From what I've gathered from your answers on here, you get a lot of criticism and requests and it seems to get to you. Even with well intentioned questions that say something like 'hey, I think you may be overworking, so remember to take care of yourself' you respond to in a very prickly way. I can never know what you go through, and I have no doubt it must be endlessly frustrating, but perhaps it's time to try to pay less attention to people being pushy (if you haven't). You probably also need to realise like some people (e.g. the example above) are only inquiring in good faith, and you should try not to take your frustrations out on them.
normally i'm fine but every once in a while i snap after being pulled in every direction 100s of times. can you imagine, in addition to people always thinking i'm neglecting everything, some people think i work too fast, and wonder why i work so hard. your question included, because you probably don't realize the quantity of contradictary requests, demands etc, which i regularly ignore in a calm fashion