I've never written music or anything so I'm curious, do you write songs with yourself in mind as the singer? Have you written a song imagining someone else singing it? Does it matter?
i write all my music for myself, that's just the way my life has worked out. from what i understand, if you write for someone else, all you can do is just write what you want to write, and pray that they will deliver it how you want. and if they can't, panic and quit. this might not be the best strategy for collaboration but it worked for me