<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Uprofesa waseyunivesithi usemangalele owayengumkakhe ngo-83,500 ngemva kokumangalelwa ngokuthi washintshanisa isidoda sakhe nesithandwa sakhe sangaphambili ngesikhathi elashwa inzalo. Isazi esihlonishwayo sathi wabangela ukuba akholelwe ukuthi wayenguyise womntwana owazalwa ngokuvundiswa kwe-in vitro IVF. Kamuva wakhokha izinkulungwane zamaphawundi njengesondlo sezingane ngemva kokuba yena nomkakhe behlukanisile. Ukuhlolwa kwe-DNA ekugcineni kwembula ukuthi ingane yayingeyona eyakhe. Ecaleni lokuqala lokukhwabanisa ngobaba okubandakanya i-IVF e-UK, umfundisi uthi lapho unkosikazi wakhe wangaphambili eya emtholampilo wokuzala eSpain nesithandwa sakhe sangaphambili ukuvakashelwa okuvunywa unkosikazi wakhe wangaphambili kwenzeka isithandwa sangaphambili sazenza umyeni waso futhi sanikela ngesidoda. Umfundisi waseyunivesithi umangalela owayengunkosikazi wakhe ngo-83,500 ngemuva kokuthi kusolwa ukuthi washintshanisa isidoda sakhe nesithandwa sakhe sangaphambili ngenkathi eqhuba i-IVF isithombe sefayela Icala lizofika eNkantolo Ephakeme kuleli sonto, kanti amaqembu abizwa ngamagama angawona. I-Mail ngeSonto iyabazi kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezingokomthetho ayikwazi ukudalula amagama abo. Lo mbhangqwana washada ngo-2002, futhi umyeni - owayesevele enezingane ezimbili emshadweni wakhe wangaphambilini - wenziwa inqubo yokuhlinza inzalo ukuze bakwazi ukuba nomntwana. Kodwa umkakhe wahluleka ukukhulelwa futhi waphendukela kumuntu ayethandana naye ukuze athole induduzo. Umthombo womkhaya wathi: Umshado wawuneziyaluyalu. Umkakhe wayesekhathele umyeni wakhe futhi waba nezingxoxo ezinde nesithandwa sakhe sangaphambili. Ngo-2004 lo mbhangqwana wavakashela umtholampilo we-IVF lapho uthisha anikeza khona isidoda ukuze sisetshenziswe kamuva. Kodwa ngonyaka olandelayo, umkakhe wabuya nesithandwa sakhe sangaphambili futhi wanikela ngesidoda. Phakathi nokuvakasha kwesithathu, kwatshalwa isidoda esivundile emtholampilo kusetshenziswa isidoda somuntu owayengumthandi wakhe. Ezinyangeni eziyisikhombisa ngemva kokuzalwa komntwana, lo mbhangqwana wahlukana futhi wahlukanisa ngo-2007, lo mfundisi ehlanganyela ilungelo lokugcina indodana yakhe, manje eneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye ubudala. Lo mfundi oneminyaka engu-60 ubudala wethule isenzo seNkantolo Ephakeme esithombeni emzamweni wokuthola isinxephezelo sika-83,500, kubandakanya nokubuyiselwa kwemali yesondlo sezingane. Njengoba ingane yayikhula, isazi sezemfundo saphawula ukuthi yayibukeka njengeyakhe...  <response>: Uprofesa umangalela owayengunkosikazi wakhe ngokumangalela ukuthi washintshanisa isidoda sakhe nesomthandi wakhe wangaphambili ku-IVF. Wakhokha izinkulungwane zamakhilogremu ekondleni izingane ngemva kokuba behlukanisile. Umfundi wezifundo waphawula ukuthi ingane ibukeka njengesithandwa sangaphambili somkakhe ngakho wenza ukuhlolwa kwe-DNA. Kwafakazelwa ukuthi wayengeyena ubaba wengane futhi manje ufuna ama- 83,500 ngomonakalo. Icala leNkantolo Ephakeme liyicala lokuqala lokukhwabanisa ngobaba elihilela i-IVF e-UK. 