<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Owayengumahluleli weNkantolo Ephakeme uSir Paul Coleridge esithombeni wathi ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi ukuhamba kwezenhlalo ngokuvamile kwakuxhomeke ekhonweni labantu lokugcina ubudlelwano obuzinzile. Ngokokucwaninga okusha, imibhangqwana ehlala ndawonye kuze kube yilapho izingane zayo zishiya isidleke ingakhuphula imali engenayo ngengxenye yesithathu. Lolu cwaningo lwathola ukuthi amadoda nabafazi bangathola izinkulungwane zamakhilogremu engeziwe - cishe okukhuthaza njengokuthola iziqu - ngokumane banamathele kumlingani wabo. Owayengumahluleli weNkantolo Ephakeme uSir Paul Coleridge, umsunguli weMarriage Foundation eyayala ukuba kwenziwe lolu cwaningo, wathi lubonisa ukuthi ukuhamba emphakathini ngokuvamile kuncike ekhonweni labantu lokulondoloza ubuhlobo obuzinzile. Lolu cwaningo lwathola ukuthi owesifazane onesiqu esiphakathi neminyaka engamashumi amane ubudala, oshade ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwezingane zakhe futhi ohlale nomlingani wakhe baze babe neminyaka engu-14 noma engu-15 ubudala wayeyohola cishe ama-31 000. Kodwa uma lona mama ehlukanisile noyise wengane yakhe, umholo wakhe wawuyoncipha kakhulu ube amaRandi angu-23.000 ngonyaka. USir Coleridge watshela i - Sunday Times: Abantu abacebe kakhulu ngokuvamile bahlala ndawonye, futhi ngaleyondlela balondoloze futhi bandise ingcebo yabo yesizukulwane esilandelayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu abacebe kakhulu abashadi njalo, abahlali ndawonye njalo, futhi babona ubumpofu babo buqhubekela ezizukulwaneni ezizayo. UColeridge manje usethula isimemezelo samaqembu ezombusazwe sokubhekana nokuqhekeka kwemindeni, okulinganiselwa ukuthi kubiza abakhokhi bentela amaRandi ayizigidi eziyizinkulungwane ezingu-47 ngonyaka. UHarry Benson, umqondisi wokucwaninga weMarriage Foundation, wathi abantu abahlala ndawonye banemali eningi ehlangene futhi ngenxa yalokho bazinza ngokwengeziwe. Lolu cwaningo lwasungulwa ngokubambisana noStephen McKay, uprofesa ocwaninga ngezenhlalo eNyuvesi yaseLincoln, owahlaziya idatha evela ku-Understanding Society, ucwaningo lwase-UK olulandela amakhaya angu-40 000. Skrolela phansi ukuze ubone ividiyo. Ngokokucwaninga okusha, imibhangqwana ehlala ndawonye kuze kube yilapho izingane zayo zishiya isidleke ingakhuphula imali engenayo ngesithathu. Izibalo ezivela eHhovisi Lezibalo Likazwelonke zibonisa ukuthi abantu abangaba ngu-90...  <response>: Abangane abahlala ndawonye kuze kube yilapho izingane zindiza isidleke sikhuphule imali engenayo ngesithathu. Ucwaningo olwenziwa yiMarriage Foundation lwathola ukuthi lunikeza ukwanda okufanayo nesiqu. Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi amaphesenti angu - 90 abazali abasha abasezingeni eliphakeme lentela bashadile. Uma kuqhathaniswa namaphesenti angu-50 omama nobaba abasha abahola imali encane. UPaul Coleridge wathi ukuhamba emphakathini kwakuxhomeke ebudlelwaneni obuzinzile. 