<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Owesifazane odabukile odla ngokweqile ngemva kokushona kukanina walandisa ukuthi ngemva kokwehlisa osayizi beZIMVUMI bezingubo ngonyaka owodwa nje kuphela amabele akhe ancipha asuka ku-38E aya ku-34B ngakho wasebenzisa ifa likanina ukuze afake amabele. U - Emma Thair-White, oneminyaka engu - 43, washukumiseleka ukuba anciphise umzimba ngemva kokudla kakhulu kangangokuthi izingcezu zokudla zabuyela emuva emqaleni wakhe lapho eguqa ukuze abophe izintambo zezicathulo zakhe. Umama wezingane ezimbili, owathi wadla ngokweqile ngesikhathi elilela ukufa kukanina, waphumelela kakhulu futhi wasuka emgodleni wamatshe angu-15, usayizi 22 waya emgodleni wamatshe ayishumi, usayizi 12. U-Emma Thair-White wakhuluphala kakhulu ngemva kokulahlekelwa umama wakhe ngendlela edabukisayo, kodwa-ke, lo wesifazane oneminyaka engu-43 ubudala manje usehle ngamasayizi amahlanu ezingubo futhi wahlinzwa amabele ukuze aphakamise futhi andise isifuba sakhe esiwile. U-Emma wasala edumele ngemva kokushona kukanina, u-Ethel kwesokudla futhi waphendukela ekuphuzeni nasekudleni ukuze athole induduzo. Kodwa amabele akhe nawo ashayeka futhi ancipha asuka ku-38E aya ku-34B. Ngangingafuni ukuzibuka esibukweni Ngangingakuthandi lokho okwakushiywe ukulahlekelwa isisindo, esho, enezela ukuthi wayecasulwa amabele akhe ahlabayo. Kuwo wonke amabhulukwe engangiwagqoka, isikhumba sasihlala lapho. Ngangingakaze ngilahlekelwe amabele ami nganoma iyiphi indlela yokudla, ngakho kwangethusa lokho. Ngo-2014, wanquma ukusebenzisa ingxenye yefa likamama wakhe ukuze ahlinzwe amabele futhi afakelwe ama-34F. UNkk. Thair-White, waseGrays, e-Essex, wathi: Ngangingaqiniseki ngokuthi ngizoyisebenzisa yini ingxenye yefa emsebenzini kodwa umyeni wami uShane wangikhuthaza, esho. Wathi: Njalo ubeka izingane kuqala, manje sekuyisikhathi sakho. UNkk Thair-White ulandise ukuthi walwa kanzima kanjani ukuze asuse amakhilogremu ayewathole ngesikhathi ekhulelwe izingane zakhe u-Eva, oneminyaka engu-16 noMax, oneminyaka engu-10, kodwa ukuzitika kwakhe ngokudla kwaphela amandla ngemva kokushonelwa unina othandekayo u-Ethel ngenxa yomdlavuza wobuchopho ngo-2009. U-Emma, oboniswe lapha nezingane zakhe ezimbili u-Eva kwesobunxele noMax kwesokudla wanquma ukwehlisa isisindo ngo-2013 ngemva kokuba esekhule kakhulu engasakwazi ukubopha izintambo zezicathulo zakhe ngaphandle kokuthi ukudla kungene emlonyeni wakhe. U-Emma ngokuziqhenya ubonisa ukulahlekelwa kwakhe isisindo ephethe amajean akhe amadala, way...  <response>: U-Emma Thair-White wakhuluphala ngemva kokulahlekelwa unina, u-Ethal. Wayenenkinga yokuphuza futhi kamuva wayeqala ukudla ukudla okuya ekhaya. Manje u-Emma usehlulekile futhi usehluleke ngezingubo ezinobukhulu obuhlaba umxhwele. Umama wezingane ezimbili naye uye wahlinzwa amabele ngemva kokushiywa namabele ahlabayo. 