the constitution reads as : the two rationally endowed people a woman and a man ; physically , mentally and spiritually sound and mature ; in decisive and total possession of love and compassion for each other and all ; otherwise resourceful and capable of free will and independence of body and mind ; hereby declare the aspiration and commitment for an assimilation ; fully understanding and accepting the utility and desirability of such a union called marriage to attain the higher purity and purposes of life together ; that otherwise is uncalled for .