<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: CNN Kuye kwaba nezikhathi ezimbalwa emsebenzini wami lapho ngiye ngadumala khona kakhulu - ngaze ngacasuka - ngabesifazane engisebenza nabo. Cha, angilindeli nakancane ukuthi bonke abesifazane engisebenza nabo bazongiphazamisa futhi bacule i-Kumbaya ndawonye ehhovisi, kodwa ngihlale ngishaqekile lapho owesifazane obengaba usizo kimi engekho, lapho owesifazane obengaba umeluleki ekhetha ukungabi njalo, lapho owesifazane ezama ukungilimaza ngenxa yokwesaba kwakhe, ukukhathazeka noma okunye. Ngingathanda ukusho okwengeziwe ngabesifazane engihlangane nabo endleleni abafana nalezi zincazelo, kodwa iphuzu lami akukhona ukukhetha umuntu oyedwa. Umgomo wami uwukubuza umbuzo othi, Kungani? Ngokusobala, akubona bonke abesifazane abanjalo futhi kunenqwaba yamadoda anecala lokuziphatha okufanayo, kodwa kungani abesifazane abaningi kangaka bezama ukudiliza omunye nomunye esikhundleni sokuphakamisa omunye nomunye? Ngacabanga ukuthi lokhu kungaba umbuzo omuhle kakhulu kuSophia Nelson, umbhali wencwadi entsha yokuzisiza yabesifazane ebizwa ngokuthi Ikhodi Yabesifazane, futhi akazange adumaze. UkuvulaIkhodi Yowesifazane : Izeluleko ezine zokwazi ukubaluleka kwakho. Kusukela sisebancane, sifundiswa ukuncintisana, kusho uNelson engxoxweni yakamuva kuyi-CNN. Kumelwe ngibe muhle, ngibe mude, ngibe ohlakaniphe kakhudlwana, izinwele zami kufanele ziqonde, zibe nemibimbi, noma ngabe kuyini. Kumelwe ngithole indoda ebukeka kangcono. Ngidinga ukuba ngcono ngaso sonke isikhathi kunalokho ngoba sifundiswa ukuba sivele endaweni yokuntuleka njengabesifazane. Ngokombono kaNelson, umbhali nomlobi wezindaba owinezindondo, umsakazo nomsakazo wethelevishini nesikhulumi esikhuthazayo, thina besifazane kudingeka siqale ukusebenza njengamadoda. Amadoda asebenza enomuzwa wokuthi, kukhona lonke leli phayi, futhi ngifuna ingxenye yami, futhi anginandaba nokuthi uyayithola yini ingxenye yakhe, futhi mhlawumbe kufanele sisebenzisane ukuze siqale lelo bhizinisi, siqale leyo nkampani, kusho uNelson. Yiqiniso, kulula ukuba indoda ingakhathazeki ngokuthi iyothola yini ingxenye yayo njengoba kunezingcezu eziningi zephayi ezitholakalayo kwabesilisa ngokuphathelene nezikhundla zokuphatha ezinkampanini zaseMelika, kodwa akunjalo ngabesifazane. Namuhla, amaphesenti ama-5 kuphela abaqondisi abakhulu be-SP 500...  <response>: UKelly Wallace we-CNN uyazibuza ukuthi kungani abesifazane ngokuvamile bengaphakanyiswa emsebenzini. Umbhali wencwadi ethi The Woman Code uthi abesifazane kudingeka baqale ukusebenza njengabafana. Umlobi uthi abesifazane kudingeka baqaphele ukuthi bayazuza lapho besiza abanye abesifazane ukuba baphumelele. 