she blogs at the lady scribes http : //ladyscribes.blogspot.com/ you can talk books , movies , tv , recipes , kids and more with her on facebook https : //www.facebook.com/pages/deb-marlowe/70397149702 or twitter https : //twitter.com/ # ! /debmarlowe educating one 's self in the art of love takes time ... lady caroline arabella starling has been in love with her older brother 's best friend , caldwell , since she was thirteen .