<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Owesifazane oneminyaka engu-23 ubudala owayengumlutha wokudla uthi ukuthandana nomakhelwane wakhe oneminyaka engu-40 ubudala kwasindisa ukuphila kwakhe. Usomabhange uNina McArthur wancipha waba ngamamitha angaphezu kwamahlanu ngemva kokucindezeleka lapho esebenza emsebenzini wasebhange owawuphothulwe. Lowo owayengumdlali wama-triathlon, owayenesisindo esingamakhilogremu angu-8 nengxenye ebusheni bakhe, waqala ukucabanga kakhulu ngamakhalori ngemva kokuqala lo msebenzi odinga amandla. Ukuya kwakhe esikhathini kwanqamuka futhi esimweni sakhe esibi kakhulu wayesencane kakhulu kangangokuthi wayephuza izinkomishi eziningi zetiye nekhofi ukuze afudumale. Kodwa ngemva kokuthuthela efulethini lakhe, uNksz. McArthur waqala ukuthandana nomakhelwane wakhe, umphathi we-IT uMartin Nash, owamsiza endleleni eya ekululameni. UNina McArthur wakwazi ukululama ekudleni ngokweqile ngemva kokuba isoka lakhe uMartin Nash, elineminyaka engu-40, limkholise ukuba afune usizo. Isisindo sikaNksz. McNash sehle saba amakhilogremu amahlanu ngemva kokuba ukucindezeleka emsebenzini wasebhange kubangele i-anorexia. Uboniswe esithombeni ngesikhathi elwa nalesi sifo kwesobunxele nangemva kokululama kwesokudla uNksz McArthur wayesesimweni esibi kakhulu empilweni yakhe ngesikhathi ehlangana noMnu Nash ngo-2013. Ukuya kwakhe esikhathini kwakunqamukile futhi ayesebenza nabo babekhathazekile ngempilo yakhe. UMnu. Nash wamenza ukuba aye kudokotela ayofuna usizo. UNksz McArthur, waseNewton Heath, eManchester, wathi: Ukusekela kwakhe yikho ngempela okungisizile. Kuzwakala kuyindida kodwa, ngaphandle kwakhe ngicabanga ukuthi ngabe ngafa. UNksz McArthur wayehlale engumdlali wezemidlalo futhi ethanda ukubhukuda, futhi wancintisana okokuqala emncintiswaneni wama-triathlon eneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye. Laba bobabili baba nobungane ngoJuni 2013 ngemuva kokuthi uNksz McArthur eshiye ikhaya labazali bakhe. Wathi: Kwakunzima kimi eminyakeni embalwa edlule. Ngemva kokuncintisana emidlalweni yama-triathlon kusukela ngineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye, ngayeka lapho ngiba ne-hyperthermia ngesikhathi somncintiswano ngo-2009. Nganquma ukugxilisa amandla ami ekufundeni futhi ngaqala umsebenzi wami wasebhange. Ngakuthola kucindezela kakhulu futhi ngaqala ukukunciphisa engangikudla. Ngesikhathi ngiqeqeshwa njengomdlali ngangilokhu ngigxile kakhulu ekudleni kwami. Khona-ke umqeqeshi wangitshela ukuthi uma ngilahlekelwa isisindo ngangizogijima ngokushesha futhi ngawuvimbela ngisho nangokwengeziwe. Ngaqala ukuthatha leyo mikhuba yokudla eyingozi ngisho nangokwengeziwe futhi ngaqala ukweqa...  <response>: UNina McArthur waqala umsebenzi odinga ukuzikhandla ohlelweni lokuthweswa iziqu ebhange. Ukucindezeleka emsebenzini kwabangela i-anorexia futhi isisindo sakhe sehle saba sesihlanu. Kwase kuyiminyaka engayi esikhathini futhi waqala ukukhathazeka ngempilo yakhe. Wahlangana nomakhelwane wakhe uMartin Nash, 40, owamkhuthaza ukuba aye kudokotela. Kwembulwa ukuthi unesifo sesibindi futhi wanquma ukufuna usizo. Ngemva kokuzibhalisa esibhedlela sangasese wakwazi ukululama. Ukubuyiselwa kwemali ngokusekelwa kwakhe: Angicabangi ukuthi ngabe ngilapha ukube bekungengenxa yakhe 