<prompt> Bheka isigaba esingezansi bese uphendula umbuzo emva kwalokho ngolimi olufanayo nesigaba: Isendlalelo: Imfundiso yokuzihlanganisa nabantu inikeza incazelo eqondile yokuthola ubulili. Izinsana zibhekwa njengama-slate angenalutho, alinde ukubhala okuthile endaweni ezungezile. Ngokuxhumana nabantu abasondelene nabo nokuchayeka ezindinganisweni zomphakathi wabo, izinsana zifunda ukuthi hlobo luni lobulili ezibhekwa ngabo nokuthi yiziphi izindima okulindeleke ukuba zifunde. Ukuqiniswa ngokuvuza ukuziphatha okuhambisana nobulili nokujezisa okungabonakala njengokuziphatha okuphambukayo kuhlanganisa izingane nobulili bazo. Isibonelo, abazali banamathuba amaningi okuzibandakanya namadodana abo emidlalweni enokhahlo kunamadodakazi abo, futhi kuye kwaphikiswa ukuthi imiphumela yesikhathi eside ingalandela kulokhu, ukuqala kokuqala kwabafana ekuthuthukiseni udlame lomzimba nobudlova. Abazali nomndeni bangathonya indlela ingane eyakha ngayo umbono wayo ngobulili. Lezi zinhlobo zamathonya zingase zihlanganise izimo zengqondo zabazali nokungafani kokuphathwa kwabantwana besilisa nabesifazane. Umcwaningi uSusan Witt uthi abazali nabo bafundisa izingane zabo ubulili kusukela zizalwa ngokusebenzisa amathoyizi athile, imibala, namagama ahlobene nobulili obungokwezibili. UWitt uphakamisa ukuthi isimo sengqondo sabazali mayelana nobulili singahluka kusuka kubantwana besilisa kuya kwabesifazane nokuthi lezi zimo zengqondo zikhula ngokushesha ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane. Umbhali uSusan Grieshaber, ku- Constructing the Gendered Infant, uphakamisa ukuthi izimo zengqondo eziphathelene nokukhulelwa ziyashintsha ngemuva kokuba abazali bethole ubulili bengane yabo, kamuva bashintshe isimo sabazali maqondana nengane engakazalwa. Ngokombono kaGrieshaber, lapho abazali sebesikhethile ubulili bengane yabo engakazalwa, bacabanga ukuthi banayo ngenkathi behlela ukufika kwengane. Ngenxa yalokhu, uGrieshaber uthi izingane zizalwa ezweni elihlukaniswe ngobulili lapho zingazi lutho ngaphandle kwezimpawu zobulili ezicatshangwayo ngenxa yobulili bazo. UDkt. Kara Smith usebenzisa inkolelo-mbono efanayo ekuhlaziyeni amaphepha akhe okukhulelwa ayewagcina phakathi nokukhulelwa kwakhe kwesibili. USmith waphetha ngokuthi... Umbuzo: Kwenzekani lapho intombazane isebenzisa izindlela zokufuna ukunakwa?  <response>: ukunganakwa 