<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Kwakuyisikhathi esiyingqopha-mlando lapho abesifazane besuka ekubeni abasha nabathandwayo beya ekubeni abantu abangathandeki. Kodwa namuhla ukuhlanganisa iminyaka engu-40 akusona isibonakaliso sokuthi umuntu useminyakeni yobudala ephakathi kodwa kwabaningi kumane nje kungesinye isigaba sobusha bethu obuqhubeka busabalala nazo zonke izinkathazo zamathuba angavuniwe namapulani angenziwa. Lapha izizukulwane ezintathu zabesifazane zixoxa ngendlela ezazizizwa ngayo nge-4-0 enkulu nokuthi umbono womphakathi ngabesifazane njengoba bekhula uye washintsha kanjani waba ngcono phakathi nokuphila kwabo. USarah phezulu kwesokudla nonina uHelen kwesobunxele, ugogo uMollie phakathi nendodakazi yakhe eneminyaka eyodwa uMatilda, bathatha isithombe somkhaya. Lo wesifazane oneminyaka engu-39 ubudala uthi ukukhuluma nonina nogogo wakhe ngokuhlanganisa iminyaka engu-40 kuye kwamsiza ukuba angazizwa edumele kakhulu ngokuguga, ukuba mpunga nokugxeka kakhulu ukubukeka kwakhe. USarah, kanye nonina uHelen Ivens nendodakazi yakhe eneminyaka eyodwa uMatilda. UGogo. UMollie Guillaume, oneminyaka engu-87, usethathe umhlalaphansi futhi uhlala eChigwell, e-Essex nodadewabo, uJoan, oneminyaka engu-84. Uthi:. Ngaleso sikhathi, lapho owesifazane eseneminyaka engu-40 ubudala kwakulindeleke ukuba agqoke ngendlela enesizotha, anqunywe izinwele ezimfushane futhi ngokuvamile abe nokubukeka okuqinile. Kulezi zinsuku kubonakala sengathi noma yini iyahamba phambi kwe-wardrobe kuze kube yilapho ushona - ngibona abanye abantu abadala kulezi zinsuku ababukeka behleka usulu, bebonisa imilenze yabo emincane ngezingubo ezihloselwe intsha futhi begqoke izimonyo ezijiyile, ezikhanyayo. Bengilokhu ngithanda ukugqoka izingubo ezenziwe ngokwezifiso, ezintofontofo ezinemibala ekhangayo ukuze ukubukeka kwami kungashintshi kakhulu kusukela osukwini lokuzalwa kuya kolunye. Angikuthandi ukucabanga ngokuguga; angizizwa ngineminyaka engu-87. Kodwa bengilokhu ngidla ngokucophelela, ngizivocavoca, ngihamba umhlaba wonke futhi ngichitha isikhathi esiningi nomkhaya wami nabangane - futhi nginempilo enhle ngemva kokuba nomdlavuza ngineminyaka engaphezu kuka-50 - ngakho esikhundleni sokububula ngakho ngizizwa nginenhlanhla kakhulu ukuthi ngisekhona. Indodakazi yami uHelen ibuka esibukweni futhi ayikholwa ukuthi kunowesifazane osekhulile oyibuka, kodwa sengikujwayele lokho ngakho akuseyona into engishaqisayo kimi. Njengoba umzukulu wami eseneminyaka engu-40, kufanele ngempela abe...  <response>: UMollie Guillaume, oneminyaka engu-87 ubudala, wagubha iminyaka engu-40 ngo-1968 njengoba inkululeko yabesifazane yayisibhubhisa iBrithani. Indodakazi yakhe uHelen Ivens, manje eseneminyaka engu-65, yagubha usuku lwayo lokuzalwa oluyingqopha-mlando ngawo-1980. Njengoba umzukulu uSarah eba neminyaka engu-40 ubudala abesifazane baxoxa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. 