<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Eminyakeni eyodwa nengxenye beshadile u-Andrew no-Erica Holloway abakaze baphikisane, abanazo izimfihlo futhi bathandana kakhulu namuhla kunangesikhathi behlangana. Nokho, ngokumangalisayo lo mbhangqwana waseMelbourne, bobabili abaneminyaka engu-30 ubudala, awukaze uwugcwalise umshado wawo - futhi u-Erica uyavuma ukuthi akanayo inhloso yokuwenza. Ngoba nakuba u-Andrew engathanda ukukhumula umkakhe izingubo zakhe, eqinisweni u-Erica useyintombi nto futhi wembula kuyi-Daily Mail Online ukuthi umqondo nje wokwenza uthando nomyeni wakhe uyamcasula ngokuphelele kunokuba umjabulise. Ilungiselelo eliyingqayizivele: U-Erica no-Andrew Holloway sebeshade kusukela ngo-Okthoba 2012 kodwa abakaze baye ocansini ngoba u-Ericauyamzondalowo mbono. Ngifisa sengathi ngingalala nomyeni wami, kuchaza uErica, umklami wezithombe. Kodwa angimthandi futhi ngiyazi ukuthi angisoze ngamthanda njengoba, nakuba ngimthanda, umqondo wobulili uyangidumaza. Sisathandana kakhulu futhi siyathanda ukubambana ngezandla, ukuqabulana nokugona, kodwa lokho kuphela engingakwenza. Abantu bangase bacabange ukuthi umshado wethu uyoba inhlekelele ngenxa yalokhu, kodwa sijabule njengasosukwini esahlangana ngalo. U - Erica ubelokhu azi kusukela eneminyaka engu - 15 ubudala ukuthi wayengeyena umuntu ocansini - ngemva kokuqaphela ukuthi wayengakaze azizwe ekhangwa othile ngokobulili. Futhi naphezu kokuzama ukuziphoqa ukuba abe nesifiso esithile sobulili samadoda ambalwa lapho esezoqeda ukuthomba, uyavuma ukuthi wehluleka ukuzizwa enohlobo lokuxhumana abaningi ontanga yakhe ababebonakala benalo. Kuleli qophelo, u-Erica wayesephelelwe yithemba lokuthi uyoke athole uthando, njengoba, mhlawumbe kungamangazi, iningi lamadoda ayewajwayele lavele labaleka lapho ebatshela ngokwenyanya kwakhe ubulili ngokuphelele. Uyakhumbula: Kwakuyisikhathi esikhungathekisayo ekuphileni kwami njengoba ngangazi ukuthi ngangihlukile, kodwa ngangingazi ukuthi kungani. Bonke abangane bami babezama ukuthandana nothile, kodwa ngisho nalapho ngiqabula umfana, kwakungishiya ngingenandaba. Ngangisafuna ubungane obutholwa umngane womshado, kodwa ngangingafuni ucansi futhi ngangikhathazekile ngokuthi ngangingasoze ngamthola umuntu owayezimisele ukungithanda nokungamukela ngendlela engangifuna ngayo...  <response>: U-Erica Holloway, oneminyaka engu-30, ubelokhu azi ukuthi akayena umuntu ocansini kusukela eneminyaka engu-15. Yena nomyeni wakhe u-Andrew, 30, bebelokhu beshadile kusukela ngo-2012 kodwa abakaze baye ocansini. Umxhumanisi we-IT u-Andrew uye walala nabanye besifazane abayishumi, kuhlanganise nenani labasizi abaqeqeshiwe, kusukela eshada no-Erica. 