<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Isisebenzi sokunakekela esihlakaniphile esasingakaze sicabange ukuthi singaba isisulu senkohliso yokushada kwababaleki siveze indlela esakhohliswa ngayo igundane lothando elalihlangana nalo eholidini. UJulie Dag, manje oneminyaka engu-50 ubudala, waseBournemouth, washiywa edabukile futhi engasenamali engu-20,000 ngemva kokuthandana nomculi wendawo uLamin Sidibeh ngesikhathi eseholidini eGambia eNtshonalanga Afrika ngo-2007. Ngaleso sikhathi wayesanda kushada eneminyaka engu-43 ubudala futhi ecabanga ukuthi wayethole uthando lweqiniso noLamin, oneminyaka engu-29. Ukuzimisela: UJulie uzimisele ukuyeka izinto azenza esikhathini esidlule futhi aqhubeke nokuphila kwakhe ngemva kokuhlukanisa ngo - 2011. Injabulo yomshado: UJulie Dag nomyeni wakhe uLamin Sidibeh ngosuku lwabo lomshado eGambia ngo-2008. Njengoba ayesenemishado emithathu ehlulekile, wathi wayethambekele ekuthonyweni yizifiso zakhe. Wayemuhle kakhulu ngokomzimba, engumdlali wezemidlalo, enaka kodwa ngangiqaphele kakhulu ukuthi lokhu kwakuyothando lweholide, etshela iChannel 5 documentary i-Holiday Love Rats. Wangenza ngaba nomuzwa wokuthi ngingumuntu oyingqayizivele. Ngemva kwemishado emithathu eyahluleka ngangiguga. Nakuba uJulie abuyela eBrithani, lo mbhangqwana waqhubeka uxhumana futhi ngemva kwezinyanga ezingu-12 wabhuka olunye uhambo lokubuyela eGambia - ngomshado wakhe ngo-2008. Lothando aluzange luhlale isikhathi eside. Sasichitha isikhathi sethu sonke se-honeymoon sigcwalisa izicelo zama-visa, esho. Baqala ukuhlala ndawonye eBournemouth kodwa uJulie wathi wayenokungabaza kwakhe ngezinsolo zomyeni wakhe zokuba umakhi lapho emisa isiteji sakhe. UJulie wathi wazithela ngobuhle nobumnandi bukaLamin ngesikhathi eseholidini eGambia. Wathi: Lalibheke phansi futhi ligcwele izikhala. Umyeni wakhe wakwazi ukuthola umsebenzi esitolo sezinhlanzi nama-chips kodwa uJulie wathi wayengachithi isikhathi sakhe samahhala naye. Wayehamba nabangane bakhe bephuza futhi ngaqala ukusola ukuthi wayekhohlisa. Wayefika ngo-2 ekuseni noma ngo-3 ekuseni futhi wangitshela ukuba ngiyeke ukumshayela ucingo. Ngamtshela ukuthi ungumyeni wami futhi nginelungelo lokwazi ukuthi ukuphi. Nokho, izwe lakhe laqala ukuwohloka ezinyangeni ezimbili ngemva kokuba enikezwe imvume yokuhlala isikhathi esingenamkhawulo e-UK. Ngolunye usuku wafika ekhaya ephethe isixha sezimbali futhi wangitshela ukuthi...  <response>: UJulie Dag uthi wayezizwa engalondekile ngemva kwemishado emithathu ehlulekile. Umyeni wakhe omusha wayengafuni ukuchitha isikhathi naye lapho esebuyele e-UK. Uzizwa eyisiphukuphuku ngokuthonywa ukubukeka okuhle nomusa womculi. Kamuva lona wesifazane wamtshela ukuthi lo mshado wawungumbombayi njengoba wayeseshadile. 