is becoming weaker sometimes better than becoming stronger? i noticed that when i had cancer. my boss always told be i was being so tough and so strong, but i didn't feel like that at all. i felt like water, just flowing. i just let the cancer happen, there was no fight. and i think that was the right thing to do (becoming weaker instead of stronger) bc i recovered pretty fast from it and had no big trauma's or anything. but i also think it depends from situation to situation if being stronger or weaker or staying the same is better.
ah, i agree. if the word 'weak' seems too negative, i think 'peace' is what you are talking about