How to get over feeling like you never fit in? Growing up I always felt like the odd one out and that stayed with me to adulthood. Thing is I realize lots of people feel that way so it's not like I couldn't fit in somewhere eventually. So why is it so hard to let go of this mentality? It's dumb because I want to be included and have friends and stuff but I never seem to allow myself to be part of the group. Like I tell myself stuff like I know they don't really want me here even though they're totally the ones who invited me! What's up with that? I'm tired of living like this. I guess what I'm really asking is how do you genuinely chill around other people and actually enjoy it?
maybe you could all work on something together