 Nyorai mberi kweiyi ndima - Abunda ngochani pachena uye ave ari muukama nemumwe wake Elmer Bong Quintana kubvira muna 1983. Kunyange zvazvo Abunda ari muKaturike anozvipira uye anozvipira kuMarian, anotsigira kodzero dzeLGBT uye kuroorana kwevanhurume nevanhukadzi, achiratidza kusawirirana nemaonero eChurch pamusoro peungochani. Akashora kupfura kweOrlando Nightclub muna 2016, iyo yakanyorwa sechiitiko chinouraya zvikurusa chechisimba chinorwisana navanhu veLGBT muUnited States. 