 12.13.19  10:12 pm fair enough, i guess i believe you but it's a little difficult. have you always had this skill or was it something you had to learn? of not taking things personally and not getting angry at people for doing dumb or dangerous stuff, driving or otherwise?
i actually always wondered why most people are so insanely hypocritical while driving. it seems to me that 90% of things that drivers get mad at other drivers for, are actually insanely reasonable things, that they've certainly done themselves. like for example, car 1 is making a right turn. but there happens to be someone crossing a crosswalk, blocking their right turn. car 2, behind car 1, is freaking out and going apeshit at car 1 for 'just waiting there'. but there is a perfectly good reason car 1 is waiting there. they are doing a classic maneuver called 'making a right turn without killing the walking person.' Every single day i watch drivers freak out at other drivers for doing perfectly good and totally normal things. i did not have to learn how not to be angry at them for it, but i am still learning how such anger and shortsightedness could occur