because if it was me i wouldn't know how to respond, hell! i wouldn't even know if i SHOULD respond!? so how do you deal with all that pressure to formulate the right answers, and not just suicidal questions, like any question you get. how do you deal with everyone's expectations that you're  some wise old sage who knows it all?
the best way around this, i've found, is to simultaneously pretend that i am and am not