<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Umama wezingane eziyisithupha owayenesifiso sokugcina sokuvuselela izifungo zakhe wanikezwa isifiso sakhe ngemva kokuba abantu abangabazi abanenhliziyo enhle basiza ekukhokheleni konke. UBarbara Carter, oneminyaka engu-56 ubudala, kwatholakala ukuthi unomdlavuza we-pancreatic ongapheli ngoNovemba wonyaka odlule futhi ngemva kokuthola ukuthi wayenesifiso esisodwa kuphela. UBarbara, waseBury, wakhuluma ngomshado wakhe nendodakazi yakhe uJoanne, 31, ngenkathi elashwa ngamakhemikhali nangemva kokuthumela isifiso sokugcina sikamama wakhe ku-Facebook izipesheli zafika. UBarbara Carter kwesobunxele wanikezwa umshado awuphupha nomlingani wakhe uGraham kwesokudla ngemva kokuba abantu abangabazi benikele ngakho konke okwakufanele kwenziwe ngalesi senzakalo. Ngemva kokuba uJoanne ebeke isitatimende esiveza isifiso sikanina sokuvuselela izifungo zakhe kuFacebook ngosuku olufanayo. UJoanne uthi wajabula lapho ethola izicelo eziningi kangaka zomusa. Sasisesibhedlela futhi umama wathi kimi uma enohlu lwezinto afuna ukuzenza ngaphambi kokuba afe, ukuvuselela izifungo zakhe kwakuyoba phezulu. Ngakufaka ku-Facebook ekuseni futhi kusihlwa sase sinesikhungo somshado esinikelwe kanye namakhulu eminye iminikelo engenayo. UBarbara watholakala enomdlavuza wesibeletho ngonyaka odlule futhi ngesikhathi ethola ukwelashwa ngamakhemikhali watshela indodakazi yakhe uJoanne ukuthi ukuvuselela izifungo zakhe noGraham kwakungaphezulu ohlwini lwakhe lwezinto eziza kuqala. Ngokushesha ngemva kwalokho kwafika izicelo eziningi ezivela emabhizinisini endawo ayezimisele ukwenza iphupho likaBarbara lifezeke. Njengoba sekukhokhelwe yonke into kusukela ezimbali kuya endaweni yesehlakalo ngisho nasenyangeni yezinyosi, uBarbara noGraham Carter, 61, bavuselela izifungo zabo ngoMgqibelo 28 Mashi, okwakubuye kube yisikhumbuzo sabo somshado sama-34. UBarbara uthi lolu suku lwaba ngcono kakhulu kunalokho ayekulindele futhi luye lwasusa ingqondo yakhe kumdlavuza. Lolo suku lwaba yilokho engangikufisa. Kwakunomlingo ngokuphelele. Lo mbhangqwana wavuselela izifungo zawo ngemva kweminyaka engu-34 ushadile. Lo mbhangqwana wathatha izifungo zabo eSt Georges Church, e-Unsworth nge-reception e-Village Hotel, eBury. Umshado usinikeze sonke okuthile esingase sigxile kukho futhi wasusa ukunganaki kumdlavuza. Simane nje sihlatshwe umxhwele umusa wabantu. Lo mbhangqwana wenza izifungo zawo eSt...  <response>: UBarbara Carter kwatholakala ukuthi unomdlavuza we-pancreatic ngonyaka odlule. Watshela indodakazi yakhe ukuthi ukuvuselela izifungo zakhe kwakuza kuqala ohlwini lwezinto ayefuna ukuzenza. Indodakazi yakhe uJoanne yathumela umyalezo kuFacebook mayelana nesifiso sikanina. Ngokushesha ngemva kwalokho, wathola amakhulu ezincwadi ezivela kubantu abazimisele ukusiza. 