<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Njengoba ayegxile emsebenzini wakhe kwaze kwaba seminyakeni yawo-30, uClaire Patterson wayengakamhlangani noMyeni Ofanelekayo futhi wayeqaphela ukuthi iwashi lakhe elingokwemvelo laliqhubeka. Njengoba ayenomsebenzi omuhle futhi eqinile ngokwezimali, lo mthwebuli wezithombe wanquma ukuthi wayefuna ukuba nomntwana wakhe - futhi wanquma ukumkhulisa. Ngemva kokuhamba kule nqubo, waboniswa i-video yomfana omncane owamduduza kakhulu. Wayehlezi phansi futhi wavele wamamatheka futhi kwaba yilokho, kusho uClaire. UClaire Patterson wajabula kakhulu lapho etshelwa ukuthi angathatha umntwana womfana. Ngangingafuni ingane enokukhubazeka njengoba ngangingumzali oyedwa futhi ngangingakwazi ukwenza lokho. Kwakuthiwe embikweni wakhe wokusebenza kwengane ukuthi wayeyingane yomfana enempilo, ekhuluma kakhulu futhi ngajabula lapho ngitshelwa ukuthi ngingamthatha. Kwakuwusuku olukhetheke kakhulu futhi wayezoba umfana wami okhetheke kakhulu, ngangijabule kakhulu. UClaire wayazi ukuthi ingane yakhe yayibambezelekile kancane kodwa wathi wayenethemba. Bengicabanga ukuthi ngeke akwazi ukukhasa ngoba ubekade enakekelwa futhi ngicabanga ngokuzimisela okuncane nokunakekelwa okukodwa okukodwa kimi, kwakuyindaba yesikhathi kuphela. Njengoba ayeyibone nje i-video nezithombe ezithile, uClaire, manje oneminyaka engu-40, waqala ukukhathazeka lapho ehlangana naye futhi emyisa ekhaya ngemva kwamasonto amabili: Ngangikhathazekile ngesimo sekhanda lakhe. Kwakubonakala sengathi licaba kakhulu ngemuva, kodwa ngisho nangaleso sikhathi, ngangingazi ukuthi kwakuzokwenzekani. Wathi uma ebheka emuva, kwakumelwe kusheshe kukhanye ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngendodana yakhe. Akenzanga lutho ongalindela ukuba kwenziwe ingane eneminyaka yakhe,washo. Wayengakwazi ukugingqika, wayengakwazi ukukhuluma noma ukukhasa futhi wayenenkinga enkulu yemisipha. Ukubukeka kothando: UClaire udlala nomfana omncane ayembuyisele emnyangweni wezenhlalakahle ngemva kokuba ingane iqale ukuhlushwa izifo ezingama - 36 ngosuku. Wayemyisa ekwelapheni inkulumo futhi wayemkhuthaza njalo, kodwa wathi wayengeke amkhumbule uma ephuma ekamelweni futhi engakhulumi nhlobo, ngaphandle kwegama elilodwa, mummy. Njengoba ayemthatha ngo-2011, uClaire...  <response>: Ngijabule kakhulu ukuba umama womfana omncane onezinyanga ezingu-18 ubudala. Wafundisa ingane ukuhamba futhi yathimama Indodana yaqala ukuba nokuquleka okungu-36 ngosuku okwaholela ekuhlolweni kwezokwelapha. Ukuhlolwa kwembula ukuthi ingane yayinezifo zobuchopho ezazingakaze zitholakale. Umthwebuli wezithombe uthi kwakungekho okunye ayengakwenza ngaphandle kokuthi abuyisele i-tot emuva. Manje usungule iwebhusayithi ethi Adoption Disruption UK ukuhlinzeka ngosizo kwabanye lapho ukwamukelwa kwehluleka khona. 