<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: UBen Fogle ongumakad ebona nomkakhe, uMarina, baye bathi ukwelashwa nge-MOT njalo nomeluleki womshado kuye kwabasiza ukuba babhekane nezingcindezi zokunakekela izingane futhi baqinise ubuhlobo babo. Lo mbhangqwana, oshade ngo-2006 futhi onezingane ezimbili, unxuse eminye imibhangqwana ukuba ichithe isikhathi emshadweni wabo njengesinyathelo sokuvimbela ngaphambi kokuba kwephuze kakhulu. UMarina, ongumsunguli wezifundo zangaphambi kokubeletha iThe Bump Class, watshela iThe Telegraph, Imibhangqwana evumelana kakhulu iyobhekana nobunzima lapho kuhlanganiswa owesifazane okhathele, onomoya oshintshashintshayo futhi osengozini ngokomzimba ngemva kokubeletha, nobaba omusha, okhathele futhi okhungathekile ngokufanayo ngomthwalo wakhe wemfanelo omusha. Ukufuna isiqondiso: UBen noMarina, abashada ngo-2006, banezingane ezimbili, uLudo no-Iona esithombeni. Baye banxusa eminye imibhangqwana ukuba ichithe isikhathi emshadweni wayo njengesinyathelo sokuvimbela, ngaphambi kokuba kwephuze kakhulu Njengoba behileleke kakhulu ekubhekaneni nosuku ngalunye, abazali basala nesikhathi esincane sokuba ndawonye, futhi ukuphazamiseka kokukhulumisana kuyaqala. UMarina ubelokhu ekushisekela ukugcizelela ukubaluleka kokukhulumisana emshadweni ophumelelayo, futhi uye wathi uyabona ukuthi imibhangqwana ingase imatasa kalula kangakanani kangangokuthi ingasabi naso isikhathi sokuba ndawonye. Nakuba abaningi babangane bakhe abakhulisa izingane bevumelana ngokuthi ukwelulekwa ngemishado kuwumqondo omuhle, uMarina wasikisela ukuthi imibhangqwana eminingi ethola ukwelashwa yenza isinqumo sekwephuze kakhulu. Izikhathi ezinde ngaphandle komunye nomunye: UMarina usikisele ukuthi imibhangqwana eminingi iba matasa kakhulu ngesikhathi iba ngabazali, futhi ishiye isikhathi esincane komunye nomunye. Ngokuvamile, kusho uMarina, lokhu kubangelwa ukuntuleka kwesikhathi. Wanezela: Sichitha usuku lonke sicabangisisa ngokuthi iyiphi usofa esizoyithenga, kodwa asikwazi yini ukudela ihora ngenxa yemishado yethu? Futhi umshado wakwaFogles uye wabhekana nezinselele eziningi kuneminye eminyakeni yamuva. Ngo-August odlule lo mbhangqwana washiywa udangele ngemva kokuba uMarina acishe wafa ngesikhathi ebeletha indodana yawo eyayisanda kuzalwa. Isikhathi esinzima kunazo zonke: Ngo-August odlule lo mbhangqwana washiywa ushaqekile ngemva kokuba uMarina acishe wafa ngesikhathi ebeletha indodana eyayizelwe ifile. Ngo-2012, uBen naye walahlekelwa...  <response>: UBen Fogle nomkakhe uMarina bayavuma ukuthi umshado wabo wawudinga ukunakekelwa Lo mbhangqwana uthi awuzange uphikisane ngesikhathi ushada ngo-2006. Eminyakeni yamuva nje, lo mbhangqwana ubhekane nezinselelo eziningi kunabanye okubandakanya ukuba nendodana eyazalwa ifile ngo-2014 kanye nokulahlekelwa yisilwane sasekhaya. UMarina uphethe amakilasi okubelethisa futhi unxusa abazali ukuba bacabangele ukwelashwa. 