<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Indoda eyazala izingane ezingu-34 nabesifazane abangu-17 abahlukene ithole uchungechunge lwayo lwangempela, oluzosakazwa ku-Oprah Winfreys OWN network ngoSepthemba. UJay Williams, wase-Atlanta, ngaphambili wabonakala esiqeshini se-Iyanla: Lungisa Ukuphila Kwami, omunye wemibukiso ethandwayo yesiteshi, obona umqeqeshi wokuphila okungokomoya u-Iyanla Vanzant, ezama ukusiza abantu abahlukahlukene bonke ababhekene nezici ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwabo. Lolu chungechunge olusha olungakabizwa ngegama luzolandela ubaba obonakala engenangqondo njengoba ezama ukusungula ukuxhumana okusha nezingane zakhe, okucatshangwa ukuthi zineminyaka ephakathi kwemi-3 nengama-27, nonina bazo. Skrolela phansi ukuze ubone ividiyo. Ubaba wezingane eziningi: UJay Williams osesithombeni unezingane ezingu - 34, okucatshangwa ukuthi zineminyaka ephakathi kwemithathu nengu - 27, nezintokazi ezingu - 17. Ubaba omubi: Umkhiqizi wevidiyo wavela ochungechungeni lwe-OWN Iyanla: Lungisa Impilo Yami ngoSepthemba wonyaka odlule esithombeni. Noma yimuphi umlandeli wohlelo luka-Iyanla wayengeke ehluleke ukubona uJay - owayengomunye wabalingiswa abaphikisana kakhulu kulolu chungechunge. Lapho lo mkhiqizi wevidiyo ebonakala kulo mbukiso ngoSepthemba wonyaka odlule, wagxekwa ngumqeqeshi wokuphila ngokuhluleka ukuhlinzwa nge-vasectomy - naphezu kokuba ubaba wezingane eziningi, okwathi ngo-Okthoba 2014, kwase kumenze umkhulu kathathu. Ngakho ake ngikubuze lo mbuzo, Jay, kusho uIyanla phakathi nesiqephu. Izingane ezingu-34. Ingabe wake waqaphela ukuthi lokhu kuningi kakhulu? Umqeqeshi wokuphila okhuluma ngokungagwegwesi waphoqa uJay ukuba ahlale phansi nezingane zakhe ezine futhi azichazele ukuthi kungani ezilahlile futhi ehlulekile ukufeza imithwalo yakhe yemfanelo njengobaba. Ngithanda ukuvuma ukuthi ngangingazithandi futhi ngingazinaki nhlobo, echaza eqenjini labane. Uthando oluqinile: Umqeqeshi wokuphila okhuluma ngokungagwegwesi wafuna ukuba uJay avume amaphutha awenzile, kokubili njengobaba nanjengendoda. Abane babantwana bakaJay bavela embukisweni esithombeni lapho uyise ezama...  <response>: UJay Williams, wase-Atlanta, ngaphambilini wabonakala esiqeshini somdlalo wesiteshi odumile u-Iyanla: Lungisa Impilo Yami. Uchungechunge lwakhe olusha luhlelelwe ukuba luqale ngoSepthemba. 