<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi umama ongayedwa aye wabhekana nazo kusukela kwatholakala isimila esibi esibelethweni sakhe, enye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu kwakuwukuthi wayezoyichazela kanjani indodakazi yakhe encane ukuthi inomdlavuza. Ngemva kokuthola lesi sifo ngoMeyi 2014, u-Ebba, isisebenzi sasedolobheni esineminyaka engu-42 ubudala, wakhathazeka kakhulu ngokuthi uLene oneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala uzosabela kanjani kulezi zindaba. Ukwesaba kwakhe okukhulu kwakuwukuthi uLene wayezoshiywa engenanina esemncane, njengoba nje kwakunjalo ngomama wakhe. Ugogo ka - Ebba wayeshone ngenxa yomdlavuza wesibindi lapho unina ka - Ebba eneminyaka eyishumi kuphela ubudala. U - Ebba uyaziqhenya ngendlela indodakazi yakhe uLene, eneminyaka eyisithupha, eye yabhekana ngayo nokuxilongwa komdlavuza webele. U-Ebba, odabuka eJalimane futhi manje ohlala eLondon, wathi: Lapho kutholakala ukuthi nginalesi sifo okokuqala, kwadingeka ngibhekane nakho konke ukushaqeka, ukwethuka nokukhathazeka futhi ngangikhathazekile ngokuthi umlando uzophinde uzenzeke. Ugogo washona ngenxa yomdlavuza wesibindi lapho eneminyaka engu-33 ubudala futhi umama eneminyaka eyishumi. Ngatshelwa ukuthi wayehlushwa ubuhlungu obukhulu futhi lokho kuye kwanikeza isithombe sami somdlavuza. Ngemva kokuthola isigaxa esibelethweni sakhe, u - Ebba walinda kwaze kwaba yilapho eqinisekisiwe ukuthi unomdlavuza ngemva kokuhlolwa okuningana ngaphambi kokuba akhulume nendodakazi yakhe ngalendaba ngesikhathi sokulala. Ngangicabanga ukuthi kwakuyoba yinto embi kunazo zonke engake ngitshele uLene futhi ngangikhathazekile ngokuthi ngizogcwala izinyembezi, etshela i-MailOnline. Kodwa ngikhohliwe ukuthi izingane azinayo imifanekiso efanayo yabantu abanezinwele futhi abahlanza. Ngaphambilini ngangicindezeleke kakhulu futhi ngikhala izinyembezi lapho ngicabanga ngokutshela uLene kodwa lapho kwenzeka wayezolile. Wayengakaze ezwe ngomdlavuza ngaphambili ngakho ukusabela kwakhe kokuqala kwakuwukudideka. Ngangingayitholi impendulo engangiyithole kwabanye abantu yokuthi kunokuthile okubi okwakwenzeka kimi ngakho ekugcineni kwaba ngesinye sezikhathi ezimbalwa engingazange ngikhale ngazo lapho ngitshela othile ukuthi nginomdlavuza. Isithombe sikamama nendodakazi yakhe ngemva kwesinye sezikhathi zokwelashwa kwe-chemotherapy ka-Ebba lapho eqala ukulahlekelwa izinwele zakhe. U-Ebbba wazama ukwenza ukulahlekelwa izinwele kube yinto ejabulisayo endodakazini yakhe ukuze kungabi buhlungu kangako kubo bobabili. Selokhu athola lesi sifo, u-Ebba noLena baye bathola ukuthi i-The Clouds toolkit iwumthombo owusizo wokubasiza ukuba babhekane nalokhu...  <response>: U-Ebba, isisebenzi sasedolobheni esineminyaka engu-42 ubudala, wathola iqhude esifubeni sakhe ngo-2014. Ukuhlolwa kwaqinisekisa ukuthi unomdlavuza. Wayethukile ukuthi indodakazi yakhe, uLene, eyayineminyaka eyisithupha ubudala, yayiyolahlekelwa unina. Ngangikhathazekile ngokuthi ngizomtshela kanjani kodwa ngamangala ngendlela uLene abhekana ngayo nesimo. 