It seems like most of the questions you get are people telling you what to do and what not to do (I might be guilty of having done that once, albeit with good intentions). How do you cope with so many thousands of strangers online bossing you around? How much of it do you ignore for your own choices and how much do you "follow through" to please them?
most of the things that people like the best are things that were not what was being requested at the time it was made