<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: USimone Matthews waba nomuzwa wokuthi ukufakelwa isisu kwakuyindlelaenhleyokubungaza usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa lwama-50. Njengoba usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa lwama-50 lwalusondela, uSimone Reeves wanquma ukuthi ukugubha ngomkhumbi noma ngephathi kwakungeke kwanele. Wayengenaso isithakazelo ezingutsheni ezintsha noma ekudleni okunethezekile. Kunalokho ugogo waseKent wazitholela isisu esisha. Uthi ukuhlinzwa ngo-4,800 kwakuyisipho esiyingqayizivele sokugubha kwakhe iminyaka engu-50. USimone, onabantwana abathathu asebekhulile, ungomunye wabesifazane abaningi okuthiwa bagubha usuku lwabo lokuzalwa oluyingqopha-mlando ngokuhlinzwa. Futhi uthi isinqumo sakhe sokuya ngaphansi komese emasontweni ambalwa ngaphambi kokuba afinyelele iminyaka engu-50 ubudala sasingesinye sezinqumo ezinhle kakhulu ake wazenza. Echaza ngesinqumo sakhe wathi: Ukuhlinza isisu kwakuyinto engangicabanga ngayo kodwa isikhathi sasingabonakali sifanelekile. Ngaleso sikhathi ngangibhekene neminyaka eyishumi entsha, izimo zami zase zishintshe kakhulu futhi kwakubonakala kungesona isikhathi esifanele kuphela, kodwa futhi kuyindlela efanelekile yokubungaza lesi senzakalo. Kwakuyimali eningi engangingayisebenzisa ekuthokoziseni umuntu ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa kodwa nganginomuzwa wokuthi ngiyakufanelekela, futhi ngenxa yokuthi ngangihlukanisile futhi nginciphise umsebenzi, ngokokuqala ngqá ekuphileni kwami nganginemali. Manje ngenxa yokuhlinzwa kwami sengingene eminyakeni engamashumi amahlanu ngibukeka futhi ngizizwa ngingcono kunanini ngaphambili. Ukungena eminyakeni engamashumi amane kwakuyisipiliyoni esihluke kakhulu kuSimone, owathola ukuthi wayeqaphela kakhulu lokho akubiza ngokuthi isisu sakhe esijulukayo. Ngemva kokubeletha uBen, manje oneminyaka engu-34, uCandice, oneminyaka engu-28, noNicholas, oneminyaka engu-27, ngokuhlinzwa, wayehlale engathokozi ngesazela. Khona-ke eneminyaka engu-41 ubudala wenziwa i-hysterectomy futhi amanxeba engeziwe asho ukuthi isisu sakhe asikaze silulame. Uyachaza: Ngangishiywe nginesikhumba esithambile engangisizonda ngokuphelele. Ngangazi ukuthi akukho ukuvivinya umzimba okwakungakushintsha. Ngenza konke okusemandleni ami ukuba ngiyifihle ngezingubo zangaphansi zeSpanx futhi ngangigqoka ama-shorts njalo phezu kwe-bikini yami. Ngacabanga nje ukuthi eminyakeni yami sekwephuze kakhulu ukuba ngilungise noma ukuba ngikhathazeke ngakho. Kodwa lokho kwashintsha ngo-2001 lapho uSimone ehlukana nomyeni wakhe uPeter ngemva kweminyaka engu-21 beshadile. Uthi: UPeter wayemuhle futhi wayehlale eyamukela imizimba yami. Kuyinto...  <response>: USimone Reeves wasebenzisa ama- 4,800 ekuthengeni isisu esisha ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa. Wayengajabule ngesilonda sokubeletha ngemva kokubeletha kathathu. Odokotela abahlinzayo basusa isikhumba esingeqile esingamakhilogremu amabili ngesikhathi senqubo. 