why is humor so easy but hard?
when it comes, it's a gift. like music, it doesn't like not feeling like a gift. so if you push too hard for it, it loses its 'giftyness' and refuses to show. it waits until you least expect it, and then it shows up, as a gift. So the easy part is getting this gift. the hard part is trying so hard for it, and scaring it away for a while