<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Umama othile uveze ukwethuka kwakhe ngemva kokuthola ukuthi ushade nomuntu othanda izingane. UMel Alford, wase-Exeter, eDevon, wathi wathola kuphela ngomlando wendoda yakhe uJonathan lapho ivela enkantolo ukuze ivume ukuthi yalala nentombazane esencane. Lo wesifazane oneminyaka engu-37 ubudala, onezingane ezintathu, waqala ukuhlangana nendoda ayaziyo ngokuthi uJR, ngo-Ephreli 2012 nge-Facebook njengoba ayengumngane nomfowabo omdala. UMel Alford uthe wayengazi ukuthi umyeni wakhe uJonathan uyisitabane kwaze kwaba yilapho esegqume enkantolo. UNksz Alford wathi wavuma ukuphuma naye ngemva kokuba elokhu ethumela imiyalezo emnandi. Wembula: Sagcina sesithembisene umshado ngo-Agasti futhi sathuthela umshado kuNovemba ngalowo nyaka lapho ngithola ukuthi ubaba wayebulawa umdlavuza. Sasihlala ndawonye isikhathi esiningi futhi ukuqala komshado wethu kwakukuhle ngempela. Wayemuhle ezinganeni zami futhi engiphatha njengendlovukazi. Ngangingazi ukuthi unjani ngempela kwaze kwaba yilapho isisebenzi sezenhlalakahle singivakashela futhi singitshela ukuthi wayekhululwa ngebheyili ngenxa yokulala nentombazane esencane. Leyo ntombazane yayize endlini kababa wezingane zami yamtshela futhi wathinta abezenhlalakahle. UNksz Alford uthe umyeni wakhe wakuphika lokho futhi wakhipha lokho amtshela ukuthi kwakuyi-Facebook page yentombazane eyayinomyalezo othisorry I lied. UMel - oboniswe noJonathan ngosuku lwabo lomshado - wathi wayemphatha njengendlovukazi. Mina nezingane samkholwa ngakho saqhubeka. Kodwa waba nomona kakhulu ngemva kokuba sishadile futhi ngangingakwazi ukuvula umnyango uma kwenzeka kungumuntu wesilisa futhi wayelala ngaphandle emotweni yakhe uma sixabana. Ngo-September 2013 ngamxosha. Kodwa ngangingazi ukuthi lezi zinsolo ziyiqiniso kwaze kwaba yilapho ngibona ukuthi usenkantolo. ENkantolo Yase-Exeter, uJonathan Alford wavuma amacala ayisithupha okulala nengane, ayisikhombisa okwenza noma ukuba nezithombe ezingcolile zezingane, amathathu okuba nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezedlulele kanye nelinye lokuhlanekezela inkambo yobulungisa. U-Alford wabanjwa futhi enezithombe zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane nezobulili obungokwemvelo kukhompyutha yakhe futhi...  <response>: UMel Alford, 37, washada noJonathan ngo-2012 ngemuva kokuhlangana kuFacebook. Umama wezingane ezintathu wathi wayemphatha njengendlovukazi, wayemuhle ezinganeni zami Wayengazi lutho ngesikhathi sakhe esidlule kwaze kwaba yilapho isisebenzi sezenhlalakahle sifika emzini wakhe eDevon. Kodwa umyeni wakhe wakwazi ukumenza akholelwe ukuthi lokho ayekusho ngocansi lwabantwana kwakungamanga. Kodwa-ke, waba nomona ngakho uNksz Alford wamxosha U-Alford waboshwa iminyaka eyisikhombisa ngenxa yalokhu kwephula umthetho. UNksz Alford uthe usungule iwebhusayithi engekho emthethweni yezigebengu zocansi. 