<prompt> Fingqa isihloko: Iningi labahola impesheni lizigcina limatasa lapho selithathe umhlalaphansi ngokuthatha amakilasi okudweba ngemibala noma ngokunakekela indawo eliyinikiwe. Kodwa uColin Francome, waseColindale, enyakatho yeLondon, uye wathola enye indlela yokuzigcina ekhuthele lapho esemdala - ngokuthandana nabantu abaningi nokuya emaphathini ezocansi. Lo mlisa oneminyaka engu-70 ubudala ubelokhu evame ukuya emicimbini yabashintshashintshi baseHertfordshire ehlala abanye abahola impesheni abayizigelekeqe iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-25. UColin Francome ubelokhu eya emaphathini ezocansi iminyaka engu-25 futhi uthi ayindlela enhle kakhulu yokuhlala esebenzayo. UColin wathi: Kuyajabulisa ukuya emaphathini - ikakhulukazi uma uthanda ubulili. Ubulili buwukuzijabulisa - futhi uma ungakwazi ukuzijabulisa kancane ekuphileni, ukuphi? Ufunani lapha? Futhi njengoba izindaba zikaColin ezichaza abantu abangashadile zibonisa ngokucacile, la maphathi awawona awabantu ababuthaka noma abanenhliziyo ebuthaka. Sengike ngabona izinto eziyinqaba ngesikhathi sami - kwelinye iphathi kwakukhona indoda eyayiseminyakeni yawo-60 ubudala eyaletha owesifazane osemusha owayeseqala ukuwu-40, esho. Wayehambahamba nje eqabulana nabo bonke abafana abadala abasendlini, angikwazanga ukuzibamba kodwa ngabukela. UColin, ongumuntu onekhono lokwenza amahlaya, uthi okwamanje ubona abesifazane abayisithupha abaneminyaka engu-29 kuya kwengu-66 ubudala. UColin wanezela: Ngemva kwalokho wathi kimi kuyajabulisa kakhulu, singakujabulela ukukhuluma ngakho ngemva kwalokho. Lo muntu owayengusosayensi, owayenguprofesa wesayensi yezenhlalo eMiddlesex University, manje usebenza njengesidlaliso sesikhashana - futhi amakhono akhe okudlala ayasiza ekuphileni kwakhe kothando. Okwamanje uColin unabesifazane abayisithupha - abaneminyaka ephakathi kwengu-29 nengu-66 ubudala - abahamba ngesikhathi esifanayo. Yathi: Ngiyakuthanda ukuya ocansini, ngingasho ukuthi ngikwenza okungenani kabili ngesonto - okuyinto engicabanga ukuthi isesimweni esihle kakhulu eminyakeni yami. Sengibe nesithembu cishe unyaka owodwa noma emibili kodwa akuzange kungisebenzele - ngithanda ukuhlukahluka. Abangane bami bangazi njengomuntu oye waba nobuhlobo nabambalwa ngesikhathi sami. Kodwa angikho ebuhlotsheni bomshado owodwa, ngakho akukhona ukuthi ngikhohlisa noma ubani. UColin uthola iziqu zakhe zobudokotela kwezefilosofi emcimbini wokunikeza imiklomelo e...  <response>: UColin Francome uhlala esebenza ngokuthandana nabantu abaningi. Le ndoda eneminyaka engu-70 ubudala iya nasemicimbini yezocansi nabangane bayo. Ngokuvamile uColin uthatha isigamu se-Viagra ukuze alondoloze amandla akhe. 