<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Owesifazane owaxoxisana ngomshado ovulekile unyaka wonke nomyeni wakhe ayeseneminyaka engu-17 ehlala naye futhi wathatha ithuba lokulala nabantu angabazi abangu-12 uvule umlomo ngomnyaka wakhe onobudlova. URobin Rinaldi, oneminyaka engu-50 ubudala, wayelokhu ezibheka njengentombazane enhle, kodwa wagcina eguqulwe yilokho akubiza ngokuthi umsebenzi wakhe we-wild oats kangangokuthi washiya umyeni wakhe ngemva kwezinyanga ezingu-12. URinaldi, ohlala eSan Francisco, wake walala namadoda amane kuphela ngaphambili kuhlanganise nomyeni wakhe uScott Mansfield. I-Wild oats: URobin Wright, 50, waxoxisana ngomshado ovulekile nomyeni wakhe weminyaka engu-17, okwamvumela ukuba alale nabantu angabazi abangu-12 ezinyangeni ezingu-12 - okwagcina kwaqeda ubuhlobo bakhe. Kodwa phakathi nonyaka wakhe wokushiywa, walala nabesilisa abayishumi nabesifazane ababili, abahlangana nabo kuyi-Internet, ezindaweni zokuphuza utshwala nasezifundweni zocansi. Wathatha isinqumo esashintsha ukuphila kwakhe sokuphishekela ubulili nabanye abantu ngo-2008 - futhi ubhale incwadi ngezenzo zakhe ebizwa ngeThe Wild Oats Project. URinaldi wachaza ubuhlobo bakhe noMansfield, umenzi webhiya nomenzi wewayini, njengobunamathele enkambisweni, enezela ngokuthi impilo yethu yobulili kanye ngesonto yayinothando, kodwa yayingenakho ukuzenzakalela nentshisekelo. Kodwa wanquma ukwenza ushintsho ngemva kokumncenga iminyaka eminingi ukuba abe nomntwana naye, futhi ekugcineni waqaphela ukuthi wayengeke abe naye ngemva kokuba enziwe i-vasectomy. UWright wathi umyeni wakhe, uScott Mansfield, wayeqinisile, wayenothando futhi enokwethenjelwa - kodwa akazange ahlanganyele nesifiso sakhe sokuba nezingane, wamshukumisela ukuba afune abathandi esikhundleni salokho. Ephawula ngesinqumo sakhe esinzima encwadini yakhe, wabhala: Ngiyenqaba ukuya ethuneni lami ngingenamntwana futhi nginezithandwa ezine kuphela... Uma ngingeke ngibe neyodwa, kumelwe ngibe neyesibili. Ngaphansi kwemibandela yesivumelwano sakhe esisha, uRinaldi wathatha ifulethi, lapho ayehlala khona kusukela ngoMsombuluko kuya ngoLwesihlanu futhi ayelala khona ngokunqoba kwakhe. Kodwa ngezimpelasonto wayebuyela eMansfield, futhi laba ababili babehlala njengombhangqwana oshadile, ngaphandle kokubuza ukuthi omunye wayenzani ngesikhathi bengekho. Ekuqaleni, laba ababili bavumelana ngokuthi ngeke balale nabangane abafanayo, bangene ebuhlotsheni obubucayi noma baye ocansini olungavikelekile - -  <response>: Umbhali we- Good girluRobin Rinaldi ubelokhu enoScott Mansfield kusukela ngawo-1990. Wayejabule emshadweni iminyaka eminingi - kodwa wayefuna izingane yena engazange. URinaldi wanquma ukuthi udinga ukuthatha abathandi futhi waxoxisana ngomshado ovulekile Wayehlala nomyeni wakhe eSan Francisco ngezimpelasonto, nezithandani ngoMsombuluko-ngoLwesihlanu. Ngangihlele ukubuyela emuva ngemva kwezinyanga ezingu - 12 ngilala nabantu engingabazi. Kodwa wathandana nomunye wala madoda futhi manje uhlala naye esikhundleni salokho. Ulandise indaba ende encwadini ezayo ebizwa ngokuthi I-Wild Oats Project. 