<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Osemusha oneminyaka engu-20 ubudala owayengumlutha wemidlalo yama-video uye wehlisa isisindo somzimba wakhe ngesigamu eminyakeni emithathu ukuze aphishekele iphupho lakhe lokujoyina amabutho asemanzini. UJai Harms, oneminyaka engu-17, waseWaterlooville, uHants waphuma endaweni yeshumi ngokumangalisayo ngokulahla ukudla okusheshayo nemidlalo yakhe ukuze aqeqeshe amahora amahlanu ngosuku. Isisindo sakhe sasikhuphuke saba amakhilogremu angu-20 ngesilinganiso esishaqisayo lapho eseneminyaka engu-14 lapho edla ukudla okune-bacon roll, ukudla okulula nokudla kwaseChina njalo ebusuku. Lapho eneminyaka engu-14 uJai Harms wayenegazi elingaphezu kuka-20 kodwa eminyakeni emithathu nje kamuva le nsizwa iye yalahlekelwa ingxenye yesisindo somzimba wayo. Manje sekuyiminyaka emithathu ubukhulu besinqe sikaJai sehle kusuka ku - 46 kuya ku - 28 futhi osemusha ozimisele manje usenezinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye efunda esikoleni sokulungiselela ezempi ePortsmouth, echitha ingxenye yosuku ekuqeqesheni umzimba. UJai uthi ngaphambi kokuba anqume ukuguqula ukuphila kwakhe wayengenalo nhlobo inhlonipho ngomzimba wakhe owawugcwele ukudla okunamafutha. Kwakukubi ngempela - ngangidla engikufunayo, noma nini lapho ngifuna. Ngangivame ukuya njalo eMcDonalds futhi ngi-ode ama-McFlurrys nama-milkshake ekudleni kwami kanti isidlo sami sasemini ngokuvamile sasiyizinhlayiya ezine ze-bacon. Ubaba wayevame ukusebenzela indawo yokudlela yamaShayina futhi njengoba ayeletha ukudla futhi ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye sasivame ukuthola ukudla kwamahhala. Ngaphezu kokudla ukudla okungakhi, uJai wayechitha amahora amaningi ngosuku enganyakazi, ezinikela ekudlaleni imidlalo yama-video. UJai wehlisa isisindo ukuze agcwalise iphupho lakhe lokujoyina amabutho asemanzini futhi manje uqeqeshwa nsuku zonke. Ngaphambi kokuba aqale ukwehlisa isisindo uJai wayechitha amahora angu-12 ngosuku edlala imidlalo kuyi-Xbox yakhe. Ngesikhathi ngisesesikoleni nganginganyakazi. Ngangimane ngihlale futhi ngidlale i-Xbox yami amahora angu-12 ngosuku, mhlawumbe ngaphezulu, kusukela lapho ngivuka ngize ngilale. Ngingase ngidlale imidlalo yokugijima ngezimoto neFIFA football kodwa angisabheki ngisho ne-Xbox manje. UJai wahlukunyezwa ngenxa yesisindo sakhe esikoleni kodwa wanquma ukuguqula ukuphila kwakhe ngo-Eva Wonyaka Omusha ka-2011 lapho etshela unina u-Andrea, 48, ukuthi ufuna ukuqala ukulwa ngesibhakela. Ezinyangeni ezintathu kamuva yena noyise uNeil, oneminyaka engu-51, bamvumela ukuba aqale futhi uJai waqala ukuqeqeshwa kwakhe...  <response>: Lapho eneminyaka engu-14 ubudala uJai Harms wayeseyisigqila se-Xbox yakhe futhi waphelelwa isisindo lapho eseneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-20. Enesifiso esiphuthumayo sokuba isosha lasemanzini, wayeka ukudla okuthengwayo waqala ukuqeqeshwa. Manje isisindo somzimba wakhe sesiphelile ngesigamu futhi usengumpetha wesibhakela wendawo. 