<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: CNN Phakathi nengxoxo noprofesa ekolishi lase-Ivy League, umama ukhuthaza indodakazi yakhe ukuba ixoxe ngokuthi ingumongameli weqembu lesikole sabasinde ekudleni ngokweqile. Ethemba ukuhlaba umxhwele ikomiti yokwamukelwa eYale, umfundi ubhala indaba ngesikhathi lapho ayegxile kakhulu engxoxweni nothisha wesiFulentshi ayemhlonipha kangangokuthi wazikhihla esikhundleni sokuphazamisa uthisha noma ukuphuma ekamelweni. Befuna ukunikeza ingane yabo ithuba, abazali baqasha umxhumanisi wokwamukelwa ekolishi lapho ingane yabo isesigabeni sesishiyagalombili futhi bazi ukuthi inani eliphelele lizoba cishe amaRandi angu-50.000. Yeka indlela engingathanda ngayo ukubika ukuthi lezo zinhlamvu ezintathu zaziyinganekwane nje, izingcezwana zomcabango wami zendatshana enhle yenoveli noma yochungechunge lwethelevishini. Kodwa ngokudabukisayo, ziyizibonelo ezingokoqobo kakhulu eziqukethwe encwadini entsha evusa inkanuko ethi Where You Go Is Not Who Youll Be: An Antidote to the College Admissions Mania ebhalwe umlobi wezihloko ze-New York Times nomlobi othengisa kakhulu uFrank Bruni. UBruni wathi, lezo zibonelo kufanele ngempela zibe izingcingo zokuvusa kubo bonke abazali noma abafundi abahileleke njengamanje, noma okungenzeka ngelinye ilanga bagxile, emdlalweni waminyaka yonke othi Ngizongena kusiphi isikole? Lokhu kusho ukuthi sinikeza ukubaluleka okukhulu kakhulu kulokhu okuyiphutha ngokuphelele, kusho uBruni ngesikhathi enengxoxo yamuva. Umfundi uthola izikolo ezingu-8 kwezingu-8 ekolishi lase-Ivy League. Emikhayeni eminingi e-United States, inselele akukhona ukungena ekolishi elifanele. Ukukwazi ukukhokhela isikole abasikhethayo, noma yisiphi isikole. Kodwa emikhayeni eminingi ephakathi nendawo noma ephakeme, inqubo yokwamukelwa ekolishi iyisiphithiphithi njengakuqala ngenxa yenkolelo yokuthi isikole esisodwa singenza noma sonakalise ikusasa lengane. Kwadingeka ukuba ngibuze uBruni, engahlangana naye ngesikhathi ngisebenza kwezombusazwe kamongameli, ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani ukuba ukwamukelwa ekolishi kube okunamandla ngokungenangqondo futhi kube nokuncintisana okuhlekisayo. Sobabili sahleka ngokuthi le nqubo ngokuqinisekile yayingeyona eyokudangala noma eyokushaqeka njengalapho sobabili sasiya ekolishi ngawo-1980. UBruni ukhomba izinto eziningana...  <response>: Incwadi entsha ithi indawo oya kuyo ekolishi ayinqumi ukuthi uyoba yini. Umbhali uFrank Bruni usola umnotho namakolishi ngokwenyusa izinga lokwamukelwa. Phakathi kwezikhulu eziphezulu ezingu-10 ze-Fortune 500 ngo-2014, yinye kuphela eyafunda esikoleni esiphakeme. 