I think I've noticed that you've used "I'm just trying to be sensible/reasonable" more than once over the years. If you want to say/elaborate: What do you view as "sensible?"
an example of something that's sensible: You walk into a bakery (hold on, there's more to the story). There is a person in there, and they say they are a baker. "I'm a baker", the person says. And then, the next thing they do is bake something. hopefully you see what i'm getting at