<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Uthando olusheshayo ngokushesha lwaphenduka iphupho elibi kogogo waseBrithani owashada nomuntu omncane ngeminyaka engu-20 eGambia. U-Anne-Marie, oneminyaka engu-52, waseWarwickshire, wahlangana nomyeni wakhe u-Omar ngobusuku lapho ayese-UK nge-visa yabafundi. Ngaleso sikhathi, wayeneminyaka engu-41 ubudala enezingane ezimbili ebudlelwaneni bakhe bangaphambili kanti yena wayeneminyaka engu-21. Wayemuhle futhi enekhono, wathi wayezongiphatha njengendlovukazi futhi ngangingeke ngintule lutho. Ungitshele konke ebengifuna ukukuzwa, etshela iChannel 5 show ethi Love Rats Abroad. U-Anne-Marie, manje oneminyaka engu-52, waseWarwickshire, wahlangana nomyeni wakhe u-Omar lapho eneminyaka engu-41 futhi yena eneminyaka engu-21. Wathi u-Omar wayelokhu emthumelela imiyalezo futhi emshayela ucingo ngemva kokuba behlangane okokuqala, ngakho ekugcineni wacabanga ukuthi kungani kungenjalo futhi waqala ukuthandana naye. Kungakabiphi ngemva kokuba sebehlangene, wasikisela ukuba athuthele emzini womkhaya wakubo njengoba ayengenakukwazi ukukhokhela irenti yendawo ayehlala kuyo. Khona-ke, njengoba i-visa yakhe yokufunda yayisondela ekupheleni kwayo, banquma ukushada ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa nje behlangane. Ufike kuleli nge-visa yabafundi, akakwazanga ukuqeda izifundo zakhe, wayedinga ukuthumela imali ekhaya, kungenjalo abantu babengeke bakwazi ukudla. Ngangimhlonipha ngokuhlala nokwenza lokho ayekwenza ukuze aqhubeke nomndeni wakhe, kusho u-Anne-Marie. Ngaqala ubuhlobo ngithukuthele futhi ngithandana, kwakuyiphupho. Ngemva kokuthandana, lo mbhangqwana washada eGambia. Indodana ka-Anne-Marie uJoe, owayeneminyaka eyishumi lapho beqala ukuba ndawonye, wathi ubuhlobo babo babonakala buhamba ngokushesha. Wathi: Ngangisemncane ngakho ngangingazi lutho ngobuhlobo bobulili kodwa kwashesha. Ngaqala ukumbona izikhathi ezimbalwa ngesonto kodwa manje wayehlale ekhona. U-Anne-Marie no-Omar baya ezweni lakubo eGambia ukuyoshada ngo-2006 - kodwa wathi wazisola ngokushesha. Ngosuku lwami lomshado kwakuwusuku olumangalisayo kodwa ngangingaqiniseki engqondweni yami, ngangicabanga ukuthi ngenza into efanele yini? U-Anne-Marie wathi u-Omar wayemuhle futhi enekhono ngaphambi kokuba bashade. Ngosuku olulandelayo ngemva kokuba sishadile saba nengxabano,...  <response>: U-Anne-Marie, 52, wahlangana nomyeni wakhe u-Omar ngobusuku base-UK. Wayehlala eNgilandi nge-visa yabafundi. Ngaleso sikhathi, wayeneminyaka engu-41 ubudala enezingane ezimbili kanti yena wayeneminyaka engu-21 ubudala. Wathi: Wayemuhle futhi enekhono. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa kamuva wathuthela kuye futhi bashada eGambia. Ngemva kokushada, wathi washintsha futhi waba nolaka. Uthi wamenza ukuba athathe imali ebolekisayo eyamenza waba nesikweletu sika- 15,000. Umshadoomubiwathatha iminyaka emihlanu ngaphambi kokuba u-Omar ahambe. 