<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Abesifazane abaningi abakhulelwe bakhathazwa ukungalali ebusuku nokuthi bazokwazi kanjani ukubhekana nezidingo zomntwana osanda kuzalwa nokuphila kwansuku zonke. Kodwa kuKarla Kirby, oneminyaka engu-38 ubudala, ukukhulelwa kwakhe kumane nje kugcwele ukulindela okujabulisayo kokunikela ngomntwana wakhe omusha. Ngoba lo mpheki, ohlala enyakatho yeLincolnshire, okwamanje ukhulelwe ingane yakhe yeshumi nanye, futhi njengomama ongamzali, usevele wabingelela izingane zakhe eziyishumi ezingokwemvelo. UKarla Kirby nezingane zakhe ezimbili, uJordan noJoshua, kanye nezinye zezingane azizala njengomama wesivumelwano. Engxoxweni ne-The Mirror, uKarla uthe wanquma ukuba ngumama wesivumelwano ngoba wayethanda ukuba ngumama futhi efisa ukusiza abanye abantu ukuba babe nemindeni yabo. Njengoba ayenezingane ezimbili, futhi esezohlanganisa iminyaka eyishumi nambili, wezwa ingxoxo lapho abantu babexoxa khona ngokuzala ngokwesivumelwano futhi wanquma ukuxhumana nenhlangano i-Childlessness Overcome Through Surrogacy COTS ukuze athole okwengeziwe. Ngemva kwesimiso sokwelulekwa ukuze aqiniseke ukuthi usekulungele, wakhetha ukuba ngumzali oqondile esebenzisa amaqanda akhe kanye nesidoda sikayise wesikhathi esizayo ayezifakela sona. UKarla wakhetha ukusiza umbhangqwana owawunenkosikazi eyayingazali, futhi wakhulelwa ngemva kokuzama okwesishiyagalombili, waba nengane yakhe yokuqala, u-Ethan, ngo-2001. Uthe ukubona imizwa ebusweni babazali abasha lapho enikeza ingane kuye kwamsiza ukuba aqaphele ukuthi wenze isinqumo esifanele futhi ezinyangeni ezingu-18 kamuva, waphinde waba ngumama wesivumelwano, wazala uNia ngo-2002 noCarey ngo-2003. Izingane zakhe ezimbili, manje ezazineminyaka eyisithupha nesikhombisa ubudala, zazi ukuthi izingane ayezithwele zazingeke zibe yingxenye yomkhaya wazo futhi kwakungekho lutho olwalungamvimba. UKarla kwesokudla nomkakhe, uTaz, nomunye wabantwana abaqashelwe ngemva nje kokubeletha. UKarla uthe uyazi ukuthi uTaz ukhathazekile ngempilo yakhe futhi angathanda ukuba athathe umhlalaphansi ekubeni ngumama wesivumelwano. Ngaba noMacey ngo-2005, uMaddie ngo-2007, uTyler ngo-2008, uGeorge ngo-2009, uHayden ngo-2011, uSaskia ngo-2013 no-Oliver ngo-2014 - abazali bonke banamagama abo...  <response>: UKarla Kirby manje ukhulelwe ingane yakhe yeshumi nanye. Umpheki uthi uyakujabulela kakhulu ukusiza abanye ukuba babe nezingane. Ukhulelwa ngamaqanda akhe nangesidoda salowo ozoba ubaba wakhe. 