<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Uma ufuna ukuhlaba umxhwele indoda, ungazami ukuhlekisa. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abesilisa abakhangwa kakhulu abesifazane abanobuhlakani. Uma enikezwa ithuba lokukhetha owesifazane omenza ahleke, noma lowo ohleka amahlaya akhe, uyokhetha owokugcina. Ngenhlanhla, abesifazane abakhathazeki kakhulu ngokuthi amahlaya abo ayokwaziswa. Kubonakala sengathi bathanda amadoda abenza bamamatheke. Abesilisa bakhetha uma owesifazane ehleka amahlaya abo, kunabesifazane abanobuhlakani ucwaningo lukhombisa isithombe sesitoko Kucatshangwa ukuthi abesifazane babona ikhono lokwenza abantu bahleke uphawu lobuhlakani futhi amadoda aguqukile ukukhombisa ukuthi bahle kangakanani ngamazwi. Abacwaningi baseYunivesithi yaseMiami babuza amadoda nabesifazane abangaphezu kuka-80 ukuthi babekubheka njengokubaluleke kangakanani ukuba nomngane ongabenza bahleke. Baphinde babuzwa ukuthi kwakubaluleke kangakanani kubo ukuthi umngane wabo wabathola behlekisa yini. Izimpendulo zembula ukuthi abesifazane bayakuthanda ukuhlekwa amadoda, kuyilapho amadoda efuna ukuphuma nabesifazane abawazisayo amahlaya abo. Esivivinyweni sesibili, izisebenzi zokuzithandela zanikezwa inani elithile lemali ukuba lizisebenzisele ukuklama umngane wazo ofanelekayo. Babuzwa ukuthi bangakanani imali abazimisele ukuyisebenzisela ukuthola umuntu obahleka futhi bangakanani abazimisele ukuyisebenzisela ukuthola umuntu ohleka amahlaya abo. Njengoba inani lemali elalihlinzekwa lalikhuphuka, abesilisa baqala ukungagxilile ekukhetheni kwabo, abesilisa baqala ukuchitha imali kwabesifazane abanobuhlakani kanti abesifazane babonisa isithakazelo esikhulu kwabesilisa ababebathola benobuhlakani. Izimpendulo zembula ukuthi abesifazane bathanda amadoda abenza bahleke, kuyilapho amadoda efuna ukuphuma nabesifazane abawazisayo amahlaya abo isithombe sesitoko Umcwaningi uLiana Hone uthe lokhu kusikisela ukuthi ezweni elifanele, sazisa zombili lezi zimfanelo kumlingani. Nokho, ezweni langempela, sivame ukugcizelela kakhulu enye noma enye. Ukholelwa ukuthi abesifazane babheka ikhono lokwenza abantu bahleke njengophawu lobuhlakani kanye nohlobo lwezakhi zofuzo ezisezingeni eliphezulu abalufunayo ezinganeni zabo. Ngenxa yokuthi abesifazane bavame ukukhetha kakhulu, amadoda acindezelwa ukuba abahleke. Nkosazana...  <response>: Abesilisa bakhetha ukuba abesifazane bathande amahlaya abo kunokubenza bahleke. Kodwa ucwaningo luthi abesifazane abakhathazeki ngokuthi amahlaya abo azokwaziswa. Abacwaningi base-University of Miami babuza amadoda nabesifazane abangaphezu kuka-80 imibuzo. 