<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Uye wabhala incwadi yabesifazane echaza impumelelo ekamelweni lebhodi. Manje isikhulu esiphezulu sokusebenza kwe-Facebook uSheryl Sandberg unikeza iseluleko sobuhlobo ukuze imibhangqwana ikwazi ukunqoba nasekamelweni lokulala. Kulolu chungechunge lwe-New York Times olubizwa ngokuthi Abesifazane Emsebenzini, umphathi wezokuxhumana, oneminyaka engu-45, usikisele ukuthi ukuzibandakanya emidlalweni yokudansa kuholela ocansini olwengeziwe. I-Chief Operating Officer yakwa-Facebook nomama wezingane ezimbili uSheryl Sandberg kwesobunxele nangakwesokudla ukholelwa ukuthi ukwabelana ngemisebenzi yasekhaya, noma ukudlala imidlalo yasekhaya, kuholela ocansini olwengeziwe. Lokhu akuhlanganisi ukuchitha ubusuku obunothando ngaphandle noma amaholide okunethezeka - kodwa kumane kuhlanganyele imisebenzi yasendlini. Isisekelo sale mpikiswano sivela ocwaningweni olwenziwe ngo-2009 nguConstance T. Gager noScott T. Yabiku, olwalukala Ubudlelwano Phakathi Kwesikhathi Somsebenzi Wasendlini Nokuvama Kocansi. Besebenzisa imiphumela, uSandberg nombhali oyedwa uAdam Grany basikisela lokhu: Amadoda nabesifazane abasebenza kanzima ndawonye badlala kanzima. USandberg wasikisela ukuthi uma indoda ifuna ukwenza okuthile okuhle - esikhundleni sokuthenga izimbali kufanele ihlanze izingubo. Lendaba iyaqhubeka ithi: Indoda eyakuzwa lokhu yacelwa umkayo ngobusuku obuthile ukuba ihlanze izingubo eziningi. Wathatha ubhasikidi wabuza ngethemba, Ingabe lena ingubo yokuwasha i-Lean In ebhekisela encwadini yakhe yakamuva? Ukudlala amakhorali kungokoqobo. Laba bobabili bacaphuna ucwaningo olwenziwa ngo - 2000 futhi banezela ngokuthi lapho amadoda enza ingxenye yawo emisebenzini yasekhaya, abangane bawo bomshado bayajabula futhi abacindezeleki kakhulu, kunezingxabano ezimbalwa, futhi izinga lesehlukaniso linciphile. Baphinde basikisele ukuthi izingane ezichitha isikhathi esiningi zinakekelwa obaba bazo zijabula kakhudlwana, ziba nempilo engcono futhi mancane amathuba okuba zibe nezinkinga zokuziphatha. Kwabesilisa, ukuba sebantwaneni babo kubenza babe nesineke ngokwengeziwe, bagcizelele futhi babe mancane amathuba okuba baphuze noma basebenzise izidakamizwa. Ngo-2012 umama wezingane ezimbili uSandberg waba yilungu lokuqala labesifazane ebhodini le-Facebook. Lo muntu oneminyaka engu-45 ubudala, ecaphuna imiphumela yocwaningo olwalusekelwe encwadini ethi The Relationship Between Household Labor Time and Sexual Frequency, uthi: Amadoda nabesifazane abasebenza kanzima ndawonye badlala kanzima isithombe esiyisithombeni  <response>: Umama wezingane ezimbili, oneminyaka engu-45, wathi imibhangqwana ehlanganyela imisebenzi yasendlini yayijabule ekamelweni lokulala. UPiece wanezela ukuthi amadoda kufanele ahlanze izingubo esikhundleni sokuthenga izimbali. Ecaphuna ucwaningo uSandberg nombhali oyedwa uAdam Sandberg bathi: Amadoda nabesifazane abasebenza kanzima ndawonye badlala kanzima 