Just a suggestion regarding the reality videos on youtube: you could make the videos private (non-searchable) (and you could do that on some secondary channel too) and only link to them from the reality section here on your webpage. That could solve the "being all over youtube" problem. I am not sure what the issue with the dates would be...
youtube does not let you post a date according to when the content takes place, or was made. only the date it is uploaded to youtube. so if i put all the reality videos on youtube now, they will all say "2017"