<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Cishe izibalo aziyona indaba abantu abaningi abayithola ithakazelisa, kodwa zingase zibe isihluthulelo sokuthola uthando lweqiniso. Izazi zezibalo ziye zasungula uchungechunge lwemibono engasiza abantu ukuba bathole umngane ofanelekayo. Lezi zihlanganisa amathiphu anjengokuzama ukungazifihli izici zakho ezingathandeki ezithombeni zephrofayela yakho yokuqomisana kuyi-Internet nokufuna abantu ababengenawo umkhuhlane omningi lapho besebancane. Skrolela phansi ukuze ubone ividiyo. Incwadi kaDkt. Hannah Fry ngakwesobunxele esithombeni kwesokudla ichaza indlela izibalo ezisekela ngayo uthando. Wathi i-Discrete Choice Theory ithi uma kunabesifazane ababili - u-A no-B - amadoda ababheka njengabakhangayo ngokulinganayo, uma kuvela owesifazane wesithathu obukeka njengenguqulo engakhangi yowesifazane u-A, khona-ke owesifazane u-A uthandwa kakhulu. Futhi baye basikisela izindlela zezibalo zokuthola umfazi noma umyeni ophelele - ngokungakhethi ukuhlala phansi kuze kube ngemva kweminyaka engu-22 ubudala. UDkt. Hannah Fry, umfundisi e-University College London nomlobi wencwadi entsha ethi The Mathematics of Love, wachaza le mibono eMkhosini Wezincwadi wase-Oxford. Wathi ukukhetha abangane abangathandeki kangako kunakho lapho uphuma uyofuna uthando nakho kungaletha izinzuzo. Lokhu kwaziwa ngokuthi i-Discrete Choice Theory, lapho ukuba khona kokunye okungabalulekile kungashintsha indlela obheka ngayo izinqumo zakho. Encwadini yakhe, uDkt. Hannah Fry usikisela izindlela eziningana zokusiza abantu bathole uthando lweqiniso. Yiba nabangane abangathandeki njengawe: Le mfundiso eyaziwa ngokuthi i-Discrete Choice Theory, ithi uma kunabesifazane ababili - u-A no-B - amadoda ababheka njengabakhangayo ngokulinganayo, uma kuvela owesifazane wesithathu obukeka njengenguqulo engathandeki yowesifazane u-A, khona-ke owesifazane u-A uthandwa kakhulu amadoda. Gqamisa amaphutha akho: Ukuhlaziywa kwamawebhusayithi okuqomisana kuye kwabonisa ukuthi ngokuvamile akubona labo ababhekwa njengabakhanga kakhulu abathola izimpendulo eziningi kwabanye abasebenzisi. Kunalokho kubonakala sengathi yilabo abahlukanisa imibono - ngakho yilabo abanokuthile okubahlukanisa nabanye. Amadoda anezinwele ezinde,...  <response>: UDkt. Hannah Fry uthi izibalo ziyimfihlo yokuba nokuphila komshado okuphelele. Izazi zezibalo ziye zasungula imibono eminingi ngothando. Lezi zihlanganisa i-Discrete Choice Theory kanye ne-Optimal Stopping Period. I-Discrete Choice Theory isikisela ukuthi ukuba nabangane abangakhangi kangako kukwenza ukhange kakhudlwana kumlingani ongaba khona. Isikhathi Esifanele Sokuyeka Kunconywa ukuba ungazinzi kuze kube yilapho sekudlule amaphesenti angu - 37esikhathi sokuqomisanakomuntu. Futhi kubantu asebevele beshadile, kunendlela echaza indlela yokuhlala ndawonye. 