<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Abanye abantu bathi ukuba umlutha wobulili akuwona umlutha wangempela. Ngempela, abaningi bangase bakwamukele ukulangazelela njalo umngane onamandla amaningi. Kodwa omunye wesifazane uye wembula umonakalo isifiso sakhe esiphikelelayo sokuhlanganyela ubulili esiye sawuthatha ekuphileni kwakhe futhi uthi ukulawula isimo sakhe kuwumsebenzi wokushintsha njalo. Skrolela phansi ukuze ubone ividiyo. Omunye wesifazane uye wavuma engaziwa ukuthi ungumlutha wobulili nokuthi ukulawula isimo sakhe kuwumsebenzi wokushintsha njalo. Ekuvumeni okungaziwa kuyi-Gold Coast Bulletin yase-Australia lona wesifazane uyaveza: Ngake ngalala nabafana ababili ngobusuku obubodwa ngaphambi kokuba ngihlangane nomfana okwakumelwe ngibonane naye ngaleso sikhathi. Konke lokhu kwaba yinkinga kancane lapho ngesinye isikhathi ngibona amadoda amathathu anegama elifanayo, ngesonto elilodwa. Ukuluthwa ubulili kuchazwa yinkonzo yokweluleka ngobuhlobo ethi Relate njenganoma yikuphi ukuziphatha kobulili okubonakala kungalawulwa. Nokho, abanye ososayensi bathi ayikho into okuthiwa ukuluthwa ngokocansi ngokomtholampilo futhi abahluphekayo bamane benza izaba zokuntula kwabo ukuzithiba. URussell Brand kwesobunxele uvumile ukuthi ulashelwa ukuluthwa ubulili kanti u-Ulrika Jonsson kwesokudla wethule uhlelo lweChannel 4 lwango-2007 olubizwa ngokuthi Ingabe Ngingumlutha Wocansi? lapho abuza khona ngokuziphatha kwakhe kwezothando. Lona wesifazane uyavuma: Ngangihlangana namadoda ukuze nje ngilale nawo. Babengeke baze bangithathe bayodla nami isidlo sakusihlwa kuqala. Kakade, awufuni ukugcwala kakhulu ngaphambi kokuganga. Abantu abadumile abahlobene nalesi simo esiyimpikiswano bahlanganisa uRussell Brand, uMichael Douglas noTiger Woods, bonke okuye kwabikwa ukuthi baye bafuna ukwelashwa kochwepheshe. Lona wesifazane uyabhala: Akukubi kangako ukuba nobuhlobo nomuntu oyedwa ngoba uhlale unothile ongamthokozisa. Akudingeki ukhathazeke ngokuthi uzothola noma yini ngenxa yokulutheka kwakho. Uthi ukube ubeba nesikhathi ubengase angene ngasese endlini yangasese ukuze adambise izifiso zakhe futhi uthi kukhona ama-key-ring vibrator amancane angasetshenziswa esimweni esiphuthumayo. Uphinde akhulume ngecala namahloni azizwayo nokuthi amadoda enzelwe kanjani ukuba...  <response>: Umbhali ongaziwa wembula ubunzima bokuphila nokuluthwa ubulili. Kwavela isihloko esivusa intukuthelo kuyi - Gold Coast Bulletin yase - Australia. Owesifazane uchaza ihlazo lokungathembeki okuqhubekayo kanye nengozi ye-STIs. 