you have the right to express yourselves in whatever way you decide , in whatever way seems most fitting for you ; and you have the right not to have anybody take that expression or your pleasure from that expression away from you , not any man -- and this she said like a dirty word , or something , something she had to spit out of her mouth like shed found a cockroach in her salad at howies barbeque out in west columbia or unintended result of your actions .