma eminyakeni eminingi kamuva. UBachan nendodana yakhe bagwetshwa ukuphila ejele ngo-2007. Manje uSarbjit useqeqeshelwe ukuba yi-PCSO. Ufuna ukusiza abanye ukuba babalekele imishado enobudlova. 