If you're only willing to be friends with people with the same lifestyle as you, aren't you just going to end up awfully lonely? Why not make friends on the basis of shared interests, or a shared worldview? (no disrespect here, just kinda frustrated because you have lots of people who you could make friends with and I have no opportunity to make friends. sux)
i think you've misinterpreted my situation. i need to focus fully on what i'm doing. this has lead me to be where i am and it will also lead me to where i'm going to be in the future. any correspondence i have with anyone usually works only when it is integrated with or relevant to that process