Have you ever been asked "what kind of music" you do? I'm sure you've been asked this on this page, but what about irl? I play in a band, and whenever anyone asks me what type of music we play, I never know how to anwer. In fact, I think most musicians won't give you a straight answer to that question. What's your go-to response for this? I usually just answer "we play a bunch of stuff" or something like that.
make sure that your music is available to listen to. that way they can listen and hear exactly what it sounds like, so they won't have to rely on you to describe it (less efficient)